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2013.04.29 17:55 TitaniumShovel Bollywood realism: made with great actors and little gravity
This is a subreddit where you can post GIFs a of unrealistic South Asian movie or television scenes.
2014.12.17 08:35 BlackStallion54 justfuckmyshitup
This subreddit is dedicated to jacked up haircuts from all walks of life.
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When idiots get behind the wheel of a vehicle, shit gets funny.
2023.05.30 08:59 OkBey24 New scandal watcher. I’m confused about how Mel is treated
I’m so confused as to why the president hates Mel as much as he does! Like I’m really confused. He’s the one who’s been cheating this entire time…. but Mel can’t have her own fling? Mel can’t have a breakdown? Mel can’t be angry and vindictive after everything she’s been through? How does the president feel justified in all his actions… but Mel can’t do anything and just has to stand by him and be happy and cute. I’m on season 4 by the way, very much team Mel
What do y’all think? No spoilers please!
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What do y’all think? No spoilers please!
2023.05.30 08:58 lovelyanon800 Can't do anything to update Endeavour OS
When I try updating Arch mirrors through Welcome, I get: "Fetching information from https://www.archlinux.org failed."
When I try manually using Reflector to update Arch mirrors, I get:
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usbin/reflector", line 3, in
import Reflector
ModuleNotFoundError: No module named 'Reflector'
(Even though I checked and Reflector is indeed available in my Python environment AND was also installed via pacman.)
When I try doing "sudo pacman -Sy archlinux-keyring", I get:
Error: synchronisation of all databases failed (no server configured in repository)
"sudo pacman-key --refresh-keys" does looks like it's working, but back when pacman -Syu, -Syyu, -Syyuu would still work, it was evident that nothing got updated.
And now, pacman -Sy, -Syu, -Syyu, and -Syyuu all return:
Error: synchronisation of all databases failed (no server configured in repository)
I'm lost. I don't know what else I can do.
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When I try manually using Reflector to update Arch mirrors, I get:
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usbin/reflector", line 3, in
import Reflector
ModuleNotFoundError: No module named 'Reflector'
(Even though I checked and Reflector is indeed available in my Python environment AND was also installed via pacman.)
When I try doing "sudo pacman -Sy archlinux-keyring", I get:
Error: synchronisation of all databases failed (no server configured in repository)
"sudo pacman-key --refresh-keys" does looks like it's working, but back when pacman -Syu, -Syyu, -Syyuu would still work, it was evident that nothing got updated.
And now, pacman -Sy, -Syu, -Syyu, and -Syyuu all return:
Error: synchronisation of all databases failed (no server configured in repository)
I'm lost. I don't know what else I can do.
2023.05.30 08:58 iDigitize_Social Astonishing Pros About Art Therapy
 | submitted by iDigitize_Social to u/iDigitize_Social [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/rrzk6zur2x2b1.jpg?width=740&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8ecefc921cb418dc1634dac7f20bbcb9ce6ce237 The utilization of creative activities in rehabilitation and therapy, such as clay modeling and painting is known as art therapy. Making art is seen to be therapeutic, offering the chance to express oneself creatively, honestly, and spontaneously. Over time, this process can result in personal fulfilment, emotional healing, and transformation. In order to produce good changes, growth, and rehabilitation, the products created in art therapy are considered a means of symbolic communication as well as a tool for forming new perceptions, settling disputes, and addressing difficulties. It is necessary to note that according to the American Art Therapy Association, art therapy is a profession that integrates mental health and human services and offers assistance to people in a psychotherapy environment through active art-making and creative processes. The benefits of art therapy include a reduction in conflicts and distress, enhancement of cognitive abilities, promotion of self-esteem, and development of social and emotional competence. According to the organization, it interacts with the mind, body, and spirit in ways that verbal communication does not. These are very useful for children and adults who do not communicate their feelings verbally and could use such spaces to communicate how they feel. Art therapy is about finding healing via the creative process, not the finished product. Numerous advantages of art and art therapy for both physical and mental health have been discovered via research. For instance, a study of cancer patients found that guided, creative art therapy activities lasting four hours increased participants’ psychological well-being by reducing negative feelings and enhancing positive ones. In a study (Suzanne et al., 2020) Patients with personality disorders indicated that they benefited significantly from art therapy. This was primarily demonstrated by the ability to express emotions, reinforce and stabilize one’s self-image, learn to make one’s own decisions and increase one’s autonomy, and recognize, develop an awareness of, and alter one’s own thoughts, feeling, and behavior patterns. A key objective of treatment, in their view, should be teaching patients how to deal with their own limits and vulnerabilities. Diane Waller (2006) found that a child may be able to explore and express emotions via art created in the secure environment of the art therapy room. The child transfers “difficult” feelings into the object rather than acting them out. The therapist can then be informed of this. Strong emotions can be “contained” in the art, which also serves as a channel of communication between the kid and the art therapist. Some art therapists emphasize the play and physical enjoyment aspects of art therapy because they feel that a child’s psychological development will benefit from as much creative expression as possible. There are clinicians and art therapists who provide care to patients of all ages in a variety of practice settings, including hospitals, schools, private practices, psychiatric and rehabilitation centers, and crisis centers. The gravity of the impact that art therapy can have on vulnerable individuals is yet to be recognized across the world and has only gained recognition recently. One should consider including some art activities in their day, whether one needs to manage daily stress or is dealing with a mental health issue. Art therapy has shown a major impact in improving one’s mood and overall well-being. Talk to your therapist about considering art therapy and explore which art therapy works for you. – Urveez Kakalia and Krupa Abraham. |
2023.05.30 08:58 PrasadBharadhwaj శ్రీ లలితా చైతన్య విజ్ఞానము - 458 -1 / Sri Lalitha Chaitanya Vijnanam - 458 - 1
 | submitted by PrasadBharadhwaj to ChaitanyaVijnanam [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/432hg9qh2x2b1.jpg?width=820&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b2e004820d3d93083b32eead752768df7b5386ab 🌹. శ్రీ లలితా చైతన్య విజ్ఞానము - 458 -1 / Sri Lalitha Chaitanya Vijnanam - 458 - 1 🌹 🌻. లలితా సహస్ర నామముల తత్వ విచారణ 🌻 ✍️. సద్గురు శ్రీ కంభంపాటి పార్వతీ కుమార్ సేకరణ : ప్రసాద్ భరద్వాజ 🍁. మూల మంత్రము : ఓం ఐం హ్రీం శ్రీం శ్రీమాత్రే నమః 🍁 🍀 96. సుముఖీ, నళినీ, సుభ్రూః, శోభనా, సురనాయికా । కాలకంఠీ, కాంతిమతీ, క్షోభిణీ, సూక్ష్మరూపిణీ ॥ 96 ॥ 🍀 🌻 458. 'సుముఖీ' - 1 🌻 మంచి ముఖము కలది శ్రీమాత అని అర్థము. మంచి ముఖమనగా నేమి? జ్ఞానముచే ప్రకాశించు ముఖమే సుముఖము. ఆ ముఖము సర్వశుభములకు కారణమై యున్నది. అదే శోభనమగు ముఖము. జ్ఞానము కలవారి ముఖము ప్రకాశవంతమై యుండును. ఆ ప్రకాశము ఆకర్షణీయముగ నుండును. వారి కన్నులు, నవ్వు అత్యంత ఆకర్షణీయముగ వుండును. ఆ ముఖమును చూడగనే చూపరులకు ప్రకోపములన్నియూ ఉపశమించును. ప్రశాంతత కలుగును. ప్రసన్నమగు ముఖమై యుండుటచే ధ్యానమున ఉపకరించును. ఇచ్చట జ్ఞానముఖ మనగా ఇచ్ఛా జ్ఞాన క్రియల సమ్మేళనము కలిగిన ముఖమని తెలియవలెను. ఇట్టి ముఖారాధన జీవుల ఉద్ధారణకు ఎంతయో ఉపకరించును. సశేషం... 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 Sri Lalitha Chaitanya Vijnanam - 458 - 1 🌹 Contemplation of 1000 Names of Sri Lalitha Devi ✍️ Prasad Bharadwaj 🌻 96. Sumukhi nalini subhru shobhana suranaeika Karikanti kantimati kshobhini sukshmarupini ॥ 96 ॥ 🌻 🌻 458. 'Sumukhi' - 1 🌻 It means SriMata who has a good face. What is a good face? A face that shines with knowledge is willing. That face is the cause of all auspiciousness. The same beautiful face. The face of the wise is radiant. That brightness is attractive. Their eyes and smile are very attractive. Seeing that face relieves all anger in the onlookers. There will be peace. Having a pleasant face helps in meditation. Here we should know that the face of wisdom is a face that is a combination of will and knowledge and action. This facial worship is very helpful for the upliftment of living beings. Continues... 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹 |
2023.05.30 08:58 lpinformation3125 Ceramic Abrasive Disc Market: Competitive Dynamics & Global Outlook 2023
Ceramic abrasive disc is a synthetic abrasive that is extremely hard and durable. It has a longer lifespan than zirconium, which means even at a higher cost, ceramic could save you money in the long run. Ceramic abrasive discs are ideal when it comes to grinding most metals and work best with moderate pressure.
LPI (LP Information)' newest research report, the “Ceramic Abrasive Disc Industry Forecast” looks at past sales and reviews total world Ceramic Abrasive Disc sales in 2022, providing a comprehensive analysis by region and market sector of projected Ceramic Abrasive Disc sales for 2023 through 2029. With Ceramic Abrasive Disc sales broken down by region, market sector and sub-sector, this report provides a detailed analysis in US$ millions of the world Ceramic Abrasive Disc industry.
This Insight Report provides a comprehensive analysis of the global Ceramic Abrasive Disc landscape and highlights key trends related to product segmentation, company formation, revenue, and market share, latest development, and M&A activity. This report also analyzes the strategies of leading global companies with a focus on Ceramic Abrasive Disc portfolios and capabilities, market entry strategies, market positions, and geographic footprints, to better understand these firms’ unique position in an accelerating global Ceramic Abrasive Disc market.
This Insight Report evaluates the key market trends, drivers, and affecting factors shaping the global outlook for Ceramic Abrasive Disc and breaks down the forecast by type, by application, geography, and market size to highlight emerging pockets of opportunity. With a transparent methodology based on hundreds of bottom-up qualitative and quantitative market inputs, this study forecast offers a highly nuanced view of the current state and future trajectory in the global Ceramic Abrasive Disc.
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Global key Ceramic Abrasive Disc players cover PFERD, Mirka, 3M, Garant, Saint-Gobain, RHODIUS, CGW Abrasives, 4CR - KWK Holding GmbH & CO KG and Smirdex SA, etc. In terms of revenue, the global two largest companies occupied for a share nearly % in 2022.
This report presents a comprehensive overview, market shares, and growth opportunities of Ceramic Abrasive Disc market by product type, application, key players and key regions and countries.
Top Manufactures in Global Ceramic Abrasive Disc Includes:
PFERD
Mirka
3M
Garant
Saint-Gobain
RHODIUS
CGW Abrasives
4CR - KWK Holding GmbH & CO KG
Smirdex SA
Hermes
Extreme Abrasives
Eisenblätter
Market Segment by Type, covers:
Perforation
No Perforation
Market Segment by Applications, can be divided into:
Industrial
Construction
Agriculture
Military
Aerospace
In addition, this report discusses the key drivers influencing market growth, opportunities, the challenges and the risks faced by key manufacturers and the market as a whole. It also analyzes key emerging trends and their impact on present and future development.
For more report information, please contact us：https://www.lpinformationdata.com/contact-us
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LPI (LP Information)' newest research report, the “Ceramic Abrasive Disc Industry Forecast” looks at past sales and reviews total world Ceramic Abrasive Disc sales in 2022, providing a comprehensive analysis by region and market sector of projected Ceramic Abrasive Disc sales for 2023 through 2029. With Ceramic Abrasive Disc sales broken down by region, market sector and sub-sector, this report provides a detailed analysis in US$ millions of the world Ceramic Abrasive Disc industry.
This Insight Report provides a comprehensive analysis of the global Ceramic Abrasive Disc landscape and highlights key trends related to product segmentation, company formation, revenue, and market share, latest development, and M&A activity. This report also analyzes the strategies of leading global companies with a focus on Ceramic Abrasive Disc portfolios and capabilities, market entry strategies, market positions, and geographic footprints, to better understand these firms’ unique position in an accelerating global Ceramic Abrasive Disc market.
This Insight Report evaluates the key market trends, drivers, and affecting factors shaping the global outlook for Ceramic Abrasive Disc and breaks down the forecast by type, by application, geography, and market size to highlight emerging pockets of opportunity. With a transparent methodology based on hundreds of bottom-up qualitative and quantitative market inputs, this study forecast offers a highly nuanced view of the current state and future trajectory in the global Ceramic Abrasive Disc.
This report presents a comprehensive overview, market shares, and growth opportunities of Ceramic Abrasive Disc market by product type, application, key players and key regions and countries.
Get More Information on this Report：
https://www.lpinformationdata.com/reports/729960/ceramic-abrasive-disc-2029
Global key Ceramic Abrasive Disc players cover PFERD, Mirka, 3M, Garant, Saint-Gobain, RHODIUS, CGW Abrasives, 4CR - KWK Holding GmbH & CO KG and Smirdex SA, etc. In terms of revenue, the global two largest companies occupied for a share nearly % in 2022.
This report presents a comprehensive overview, market shares, and growth opportunities of Ceramic Abrasive Disc market by product type, application, key players and key regions and countries.
Top Manufactures in Global Ceramic Abrasive Disc Includes:
PFERD
Mirka
3M
Garant
Saint-Gobain
RHODIUS
CGW Abrasives
4CR - KWK Holding GmbH & CO KG
Smirdex SA
Hermes
Extreme Abrasives
Eisenblätter
Market Segment by Type, covers:
Perforation
No Perforation
Market Segment by Applications, can be divided into:
Industrial
Construction
Agriculture
Military
Aerospace
In addition, this report discusses the key drivers influencing market growth, opportunities, the challenges and the risks faced by key manufacturers and the market as a whole. It also analyzes key emerging trends and their impact on present and future development.
For more report information, please contact us：https://www.lpinformationdata.com/contact-us
LP INFORMATION (LPI) is a professional market report publisher based in America, providing high quality market research reports with competitive prices to help decision makers make informed decisions and take strategic actions to achieve excellent outcomes.We have an extensive library of reports on hundreds of technologies.Search for a specific term, or click on an industry to browse our reports by subject. Narrow down your results using our filters or sort by what’s important to you, such as publication date, price, or name.
LP INFORMATION
E-mail: [email protected]
Tel: +852-58080956(HK)/+86-13660489451(CN)
Add: 17890 Castleton St. Suite 369 City of Industry, CA 91748 US
Website: https://www.lpinformationdata.com
2023.05.30 08:58 RockinTheFloat Will the broader market follow the sell off in small cap stocks driven by retail?
I invest a lot in $0.01 stocks and so on. By "invest" I mean that I speculate, take huge risks and lose money. I'm noticing a trend lately where small cap stock prices for a lot of the tickers I follow have been slowly dwindling over the last few months.
I am starting to notice what looks like a correlation between the small cap stocks and the broader market where the major market indexes are all following the same trend as the small cap stocks but lagging a few months behind.
If you think about it, if investors need liquidity they're going to liquidate their riskiest investments first.
I think that there is a good chance that the broader market is going to follow that trend. I think this is initially driven by retail investors as they primarily determine the direction of small caps.
Could it be that people are slowly going broke and cashing out and that this trend will continue over the next year or so and gradually contribute to an overall market sell off?
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I am starting to notice what looks like a correlation between the small cap stocks and the broader market where the major market indexes are all following the same trend as the small cap stocks but lagging a few months behind.
If you think about it, if investors need liquidity they're going to liquidate their riskiest investments first.
I think that there is a good chance that the broader market is going to follow that trend. I think this is initially driven by retail investors as they primarily determine the direction of small caps.
Could it be that people are slowly going broke and cashing out and that this trend will continue over the next year or so and gradually contribute to an overall market sell off?
2023.05.30 08:58 sadwormboy jealous of my domme being with other subs (md/lg, poly)
I’d never been in a serious kink relationship, but now that I (28 sub/ lg) and my partner (28 domme/mommy) have been together for a year I’m feeling things I haven’t before.
While we’ve had an open relationship this whole time, she is just starting to go on dates with other people. I’m noticing that I’m feeling possessive over my status as her sub/lg, and the thought of her seeking out another lg and having similar scenes/dynamics as the ones we have makes me feel a little nauseous tbh. Age play to the extent that we do it is new to me, and I’ve never been this vulnerable and been pushed so far with someone before. Knowing that she’ll be doing similar things with other subs/lgs makes me feel so shitty. I’m trying to work through why this is, and I think it’s because ageplay feels really special to me, and I wish it was something only we experienced together. I don’t want to know she’s comparing me to someone else (even if it’s subconscious), and I don’t like thinking of her calling someone the things she calls me, or doing things to them that she does to me. The problem is, ageplay is our primary kink… kinda our bread and butter, so it’s unrealistic to put a boundary on ageplay as a whole with other dates. I also don’t like the idea of dictating what kind of sex is and isn’t acceptable with other people. I think this would be too hard to stick to.
How do you as a poly/open sub or domme deal with all this? Am I just not cut out for an open relationship?
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While we’ve had an open relationship this whole time, she is just starting to go on dates with other people. I’m noticing that I’m feeling possessive over my status as her sub/lg, and the thought of her seeking out another lg and having similar scenes/dynamics as the ones we have makes me feel a little nauseous tbh. Age play to the extent that we do it is new to me, and I’ve never been this vulnerable and been pushed so far with someone before. Knowing that she’ll be doing similar things with other subs/lgs makes me feel so shitty. I’m trying to work through why this is, and I think it’s because ageplay feels really special to me, and I wish it was something only we experienced together. I don’t want to know she’s comparing me to someone else (even if it’s subconscious), and I don’t like thinking of her calling someone the things she calls me, or doing things to them that she does to me. The problem is, ageplay is our primary kink… kinda our bread and butter, so it’s unrealistic to put a boundary on ageplay as a whole with other dates. I also don’t like the idea of dictating what kind of sex is and isn’t acceptable with other people. I think this would be too hard to stick to.
How do you as a poly/open sub or domme deal with all this? Am I just not cut out for an open relationship?
2023.05.30 08:57 Ok_Hyena_1302 Oh well, you’re gone not like it makes a difference
I didn’t get anything outta this anyways lol. Whether you’re here or not it’s like it wasn’t real anyways, no matter what you think of me. Zero effort….lol. It was all a big joke haha! Now we can all laugh. You think I’m some kind of awful person or whatever, but I mean…you never came around and you were talking to other women LOL. So does it matter? Nah. You didn’t give a fuck. And you think cause I chatted with some people I’m some kinda outrageous slut. It’s honestly ridiculous. Grow some balls and do something next time instead of stringing someone along and try to drive them fucking insane. And you fucking did! Maybe it was a big laugh for you. Whatever makes you feel better about you. I tried countless times and I know my truth. Don’t try to gaslight me and act like I did something to destroy this. If it was even a thing anyways. You said it wasn’t all imagination! But I know you like to keep shit in the DL and aren’t changing for shit and you like to punish me and deflect when getting called out. Massive fucking waste of time and energy. Then play more mind games and fakery. That’s hilarious. Then try to tell me I’m going crazy. No that’s not it. You didn’t do enough and you couldn’t step up and you can’t fucking function! I was happy at the beginning but the continual disappointments l—got sick of that shit. You never put effort into me and never cared and when I called it out you got defensive as shit. You hide shit. You’re just not that great of a person. If you were you’d make it right. But then make multiple accounts trying to bait me into sending pics to people to try to confirm I’m some kinda bad person when you never came around and kept me in uncertainty! I didn’t steer those conversations that say anyways. Dude you’re in your mid-30s grow the fuck up.
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2023.05.30 08:57 Gengar71 I’m from the USA, have only a high school diploma, and can only speak English. What are my options to find opportunities to study in the Netherlands?
I didn’t do very well in high school
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2023.05.30 08:57 TheDivineAlligator Just found out I've played "wrong" my entire 5e life
So apparently disadvantages and advantages don't stack in RAW
And natty 1 on attack roll doesn't mean you trip on your sword and die
And natty 20 on Seduce Dragon roll doesn't automatically entitle you to hawt draconic hanky panky
And you can't kill someone by casting create water into its lungs
Apparently, 5e does require reading comprehension. Also, DNDmemes lied to me.
Please write me 666 comments of unconditional support and give me 6666 updoots, my girldick is quivering in anticipation
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And natty 1 on attack roll doesn't mean you trip on your sword and die
And natty 20 on Seduce Dragon roll doesn't automatically entitle you to hawt draconic hanky panky
And you can't kill someone by casting create water into its lungs
Apparently, 5e does require reading comprehension. Also, DNDmemes lied to me.
Please write me 666 comments of unconditional support and give me 6666 updoots, my girldick is quivering in anticipation
2023.05.30 08:57 thelittlesip Need MRI but have no medical aid
Hi All! I’m in Johannesburg and need an urgent MRI. Problem is I don’t have medical aid and the soonest Charlotte Maxeke Johannesburg Academic Hospital can assist me is February next year. Has anyone been in a similar situation and what did you do? Does anyone know if I have any other options other than waiting until then? I’d appreciate any help. Thank you so much!
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2023.05.30 08:57 _serialhobbyist My partner might be moving away. I am unsure about long distance as an option.
Hi. My partner (NB25 he/they) and I (F23) have been dating for 6 months now. About 2 months in, he made it known to me that he was in the process of applying for a Finnish visa (we currently both live in Kenya) and has been trying to make this move for the past 5 years with no luck. He has been pursuing this relentlessly though and recently, there have been some major breakthroughs in this process. It's starting to look like the move might finally happen. I love him and support his decision, but often worry about what that will mean for our relationship since we haven't talked about it extensively - partly because we're not even sure if it's going to happen and would just like to focus on the present.
I cherish physical intimacy and this move might mean that we may not get to see each other for upto a year! I am not averse to LDR but I have never been in one where we are continents apart. I want to be present and enjoy my time with him (however long that ends up being) but this move is like a distant dark cloud that's inching closer and it's causing me so much anxiety.
Have any of you been in a situation like this? How was it like and how did you deal with it? (Alone and with your partner) Any tips on how to appraise this situation? I feel like I'm focusing on all the negatives and would appreciate different perspectives on this. Thanks!
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I cherish physical intimacy and this move might mean that we may not get to see each other for upto a year! I am not averse to LDR but I have never been in one where we are continents apart. I want to be present and enjoy my time with him (however long that ends up being) but this move is like a distant dark cloud that's inching closer and it's causing me so much anxiety.
Have any of you been in a situation like this? How was it like and how did you deal with it? (Alone and with your partner) Any tips on how to appraise this situation? I feel like I'm focusing on all the negatives and would appreciate different perspectives on this. Thanks!
2023.05.30 08:57 Bigtittysemigothgf Idols, their use of the n word and the invalidation of black feelings
I’ve been trying to post this on kpop r*nts (had to filter so this wouldnt get removed too lol) but it keeps getting removed so I’ll try it here. And let’s be nice lmaoo, I’m a new kpop fan, this is a my first post on such a big subreddit.
This is kinda long and all over the place but after seeing Aheyon being defended on tik tok for saying the N word, I have some thoughts I wanna get off.
I’d also like to start this by saying I am not attacking the girl, ik she’s young and honestly she has a chance to learn and grow from this so don’t come in my dms saying I’m being mean to a child. This is a GENERAL statement bc I’ve seen a pattern (which is interesting bc I’ve only been a kpop fan for bout 6 months)
As a black kpop Stan I’ve already learned to pack my patience and brush off a lot of stupid stuff. Like as sad as it is, famous non black people saying the N word isn’t anything new to me unfortunately but what annoys me off is seeing how people react to situations that directly involve black people is very interesting to me so I propose this question to the subreddit.
Why are people so quick to defend any idols use of the N word? Here are some of the arguments I’ve heard:
Does this mean I think people can’t redeem themselves? No ofc not, but then people get mad when black people don’t want to interact with some bc of their past actions, regardless on whatever you think they’re a big deal or not.
I’ve been called an “overly sensitive hater” for this so I’d like to hear y’all thought and opinions on the matter. Like genuinely. I’m a relatively new kpop fan so this is a huge culture shock to me. (even though a lot of the defenders I’ve seen are coming from the same country as me lol). Is this a new thing? Has the industry always been like this? Even hearing kpop songs with the n word in it is baffling to me.
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This is kinda long and all over the place but after seeing Aheyon being defended on tik tok for saying the N word, I have some thoughts I wanna get off.
I’d also like to start this by saying I am not attacking the girl, ik she’s young and honestly she has a chance to learn and grow from this so don’t come in my dms saying I’m being mean to a child. This is a GENERAL statement bc I’ve seen a pattern (which is interesting bc I’ve only been a kpop fan for bout 6 months)
As a black kpop Stan I’ve already learned to pack my patience and brush off a lot of stupid stuff. Like as sad as it is, famous non black people saying the N word isn’t anything new to me unfortunately but what annoys me off is seeing how people react to situations that directly involve black people is very interesting to me so I propose this question to the subreddit.
Why are people so quick to defend any idols use of the N word? Here are some of the arguments I’ve heard:
- they’re young! They didn’t know any better
- (When the person in question is like 18-30. Yes ik it’s a cultural difference but knowing that I’ve been called the N word by younger and at a younger age, this argument came as a shock to me lowkey lmao)
- they don’t learn about that in Korea
- All you have to do is log onto social media. I’m not going to say it’s IMPOSSIBLE to have never heard the N word and know it’s bad but it’s 2023. We all too old to be willfully ignorant. Especially if you’re a rapper who studies black culture)
- English isn’t their first language!
- (But the person will be fluent in English. Like they can’t find the word microwave in English but they can say the n word? And sometimes they be sounding a lil too comfortable…like this not the first time. )
- -it’s in a song! They didn’t know bettethey prolly said Naega (which is I believe the Korean word for you)
- (But the song was in English….)
- they mouthed it! They didn’t even say it
- WHEN IT BE LIVE AUDIO, NO BACKTRACK AND SOMETIMES NOT EVEN ON STAGE like help lmaoooo, also adding the N word into a song that doesn’t even have it is insane💀💀💀I have to laugh atp)
- they were told to do that! It’s not their fault
- (So it’s a company wide thing then cause a performance doesn’t just happen. Theres a ton of people involved in that so everyone heard that and no one said anything. And they themselves decided not to say anything?)
Does this mean I think people can’t redeem themselves? No ofc not, but then people get mad when black people don’t want to interact with some bc of their past actions, regardless on whatever you think they’re a big deal or not.
I’ve been called an “overly sensitive hater” for this so I’d like to hear y’all thought and opinions on the matter. Like genuinely. I’m a relatively new kpop fan so this is a huge culture shock to me. (even though a lot of the defenders I’ve seen are coming from the same country as me lol). Is this a new thing? Has the industry always been like this? Even hearing kpop songs with the n word in it is baffling to me.
2023.05.30 08:56 throwRA718283772726 I (21F) do not understand/know what to do about my 1 year relationship with my boyfriend’s (22M) continuous white lies
to start this off, i do not know if i am being dramatic or overreacting because i do have anxiety disorders, anxious attachment style, and OCD. so this is the way i think based off of my experiences and so i would like advice from people who see this from an outsiders perspective.
so my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year. he cheated on his last girlfriend when he was 18 and they continued their relationship to try to amend it but it was toxic and she was controlling and it ended up not working out. he has shown so much remorse and regret for cheating, so i do not think that is an issue in this relationship. however, when we first started dating, he hid messages (innocent messages that he proved to me on his laptop) from me because they were with another girl and lied about watching/looking up porn. this made our relationship start off rocky because i do not deal with liars. i knew about the cheating as it was disclosed to me during our talking stages, but i think he was so used to being so secretive because after he cheated his ex went crazy going through his phone and making him send her videos at random times of where he was and who he was with that he got scared and fell into old habits with me. we had a big talk and i said that as long as he is honest with me about whatever is going on, i will be open to talking about it. but, if he lies or covers things up, i will not deal with it. i have a huge fear of abandonment/betrayal so i am hypersensitive if i feel like i am being lied to. we talked about this and started to really understand each others needs. here and there he would lie to me about seeing naked women on social media and he hid it because he said he freaked out and lied because he would be scared of my response. once again, we talked about this and i told him that he needs to tell me things about other women or if he is going to watch porn because i want the trust to be there and i want open communication. he promised to me that he would always be open with me. he would keep things from me here and there about small things (that I wanted to know) but I begged until he ended up telling me.
6 months ago, he fell into a horrible depression when he did not graduate from college due to failing a single class and he has been unemployed. recent news to me showed that his mom does not really care about him, as she did nothing to help his mental health. she always gave him an incentive for her to send him money, and half the time she would not follow through and i can tell they have a very odd relationship. due to this, i think he started taking his anger out on me. i told him time and time again to stop and he continued to promise to stop but it kept happening. eventually it stopped because i got so fed up with it that i told him if he did it again i was done. it has been better between us overall, but i think i had put all my needs aside in these last 6 months taking care of him and holding him above ground.
about a month ago, I saw that he had looked up a girl on Tiktok. he told me it was because she was some famous golfers girlfriend and wanted to see why people were hating on him saying that the guy did not deserve her (he wanted to see if she was pretty, this is fine to me but with communication). i saw the search history and he did look that up, however there were suggested videos that I deem as disrespectful towards me if he watched them. i asked if he watched any of the videos and he said no, just the first one (the video of the girl with her boyfriend, the one he was originally looking for). however, i asked him to see his watch history and he did indeed watch the videos that were under it (maybe 2-3 videos). when i first asked about the videos, he said he didn't remember watching them, but when we both looked at the watch history (he obviously did watch them) he knew he did but kept denying it because he did not want me to think he had bad intentions. he went back and forth saying he "saw them" but did not click on them over and over. he finally admitted that he did scroll past them to see what the videos were but "did not remember at first and he did not want me to think he had ill intentions looking at them". to me this felt like lying. the videos were watched 3 days ago and i saw them last night, so it had been at most 3 days. i feel like i would remember if i did something like that.
since this, I have felt extreme anger towards him. when i bring this up he just says it isnt easy for him to open up at the level that i need. also, i have lied in our relationship about finishing during sex. i always tell him that i finish when i never have because he is so insecure that if he knew i was not finishing i know he would not have sex with me anymore. i ended up telling him this and he tells me that i am also a liar so i am not credible for calling him out because i also have continued to lie.
I just feel like I am at a loss because I'll ask for reassurance that he won't lie and I can trust him and he will give it to me, and then something else will happen. Am I being irrational and expecting too much or picking at things? I need unbiased advice. it seems as though I'm asking for so much and I don't understand why he isn't capable of just telling the truth. and he's holding my "lie" against me now and I feel completely invalidated. to me it’s almost like why are you promising to stop something and then repeating the same behavior? I feel disrespected. and then I hate him.
TLDR: am I asking for too much for my boyfriend of a year to tell me everything I’ve explicitly asked for and to expect him to not lie when he says he won’t?
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so my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year. he cheated on his last girlfriend when he was 18 and they continued their relationship to try to amend it but it was toxic and she was controlling and it ended up not working out. he has shown so much remorse and regret for cheating, so i do not think that is an issue in this relationship. however, when we first started dating, he hid messages (innocent messages that he proved to me on his laptop) from me because they were with another girl and lied about watching/looking up porn. this made our relationship start off rocky because i do not deal with liars. i knew about the cheating as it was disclosed to me during our talking stages, but i think he was so used to being so secretive because after he cheated his ex went crazy going through his phone and making him send her videos at random times of where he was and who he was with that he got scared and fell into old habits with me. we had a big talk and i said that as long as he is honest with me about whatever is going on, i will be open to talking about it. but, if he lies or covers things up, i will not deal with it. i have a huge fear of abandonment/betrayal so i am hypersensitive if i feel like i am being lied to. we talked about this and started to really understand each others needs. here and there he would lie to me about seeing naked women on social media and he hid it because he said he freaked out and lied because he would be scared of my response. once again, we talked about this and i told him that he needs to tell me things about other women or if he is going to watch porn because i want the trust to be there and i want open communication. he promised to me that he would always be open with me. he would keep things from me here and there about small things (that I wanted to know) but I begged until he ended up telling me.
6 months ago, he fell into a horrible depression when he did not graduate from college due to failing a single class and he has been unemployed. recent news to me showed that his mom does not really care about him, as she did nothing to help his mental health. she always gave him an incentive for her to send him money, and half the time she would not follow through and i can tell they have a very odd relationship. due to this, i think he started taking his anger out on me. i told him time and time again to stop and he continued to promise to stop but it kept happening. eventually it stopped because i got so fed up with it that i told him if he did it again i was done. it has been better between us overall, but i think i had put all my needs aside in these last 6 months taking care of him and holding him above ground.
about a month ago, I saw that he had looked up a girl on Tiktok. he told me it was because she was some famous golfers girlfriend and wanted to see why people were hating on him saying that the guy did not deserve her (he wanted to see if she was pretty, this is fine to me but with communication). i saw the search history and he did look that up, however there were suggested videos that I deem as disrespectful towards me if he watched them. i asked if he watched any of the videos and he said no, just the first one (the video of the girl with her boyfriend, the one he was originally looking for). however, i asked him to see his watch history and he did indeed watch the videos that were under it (maybe 2-3 videos). when i first asked about the videos, he said he didn't remember watching them, but when we both looked at the watch history (he obviously did watch them) he knew he did but kept denying it because he did not want me to think he had bad intentions. he went back and forth saying he "saw them" but did not click on them over and over. he finally admitted that he did scroll past them to see what the videos were but "did not remember at first and he did not want me to think he had ill intentions looking at them". to me this felt like lying. the videos were watched 3 days ago and i saw them last night, so it had been at most 3 days. i feel like i would remember if i did something like that.
since this, I have felt extreme anger towards him. when i bring this up he just says it isnt easy for him to open up at the level that i need. also, i have lied in our relationship about finishing during sex. i always tell him that i finish when i never have because he is so insecure that if he knew i was not finishing i know he would not have sex with me anymore. i ended up telling him this and he tells me that i am also a liar so i am not credible for calling him out because i also have continued to lie.
I just feel like I am at a loss because I'll ask for reassurance that he won't lie and I can trust him and he will give it to me, and then something else will happen. Am I being irrational and expecting too much or picking at things? I need unbiased advice. it seems as though I'm asking for so much and I don't understand why he isn't capable of just telling the truth. and he's holding my "lie" against me now and I feel completely invalidated. to me it’s almost like why are you promising to stop something and then repeating the same behavior? I feel disrespected. and then I hate him.
TLDR: am I asking for too much for my boyfriend of a year to tell me everything I’ve explicitly asked for and to expect him to not lie when he says he won’t?
2023.05.30 08:56 choco_samosa Feels like I ruin everything I touch
Ever since I was a child I had constantly been reminded that I ruin everything I come close to, it's I who's responsible for the things, bad thing particularly happening around me. Back then it had been limited to inanimate objects but I can see what they mean now. I'm a fucking curse to the people around me, nothing about me is the least bit likable I can't even do anything properly. I'll always just be there to hurt others.
There's no one in my life that can understand me, I should've gotten used to it by now but I haven't. It hurts. I don't want this pain anymore but i'm scared of commiting suicide. I'm just 15 man why is it me. Everyone I grew up with doesn't have it as bad as I do, I've seen, asked. There wasn't a point of my life to begin with
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There's no one in my life that can understand me, I should've gotten used to it by now but I haven't. It hurts. I don't want this pain anymore but i'm scared of commiting suicide. I'm just 15 man why is it me. Everyone I grew up with doesn't have it as bad as I do, I've seen, asked. There wasn't a point of my life to begin with
2023.05.30 08:55 foodtheif201 AITA for eating all the leftovers?
so, me (25m) and my roommate/friend (23f) work at the same place. our workplace only provides enough money on a food card for meals 3 times a week so 2 times a week we need to bring some from home.
my roommate hates anything to do with house chores and especially refuses to do any cooking. while i don’t actively enjoy it, i see it as any other chore. since i’m making some food for myself anyway, i always make some for her as well so she doesn’t have to pay for takeout (what she did before i started working with her) because she’s in a not-great place financially.
with time we’ve definitely fallen into a habit with it and sometimes she does help me with cooking.
on sunday i made for food for monday, she didn’t help me with cooking and i made curry and rice for us. we cleaned the house in monday evening and i realized i didn’t make food for tuesday (today), so i took all the leftovers with me which was a smallish meal’s worth because i didn’t want to use my food card today.
I didn’t organize any food or communicate this to my roommate. So today during break, she used her food card and then saw I took the leftovers from home got pretty upset with me for not telling her so we could make something together instead.
But I only decided to later in the evening and honestly didn’t have the energy to cook again then. And it’s food I made.
She says it’s food that was both of ours, and in any case I should have told her at least because I know she relies on me for cooking.
I feel pretty conflicted because I didn’t think it was that big a deal, but I also recognize I took the leftovers of a shared meal for myself and didn’t tell her so she’ll either have to pay for a meal herself or ask my other roommate to cook for her (I don’t like cooking just for others because it’s an annoying chore, though i’ll do it if she’s sick or something).
This is extra bad because she did make a comment about there not being enough leftovers for both of us to take to work so i’ll/we’ll have to cook again this week.
so, AITA for taking all the leftovers for myself?
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my roommate hates anything to do with house chores and especially refuses to do any cooking. while i don’t actively enjoy it, i see it as any other chore. since i’m making some food for myself anyway, i always make some for her as well so she doesn’t have to pay for takeout (what she did before i started working with her) because she’s in a not-great place financially.
with time we’ve definitely fallen into a habit with it and sometimes she does help me with cooking.
on sunday i made for food for monday, she didn’t help me with cooking and i made curry and rice for us. we cleaned the house in monday evening and i realized i didn’t make food for tuesday (today), so i took all the leftovers with me which was a smallish meal’s worth because i didn’t want to use my food card today.
I didn’t organize any food or communicate this to my roommate. So today during break, she used her food card and then saw I took the leftovers from home got pretty upset with me for not telling her so we could make something together instead.
But I only decided to later in the evening and honestly didn’t have the energy to cook again then. And it’s food I made.
She says it’s food that was both of ours, and in any case I should have told her at least because I know she relies on me for cooking.
I feel pretty conflicted because I didn’t think it was that big a deal, but I also recognize I took the leftovers of a shared meal for myself and didn’t tell her so she’ll either have to pay for a meal herself or ask my other roommate to cook for her (I don’t like cooking just for others because it’s an annoying chore, though i’ll do it if she’s sick or something).
This is extra bad because she did make a comment about there not being enough leftovers for both of us to take to work so i’ll/we’ll have to cook again this week.
so, AITA for taking all the leftovers for myself?
2023.05.30 08:55 ivychen300 Small Pitch LED Screen Market to Witness Robust Expansion by 2023
LPI (LP Information)' newest research report, the “Small Pitch LED Screen Industry Forecast” looks at past sales and reviews total world Small Pitch LED Screen sales in 2022, providing a comprehensive analysis by region and market sector of projected Small Pitch LED Screen sales for 2023 through 2029. With Small Pitch LED Screen sales broken down by region, market sector and sub-sector, this report provides a detailed analysis in US$ millions of the world Small Pitch LED Screen industry.
This Insight Report provides a comprehensive analysis of the global Small Pitch LED Screen landscape and highlights key trends related to product segmentation, company formation, revenue, and market share, latest development, and M&A activity. This report also analyzes the strategies of leading global companies with a focus on Small Pitch LED Screen portfolios and capabilities, market entry strategies, market positions, and geographic footprints, to better understand these firms' unique position in an accelerating global Small Pitch LED Screen market.
This report presents a comprehensive overview, market shares, and growth opportunities of Small Pitch LED Screen market by product type, application, key manufacturers and key regions and countries.
https://www.lpinformationdata.com/reports/729660/small-pitch-led-screen-2029
The main participants
Visualpower
Unilumin
Leyard
Yaham
Ledman
Absen
Sansitech
Huarui Display
Lopu
Segmentation by type
P1.2-P1.5
P1.6-P1.9
P2.0-P2.5
Segmentation by application
Commercial Display
Conference Rooms
Advertising
Others
Key Questions Addressed in this Report
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What factors are driving Small Pitch LED Screen market growth, globally and by region?
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This Insight Report provides a comprehensive analysis of the global Small Pitch LED Screen landscape and highlights key trends related to product segmentation, company formation, revenue, and market share, latest development, and M&A activity. This report also analyzes the strategies of leading global companies with a focus on Small Pitch LED Screen portfolios and capabilities, market entry strategies, market positions, and geographic footprints, to better understand these firms' unique position in an accelerating global Small Pitch LED Screen market.
This report presents a comprehensive overview, market shares, and growth opportunities of Small Pitch LED Screen market by product type, application, key manufacturers and key regions and countries.
https://www.lpinformationdata.com/reports/729660/small-pitch-led-screen-2029
The main participants
Visualpower
Unilumin
Leyard
Yaham
Ledman
Absen
Sansitech
Huarui Display
Lopu
Segmentation by type
P1.2-P1.5
P1.6-P1.9
P2.0-P2.5
Segmentation by application
Commercial Display
Conference Rooms
Advertising
Others
Key Questions Addressed in this Report
What is the 10-year outlook for the global Small Pitch LED Screen market?
What factors are driving Small Pitch LED Screen market growth, globally and by region?
Which technologies are poised for the fastest growth by market and region?
How do Small Pitch LED Screen market opportunities vary by end market size?
How does Small Pitch LED Screen break out type, application?
What are the influences of COVID-19 and Russia-Ukraine war?
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2023.05.30 08:55 kaokitty People have no idea what autism really is. (+personal anecdote)
I swear.... Most people seem to think autism is only the caricature that you see on TV. This is harmful because it prevents people from being diagnosed and understanding their needs and limits. Even with diagnosis, people and workplaces do not understand how to truly accommodate for you because they dont know what they are accomodating for.
Personal anecdote relating to the situation: last night, I was approached by an old neighbor of mine. She told me a story about one time when I was a small kid, I was repeating one "inappropriate" (but harmless) word over and over. People said it wasn't appropriate, and I wasn't phased. I kept repeating it. I want to stress that I didn't get in trouble for this as I was just having a potty mouth, not harming anyone. (There were COUNTLESS incidents of me saying things that shocked adults or were "too honest" as a kid... looking back I now clearly see this was my autism.) I explained this revelation to her and she said, "OH, the fact that you can even SAY that you have autism means you aren't autistic." LIKE, WHAT????? WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?????!?! And her POV seems to represent the public. Even therapists aren't really educated on autism. Even I wasn't until a few years back, because the information wasn't presented to me until I found resources online that made everything make sense.
It would've made my life so much more liveable if the information had been presented to me sooner. It would make my life so much more liveable if I weren't discriminated against in the workplace, advocating for my needs during the interview process. It would save my life to make a liveable wage on hours that don't cause burnout. But society isn't ready for that conversation. :/
(This was not short at all. My apologies friends, and thank you for reading.)
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Personal anecdote relating to the situation: last night, I was approached by an old neighbor of mine. She told me a story about one time when I was a small kid, I was repeating one "inappropriate" (but harmless) word over and over. People said it wasn't appropriate, and I wasn't phased. I kept repeating it. I want to stress that I didn't get in trouble for this as I was just having a potty mouth, not harming anyone. (There were COUNTLESS incidents of me saying things that shocked adults or were "too honest" as a kid... looking back I now clearly see this was my autism.) I explained this revelation to her and she said, "OH, the fact that you can even SAY that you have autism means you aren't autistic." LIKE, WHAT????? WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?????!?! And her POV seems to represent the public. Even therapists aren't really educated on autism. Even I wasn't until a few years back, because the information wasn't presented to me until I found resources online that made everything make sense.
It would've made my life so much more liveable if the information had been presented to me sooner. It would make my life so much more liveable if I weren't discriminated against in the workplace, advocating for my needs during the interview process. It would save my life to make a liveable wage on hours that don't cause burnout. But society isn't ready for that conversation. :/
(This was not short at all. My apologies friends, and thank you for reading.)
2023.05.30 08:55 Less_Maximum4582 My sister will not give my siblings our inheritance money
This is a very complex long situation but please hear me out.
California I am a 22 year old, I have 3 other siblings all over the age of 40, my older sister(A), a brother, and an eldest sister(J). Last year my sister(A) and I were taking care of our mother who was passing away from cancer. My mom was staying at my sisters(A) house and was in hospice care. My mother signed off her rights to her and made her as an executor of her assets. My mom was very sick and could barely sign her name or write a will. She declined rapidly in her health in a short amount of time.
Basically when my mom moved into my sisters(A) house, the house my mom was living in was being sold for 350,000. I had to go over there, clean it out, move things to the storage unit and go and help take care of her. My mom later passed away, made it clear that I would get her car (it is a salvaged Durango, no one wanted it but me who had no car initially) and the money would be split evenly.
I also took the burden of cleaning out the storage unit for my siblings myself while pregnant, also to get rid of the monthly bill on it. They were going to throw everything away so I took alot of it, gave it away, or sold it.
My oldest sister(J), she lives in Texas and to put it lightly she has never had the best relationship with my mom or any of us, we still have always kept in contact with her anyway because she is family. Well during my moms death my sister(J) never said goodbye in person, she never attended her funeral, and she went to her wedding vow renewal party instead. This caused a huge fight between them and my sister(A) blocked her and refuses to have anything to do with her.
My sister(J), still will contact me and my brother asking about it and we will ask for her and my sister(A) will get very defensive over it. My sister(A) has told me recently she doesn't want to give her anything and feels she shouldn't have it. It is so hard to bring it up and ask about it because she either "doesn't want to deal with it" "there is no money" or I have to wait for whatever reason or another.
Can she legally do this? No one has gotten anything, yet I've noticed she has gotten her bathroom redone, gone on trips, and flooring redone on her house etc. Meanwhile I've been struggling severely and they are well aware of that, only giving me some of the money when they feel its okay to since I am not mature enough to handle money like that thinking I would be reckless when I am in medical debt, IRS debt, my car is falling apart and my washing machine broke. They practically told me to sell my car.
I am not sure what to do, or if my sister(J) could take legal action of her. I don't feel its right to withhold money like that, but she is the executor she can do whatever she wants since there is no written will I am guessing? What can I do? I don't want to ruin my relationship with my sister(A) over all of this, but I am worried she could do the same thing she's doing to my other sister(J) just for wanting my half of the money.
What sort of legal grounds does she have with all of this? Nothing is under probate or anything.
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California I am a 22 year old, I have 3 other siblings all over the age of 40, my older sister(A), a brother, and an eldest sister(J). Last year my sister(A) and I were taking care of our mother who was passing away from cancer. My mom was staying at my sisters(A) house and was in hospice care. My mother signed off her rights to her and made her as an executor of her assets. My mom was very sick and could barely sign her name or write a will. She declined rapidly in her health in a short amount of time.
Basically when my mom moved into my sisters(A) house, the house my mom was living in was being sold for 350,000. I had to go over there, clean it out, move things to the storage unit and go and help take care of her. My mom later passed away, made it clear that I would get her car (it is a salvaged Durango, no one wanted it but me who had no car initially) and the money would be split evenly.
I also took the burden of cleaning out the storage unit for my siblings myself while pregnant, also to get rid of the monthly bill on it. They were going to throw everything away so I took alot of it, gave it away, or sold it.
My oldest sister(J), she lives in Texas and to put it lightly she has never had the best relationship with my mom or any of us, we still have always kept in contact with her anyway because she is family. Well during my moms death my sister(J) never said goodbye in person, she never attended her funeral, and she went to her wedding vow renewal party instead. This caused a huge fight between them and my sister(A) blocked her and refuses to have anything to do with her.
My sister(J), still will contact me and my brother asking about it and we will ask for her and my sister(A) will get very defensive over it. My sister(A) has told me recently she doesn't want to give her anything and feels she shouldn't have it. It is so hard to bring it up and ask about it because she either "doesn't want to deal with it" "there is no money" or I have to wait for whatever reason or another.
Can she legally do this? No one has gotten anything, yet I've noticed she has gotten her bathroom redone, gone on trips, and flooring redone on her house etc. Meanwhile I've been struggling severely and they are well aware of that, only giving me some of the money when they feel its okay to since I am not mature enough to handle money like that thinking I would be reckless when I am in medical debt, IRS debt, my car is falling apart and my washing machine broke. They practically told me to sell my car.
I am not sure what to do, or if my sister(J) could take legal action of her. I don't feel its right to withhold money like that, but she is the executor she can do whatever she wants since there is no written will I am guessing? What can I do? I don't want to ruin my relationship with my sister(A) over all of this, but I am worried she could do the same thing she's doing to my other sister(J) just for wanting my half of the money.
What sort of legal grounds does she have with all of this? Nothing is under probate or anything.
2023.05.30 08:54 KatharineWrites What I've learned in my 1st year of SEO
It's been 12 months since I started seriously engaging with SEO. Here are 9 things I have learned:
1) One of the beauties of the world of SEO is that - with the right strategy and some smart thinking - the Davids really can take on the Goliaths.
The reason I got into SEO was to try and improve the visibility of my legal translation website. I am a legal translator translating from German into English: my main markets are Germany and Austria. Looking at the top-ranking sites for my focus keywords, the scene was dominated by huge agencies, offering translations for many language pairs and subject areas. As a highly-specialised one-woman-show, I was doubtful about whether I would be able to compete.
Answer: Yes, I can! With the right strategy and consistency in implementation, I've managed to achieve several first-page rankings. I'm right up there amongst the Goliaths!
2) Persistence pays off
I'm only seeing the good results I am with SEO because I kept at it. If you just do SEO for a couple of months and then give up, you'll never get anywhere.
SEO goes on, and on, and ON...a bit like Céline Dion's heart in the late 90s.
3) Invest in SEO like you would invest in a friendship or other relationship
Do you invest in your relationships with an eye to gaining a specific, short-term advantage from those people? No, of course not. SEO is the same: it's an investment you have to make with a certain amount of faith and goodwill, because there are no guaranteed results.
4) When those results do turn up, it is SO motivating
Because success in SEO is not an overnight thing, it's all the more satisfying when results do start to show. You see those impressions and clicks ticking up and it makes you want to do more, be even better. In no time, you're a total SEO nerd.
5) Getting backlinks is really, REALLY hard
I understand why lots of companies buy them in spite of the risks. Just getting one organic backlink involves a ton of work.
6) Don't obsess too much on the data
Analysing data (keyword search volumes, traffic data etc.) is an important part of SEO...but focusing on it exclusively might negatively affect your long-term SEO success. Don't let a data fixation distract you from creating a website which your target users love and want to come back to. When all is said and done, they are who you are building your website for - not the search engines.
7) When it comes to content, quality beats quantity every time
It's best to spend time putting together a piece of unique content that carries real value for your users than to pump out 5 pieces of content that repeat what 20 other SEOs have already said.
8) Understanding search intent is key
Failing to analyse the true search intent behind the keywords you are basing your strategy around is going to result in a ton of waste and useless clicks later on in the game.
Make sure you've understood what users are actually looking for when they enter a keyword/keyphrase into the search engine. Is your content really delivering what they want/need?
9) There's always more to do
I feel like I've learned and achieved a lot in my first year of SEO...but also like I've still got so much still to do. I can see weak spots in my strategy, my URLs weren't optimised properly, certain things haven't worked out the way I wanted and I need to work out why, other pieces of content did far better than I thought...it goes on!
Can anyone identify with my experiences? What were the biggest lessons you learned when you first started with SEO?
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1) One of the beauties of the world of SEO is that - with the right strategy and some smart thinking - the Davids really can take on the Goliaths.
The reason I got into SEO was to try and improve the visibility of my legal translation website. I am a legal translator translating from German into English: my main markets are Germany and Austria. Looking at the top-ranking sites for my focus keywords, the scene was dominated by huge agencies, offering translations for many language pairs and subject areas. As a highly-specialised one-woman-show, I was doubtful about whether I would be able to compete.
Answer: Yes, I can! With the right strategy and consistency in implementation, I've managed to achieve several first-page rankings. I'm right up there amongst the Goliaths!
2) Persistence pays off
I'm only seeing the good results I am with SEO because I kept at it. If you just do SEO for a couple of months and then give up, you'll never get anywhere.
SEO goes on, and on, and ON...a bit like Céline Dion's heart in the late 90s.
3) Invest in SEO like you would invest in a friendship or other relationship
Do you invest in your relationships with an eye to gaining a specific, short-term advantage from those people? No, of course not. SEO is the same: it's an investment you have to make with a certain amount of faith and goodwill, because there are no guaranteed results.
4) When those results do turn up, it is SO motivating
Because success in SEO is not an overnight thing, it's all the more satisfying when results do start to show. You see those impressions and clicks ticking up and it makes you want to do more, be even better. In no time, you're a total SEO nerd.
5) Getting backlinks is really, REALLY hard
I understand why lots of companies buy them in spite of the risks. Just getting one organic backlink involves a ton of work.
6) Don't obsess too much on the data
Analysing data (keyword search volumes, traffic data etc.) is an important part of SEO...but focusing on it exclusively might negatively affect your long-term SEO success. Don't let a data fixation distract you from creating a website which your target users love and want to come back to. When all is said and done, they are who you are building your website for - not the search engines.
7) When it comes to content, quality beats quantity every time
It's best to spend time putting together a piece of unique content that carries real value for your users than to pump out 5 pieces of content that repeat what 20 other SEOs have already said.
8) Understanding search intent is key
Failing to analyse the true search intent behind the keywords you are basing your strategy around is going to result in a ton of waste and useless clicks later on in the game.
Make sure you've understood what users are actually looking for when they enter a keyword/keyphrase into the search engine. Is your content really delivering what they want/need?
9) There's always more to do
I feel like I've learned and achieved a lot in my first year of SEO...but also like I've still got so much still to do. I can see weak spots in my strategy, my URLs weren't optimised properly, certain things haven't worked out the way I wanted and I need to work out why, other pieces of content did far better than I thought...it goes on!
Can anyone identify with my experiences? What were the biggest lessons you learned when you first started with SEO?
2023.05.30 08:54 LoLingSoHard Does anyone know what causes this kind of lag in juiced maps?
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2023.05.30 08:54 hry84 Never Use Cliches, Avoid Them Like the Plague
Does your story begin with a character waking up in the morning to an alarm clock? That's hot garbage, because it's a cliche. Never use cliches. Avoid them like the plague. Avoid them like you avoided people during the pandemic.
Cliches are awful, just awful. No great writer has ever used cliches. They were always completely original. Just look at Shakespeare's writing. He literally invented new words, and phrases.
In a pickle? WTF is that? I don't know but it's original. That's classic Shakespeare. Nothing he wrote was a cliche at the time, and that's why we read his stories, and watch his plays to this day.
And isn't that what you want? Longevity? Don't you want to live on for ever with your writing.
Well, that will only happen if you're original, which means absolutely avoiding cliches. Don't even use a single one. Learn all of the cliches, and learn to avoid using them. That's the only way to success in writing.
If you use cliches, you're a hack, and you should quit writing. Writing is all about being original, and saying things that have never been said before.
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Cliches are awful, just awful. No great writer has ever used cliches. They were always completely original. Just look at Shakespeare's writing. He literally invented new words, and phrases.
In a pickle? WTF is that? I don't know but it's original. That's classic Shakespeare. Nothing he wrote was a cliche at the time, and that's why we read his stories, and watch his plays to this day.
And isn't that what you want? Longevity? Don't you want to live on for ever with your writing.
Well, that will only happen if you're original, which means absolutely avoiding cliches. Don't even use a single one. Learn all of the cliches, and learn to avoid using them. That's the only way to success in writing.
If you use cliches, you're a hack, and you should quit writing. Writing is all about being original, and saying things that have never been said before.