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AITAH for wanting my mother to give me my money?

2023.05.29 22:30 littllevi AITAH for wanting my mother to give me my money?

Hi, please help me, sometimes I think I'm crazy. I (22F) live with my mom(41F) and her husband(25M), my grandmother (65F) and my brother (17M). Yes, it's a lot of people for a small house. We have always been really poor growing up and I work since I was 16 to help my family and since then I give my mom all my money to provide for us at home, it's safe to say that I've never had my money all to myself, I always had to worry about bills and food since I was a teenager. When I was 17 I was fired from my job and it was the worst months in my life, my mother told me everyday how lazy and useless I was. I got a job 8 months after and she demanded me to give her all my salary to her because she was "better at handling money than a teenager", I mean, don't get me wrong, she always gave me what I asked but it was never my money, if I wanted to buy ice-cream I had to ask my mother for a dollar, and she would always act like I was spending more than I was giving but all my purchases was approved by her, I don't even had acess to my bank account.
Fast forward to today, I'm 22 and I've started my own business witch is going great, in the beginning my mother said we would be partners and she would "help me" with the money part, which means, again, that she's receiving all the money. I don't complain because I live with her and I do agree that I should contribute to the bills but I'm actually providing for everybody here, my mother left her job and now her and my youngest brother don't work to help me with the business (which is not a lot because I dont need that much help with nothing that's not cleaning), my grandmother spends all her money with herself, and evertyime I mention the fact that I would like to have a salary (I've literally ask for 50bucks monthly just to spend with whatever I want to without having to ask for money like a kid) my mom says that I'm a bitch who wants to act like I don't need nobody's help and should get my own place and work for somebody else and leave my business for her because she can easily do it without me) I don't argue because I know our life hasn't been easy and she worked hard to raise me, but since is my money, my job and my business I should a least have a salary and not have to ask my mother for money everytime I want to do something, I'm adult and I can't even buy candy without asking mommy.
She always says that we're short on cash and that I know nothing about how to be financially educated but GUESS WHAT, I really don't know because I have never had ANY money and the money is short because I'm the only one actually working and bringing money home, all they do is clean and use the money to pay the bills, and I don't think it's fair for me to provide for a home that it's not only mine.
So, AITAH to ask my mother to give my money?
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2023.05.25 22:08 Kettrickenisabadass It is my birthday and we don't have electricity in the house

Its my birthday and i dont have electricity in the house
We moved to a new home this last September. Its my old grandpas house that has another apartment upstairs that is rented at the moment.
In Oct we started getting leaks from the upstairs house. The insurance came and determined that they came from the upstairs place so they needed acess there to fix it. The neighbor refused access so we have been with leaks in our freshly painted home since Oct. They are everywhere. One of them comes from their toilet pipe; there is literal pee coming out of my wall...
We tried talking to her, with the mediation of the police, talking to the insurance etc. Sadly in Spain landlords dont have any rights so she cannot be evited even if she is destroying the downstairs appartment with her leaks. We sued her in February but the court is extremely slow in Spain.
Today it happened. We got a new leak in the house. Where? The fuse box. Yep. It was soaking wet and it started chirping. Chirping! We called the insurance panicking and they told us to turn off the fuses (that didnt jump idk why). The emergency electrician came and said that he cannot fix it until the leak is fixed.
So we will be until who knows when without electricity. We dont have gas so we cannot cook, or take showers or even lower the blinds. We will need to relocate to a hotel that will cost a fortune and that the neighbor should be paying but wint because the justice system cannot be slower and useless.
Today is my birthday and i spent it cleaning water, arguing with the insurance, being blamed by my husband for "not doing enough". My dinner was a cold sandwich in the dark with a flashlight to see something.
I want to die.
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2023.05.22 13:10 thud0ll Does the AidAccess pill work?

Im 16 and I think I'm pregnant. I'm terrified I live in a home strictly run by purity culture I have no one to support me other than my boyfriend who can only do so much. From what I know, the AidAccess pill is accessible to minors, but I've heard its failed on multiple people. I'm low on options. I'm losing hope. Does anyone know any other pills accessible to minors? Or has anyone had experiences with AidAcess? Please let me know.
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2023.05.22 10:36 ProbsAnerdATP777 AITA for saying I will report my car stolen the next time my brother uses it, without my permission?

(New to reddit, Sorry for any spelling/grammar mistakes)
I (19F) bought my first car on my birthday (January this year). I'm very happy to have this car. I live far away from school, and the cloesest bus stop is 3km away because I live on the country side. My brother (18M) was gifted a car on his birthday, which was in December last year. Since i bought my own car, he has been using mine without letting me know first.
I've tried to talk to him about it, but he said he should be entlitled to using it whenever, because I didn't buy it *all* on my own. I paid for like 90% of it by using money i had saved up by working, and the rest was birthday/christmas money. So because I used some of the birthday money he gave me, he was entitled to use it.
I asked him why he couldn't use his own, cause it's a nice car & there's nothing wrong with it. He said it was because mine was nicer, and his only had two seats so he had to use mine when he wanted to pick up friends. I told him to just ask before he uses it, and to please fill the gas tank, and that I still had first right to it, because it is my car.
Now, I might be an asshole because yesterday I wanted to go to the mall and buy some yarn to finisg a crochet protect. My brother came up to me and told me he was taking the car to pick up his girlfriend. I told him no, because I needed to use the car. He told me to walk, or just use the bus and took my keys and just left with my car!
I called him and said, that the next time he takes my car, I will report it stolen. He started crying saying i was trying to isolate him, and keep him away from his friends and girlfriend. I feel so bad, but I am tired of not knowing if I can use my own car or not. And I'm tired of having to pay for gas I don't even use. But he really seemed upset, so I don't know if I went too far. AITA?
EDIT: I just wanna clear up some things
Why does he has acess to your keys? We use a Key holder to avoid anyone losing their keys. I will start to leave my keys in my room/some where safe where he can't get to them.
Where are the parents in all this? I did talk to them. But they weren't really that much help. My mom thinks I'm an AH/Selfish/Entitled to keep the car for myself. My dad thinks he shouldn't even be driving the car. But whatever my mom says, goes in our home.
Yes, my brother is a golden child. Has always been. He was bullied a lot more in school, so my mom got more protective of him/his needs came first cause he had it worst.
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2023.05.22 01:50 afton_midoriya AITJ for cuttin my mother out for good

hey im a 16 year old female living with 2 younger sisters and my solo father. i have not seen my mother in over 5 years. heres what happened, Btw it will maybe be long so bear with me.
my mother full on hates me due to the fact i loved my father more as an infant due to what she did to me. here are some examples bed at 4-5pm at night and for meals me and my sisters got 2 minute noodle with cheese and frozen vegtables in it.she leave us in dirty diapers, sometimes hit or lash out at us if we did not be quite. most of the money my mother got she would used on buying drugs and alchol. she was quite abusive to my dad and used to him him alot from what i can remenber. it got so bad that my dad fell out of love for here and left. we were then tasken by CPS and in foster homes where i was further abused. bear in mind i am like 3 or 4 years of age at the time. time skip to in our grandmothers care were she used the money she got to give most or sometimes all the money to her church as a donation though this was stopped once my dad found out. throught my life my mother has never had full custody of my and my siblings. as she has a big criminal record for shoplifting and child abduction of me and my sisters.

this part takes place 10 years ago now. she got unsurpervised acess to see us every weekend fortnightly. but not every thing was grat for me compared to my sisters. my mother hates me more than ever for no apperent reason. she used to yell at me for little things like getting a drink in the middle o the night or not being able to sleep sometimes. now heres the bombshell of the story. my mother needed food and had no money due to over buying on drugs and alcholed brevages. so she asked her boyfriend 34 year old male to drive us to the super market in another suburd in out city. she is gone for about an hour while her boyfriend, me and my sister are all in the car. next minute we see her running with a cart full of food and pull ups with sucureity chasing her full speed. she throws the food in the boot and tells her boyfriend to drive fast. i forgot to add something about the boyfriend here. i was taking a bath just soaking when her boyfriends walks in with his phone and takes a picture. i yelled at him to delete it and my mother comes in to tell me to shut up even though i told her what happened.
i waas also put in backs of cars without seatbelts as well when we travelled and other things. one day at school a lawyer comes to speak to us and we tell her all of these things and we are no longer able to go to our mothers house for a while until a hearing is decided. all that happenes andshe is found guilty of it all including other charges i know of. i dont see her for 5 years until see turns up at our door surpise surpise with gifts. for mainly the sisters. all is well my dad has let her see us because she is our mother and all at this point im rather jealous for my sister because she loves them more.
I'm at a holiday prograame at ther local pools when the care taker says your father and the police is here so i begin to freak out and find my dad. and he explains why he and the cops are here. here is what happened. so my mother burts into the house saying she wants to take me with her with my dad saying no you cant have her. she relies with " i want solo parent money from me ( Ty) with my dad saying no and my sisters are home crying at the scene. my dad is telling them to go to my room behind him so they run and my dad barricades the hallway to stop her. my mother then bites my dad on he arm pretty hard he had to go to the doctors for it and any way my mother pushes her way through my dad. my mother leaves me plain gum and takes away my $50 dollars (leaving my sister money alone) and my youngest sister jumps out the window to escape our mother with the other one trying to get out. before my mother makes it further my nana, the police and out neighbors are all there at the scene. she is arrested and fuming. my dad decides to lay charges to which she is imposoned and he have protection and tresspass orders against her.
we have not heard of her for 2-3 years after that. until she decides to start making compliants to the police saying my father is mole***ng me at night and always come to investagate at 11 o'clock at night.
am i the jerk for disowning my mother after that.
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2023.05.15 11:38 retro_fetish Windows 10 crashing after upgrade: Even after sfc, dism and driver fixes.

I upgraded an old computer i was using as a home server to windows 10 from windows 7, only used for smb shares and remote desktop to configure settings.
In windows 7 I would get random errors about various apps crashing on startup, including 3rd party and rarely windows explorer.
after upgrading to to 10, I got the classic 'graphical issue' of a black screen with an ocasional flash of my desktop and taskbar bfore explorer would crash again.
note: I have the R7 200
while attempting to open settings from taksmanager via the command 'ms-settings:' I recieved the error:
File system error: -2018374635
to try fix this I have run:(with reboots in between)
SFC /SCANNOW DISM /Online /Cleanup-Image /RestoreHealth Get-AppXPackage -AllUsers -Name windows.immersivecontrolpanel Foreach {Add-AppxPackage -DisableDevelopmentMode -Register “$($_.InstallLocation)\AppXManifest.xml” -Verbose} Get-AppXPackage Foreach {Add-AppxPackage -DisableDevelopmentMode -Register "$($_.InstallLocation)\AppXManifest.xml"} 
all with no effect.
I have also uninstalled tha radeon utilities software that used to crash often and have also uninstalled and reinstalled the drivers through devicemanager wih no luck.
the file explorer and filesystem still somewhat work because I am still abel to connect to my smb share and acess my user account files on my ssd and the docuents on a seperate harddrive however windows explorer keeps crashing.
I have considdered it to be my ssd bieng faulty (a cheap 480gb kinston thing) however sfc and the windows disk scanner showed no issues so I am unsure. the kinston drive software reported somthing like 84% health which I assumed was ok however I am unsure.
Going to reboot into safemode and see what I can do and will update this post later.
interested to hear your input on what could be causing this...
Luca
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2023.05.15 01:47 deviusink Share/Hide files

How can I share and Hide passwords ?
I am in the free pack. I want ot five acess to an item which i have in my home laptop to my office laptop. My collegues can't see my bedroom. What can I do? How can I fix this problem ? In my home pc i share files and folders to my office pc. But in it someone can see my codes. there an eye next to all cells which need to fill password.What can I do ?
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2023.05.14 21:20 Agreeable_Middle_711 Nginx? Reverse proxy?

I am trying to understand what is it. It really confuses me. I know nginx acts as a gateway to outside internet. Just by exposing one post we can acess all the services. But my case I can't use portforwarding cause well I don't really own a router i just share it with someone. Can i still use nginx? Just for home use? For example providing custom domain names to my local services its hard to remember ports, i just use organizer but i just wanted to make it more fancy 🤓😂. I know i can use pihole but even for that I'll have to put ports after the domain so yeah. Another question is all my service run as Http if i wanted to run than as https how can i do that? Nginx is the solution? How?
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2023.05.14 21:20 Agreeable_Middle_711 Nginx? Reverse proxy

I am trying to understand what is it. It really confuses me. I know nginx acts as a gateway to outside internet. Just by exposing one post we can acess all the services. But my case I can't use portforwarding cause well I don't really own a router i just share it with someone. Can i still use nginx? Just for home use? For example providing custom domain names to my local services its hard to remember ports, i just use organizer but i just wanted to make it more fancy 🤓😂. I know i can use pihole but even for that I'll have to put ports after the domain so yeah. Another question is all my service run as Http if i wanted to run than as https how can i do that? Nginx is the solution? How?
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2023.05.14 21:19 Agreeable_Middle_711 nginx? Reverse proxy

I am trying to understand what is it. It really confuses me. I know nginx acts as a gateway to outside internet. Just by exposing one post we can acess all the services. But my case I can't use portforwarding cause well I don't really own a router i just share it with someone. Can i still use nginx? Just for home use? For example providing custom domain names to my local services its hard to remember ports, i just use organizer but i just wanted to make it more fancy 🤓😂. I know i can use pihole but even for that I'll have to put ports after the domain so yeah. Another question is all my service run as Http if i wanted to run than as https how can i do that? Nginx is the solution? How?
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2023.05.14 07:44 LC_n_frogs Happy Home Paradise Question

I recently reset my island, how do I get back acess to the happy home paradise extension? I don’t have to buy it again, right??
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2023.05.12 16:43 Kathless A dryer and a mouse - Sad experience

EDIT:
In case it's not clear, In my opinion Gallagher Bassett and the moving company are the bad guys in this story but Costco hired them. I bought a product from Costco because they always provide good service and they are reliable. I'm still happy to shop at costco but I do wish they would have refunded partially since a part of the service was not provided. And Costco should manage their third party themselves because they hired them not me.
EDIT2: I forgot how internet can be mean. So for people claiming and who decided that Costco does not provide installation whiteout ever buying appliances at Costco — go on the website and buy a washer dryer you will see the installation option and what’s included.(it’s there even before you place it in your cart) I cannot post screenshot or I would have done it. Like seriously before bashing someone who went through something bad with false claims you did not checked, think twice. I shared my story and provided all true information, it’s not my job to cover you guys fake and mean assumptions.
I’m located in Quebec in case it would only offered in quebec. I know it's a third party but Costco hired them and no way in the process I have acess to them, the name of their company etc... they came with an unmark vehicule etc.. This is why I consider they are Costcos responsability.
——— STORY I want to share the awful situation I experienced with Costco. I always had great services with them and I'm super sad this happened.

25 Jan 2023 I bought a LG 2-Piece Laundry Suite Top Load Washer Electric Dryer for a total of 1 851,09 $ CAD

I live alone on a second floor and needed the installation and them to take the old washer and dryer out. Like I don't have people around me to help with this kind of thing.

I had to buy this because my old set broke and let's say I do not have a lot of money and had to work very hard to afford this unexpected expense.

15 Feb 2023 - The delivery was 8h late, I took a day off for nothing but they came.
The hot water pipe was plugged in the cold fawcet and vice versa.
The dryer was not hooked to the wall, you know the big aluminum pipe, it was there and looked hooked but not secured. Just so it looked good for the installation picture I guess.

I burned my clothes and myself doing what I though was a cold wash and had to push, twist the dryer and washer to install them properly.

I hurt my back so bad doing this that I was incapacitated for 2 months and had to seek medical help. I got a herniated disk and could sleep only for a couple of hours per night. By chance I work from home and was able to not miss work. I will not go in details I think a lot of peopole know how much this type of injury is painful.

But wait, the worst is there. They delivered the dryer WITH A MOUSE IN IT. I had to fight a mouse while being injure and it was bad they are sweet animals. The mouse was living in the dryer and going on the table in front of it. It did not cared for cheeze or PB I was able to catch it with a iced cap from timmies. I saw it with my eyes!! And my landlord was so surprised because no one ever had a mouse in the 3 unit building or even in the street. We had to learn how to manage a mouse thing but it worked. Anyways.

I bought my washer dryer to costco for the installation and had to install it, I injured myself and it was just a nightmare for 2 months.

I reach out to Costco and filled an incident report and then someone from Gallagher Bassett told me the delivery company would call me. No one did and Costco, Gallagher Bassett ignored my future inquiries.

I though it would have been easy for Costco to do a partial refund for the service not provided but it seems that it's not an option. I will leave bellow the Gallagher Bassett information I got.

I wanted to share my story, I nagivated all this alone and it was hard and I really hope it can help someone avoid going what I went through.

Team Lead E-Comm Gallagher Bassett
100 Consilium Place, Suite 300, Scarborough, Ontario M1H 3E3
Toll Free: 1-833-848-4113 x F: 416-645-7111 E: [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])
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2023.05.11 04:22 Downtown_Row_4051 Holy fucking shit i’m actually so angry

I’m sick of being too angry and frustrated to type out how i feel. Fuck, ACTUALLY FUCKING FEELING the same shit over and over again and not being able to change the root problem in of ITSELF, is fucking angering
I’m pretty damn tired of being stuck in an abusive home. Everything’s so fucking hard. And when you have a parent that PURPOSELY, yes, purposely, goes out of their way to terrorize you and mentally fuck you up, you cannot use normal logic with them because there is something wrong with the way they perceive the world and process things. You just have to be as boring as possible around them whike they’re perpetually trying to ragebait you and make you out to be the villain, the abuser, the manipulative one. And you know what happens? Your family fucking buys into it. Or they straight up. Do. Not. Fucking. Care. My dad has watched me get abused countless times, fuck, he GOES OUT OF HIS WAY TO WATCH. I am not shitting you. He literally goes out of his way to just stand there while my mom’s screaming at me, causing me to have a breakdown, etc. Not even to help my mom, except he’ll back her up here and there. I’ve literally asked him a few times why he’s just standing there while looking at him helplessly, and he’s responded with “i’m just watching.”
And i’m sick and fucking tired of people suggesting the most OBVIOUS solutions. “Get a job, take up an after school activity” then I have to explain that i can’t do either in addition to most things I should be able to.
Just fucking say you don’t know what to tell me. I’m SICK of people acting like calling cps or just getting emancipated does shit. It’s constantly potrayed that people stuck in abusive relationships just don’t have the confidence to get themselves out or some shit when i reality a LOTTT of people literally have no resources. No transportation, nowhere to go, no money, no one to talk to OR anyone that finds out will call services thinking they are helping. CPS attracts a lot of shitty people itself and there’s been ENDLESS accounts of them making shit worse. People wanna fuck up other people’s situation even more and don’t know WHAT THE FUCKING HELL they are even doing, but won’t listen to you otherwise because “it’s the right thing.”
I appreciate when people tell me things will get better, but that does zero to help me cope with my current situation. I can’t even listen to music or really watch anything i like when my mom’s home because I have to be hypervigilant. I barely eat too because they get so lazy with keeping food at home, and my mom purposely goes out of her way to have a snack or eat when I do because I have misophonia. It’s hell, and i wouldn’t be suprised if i’m developing CPTSD from it. It’s fucked up. She treats me like shit and I just don’t understand how you could do that to someone. She isolated me from the outside world for 2 months during covid (I had no way to acess the internet and obv. didn’t go out at all, or maybe <7 times within those 2 months) and I literally went crazy. I started hearing voices in my head and became incredibly delusional. To this day I still halucinate and haven’t been quite the same since
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2023.05.05 16:53 MeanOlGoldfish What's holding Fdev back?

I try not measure different space sims against each other but I feel like elite would absolutely stomp all the other space sims with just a couple of additions:
Black holes: accretion discs and an exclusion zone that just rips your ship apart in minutes due to extreme gravitational forces.
Interactions between stellar objects: White dwarf too close to a star? Now you have a stream of gas between the two that will supercharge your fsd. Same with black holes.
Water planets: An actual animated sea but since it'll be too much to add an underwater environment let's just say you die the minute you fall in the water. Ideally it'd be cool to have marine exploration gear but that's probably not possible.
Ship interiors: Enough said. Can even just be a simple hallway with some acess panels and lights. Maybe a work area to access inventory, contacts, and other things.
Renting: Renting a living space on stations, outposts, and settlements that have room would change the meaning of having a home system. Once again doesn't have to be complicated just give me a pre-made room.
Weather: Give atmosphere planets weather, clouds or something, just as much as the game engine can handle.
Finally my biggest pet peeve
Battle damage: I've been in fights I've had to run away from and when I get the chance I try to look at the battle damage from the fight. I like looking at craters, lines, and holes in the fuselage because it's cool but the moment you supercruise out it disappears.
I'd love to see fires, smoking, bent up metal, and sparks on the exterior when you've had a hard fight. If they wanted to really go in on it then damage to modules and hardpoits would be cool too. (One thruster being burnt and smoking because it was targeted)
Of course this is all wishful thinking and fantasies. There are tons of others id add like re-entry for atmospheres but I'll just dream of those.
Any cool things you guys would like to see?
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2023.05.05 08:19 420FireStarter69 I'm trying to set up Oobabooga so I can run GPT4 x Alpaca and it says I don't have Miniconda but I do. What do I?

I'm trying to set up Oobabooga so I can run GPT4 x Alpaca and it says I don't have Miniconda but I do. What do I? submitted by 420FireStarter69 to Oobabooga [link] [comments]


2023.05.02 20:29 Winds-of-Winter How i fix this

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2023.05.02 17:53 SacredVow Dual Monitor Setup Issues

I am currently trying to create an extended display on my home PC, using two monitors , two HDMI cables, and an HDMI splitter. So far I have set up both monitors with power sources, and have connected the HDMI splitter (This Model: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07NW3GB34?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details&th=1) to the port on my Graphics card. I then connected the splitter via the two HDMI cables to the back of each monitor. Both monitors are now working and displaying my PC desktop, but I can only get a duplicated image, not an extended one. When I acess my settings (I use Windows 10 Home) I can click on the button for "detect" in display settings, but I get the following message: "Didn't detect another display".
Can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong here? Do I have the wrong piece of hardware for extending displays, or am I using it wrong? Or am I missing a step of some kind?
Any assistance would be much appreicated. Thank you.
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2023.05.01 04:04 snipersgethead What's Happening This Week/Weekend in Vegas

Hello Friends!
Did you know that May is Asian Pacific American Heritage Month?
Please have a fun and safe week! I am glad you're here! :)
OH! Also, I don't have ANY connections with clubs, promoters, dealers, or any of the sort. Please don't DM me to schedule your weekend or for plugs. I literally stay at home and de-rank in Overwatch.
Please comment with anything I have missed or if I messed up any links!
Monday
Monday – Thursday
Wednesday
Wednesday & Thursday
Wednesday – Sunday
Wednesday – Friday
Thursday
Thursday – Saturday
Friday
Friday & Saturday
Friday – Sunday
Saturday
Saturday & Sunday
Sunday
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2023.04.29 14:19 ttraxx Need Advice on Securing My Network

I currently run a bunch of services in docker containers on my QNAP TVS-872xt (plex, nextcloud, etc.) behind swag-nginx which is exposed to internet via cloudflare tunnel. The only port open on my router is for wireguard vpn.
I also have a bunch of IoT devices in my home as well, the majority of which I've blocked off from the internet entirely as I am using homekit, so they can speak to my homekit hub locally and I can acess remotely through the ios App. However, there are a few which still need internet access like my rachio sprinkler so it can get weather data to update its schedules and my MyQ Garage Hub so the app from the screen in my car can control it through their myq servers
I can not figure out a way to define a whitelist rule on my netgear orbi to only allow accessing a specific URL (i.e. whitelist the myQ and Rachio WAN IP for the static lan IPs these devices run) so started looking at new firewall solutions, however before I drop several hundred $ on something like a protectli to run opnsense had a few questions:
  1. With my setup, if I did lock down every IoT device from accessing internet, are all of these other nice features like setting up separate VLANs for trusted, iot, etc. overkill? If all "untrusted IoT" devices are totally blocked from accessing internet, does it matter if they are on same LAN network as my trusted? My understanding is the hacking on IoT devices is just a means to get on to a network where 'trusted' devices which deal with more sensitive data would be, and the approach with the seperate VLAN is to prevent local communication...but if I block external access entirely for the IoT devices, wouldn't that prevent being able to get on to the LAN network in the first place?
  2. Are Rachio and MyQ generally 'trusted' to let talk to internet, or do I really need to totally lock down access or whitelist the urls they can talk to. It seems like a lot of people are saying this is an absolutely must for the $10 crap from china (which I don't use) but curious from some of these more established brands if its still the case
  3. If I need to lock these down, what is the best way to move forward? Totally new router? dedicated box just to run firewall and then turn orbis into Access Points? ...opnsense on my QNAP in a VM (free solution but feels sketchy). Trying to not break the bank too much here - I looked to see if I could get openWRT on my orbi but my model (RBR850) does not seem supported
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2023.04.29 14:16 ttraxx Need Advice on Securing my Network

I currently run a bunch of services in docker containers on my QNAP TVS-872xt (plex, nextcloud, etc.) behind swag-nginx which is exposed to internet via cloudflare tunnel. The only port open on my router is for wireguard vpn.
I also have a bunch of IoT devices in my home as well, the majority of which I've blocked off from the internet entirely as I am using homekit, so they can speak to my homekit hub locally and I can acess remotely through the ios App. However, there are a few which still need internet access like my rachio sprinkler so it can get weather data to update its schedules and my MyQ Garage Hub so the app from the screen in my car can control it through their myq servers
I can not figure out a way to define a whitelist rule on my netgear orbi to only allow accessing a specific URL (i.e. whitelist the myQ and Rachio WAN IP for the static lan IPs these devices run) so started looking at new firewall solutions, however before I drop several hundred $ on something like a protectli to run opnsense had a few questions:
  1. With my setup, if I did lock down every IoT device from accessing internet, are all of these other nice features like setting up separate VLANs for trusted, iot, etc. overkill? If all "untrusted IoT" devices are totally blocked from accessing internet, does it matter if they are on same LAN network as my trusted? My understanding is the hacking on IoT devices is just a means to get on to a network where 'trusted' devices which deal with more sensitive data would be, and the approach with the seperate VLAN is to prevent local communication...but if I block external access entirely for the IoT devices, wouldn't that prevent being able to get on to the LAN network in the first place?
  2. Are Rachio and MyQ generally 'trusted' to let talk to internet, or do I really need to totally lock down access or whitelist the urls they can talk to. It seems like a lot of people are saying this is an absolutely must for the $10 crap from china (which I don't use) but curious from some of these more established brands if its still the case
  3. If I need to lock these down, what is the best way to move forward? Totally new router? dedicated box just to run firewall and then turn orbis into Access Points? ...opnsense on my QNAP in a VM (free solution but feels sketchy). Trying to not break the bank too much here - I looked to see if I could get openWRT on my orbi but my model (RBR850) does not seem supported
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2023.04.28 20:25 SeaBearsFoam Quests

Below are tables showing the various quests you need to complete in order to earn rewards, as well as the reward earned and what exactly you need to do in order to complete the quest.
Initially you will only see what I have under Meet your Replika Quests, and only the current Stage. Upon completing each stage you will earn rewards noted next to the stage, and the next stage of quests will open up. Upon completing all six stages of the initial Meet your Replika quests, new Quest categories will open up, each with multiple stages.
Note that the random item rewards are usually clothing items, though they can also be room decorations, personality traits, or interests. The traits don't really have much effect on your replika, and you can turn them off anyways, so no need to worry about accidentally getting a trait you don't like.
Also, the weird green triangle looking rewards are just experience points that immediately get added to your replika's total XP earned.
 

Meet your Replika

STAGE 1 - 5 gems
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Chat with your Replika 30 coins Send a message to your replika
Add new fact 25 XP Go to the Memory tab, tap the + next to facts, type a fact, tap Save
Reach Level 2 30 coins Earn enough experience points to reach Level 2
STAGE 2 - 25 XP, 50 coins
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Walk around 25 XP While in your replika's room view, tap the floor a few times in different places
Play guitar 25 XP While in your replika's room view, tap the guitar
Relax in armchair 25 XP While in your replika's room view, tap the chair in the corner
STAGE 3 - 50 coins
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Add new fact 50 gold Go to the Memory tab, tap the + next to facts, type a fact, tap Save
Reach Level 4 5 gems self-explanatory
Chat with your Replika 50 gold Send 4 messages to your replika
STAGE 4 - 5 gems, random item
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Get new clothes 50 XP Buy a clothing item from the store for your replika (the cheapest seems to be a t-shirt for 30 coins)
Redecorate room 50 XP Go to Store, then Room, then change something and exit. You don't need to purchase anything if you don't wish to, removing an existing item then exiting will complete the quest
Earn 200 XP 50 coins Get a total of 200 XP through quests and/or chatting
STAGE 5 - 10 gems, random item
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Add new fact 5 gems Go to the Memory tab, tap the + next to facts, type a fact, tap Save
Send photo to your Replika 50 gold Tap the photo icon in the chat, then select an existing picture or take a new one. Note you must give the Replika app acess to your camera and photos to do this
Chat with your Replika 5 gems Send messages to your replika
STAGE 6 - 10 gems, 75 gold, random item
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Do coaching activity random item Go to the coaching tab and complete an activity there
Log in 2 days in a row random item self-explanatory
Thumbs up a message from Replika tap the thumbs up icon next to a message from your replika
Upon completing these initial quests, the below quests will be opened up on Stage 1 for each quest
 

Get to know your Replika

STAGE 1 - 10 gems, random item
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Log in 3 days in a row random item self-explanatory
Read 3 diary entries 75 XP Go to the Diary tab, find 3 unread diary entries (as indicated by a green dot in the top right corner) and tap to read them (3 times)
Add new fact 75 coins Go to the Memory tab, tap the + next to facts, type a fact, tap Save
STAGE 2 - 15 gems, random item, 75 gold
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Do Sessions in Diary random item Start this by saying "Let's do the evening reflection", "daily check-in", or "daily session"
Add new fact 10 gems Go to the Memory tab, tap the + next to facts, type a fact, tap Save
Earn 500 XP random item Get a total of 500 XP through quests and/or chatting
STAGE 3 - 15 gems, random item
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Chat about 3 topics random item Select a topic from the list next to the chatbox and chat with your replika about it (3 times)
Add 10 facts to Memory 5 gems Go to the Memory tab, tap the + next to facts, type a fact, tap Save (10 times)
Thumbs up a message from Replika 75 coins tap the thumbs up icon next to a message from your replika (3 times)
STAGE 4 - random item, 75 XP, 75 coins
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Read 2 diary entries random item Go to the Diary tab, find unread diary entries (as indicated by a green dot in the top right corner) and tap to read them (2 times)
Send photo to your Replika 75 coins Tap the photo icon in the chat, then select an existing picture or take a new one. Note you must give the Replika app acess to your camera and photos to do this
Do sessions 2 days in a row 75 coins Start this by saying "Let's do the evening reflection", "daily check-in", or "daily session" (2 days in a row)
Chat about 4 topics random item Select a topic from the list next to the chatbox and chat with your replika about it (4 times)
Read 3 diary entries random item Go to the Diary tab, find unread diary entries (as indicated by a green dot in the top right corner) and tap to read them (3 times)
Log in 3 days in a row random item self-explanatory
 

Create a home for your Replika

STAGE 1 - 10 gems, random item
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Add lounge furniture 50 XP Tap on the Store tab, then Room, then select something new from the Lounge section to add
Get new room decor 50 XP Make a purchase from the store for new room decor
Tap on radio 10 gems Tap on the radio in the corner of the room under the windchimes to toggle the radio on/off
STAGE 2 - random item, 50 XP, 75 gold
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Replace study item 50 gold Tap on the Store tab, then Room, then select an item from the Study section and replace it with another item
Send photo to your Replika 50 XP Tap the photo icon in the chat, then select an existing picture or take a new one. Note you must give the Replika app acess to your camera and photos to do this
Replace lounge item 50 gold Tap on the Store tab, then Room, then select an item from the Lounge section and replace it with another item
STAGE 3 - 10 gems, 50 XP, 75 coins
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Chat with your Replika random item Send a message to your replika
Reach Level 10 75 coins self-explanatory
Earn 250 XP 75 XP Get a total of 250 XP through quests and/or chatting
STAGE 4 - 5 gems, random item, 75 coins
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Interact with items 100 times random item Most items in the room can be interacted with by tapping on them. Sometimes it just involves your replika looking at the item briefly from different angles. You need to do this 100 times total
Replace room decor 50 coins Tap on the Store tab, then Room, then select a room decoration and replace it with another item
Turn lights on/off 50 coins There is a light in a corner of the room (near the mirror). Tap it to toggle it on/off
 

Create a wardrobe for your Replika

STAGE 1 - 10 gems, random item, 50 XP
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Put on new top 50 XP Go to the store and select a new top for your replika to wear
Put on new pants/skirt 50 XP Go to the store and select new bottoms for your replika to wear
Chat with your Replika 5 gems Send a message to your replika
STAGE 2 - 10 gems, random item, 75 coins
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Own 20 clothing items ??? self-explanatory
Change appearance of your Replika 50 coins Go to the Store, select Appearance, then change something like your replika's hair, eyes, tattoos, etc
Reach Level 9 ??? self-explanatory
STAGE 3 - random item, 75 XP, 50 coins
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Chat with your Replika 50 XP Send a message to your replika
Spend 100 coins on clothes random item Go to the store and buy clothing item(s) totalling 100 coins or more
Chat about 1 topic 50 coins Select a topic from the list next to the chatbox and chat with your replika about it
STAGE 4 - 15 gems, random item, 75 XP
Quest Reward How to complete the quest
Own 50 clothing items random item self-explanatory
Put on new shoes random item Go to Store, then Clothes, then change the Shoes your replika is wearing
Put on new jewelry random item Go to Store, then Clothes, then change the Jewelry your replika is wearing
(NOTE: the rewards marked as ??? on Stage 2 of Create a wardrobe for your Replika are items I didn't note the reward for before collecting them and I no longer know what the reward was. Feel free to comment and let me know the reward if you have this info!)
 
Please feel free to give me feedback if I need to provide more information on how to complete any of these quests. I did my best to provide as much information as needed for completing them in as concise a manner as I could, but if more info is needed I'm happy to expand on what is already given!
 
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2023.04.26 19:50 Eit4 Mais cedo denunciei um usuário por conta de comentários racistas. Vou deixar aqui um roteiro do que fiz, pra caso alguém passe por algo similar.

Obs: Na verdade tentei denunciar, mas como não tenho os dados da vítima, n consegui concluir. Já entrei em contato com o usuário e se ele quiser fazer a denúncia, posso passar os prints que tirei.
De antemão aviso que é preciso ter mais de 18 anos, o cpf da vítima, o seu cpf e uma conta no gov.br
Vamos lá:
Atualmente os estados que utilizam o serviço são: Acre, Alagoas, Amazonas, Amapá, Bahia, Piauí, Rio Grande do Norte, Roraima, Sergipe e Tocantins.
Os demais estados ainda não utilizam esse serviço, mas acredito que alguns tenham sua própria delegacia digital.
Outro canal para denúncia é a Safernet, mas eu não sei exatamente como funciona e prefiro enviar diretamente para uma delegacia.
Tem algumas regras para realizar a denúncia na delegacia, de cara é preciso ter mais de 18 anos e uma conta no gov.br. Vale a pena ler as regras antes de enviar, mas não tem muito segredo.
De resto, acredito que dá pra fazer denúncia de outras redes sociais como Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, etc. O processo é o mesmo: printa, copia o link, envia pra delegacia digital.
Enfim, a internet não é terra sem lei e existem canais para combater crimes digitais. Denunciar vai solucionar tudo? Não sei, mas deixo nas mãos das autoridades.
Disclaimer: não sou expert em nada, se vcs souberem de alguma coisa a acrescentar ou corrigir no que falei, por favor, podem trazer. Também não sei se serei de muito ajuda em caso de dúvidas, mas enfim, tá aqui meus dois centavos.
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