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2023.06.03 09:33 kayphayce Unsure of what to do

I was recently diagnosed with fibroids.
I had an endometrial biopsy where my gyno said my uterus was about 13cm when for a woman my age (31) with no history of pregnancy should be about 7cm. This caused her to order an ultrasound (internal and external) where they found several ovarian cysts (PCOS diagnosis since 18/19) and that my uterus was measuring around 12cm. The ultrasound was a week after the biopsy and I had been on Norethindrone (5mg 2x daily) for 6 days.
My bleeding decreased TREMENDOUSLY until I missed a days worth of doses between work burn out and depression just making me unable to do anything. After some intense cramping and light bleeding I realized I missed doses and got right back on track.
Since then (just over a week) I've been having heavy bleeding with stringy, fibrous clots increasing in size (currently about palm sized with a few being fist sized). Within the last 12 hours I have bled through about 6 of the massive overnight pads that are supposed to last 12 hours. I tried calling my gyno office and they never answered the phone. I called my PCP and a nurse was supposed to call me back but never did.
Is it worth going to an ER? Any time I've gone for cramps/heavy bleeding in the past they gave me IV fluids and OTC pain medication.
I've been out of state for my grandmother's funeral (I'm sure the emotional duress is a contributing factor) and I am supposed to fly home in roughly 24 hours. I'm partially worried going to an ER out of state (Pennsylvania) but I know I would be in much better hands than going at home (Florida).
I just need some advice and comfort. None of my family has ever had anything this severe and they don't understand my concern.
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2023.06.03 09:27 Expensive_Thought_40 AITA for ruining vacation because my cat suddenly died?

(English Is my secondary language and I am not from the US)
Me [27F], my Boyfriend [34M] and two of our friends [27 F and 32 M] went on a couples vacation about 2 hours away from our hometown. It was supposed to be a week long stay, from Saturday to saturday.
On Wednesday, so right after 3 days, by BF recieved a tearful call from his mom, my cat sitter, that she found one of my cats dead on the floor. She seemed absolutely healthy and happy the night before and was excited to recieve visitors. We were absolutely devastated, I loved her so much.
Regardless to say, the vacation was over for me. Even if I couldn't do anything to help her live anymore, I couldn't leave her in my apartment for the next days. I called my parents to arrange her funeral.
Now, we told our friends, who were right there when I received the news, that they have two options: they could stay or come with us. The problem is, that I was the only one with a car and we booked a residence at a rather remote location, with the next town being 15 minutes away by car and the bus arriving every two hours. That is also what they said so they started packing. They were not happy.
On the ride home (my BF insisted on driving, so I could process my grief), 27F complained about her lost vacation. My BF answered something neutral but I could hear he was pissed at her complaining.
Now that my cat was buried and a few days have passed I recall the last days. And I want to know, if I was the AH for ruining our vacation? I am still grieving and unhappy with our friends lack of empathy, but I guess it was just a cat for them, which is fine. But I am reconsidering my friendship with them. But maybe they were right to be angry, I don't know anymore.
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2023.06.03 08:07 depressedapple32 Finally reached Fifa Champion with my 123 ovr team, should i continue and try to reach fc 2? Also props to my guy Ito he is the goat!!

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2023.06.03 08:06 ChanRob69 Is this normal? I've never taken a bereavement, but they need proof before it's even approved?

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2023.06.03 07:50 symbolic503 someone stole my wallet while i was asleep 🤬

took it right out of my back pocket. such a fucking gut punch especially because ive been working my ass off to get off the street. last week was another setback too as the state of oregon garnished my entire checking account and took everything i had saved, all over a decade-plus old debt collection.
the only good thing is that atleast i didnt have any cash in my wallet but i.d., food stamp card, bus pass, social security card, library card, everything was in there.
trying to just take deep breaths and remain positive. i still have my health for now, my job, and most of that stuff is atleast replaceable. just a fucking pain you know?
sorry yall i just needed someplace to vent. still going to keep saving toward my goal and really going to try and make it back home this winter. hopefully il have enough saved for a room by then too.
thank you for listening/reading
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2023.06.03 07:36 byemomthrowaway Even though I went NC with my mom 2 years ago, I didn’t want to ruin my kids image of her.

Apologies for the length and any typos as I’m on my phone typing this.
My (40m) mom has always been crazy. I don’t mean that in a “she puts the milk in before her cereal” kind of way. I mean really hurtful, destructive things but she’s never been diagnosed with anything. To anyone beyond her inner circle she is the nicest person you’ve ever met, so my dad and I have always made excuses for the way she treats the people close to her.
The final straw happened about 2 years ago after my brother ended up in the hospital in a coma. First some backstory…
My mom thrives on chaos, anytime things are really good, she wrecks everything. She once packed up and left us on Christmas Eve and forced my brother and me to open all our presents before she left while we all sat there bawling. I was maybe 11 at the time. She was back home within the next two weeks. Chaos. Another time she lied to her sisters so much about my “bad behavior” that they confronted my dad about sending me to military school. I was a B+ student who never even got a detention in HS. I’ve got probably dozens of other examples but the worst came when my 1st child was born. The hospital would only allow 2 people in the delivery room, my wife wanted me and her mother to be there. Instead of staying in the waiting room mom went back to her hotel, she didn’t meet my daughter until almost a week after she was born. This set off a grudge against my ILs that my mom still holds to this day (16 years now).
We lived close to my parents until my oldest was around 7 yo and they regularly watched the kids for us while wife and I worked. A series of events happened within a few weeks, including her stealing pizza money from my kids school (caught on camera), smoking weed on the back porch while we got the kids ready for school, and my wife’s gas tank getting sugar dumped in it by “someone”. We’d had enough and moved back to my wife’s hometown about 800 miles away. She has still to this day not apologized or even acknowledged any of this.
Fast forward 6 years I get a call from the hospital in my home state. My brother has taken a lot of pills and is in a coma, they can’t get a hold of my parents. he’s about 200 miles away from them, so I called both of them and started driving back home myself. They didn’t have anywhere to stay so I booked a hotel for the night until we could get into Brothers apartment. They are on SS so they don’t have much disposable income. In the week we were there I learned a lot about the demons my bro was battling, mom however blamed his doctors, his medications, his girlfriends…literally ANYTHING but my brother and his mental illness.
The last straw: As I was going to meet up with some old friends my mom mentioned she was going to meet with bros therapist and find out “what was REALLY going on”. I said “Mom, I want you to please go into that meeting understanding that these people might actually be trying to help him, and that he needs their help.” She stormed away. While I was out I got a text that said (paraphrased) “this is what you wanted isn’t it? You are just a spy for the IL family and you were hoping your brother would d!3 so you could go laugh at us with them”
I. Lost. It.
I honestly blacked out for most of the ensuing argument. But I do remember telling her to go F$&@ herself and that until she got serious psychological help to stay away from me and my family.
I don’t have the heart to tell my kids why we can’t go visit grandma, and I hope I never have to. They don’t know her as the same person I grew up with and I don’t want to ruin that image for them. I know she’ll never get the help she needs and I’m prepared to never talk to her again. It breaks my heart though when my kids ask about her.
ETA: kids are now 16, 13, & 11
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2023.06.03 07:33 apocalypse_then Hi han més articles avui -06/03/2023. Aqui estan tots els titulars que he trobat...

Cada dia recullo molts titulars, pero publico pocs. Aqui va un recull de tot per els que volen veure una mica més.
Periodic:
Espanya recolza Andorra en l'acord d'associaciĂł amb la UniĂł Europea
La pluja, protagonista de l'estrena de 'l'Andorra la Vella en flor'
El 'Clean Up Day' Ă©s la novetat per a la Setmana del Medi Ambient
«Ningú ens prepara per a fer front a la mort, però s'ha de normalitzar»
Quan ells haurien de ser els interessats i ho som nosaltres
90.000 euros per a projectes sostenibles, humanitaris i de pau
Altaveu:
Molné considera 'un èxit' l'ampliació dels judicis ràpids i valora aplicar-la encara a més delictes
1.100 persones podrien demanar una prestació de jubilació a la CASS però no ho han fet
'Andorra la Vella en flor' i mullada
El L'Andart rep 120 candidatures per participar a l'edició que comença el setembre
Cadena Ser Andorra:
Casadavall confia que la justĂ­cia ocuparĂ  totes les places abans de finals d'any
Detingut per accedir il·legalment al pis de l'exparella i amenaçar-la
Ara:
Programa d'avantatges per als accionistes d'Unnic
Només haurà de pagar 20 euros després de trencar una paperera davant d'un policia
Rebutjen la peticiĂł dels Cachafeiro de 14 milions per no poder edificar en el terreny de l'esllavissada davant del Punt de Trobada
Detenen un home a la Massana per agredir la seva companya de pis
AndorraDifusio:
En marxa la segona Andorra la Vella en flor
'Stabat Mater', primer concert del festival ClassicAnd a cĂ rrec de l'ONCA
Espot reitera el suport a UcraĂŻna com a "estat amic"
El programa de primers auxilis de la Creu Roja ha permès salvar vides a l'escola
Les extraccions de còrnia a Andorra podrien ser una realitat al desembre
Poble AndorrĂ :
Albares reitera el suport de l'estat espanyol a l'acord d'associaciĂł entre Andorra i la UE
Els pilots d'Air Nostrum es declaren en vaga indefinida
Detingut per agredir la seva companya de pis a la Massana
No es renova la residència a una dona que va estar quatre anys fora perquè amb la pensió que cobra no podia viure a Andorra
Detinguts per intentar accedir al paĂ­s amb passaports falsos
El casino Unnic posa a la venda el 10% de les accions per als residents que vulguin comprar
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2023.06.03 06:46 RyderHammer NEVER, pick up the phone for a number you don't know...

Alright, I don't have much time, I am currently hiding in a cramped-up closet. I can hear it moving outside my room. You're most likely wondering how I got here, or why I don't have time. Well here is my story. One sunny California day, I was sitting on my lumpy couch with a new phone I had just bought. It had all the important apps I would spend most of my days on (Youtube, Tiktok, etc.) But I was too lazy to insert a SIM card into my phone. I was checking some Youtube, then over to TikTok repeat like what I always do. Eventually, I decided to put the SIM card into my phone so I can add my parents' numbers and my friends as well. I glance over to the counter where I had left the SIM and lazily get up from the couch as its leather detaches from my skin.
It's only a few steps from the couch but for some reason, it felt longer, maybe it was my laziness or tiredness but it felt as if you were walking up a never-ending staircase. Eventually, I reached the marble counter, but instead of the SIM card being there, there was nothing! "Must have misplaced it?" I thought, trying to come up with a reason. I closed my eyes for a long blink before jogging over to my closet, things always got lost in there. For some reason though, I couldn't shake off the feeling of being watched.
As I was miles deep into the pile of clothes I heard, a few steps away from me *BUZZZZ\* The very distinct sound of my phone ringing "Must be my imagination" I murmured. My entire body was covered by this point. Then I hear the same sound again, then again, then again. Eventually, I get fed up with the ringing and burst out of the sea of clothes. And trudge over to my still-ringing phone.
"19 Missed Calls" it reads. "Odd" I blurted out loudly. I pick up my phone with a sense of urgency. *BUZZZZ\* Another call rings in. I've seen enough horror movies to know to not pick up the phone. *RING\* It goes, I had got a text, "Let me in!" It read. I looked at my phone in fear, I have no idea why, but still, it sent chills down my spine. Just then an Amber Alert set off in my phone "Masked killer seems to be stalking around (they said my neighbourhood)" it read. I almost screamed. But I managed to stay calm and ran into my bedroom.
I ran so fast I almost knocked down a picture of my mom- we had just had her funeral last Tuesday. When I got into my room I closed my window and locked my door. *BUZZZZ\* my phone went, I decided to be a man and answered it, and all I could hear was low breathing, then another Amber Alert "Masked killer has been sighted outside of (they said my address)" My heart pounded, I ran into the closet I am in now, and here is where my story resumes, "Honey, come out now" A familiar voice says outside, another Amber Alert rings on my phone "Masked killer can replicate voices, STAY AWAY" it reads. I remember the voice now, it's my mom's. "Honey, it is ok" My mom repeats. I have to open the door now, goodbye. My mom is home...
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2023.06.03 06:38 DodgerBot Postgame Thread âšľ Yankees 4 @ Dodgers 8

Line Score - Game Over

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 R H E LOB
NYY 0 1 0 1 0 0 0 0 2 4 5 1 3
LAD 6 0 1 0 0 1 0 0 8 13 0 6

Box Score

LAD AB R H RBI BB SO BA
RF Betts 4 2 4 3 1 0 .266
1B Freeman, F 5 0 0 0 0 0 .339
C Smith, W.D. 4 1 2 0 0 0 .317
3B Muncy 4 1 1 2 0 1 .210
DH Martinez 4 2 2 1 0 1 .283
LF Heyward 4 1 2 0 0 0 .238
2B Vargas, M 3 1 1 0 1 1 .220
CF Outman 4 0 1 1 0 1 .235
SS Rojas, M 3 0 0 1 0 0 .209
LAD IP H R ER BB SO P-S ERA
Kershaw 7.0 4 2 2 1 9 96-65 3.25
Almonte 1.0 0 0 0 1 0 14-6 6.75
Bickford 1.0 1 2 2 1 2 26-16 7.33
NYY AB R H RBI BB SO BA
2B Torres 4 0 1 0 0 1 .267
RF Judge 4 0 0 0 0 2 .291
1B Rizzo 4 0 0 0 0 2 .298
DH Stanton 3 2 1 1 1 0 .273
3B Donaldson 4 2 2 3 0 1 .200
CF Kiner-Falefa 4 0 0 0 0 3 .227
SS Volpe 4 0 0 0 0 1 .190
C Trevino 2 0 1 0 0 0 .216
LF Bauers 0 0 0 0 1 0 .214
CF Allen, G 1 0 0 0 1 1 .214
PH Calhoun, W 1 0 0 0 0 0 .245
C Higashioka 0 0 0 0 0 0 .218
NYY IP H R ER BB SO P-S ERA
Severino, L 4.0 9 7 7 1 2 83-55 5.28
Kahnle 1.0 1 0 0 1 1 29-17 0.00
Weber 2.0 2 1 1 0 1 29-20 3.14
Abreu, A 1.0 1 0 0 0 0 17-10 3.45

Scoring Plays

Inning Event Score
B1 Mookie Betts homers (14) on a line drive to left field. 1-0
B1 Max Muncy homers (18) on a fly ball to left center field. Will Smith scores. 3-0
B1 James Outman singles on a line drive to center fielder Greg Allen. J.D. Martinez scores. Jason Heyward to 3rd. Miguel Vargas to 2nd. 4-0
B1 Miguel Rojas out on a sacrifice fly to center fielder Greg Allen. Jason Heyward scores. 5-0
B1 Mookie Betts singles on a ground ball to left fielder Isiah Kiner-Falefa. Miguel Vargas scores. James Outman to 3rd. 6-0
T2 Josh Donaldson homers (2) on a fly ball to left center field. 6-1
B3 J.D. Martinez homers (13) on a fly ball to center field. 7-1
T4 Giancarlo Stanton homers (5) on a fly ball to center field. 7-2
B6 Mookie Betts homers (15) on a fly ball to left field. 8-2
T9 Josh Donaldson homers (3) on a fly ball to left center field. Giancarlo Stanton scores. 8-4

Highlights

Description Length Video
Bullpen availability for New York, June 2 vs Dodgers 0:07 Video
Bullpen availability for Los Angeles, June 2 vs Yankees 0:07 Video
Fielding alignment for Los Angeles, June 2 vs Yankees 0:11 Video
Fielding alignment for New York, June 2 vs Dodgers 0:11 Video
Starting lineups for Yankees at Dodgers - June 2, 2023 0:09 Video
Visualizing Max Muncy's swing using bat tracking technology 0:09 Video
Analyzing Mookie Betts's home run through bat tracking 0:09 Video
Josh Donaldson: Home Run Statcast Analysis 0:09 Video
Josh Donaldson's home run through bat tracking data 0:09 Video
Breaking down J.D. Martinez's home run 0:16 Video
The distance behind Giancarlo Stanton's home run 0:14 Video
The distance behind Mookie Betts' home run 0:09 Video
The distance behind Max Muncy's home run 0:15 Video
Breaking down Luis Severino's pitches 0:08 Video
The distance behind Mookie Betts's home run 0:14 Video
Breaking down Clayton Kershaw's pitches 0:08 Video
Clayton Kershaw's outing against the Yankees 0:22 Video
Mookie Betts drills a leadoff home run to left 0:23 Video
Max Muncy lifts a two-run home run to left field 0:29 Video
James Outman grounds 0:16 Video
Miguel Rojas drives in a run with a sac fly in 1st 0:23 Video
Mookie Betts grounds an RBI single to left field 0:26 Video
Josh Donaldson belts solo homer in first AB off IL 0:24 Video
J.D. Martinez smacks a solo home run to center field 0:19 Video
Giancarlo Stanton drives a solo homer to left field 0:22 Video
Dodgers bat around for a six-run 1st inning 1:16 Video
Mookie Betts connects with second homer of the night 0:22 Video
Luis Severino strikes out Muncy swinging to end 2nd 0:06 Video
Clayton Kershaw picks up his 9th K in the 7th inning 0:08 Video
Jose Trevino picks off James Outman at third base 0:12 Video
Josh Donaldson homers (3) on a fly ball to left center field. Giancarlo Stanton scores. 0:28 Video
Mookie Betts solo HR vs. Yankees - Creator Cuts 3:13 Video

Decisions

Winning Pitcher Losing Pitcher Save
Kershaw (7-4, 3.25 ERA) Severino, L (0-1, 5.28 ERA)
Game ended at 9:38 PM.
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2023.06.03 06:14 Low-Association-9777 I can't stand being in my skin.

8 years ago I enlisted in the Marine corps. With the hopes that I'd get deployed to Afghanistan, step on a pressure plate while on patrol, and turn into a pink mist. No need for a funeral, or cremation. Just a folded flag and the handful of comfort items I owned stuffed into a box. But that never happened. Now I have to live with the shit I put my family through. All the hurtful words, bursts of anger, how I treated my step sisters and step father. All the fucked up n hurtful shit I put them through.
Each and every day to some degree or another is either filled with suffering, self hatred, and bitterness, or an overwhelming numbness. I want out. But I'm too prideful and arrogant to just suck start a shotgun, So that complicates things.
I've reached out to not only my mother but several friends for help. But nothings been done. Noone seems to care, even the slightest bit. I've tried to go through the VA, but because I don't have a combat deployment I don't rate talk therapy or any sort of help. Also tried going through just about every clinic or practice near me, all with the same basic "fuck you, your a guy no one fucking cares" type of reply.
At this point I'm honestly just gonna cook up 100lbs of hme ( home made explosives) and make my original plan work. No letters, or notes. Just gone.
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2023.06.03 05:08 iambatmanman How to pass an array to express route through query params?

How to pass an array to express route through query params?
Hey all,
I'm working in a TypeScript React project and getting an array of options from a Select component, passing it to a route through req.query, and ultimately need to pass that array to an IN clause of a SQL query (we're using node-pg and Massive.js to help with DB interactions).
Does anyone have any experience doing something like this? I've tried using the query-string library to stringify my parameters, but it's not quoting the values correctly (for instance an array like ['item1', 'item2', 'item3'] gets stringified like 'item1,item2,item3') which breaks the SQL query.
Here is how I'm trying to build the route:
case StandardReportEnum.price_list: const categories = (productCategories && productCategories.length > 0) ? productCategories : ``; // eslint-disable-next-line no-console console.log(productCategories); // eslint-disable-next-line no-console console.log(categories); if (categories === undefined) { let q = '?productCategory=null'; downloadFromAPI(`${resourceBase}price-list/${funeralHomeId}/${q}`, dispatch); } else { let q = `productCategory=${categories}`; q += '&productCategoryIsSet=true'; // eslint-disable-next-line no-console console.log(q); downloadFromAPI(`${resourceBase}price-list/${funeralHomeId}/?${q}`, dispatch); } break; 
This is the clause in the SQL the incorrectly quoted params is breaking:
AND (${productCategoryIsSet} = FALSE OR p.category in (${productCategory:csv})) 
Error from my API:
21:20:50 error: invalid input value for enum product.category: "casket,vault" task(GET /api/standard-reports/price-list/1): SELECT fh.key AS fh_key, COALESCE(p.category::TEXT, 'other') AS product_category, p.name AS product_name, p.cost AS product_cost, p.base_price / 100.00 AS base_price, m.name AS manufacturer, p.model_number AS model_number, p.sku AS sku, CASE WHEN p.tax_rate_id IS NOT NULL THEN 'Yes' ELSE 'No' END AS is_taxable, CASE WHEN p.is_hidden THEN 'Yes' ELSE 'No' END AS is_hidden FROM product.product AS p INNER JOIN public.funeral_home AS fh ON fh.id = p.funeral_home_id LEFT JOIN product.manufacturer AS m ON m.id = p.manufacturer_id WHERE fh.id = 1 AND (true = FALSE OR p.category in ('casket,vault')) 

Example of what I'm trying to accomplish in the front end, and the console logs
Not sure what else might be helpful, I really just need to figure out how to correctly handle that array of query params. If anyone has experience or suggestions, all is welcome and appreciated. Thanks in advance.
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2023.06.03 05:06 Altruistic-Ant-6221 Idk what to do anymore

I (21 F) have struggled with anxiety and depression since my early teen years. My anxiety was more social anxiety/ general with the occasional panic attacks. Fast forward to a few months ago I really couldn’t shake the idea of quitting my job I wasn’t sure why I loved my job (animal shelter attendant) some of the employees were ball busters and I made minimum wage. I was told I would be moving to an assistant management position soon which came with a raise yay. Needless to say that didn’t happen. The days at work got longer and longer. I stopped finding the joy in the job I loved so much. Yes it was also a sad job but I found more happiness. One day I had a panic attack at work and left early. Nothing in particular just I guess built up emotion. I didn’t go to work for another 3 days and I texted my boss that I quit. I quit just about a month ago. Since then I have barely left my home I barely eat or eat too much staying in bed isn’t comfy anymore but it’s so much better than getting up. I see no reason for me. I feel like an inconvenience to my family a disappointment even. I feel like I don’t belong in this world anymore. All my friends have slowly left which was probably my fault. My boyfriend, we’ve been dating over a year is very patient with me. I feel like me always being down if affecting him too I’m watching him lose interest in things he loves, he comes over just to sleep, he never eats. He wasn’t always like this. He used to be super social, he loved video games, he liked to workout. I feel like I’ve sucked his happiness somehow. He doesn’t deserve it. I feel like I’m hitting a new low and idk how I’m gonna come back from this one. I’ve never known feelings like this. I will say at least no one would have to deal with my funeral cause I’m too much of a pussy to end it. I’ve never felt more sad,alone,anxious,and just done with life. Sorry kinda rambled lol
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2023.06.03 05:02 AverageGodzillaFan29 I swear these gacha tubers always use this “Noah” guy to make Micheal always gay in their “Fnaf AUs..” can somebody tell where this Noah guy even came from..

I swear these gacha tubers always use this “Noah” guy to make Micheal always gay in their “Fnaf AUs..” can somebody tell where this Noah guy even came from.. submitted by AverageGodzillaFan29 to GachaClubCringe [link] [comments]


2023.06.03 04:40 Public_Perception448 My attention-seeking-always-has-to-be-in-the-spotlight aunt hates me. Always has. Spreads rumors like crazy. Well, I’ll give you something to talk about.

My dad passed July 1, 2022. His sister has always hated me. And my mom. She’s an attention seeker who can’t stand to be out of the spotlight so she will do anytning to have eyes on her. Of all the absolutely outrageous things she did in the past (stole the show at my mom and dads wedding, tried to get my parents to take me back bc I wasn’t their family material bc I was adopted and had issues -some bish I work for the system now-, she meddled in everything that didn’t concern her.) Here recently, She: -told everyone at my dads funeral that she overheard me planning to take his 66 Plymouth. (Of course I wanted to inherit it, but my dad wanted her son to have it and I think that is fine. The car means a lot to me but I want it to be taken care of.) she told them that I was bragging about taking it now that he’s dead. (I wasn’t, and everyone backed me up, I was hysterical at the funeral.) -she stalks my profiles and tells my grandparents what I post to make me look like I’m crazy. For example; I just reunited with my first adoptive dad who I was ripped away from 18 years ago. And she told my grandparents I was replacing my dad. I’m absolutely not. I don’t even call this guy dad. But it’s nice to have him back in my life. And he respects my boundaries when it comes to him. -my mom got into a relationship, she was planning to tell them on her own, but my aunt beat her to it and it really hurt my grandparents. (I don’t agree with her moving on so fast but I do understand she needs a partner bc she was my dads caretaker for 6 years about. She deserves someone to take care of her now. And dad wouldn’t want her to be lonely.) -she called State Farm to talk about my dads life insurance and my life insurance literally minutes after my dad passed. He was still lying dead in the front yard of his parents home. We all know she wanted to inherit ownership of the policy. So we took her name off of my life insurace too. Thank god the agent knows our family, she called my mom right away. -she lied to me and cussed me when I confronted her about these things -she keeps posting inspirational quotes on IG so I take the quotes and post them to my own with a message for her saying she’s a hypocrite and I’m just waiting for her to block me. -we have now found out that her son (the one who got my dads car) probably doesn’t have lupus (was a HUGE deal in the community when he was younger bc he was so sick). We all have found out that she was basically doing to her son what deedee Blanchard did to Gypsy Rose (I knew gypsy as well, always had my suspicions.) and her son is struggling with that.
Feelin toxic toward her. 🙏 I don’t like hypocrites. I wanna be petty. What else can I do to show her just how much I hate her that doesn’t include harassment or spreading rumors about her to others.
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2023.06.03 04:29 PMikoto18 I just want to vent my regrets not being able to do anything for my grandpa

So my grandpa was diagnosed with dementia in December 2021, but my grandma kept telling her friends and even my mother that it was just an act. For context my grandma and grandpa have always been at odds with each other for as long as I remember. She’s also the one to start the argument by bringing up all the mistakes and misdeeds my grandpa did from years ago. It was during lock down when my grandma would constantly verbally abuse my grandpa, and it came to the point when my grandpa finally snapped and almost hit my grandma. This caused my grandpa to move in with his sister, while my grandma continued to tarnish my grandpa’s reputation throughout the neighborhood.
Continuing on from when he was diagnosed with dementia, my grandma didn’t want him to live in the house he built since my grandpa’s siblings brought my grandpa back since he always goes on and on that he wants to go home. She even told my mother, uncle, and my grandpa’s sibling that she’ll place him in a special housing in another province. But the special housing won’t accept my grandpa, because apparently he can still respond to questions. So my uncle and my mother suggested hiring someone to take care of my grandpa in which my grandma agreed.
Although my mother and uncle hired someone to take care of my grandpa, my grandma still can't control her hate or anger and would constantly send chat and even pictures of my grandpa naked or him urinating or defecating on the bed to my grandpa’s sister. My grandma would also lock the room where my grandpa stayed whenever we would visit. She would also scream at my grandpa as well as hit him with a thick wooden stick or plank, that the caretaker had to hide to stop my grandma from hitting my grandpa. When my grandpa died after a few months due to a stroke, my grandma just kept on tarnishing my grandpa’s reputation even in his own funeral to his former classmates and colleagues as well as his friends.
I regretted not doing something or speaking out against how my grandpa was being treated. I had always thought that my uncle and my mother would talk some sense to my grandma, but I guess that's just my wishful thinking. It also didn’t help that my mother didn’t want any conflict with my grandma since the argument would just go back and forth. I hated how that was also my thought process at that time, and I feel that I failed my grandpa for thinking like that. Sorry if this is all incoherent, I just needed to vent my frustrations after seeing my grandma’s post about visiting my grandpa’s grave on his birthday.
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2023.06.03 04:11 Heavyr38 Family member wants stuff from parents house 5 years after it was sold to me.

Family member wants stuff from parents house 5 years after it was sold to me.
Long time lurker, but this definately counts as a beggar. I bought my grandparents home 5 years ago as a starter home. My uncle wanted to take some of his father's stuff before sale. No problem, it was old fishing poles and a nice shotgun and some other misc. stuff. Fast forward, I fixed the home up with updates and what not to sell to get a bigger and better home (starting a family). He just so happens to be in town for a funeral and stops by. He asks me to get some more stuff upon coming back in town weeks later. I just sold the house and put my stuff in storage and he wants to go through it. Hell no.
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2023.06.03 03:10 DodgerBot Game Chat 6/2 - Yankees (34-24) @ Dodgers (34-23) 7:10 PM

Yankees (34-24) @ Dodgers (34-23)

First Pitch: 7:10 PM at Dodger Stadium
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Yankees Luis Severino (0-0, 1.59 ERA) YES WFAN, WADO (ES)
Dodgers Clayton Kershaw (6-4, 3.32 ERA) SNLA 570, KTNQ (ES)
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Line Score - Game Over

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 R H E LOB
NYY 0 1 0 1 0 0 0 0 2 4 5 1 3
LAD 6 0 1 0 0 1 0 0 8 13 0 6

Box Score

LAD AB R H RBI BB SO BA
RF Betts 4 2 4 3 1 0 .266
1B Freeman, F 5 0 0 0 0 0 .339
C Smith, W.D. 4 1 2 0 0 0 .317
3B Muncy 4 1 1 2 0 1 .210
DH Martinez 4 2 2 1 0 1 .283
LF Heyward 4 1 2 0 0 0 .238
2B Vargas, M 3 1 1 0 1 1 .220
CF Outman 4 0 1 1 0 1 .235
SS Rojas, M 3 0 0 1 0 0 .209
LAD IP H R ER BB SO P-S ERA
Kershaw 7.0 4 2 2 1 9 96-65 3.25
Almonte 1.0 0 0 0 1 0 14-6 6.75
Bickford 1.0 1 2 2 1 2 26-16 7.33
NYY AB R H RBI BB SO BA
2B Torres 4 0 1 0 0 1 .267
RF Judge 4 0 0 0 0 2 .291
1B Rizzo 4 0 0 0 0 2 .298
DH Stanton 3 2 1 1 1 0 .273
3B Donaldson 4 2 2 3 0 1 .200
CF Kiner-Falefa 4 0 0 0 0 3 .227
SS Volpe 4 0 0 0 0 1 .190
C Trevino 2 0 1 0 0 0 .216
LF Bauers 0 0 0 0 1 0 .214
CF Allen, G 1 0 0 0 1 1 .214
PH Calhoun, W 1 0 0 0 0 0 .245
C Higashioka 0 0 0 0 0 0 .218
NYY IP H R ER BB SO P-S ERA
Severino, L 4.0 9 7 7 1 2 83-55 5.28
Kahnle 1.0 1 0 0 1 1 29-17 0.00
Weber 2.0 2 1 1 0 1 29-20 3.14
Abreu, A 1.0 1 0 0 0 0 17-10 3.45

Scoring Plays

Inning Event Score
B1 Mookie Betts homers (14) on a line drive to left field. 1-0
B1 Max Muncy homers (18) on a fly ball to left center field. Will Smith scores. 3-0
B1 James Outman singles on a line drive to center fielder Greg Allen. J.D. Martinez scores. Jason Heyward to 3rd. Miguel Vargas to 2nd. 4-0
B1 Miguel Rojas out on a sacrifice fly to center fielder Greg Allen. Jason Heyward scores. 5-0
B1 Mookie Betts singles on a ground ball to left fielder Isiah Kiner-Falefa. Miguel Vargas scores. James Outman to 3rd. 6-0
T2 Josh Donaldson homers (2) on a fly ball to left center field. 6-1
B3 J.D. Martinez homers (13) on a fly ball to center field. 7-1
T4 Giancarlo Stanton homers (5) on a fly ball to center field. 7-2
B6 Mookie Betts homers (15) on a fly ball to left field. 8-2
T9 Josh Donaldson homers (3) on a fly ball to left center field. Giancarlo Stanton scores. 8-4

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Bullpen availability for Los Angeles, June 2 vs Yankees 0:07 Video
Fielding alignment for Los Angeles, June 2 vs Yankees 0:11 Video
Fielding alignment for New York, June 2 vs Dodgers 0:11 Video
Starting lineups for Yankees at Dodgers - June 2, 2023 0:09 Video
Visualizing Max Muncy's swing using bat tracking technology 0:09 Video
Analyzing Mookie Betts's home run through bat tracking 0:09 Video
Josh Donaldson: Home Run Statcast Analysis 0:09 Video
Josh Donaldson's home run through bat tracking data 0:09 Video
Breaking down J.D. Martinez's home run 0:16 Video
The distance behind Giancarlo Stanton's home run 0:14 Video
The distance behind Mookie Betts' home run 0:09 Video
The distance behind Max Muncy's home run 0:15 Video
Breaking down Luis Severino's pitches 0:08 Video
The distance behind Mookie Betts's home run 0:14 Video
Breaking down Clayton Kershaw's pitches 0:08 Video
Clayton Kershaw's outing against the Yankees 0:22 Video
Mookie Betts drills a leadoff home run to left 0:23 Video
Max Muncy lifts a two-run home run to left field 0:29 Video
James Outman grounds 0:16 Video
Miguel Rojas drives in a run with a sac fly in 1st 0:23 Video
Mookie Betts grounds an RBI single to left field 0:26 Video
Josh Donaldson belts solo homer in first AB off IL 0:24 Video
J.D. Martinez smacks a solo home run to center field 0:19 Video
Giancarlo Stanton drives a solo homer to left field 0:22 Video
Dodgers bat around for a six-run 1st inning 1:16 Video
Mookie Betts connects with second homer of the night 0:22 Video
Luis Severino strikes out Muncy swinging to end 2nd 0:06 Video
Clayton Kershaw picks up his 9th K in the 7th inning 0:08 Video
Jose Trevino picks off James Outman at third base 0:12 Video
Josh Donaldson homers (3) on a fly ball to left center field. Giancarlo Stanton scores. 0:28 Video
Mookie Betts solo HR vs. Yankees - Creator Cuts 3:13 Video

Decisions

Winning Pitcher Losing Pitcher Save
Kershaw (7-4, 3.25 ERA) Severino, L (0-1, 5.28 ERA)
Attendance Weather Wind
67°F, Clear 9 mph, Out To RF
HP 1B 2B 3B
Hunter Wendelstedt John Tumpane Ryan Blakney Marvin Hudson
Game ended at 9:38 PM.
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2023.06.03 02:50 TheBonesOfAutumn In the 1970’s, two unrelated deaths occurred within the confines of a small home that once stood along Lawrence County, Indiana’s Ramsey Ridge Road. Referred to by locals as “The Mysteries of Skin Ridge,” this is the story of the unusual deaths of Dennis McArthur, and Gerry Lee.

Nestled in northern Lawrence County, Indiana, just six miles from Bedford, lies Ramsey Ridge Road. Just under three miles in length, the rural pathway once referred to as “Skin Ridge'' winds through the sparsely populated area’s dense woods atop a hill overlooking Little Salt Creek and nearby Bartlettsville. In the 1970’s, two completely unrelated deaths occurred within the confines of a modest green house that once stood along the ridge. Referred to by locals as “The Mysteries of Skin Ridge,” this is the story of the unusual deaths of Dennis McArthur, and Gerry Lee.
Dennis McArthur
On April 11, 1976, 44-year-old Pearl McArthur returned home after a lengthy stay at Madison State Hospital. Pearl, who would later be diagnosed with schizophrenia, had committed herself to the hospital in early December, leaving her 18-year-old son, Dennis, to care for the house in her absence. Accompanied by her 23-year-old daughter, April, who lived in nearby Bedford with her husband Gary, Pearl made her way inside the small two-story farmhouse.
Inside, Pearl and April found the home in complete disarray. Trash laid strewed about, lamps and furniture were overturned, and the stove was caved in, its exhaust pipe torn from the wall. It was unusually cold inside as though no heat had been recently used, and a strange smell permeated the air.
Alarmed, Pearl and April began to frantically search for Dennis. As they made their way over to a small couch located in a bedroom on the second floor, they noticed a pile of blankets lying on the sofa. As Pearl peeled back the layer of quilts, she was met with a horrific scene; Dennis’s decomposed body lay beneath the bedding. They immediately summoned police.
Dennis was found in a fetal position on the couch, facing inwards. Although covered by quilts, he was nude from the waist down. The coroner estimated he had died one to two months prior, however the cold weather had, in part, delayed the decomposition process making it difficult to give an exact time of death. During an autopsy, it was discovered that Dennis was severely emaciated, to the point of starvation. No evidence of external or internal injuries were found.
Police discovered several bottles of pills in the home; vitamins used for energy, an antidepressant, and a drug used in the treatment of Parkinson’s disease. All of the pills were prescribed to Pearl, and were still relatively full. A toxicology test was conducted and proved negative, however the state pathologist who performed the test admitted that the test was incapable of detecting substances such as LSD. He also explained due to the amount of time that had passed since his death, the tests might not be one hundred percent accurate. Dennis’ cause of death was listed as malnutrition and exposure.
Investigators found several clues at the scene that struck them as odd. Although the cabin appeared ransacked, nothing seemed to be missing, including a small amount of money that was found within the disheveled home. Along with money, a small amount of, now spoiled, food was found in the cabinets and refrigerator. An upstairs window was found to be broken from the inside. Also upstairs, investigators discovered several large pools of blood, including one beside the couch where Dennis’ body was found. They also found blood on the backside of the couch, on a rug, and on the kitchen door frame, along with splatter on a wall. Testing confirmed the blood to be human.
Dennis was well known to both police and the county’s social workers. His mother, Pearl, was frequently in and out of mental institutions leaving Dennis and his two siblings to fend for themselves. The children’s father, Walter, had abandoned the family and moved to Georgia years prior. In 1972, Dennis was arrested for theft and truancy. That same year, he was expelled from school and never returned.
He was again arrested in 1973, this time for driving without a license, fleeing from police, possession of alcohol, and curfew violation. After his release, Dennis was sent to live with a man named Al Hagopian, a case worker for the Youth Services Bureau. Al was quoted as saying; “Finding him a place to stay was hard. The house where he had been staying was pretty grubby, and the state thought he was too young to live alone. His mother was in and out of hospitals a lot and he worried about her constantly. He didn’t want to return home, but said he had to go back to help care for his mother.”
Al discovered that Dennis “read and wrote backwards,” and was “practically illiterate.” After reviewing Dennis’ school records, he found multiple instances where teachers labeled Dennis as having disciplinary problems when it came to schoolwork, however not once did they mention he had a clear learning disability. Al further explained that attempts to secure employment for Dennis were nearly never successful. Aside from being unable to read or write, he had no vehicle. He also had no stable address or phone number and was oftentimes dirty and dressed in near rags.
Dennis’ unfair hand he had been dealt did not stop him from trying to act like an average kid most of the time, Al added. He explained that Dennis had an interest in cars, enjoyed hanging out with his friends, and was always chasing girls. He had also told Al he wanted to someday save up enough money for a new guitar, as he loved to play music. Al admitted that Dennis was also into the “street scene” and had dabbled in drugs and alcohol. Dennis returned home after two months of living with Al.
In 1974, after another arrest and his subsequent release from a youth detention center, Dennis went to live with his father for a short time. Dennis’ arrest had made headlines when it was learned the young man had been kept with adult men for a long period before being transferred to the youth detention center. Dennis and Walter reportedly couldn’t get along, however, and Dennis ran away to Florida. He lived there for a few months, washing cars to make money, before returning to the home on Ramsey Ridge in Indiana in 1975. He was again arrested, this time in Bloomington, Indiana for carrying a concealed weapon, alcohol consumption, and curfew violation. At the time of Dennis’ death, the charges against him were still pending.
According to his sister, April, she had gone to visit Dennis at the home on Ramsey Ridge on Christmas Eve. April said Dennis was sitting on the couch, playing his guitar. He also showed her a new rug he had purchased for the home. According to her, he seemed his usual self and the home was clean. April offered him some money, however Dennis refused claiming he had enough to get by.
Lucy Lively, an aunt of Dennis’ who lived “within hollering distance,” claimed she entered the home on February 1st to turn off a lamp that had been left burning. While she did not see Dennis, she claimed the home's interior was in normal order. Joe McArthur, Dennis’ paternal grandfather who also lived nearby, said it was not unusual for Dennis to disappear for long periods, so he thought nothing of the youths' absence as of late.
When Walter, Dennis’ father, was informed of his son's death, he informed police that Dennis, along with two male friends, had come to visit him in Georgia in mid December. He gave a description of the two teens and told police they had been introduced to him as “John Boy'' and “Blonde John.”
Police were able to track down “Blonde John” who was identified as 18-year-old John Fonk of Bloomington, Indiana. John told investigators that he and Dennis had driven to Florida together in October, not December, as Walter had stated. John explained they had stopped by Walter’s home in Georgia on their way back home. He was confident in the date as he had joined the Air Force in December. He also explained that “John Boy” had been a hitchhiker they had picked up along the way. According to John, “John Boy” rode back to Indiana with the pair, but he had not seen him, or Dennis since. He described him as being in his mid 20’s. After learning of the discrepancy in Walter’s story, police again tried to contact him, however phone calls and letters went unanswered. Unfortunately, they were never able to identify “John Boy.”
Further questioning of social services showed that Pearl had filled several grocery orders provided by state services, however the orders ceased when she had been again hospitalized. Eventually the Lawrence County Welfare Office had taken control and promised to look in on Dennis, however they could provide no evidence they had followed up on the case. They suggested that Dennis, overwhelmed with his impoverished lifestyle, had simply starved himself to the point of being comatose, before succumbing to the harsh cold of winter. They were quoted as saying “We were aware of him of course, but he never came to us. We don’t go looking for people if they don’t come to us for help. Now if he had, we would have done something.”
The local sheriff as well as members of Dennis’ family were unsatisfied with Dennis’ listed cause of death and continued to pursue the investigation for several months. Unfortunately due to a lack of funds, more elaborate tests that may have presented some clue as to how Dennis died could not be conducted. Sheriff Robbins was quoted as saying, “This is a very disturbing mystery, because even if someone confessed to killing him, I doubt we would have the evidence to prove it. But it sure is hard to believe he could kill himself like that, by just laying down and dying. We aren’t closing the case, it will remain open. But until we have something more to go on, there’s not much more we can do at this point.”
Dennis was laid to rest at Heltonville’s Gilgal Cemetery. Few attended the modest closed casket funeral and subsequent burial. One journalist gave a last description of Dennis’ final resting place,
“The dogwood trees are in full bloom on the hillsides of Gilgal Cemetery, and though Dennis’ body now rests peacefully beneath a carpet of fallen petals, his soul will surely never rest until the reasons behind his death are discovered.”
Pearl, Dennis’ mother, passed away in 2000 at the age of 67. Walter, Dennis’ father, died in 1988. His sister, April, passed away suddenly in 2006 at the age of 53. Dennis also had an older brother, Gordon, who passed away in 1994 at the age of 42.
Gerry Lee
On the evening of May 28, 1978, police were again summoned to the little green house on Ramsey Ridge. The home was now occupied by 27-year-old Gerry Lee, a divorced self employed carpenter, and his roommate, 25-year-old Michael Davis. When police arrived, Michael informed them that Gerry had committed suicide.
Gerry was found hanging from a maple tree located 20 feet from the home's front porch. The rope had been tied off to a branch approximately 10 feet above the ground and fashioned into a noose. His feet were found to be touching the ground, and his knees were bent. Blood was discovered on Gerry’s hands and pants, despite having suffered no visible wounds. An autopsy would reveal that Gerry had died of asphyxiation as a result of a fracture to his cricoid cartilage located at the base of his larynx. The coroner stated this was not an injury normally associated with suicidal hangings, but instead blunt force trauma to the throat. Inside, more blood was found on a television set, the phone, and on the kitchen floor. A window on the home's back door had been broken from the outside, leaving shards of glass lying on the kitchen floor.
When questioned, Michael gave an explanation for the unusual findings. He claimed that he, Gerry, and two other friends, Mike Oakly and Roberta Chandler, had spent the day in nearby Bedford before the foursome returned to the home on Ramsey Ridge. There, Michael told police that he and Gerry got into a “friendly scuffle” that resulted in Michael falling into the window in the kitchen. He suffered a deep laceration to his forehead that left him bleeding profusely.
According to Michael, Roberta and Mike accompanied him to seek medical treatment in Bedford, while Gerry stayed behind at home. Michael returned home alone from the hospital, having left Roberta and Mike in town. It was then he discovered Gerry’s body and summoned police. He added that that evening Gerry had threatened to shoot himself multiple times with one of the loaded guns kept in the home.
When Roberta and Mike were taken in for questioning, they gave similar accounts of the night's events. Both were released. Aside from having a visible wound, medical staff confirmed Michael had been to the hospital that evening, having sought treatment for a laceration to his forehead.
Still, both the prosecutor and the county coroner stated they were not entirely satisfied with a verdict of suicide. The coroner stated “Some things have not fallen into place like they should with a suicide case. Although it looks as though it could be a suicide, there are so many angles that do not fit in with the suicide verdict.” The prosecutor agreed, “I’m not satisfied with how the investigation was handled,” he said, “and there are still a lot of unanswered questions. Several months later, Gerry’s case was brought before a grand jury who ultimately returned a verdict of “probable suicide.”
Gerry was laid to rest in Bedford’s Breckenridge Cemetery. Despite his death being declared a suicide, many locals, including Gerry’s friends and neighbors, continued to believe that something more sinister may have happened that evening, and the suicide was in fact staged. The community’s more superstitious elders shared a similar belief, however adding that a “strange ethereal force” inhabited the room where Gerry once slept, and where two years prior the body of Dennis had been discovered.
Whatever your opinion may be, it seems for some the books will never fully be closed on “The Mysteries of Skin Ridge.”
Sources
Newspaper Clippings, Death Certificates, Photos- https://imgur.com/a/4kQ3rEl
Find a Grave Dennis- https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/63100083/dennis-scott-mcarthur
Find a Grave Pearl- https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/254365281/pearl-m-mcarthur?createdMemorial=Yes
Find a Grave Walter- https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/80652726/walter-rufus-mcarthur
Find a Grave Gerry- https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/47074796/gerry-wayne-lee
National Library of Medicine- https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22442828/#:~:text=Overall%2C%20neck%20structures%20fractures%20were,the%20cricoid%20cartilage%20of%2020.6%25.
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2023.06.03 02:20 AhhMyEar Anyone ever have a surgery go this well? I'm curious on the total size now lol.

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