Birthday gifs for her

Hi,
I love my partner no matter what but I feel helpless when it comes to this. It is her biggest insecurity and tends to affect a lot of her life.
She's had hair loss since I've known her years ago but it never bothered me. Recently it has become worse and much more visible on the back and top of her head. I suppose I am unsure if I should mention this or just leave her to it?
I don't know if she has seen a dermatologist about it or if it is just one doctors opinion. I love her no matter what but I always wonder if there was an option to of explored that she didn't realise how sad that would be. As I know she'd obviously love to no deal with any of this.
Not worded the best but I suppose any advice for how I can help support her the most?

So my birthday is coming up I’ll be 31! I didn’t really celebrate madly last year because I was pregnant but now I have my little one I’ll want to include her so I was thinking about day time activities I could do. My LO will be 8 months by that point and a few of my friends also have kids but their ages all range from 8 months, 2 years, 10 years old so it will be up to them to bring their kids. I want to do something fun and cheerful but also where I can bring my little bubs along without having to worry about it.
Any ideas would be appreciated!

Hi all!!
I recently got my first fish about a month and a half ago. She’s a female koi betta named Keyleth and I’m obsessed with her. I had a fully cycled tank when I first got her and have had pretty steady water quality sense (currently reading at 0.0 ppm, 0.0 ppm and 10 ppm) . She’s always been pretty spirited and likes swimming through tubes and biting my hands when I’m cleaning her tank but recently she’s been incredibly active. Like to the point of it seeming a bit excessive. She’s not really resting in her hammock or floating log or on the bottom of her tank the way she used to and she’ll swim in these tiny little circles 6 or 7 times before dashing from one side of her tank to the others over and over.
I’d like to think this is good sign of her just settling into her new home and feeling comfortable but my first time fish owner anxiety is taking over and telling me that it shouldn’t have taken this long for her behavior to change and it means something’s wrong.
I got her from petsmart and she’d been living in the standard dirty/cold/tiny cup for at least a 3 weeks and I know when they’re mistreated at big box stores like that they can really suddenly start getting sick even after they’ve been in better living conditions for a few months. I just want to make sure she’s alright.
And advise is appreciated!

I am 22(transfemale) and I have a boyfriend (trans male->nonbinary, important later on) who recently celebrated their 22nd birthday as well.
We have known each other existed since 1st grade, became friends in 3rd grade, and then closer friends in 6th.
A lot of his other friends left him in middle school, and I was one of the 2 who stayed with him when he came out in 8th grade. I even got my parents to use his right name and pronouns, which I personally thought was impressive, as I and my three older siblings (now 26 nonbinary, 25m, 23f)grew up going to church (Salvation Army I'll go more into it later on.)
I kind of...knew I wasn't cis/straight throughout most of highschool, but considering my parents (who are now 55f and 70+m, honestly i stopped keeping track at 60) I didn't really look too deep into it.
My now bf, who was just a friend at the time, took me to a Queer Prom when we were in grade 11, where I dressed in a suit, with a women's blazer, heels, and makeup. I hated the fake nails but loved everything else. We went again the next year when we were in grade 12, and I brought my actual Prom Suit from highschool to the Queer one as well. I enjoyed the Queer one more.
It was about 2 years ago that I realized I wanted to be a girl. I looked back on myself and my childhood, which I'll briefly name some of the things that should have tipped me off;
• I liked wearing clear coat glitter nail polish, one sunday morning when I put some on myself and my mom noticed she said we didn't have time to buy nail polish remover, and come home to take it off. So she made me wear gloves, we bought remover from the store, and then she took me into the women's bathroom to remove it myself as she yelled at me to hurry up. • I loved watching the Disney princess movies growing up. Animation over gritty live action any day. • A lot of tv shows I liked were actually geared more towards girls (Atomic Betty, Kim Possible, Totally Spies, Ruby Gloom) or the ones I did like watching that were for boys (Martin Mystery, Hot Wheels, Johnny Test, Foster's Home) I always enjoyed the female characters more. At the time I thought it was crushes, but what I was actually feeling was an aspiration to look like them. I always thought they were pretty and had fun personalities. But not ones I wanted to date, ones I wanted to have. •Up until puberty struck, I had one guy friend and then almost entirely a female friend group.
I can make another post entirely about my teenage years, but moving forward to living alone in 2021 I realized I was transgender. I wanted to be a girl. I told my friends who all supported me. I supported my oldest siblings, when they came out in 2022. They even privately talked to me about it and thats when I slipped out and told them about me. This was also when that long, LONG time friend and I started going out. We dated like three different times throughout the school year but both wanted to be serious for this one.
In 2023 I came out fully to everyone on my birthday. Coworkers, Boss, All my friends, family. Everyone said they were happy for me. But my parents still use my old name and pronouns. My dad I sort of written off, all my siblings think he's going senile anyway, so...I personally think getting him to do it is a lost cause, but my mother is the same way. Using female pronouns for my oldest siblings. However, I assumed because she changed and used the proper name and pronouns for my boyfriend then she would do the same for me, right?
We just had a talk today, where she asked how long we were dating, me and my boyfriend. Because she wanted to compare when I came out (to her, I came out this year but realized well before now) with when I started dating. Note that, this isn't my first significant other either, I just never told her about all my other ones. Another story for another day but my mother loves to know everything even if it requires invading personal space and privacy.
...she just wants her "sweet innocent boy to come back to her", she wants me her obedient quiet child to never speak up or voice my opinion. I moved out. I only interact with my mother for holidays and because of a family plan phone bill (40$ a month for me, 4GB and unlimited texting and calling), but this just feels...so invalidating. They think my boyfriend who I've known forever is taking advantage of me and using me for my money, which is not true. My boyfriend gets uncomfortable whenever I pay for meals or gifts for him. It's true he has a bit of a money issue, it's because of health problems and only getting 2 shifts a week at his work, to pay for gas, rent from parents, and medication. I have more disposable income than he does, so I pay for more dates. It's that simple. I only interact with my dad whenever I can't get a taxi to work and I pay him about 4$ for that. I have no license or car. I actually just applied to get a credit card a week ago, one step closer to getting my phone off the parent's bill.
I just feel...invalidated. I've felt it a bit through my life from my parents, but knowing that they don't see me for who I am or who I'm comfortable being, and instead want the child they know back, the child that was in the closet, didnt speak up, the personality I made so they wouldn't question me.

This all first started when the girl who im going to call Amy for anonymity purposes was told on by another student for vaping in the school restrooms and blowing the smoke into the face of the students friend. After this the principal said she would do something about it and basically just told Amy don’t do it again. After about a week in the middle of art class Amy told her friend that I sexually assaulted her twice about a year ago and Amy’s friend being a close friend of mine ask me about this. I explained to her that I didn’t do what she is accusing me of and that if she could get Amy to in wording say that I SA’d her. After i got these screenshots I went to my school principal and she looked at the images and called the girl in to the office and basically told her this is unacceptable and you cannot be doing this. The principal told us that what she accused me of will be investigated. After a day passed the principal told me that Amy confessed she was lying and didn’t except me to take it that far and that she is receiving punishment. A the weekend passes and she is back at school all happily after making my life a living hell with the way people looked at me for something i didn’t do. The second part that reassured me something was up and the principal was protecting Amy was that when she was caught with a vape for the third time she wasn’t expelled she was given a day of OSS compared to my friend who was play fighting and got 3 days of OSS.
Principal is a female
What can I do about Amy doing whatever she pleases without punishment?

Been awhile since I have posted here. Cliff note version of my trauma(s). Dad killed mom when I was 1 year. 18 years of childhood hell. Fixed myself. Had a daughter with congenital heart condition and after massive effort to help her make it, I watched her die at age 3. Then 11 years of copious drinking to cope, only to die at the bottom of a pool drunk. 3 days my family was told I was brain dead, but I woke. Now, I'm here. 4 years sober and free from my past. I am "cured". Let me explain what cured means. I am not triggered my memories of my past. I just get triggered like everyone else does. Life triggers normies too. But, my past no longer comes flooding back. I continue to have a very sensitive limbic system. When life triggers me, my adrenaline response is much higher than a normie, but the difference between now and then, is my brain and body no longer fears it because my primitive brain doesn't believe that my trauma(s) are happening all over again.
How did I accomplish this?
For starters, I don't abuse substances. Period. Nothing will ever change is you are abusing drugs or alcohol. That must stop before the real work begins.
What do you mean by "real work"?
I mean, you gotta do the opposite of what you are doing now. Most of you when triggered do whatever you possibly can to shut that shit down. You bury it or you cover it up with substances. You don't let it wash over you and let it dissipate on its own accord. Why? Because who wants to feel those feelings or think those associated thoughts? Sorry to inform, but you must.
Why?
Simple. It's literally how your brain is wired. It's your primitive brain (amygdala) versus your thinking brain (prefrontal cortex). The pathways from the primitive brain to your thinking brain are super highways, but only back channels, side streets, and alley ways in reverse.
What does that mean?
When you are triggered, you cannot tell your primitive brain to chill out. You can't tell it that the trauma was actually 10 years ago and it's not happening right now. All it knows is it's triggered and freaks out in an effort to "save you".
How does this explain my intense reaction 10 years later?
Because you have a memory. You remember the trauma, your primitive brain freaks out because your adrenaline surges. But its One way communication. It's the same reason a herd of gazelle can watch one of their brothers be mauled by lion and 5 minutes later go back to munching grass like nothing ever happened. There is no thinking brain. Just a primitive brain. Gazelles don't get PTSD.
So what's the fix?
It begins Life Style Changes and pre-workout. It's is best to do all of the following under guidance of a licensed counselor especially trained in trauma informed care and CBT, but you can DIY. I did.
1.Stop drinking and using drugs. That's number 1. For obvious reasons, but you also can't be numbing yourself if you are going to train your primitive brain over time that the trauma is actually in the past. Think of it as downloading information. Those side street communication pathways are like 32k dial up internet speed. It'll take time.

1. Learn Copings skills to manage anxiety etc. And most importantly is to learn how to assertively care for yourself.

What does that mean?
It means you are #1. You come first and you carve out time each day engaging in things you enjoy, interest you and/ or pleasurable. You gotta develop these things. You also need to learn the 10 assertive rights of an individual as well as boundaries.
Now what? You do the work. This means dedicating whatever time you can handle each day processing your trauma. (Every single day). Maybe it's just 5 minutes maybe it's 30. The point being you try. The time will increase overtime. Thos could be a counseling session but doing this once a week in counsing is never enough and it will take you forever. You coudd spend time journaling your story. Coming to this site to read other peoples stories. Or maybe it's just think about the trauma. It's a conscience effort to do it but you are in control. Not your stupid primitive brain freaking out and forcing you to relive it.
For how long?
For just short of what you can handle. Could be 5 minute. Could be 1 hour, but no more than 1 hour. And while doing it, you engage in coping skills that you can also do at the same time: squeezing a stress ball, listening to relaxing music. Shit that helps you to stay grounded and present.
Then what?
This is the most important part. You have processed and now you are triggered. At the end of your time. 5 minutes to one hour sitting in the shit. You must immediately engage in a favorite assertive self care activity for a hour or at least until the adrenaline dissipates and you return to a baseline.
For me. And really anytime I feel really triggered.. because I still get adrenaline surges.. I kill shit on Xbox. So effective for me. You just have to find your things. Maybe it's crafting, waking and listening to music, watching a favorite show, cooking, video games, exercise etc.
What results can I expect?
Overtime you will increase the time you are able to spend time with your trauma and decrease the time it takes level off and return to baseline. You will slowly teach your primitive brain that the trauma is in the past and you no longer need to fear those feelings. You are safe.
You also you find yourself with a much more fulfilling life as you will constantly be assertively caring for yourself.
This IS NOT EZ. It is hard. You are literally doing what we should all have done when the trauma happened. But, you will see results faster than you think. If you are committed and do the work, you could see noticeable results in a few months or less. Probably less.
It's a new way of living. And it only continues to get better.
Lastly, I will repeat that although I DIYed this, I don't recommend. It is best to do this work under guidance of a therapist and especially to help you develop the skills necessary to do the real work.

So I’m not a huge gambler but went out with my brother and his friends for his 25th birthday . I sat down at a bar area which had virtual gambling. I chose blackjack. The dealer for the next 7 hands hit 20. I don’t know the odds of that but it seems ridiculous. I decided to stop playing and noticed the people next to me(close to 20 machines at this bar area, the casino is absolutely huge, could handle maybe 2,000 plus patrons) were also losing to the dealer because “it” was pulling 20-21 every time. I’m just curious is this legal?

I noticed that when my little sister would hug me she would squeeze me a little harder and longer than normal. Then the other day she rubbed her leg and idrk how to describe it but she tried squeeze herself on me. I shut that down and left without saying anything cuz obviously thats not ok. Today she was on the couch next to me and made an effort to fit in next to me (i was sitting near the end and the cat was on my other side) i took little notice until later she took my hand and placed it on her breast and squeezed it with her hand. I asked her why she did that and tried talking to her about the whole thing. She knew what i was trying to do and hurried off saying she had home work. I think she knows its wrong but seems to be over come by "emotions" and for me obviously it makes me very uncomfortable and being a male older than her only makes things look worse for me. I don't want it to happen again but it seems like a very hard conversation to have and i feel im trapped, i feel guilty even though i have had nothing to do with these interactions other than being present. What do i do??? Ask any questions if u have any.

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I understand that this is likely fair use and I have no problems with the industry. I don't think Hololive is above any laws, but as her fan it made me uncomfortable and I'm certain it'd make Ina herself extremely uncomfy, not to mention Cover corp.
Am I in the right for being bothered by this? Is this precedented? Would cover want to be aware of this, and is there somewhere I can go to report this? I've read my share of Hololive doujinshi after all, which isn't sold for free either, so maybe I'm off base here. Not trying to be unreasonable or overly sensitive, but I keep thinking about it.
It's kind of like unsolicited deep fake pron of celebrities, which is illegal and immoral. The fictional / intellectual property twist that the Vtubing thing adds makes this a little more complicated to navigate, I'm curious what people think about this.

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I’m not going back anymore even if I wanted to because I had called her yesterday and asked if the break up was really definite because I was tired of the mind games she was playing with me and I bet she didn’t notice. I felt like the false hope that she kept putting out was driving me crazy. My emotions felt so bottled in all this time not being able to express myself around her snd the painful moments she did to me. She making making it more difficult and I was trying to talk to her calmly on the phone trying to tell her how much I had deeply loved and cared for her and did so much for her. She would basically accuse me of blaming it on her even though she never took the blame for anything and never accepted the truth for what it was and not even an apology. She was so cold and still was then hung up the phone on me. She blocked me right away but before she could block me I sent her this and she read it. “ If you have tried I would have truly seen it. If you would have been there for me at my lowest and when I needed you I would have seen it. If you would have truly loved me you wouldn’t hold back your love for me saying it and in actions the many times you did. You would have not thrown me out of your house every single time I wanted to fix something with you. You would truly engaged in the things I shown you and were important to me. Lastly you would have given me the security needed. No one who cares about someone should be walking on egg shells all the time if all they wanted was love and security. I know I want farther than you and loved you deeply because I cared deeply and had always been there for you. You manipulated my heart and you tore it. You got what you wanted for now. One day you’ll realize how much I did for you and sacrificed. You hurt me, my family, and my friends and I don’t ever want to see you again in my life especially how you took advantage of me for your own gain.” I felt so bad and remorseful for sending that but I feel all the emotional damage she had caused me and continued to do was so much I felt like I was going insane. She truly played with my heart and I feel it’s her loss completely for doing that. I remember when I saw the GoId moments before in her but I feel that was covered up by her true colors :( I guess that’s why I also feel so remorseful because I’m only seeing those good moments when in reality she did more bad to me than good. I just got so frustrated with her how terrible she treated me and mostly just swept it under the carpet blindly and pretended things were still normal 😭😭 I do hope I find some one better in the future who would treat me way better than she treated me. I feel I saved my future self further pain from her I couldn’t imagine accepting being friends with her, seeing her with another guy when I had treated her so well and did everything for her. As well as living with her and marrying her if we were still in the relationship together. Days later I felt so bad sending that message, because of my heart never wanting to hurt the girl i loved so much and always caring and loving her so deeply. The insanity of my emotions couldn't handle the emotional damage she had caused me in the relationship and where i wasn't able to stand up for my self. I waited a few days later giving her some space and i also was trying to see how i could reach her because I was blocked on everything. So my brother allowed me to send this message using his phone:
I want to say I'm deeply sorry, and I feel terrible to you the person I love and called my special person for these two good years. I reacted very immaturely the other day when we talked. I think I was so emotionally clouded that I couldn't think straight. I know you probably don't want to forgive me or talk to me again. I understand that. In truth I never want to burn the bridge I had with you. Even though I know we can't be lovers anymore. You know me where sometimes I over think things and do dumb things based in my emotions, something I know I need to work on. My deepest regret though is losing you who I loved so deeply. I want to love you as a friend and person that I cherished with all those amazing memories despite our challenges that made us split. I hope when you see this message you can unblock me and text or call me back. I just would like to have our numbers open so we can check on each other from time to time. I love you and care for so deeply, appreciate you, you were my first girlfriend who supported me in tough times and were there, I know we had challenging times and I accept we have to move away from each other romantically. I just would like to stay connected with you in some way.
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A few days later she responds with this :
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"Im really upset with what you said to me. I understand you have big emotions, but it doesn’t mean I will let myself be talked that way. Only for you to reflect and say sorry days later (Even though i genuinely went out of my way to say sorry) it’s just not fair. I’m going to keep you blocked for awhile because that’s the only way I can keep my boundary. I don’t know what the future holds, but I wish you nothing but the best."
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i'm sorry for the long passage. I am guessing in the near future she's going to try and comeback eventually? and if she doesn't I hope you can see how much I deeply loved her and fought for her to show her how much i cared for her and our relationship despite the trauma she caused on me and how one sided she made it. Maybe its the best she let me go, could have it been a favor for me?
If anyone could help me sort this out? I feel so sad especially how much I cared for her, she was my first girlfriend.
Thoughts?

I haven't seen much about hyper-fixations unrelated to ADHD but specifically associated with depression. I've been getting hyper-fixations ever since I can remember that have lasted up to 9 months. I'm not sure if these attachments to certain things would be categorized as hyper-fixations or something else. My last hyper-fixation was on a metal singer from Sweden who committed suicide (Pelle Ohlin). I'm unsure why I developed this obsession with this guy that lasted for 9 months. The thought of this guy at the prime of my hyper-fixation would trigger me into a breakdown where I would use some method of self-harm to cope with it. It's strange but this isn't the first hyper-fixation I've had on someone who has committed suicide. When I was in 4th grade, about 10 years old, I heard the word suicide and went up to my dad to ask him what it meant. He told me it's when someone kills themselves, and when I heard this I was ultimately transfixed with fascination. I went on Youtube and went on a craze looking up people who have committed this act. I came across this youtuber around my age, pretty sure her channel name was ItzDolly. I became obsessed with her. My obsessions are NEVER sexual, they are people or shows that trigger me. I become obsessed and these obsessions lead to triggers where when I look up stuff about these people I become more depressed. Although every hyper-fixation I have is a trigger for me, it's somewhat nice to have them because it's something for me to focus on. Without them, I'm left alone with my thoughts and it's terrifying what they can lead to. With Dead, the musician, you can easily find his dead body on the internet and sometimes I would just look at it (or just pictures of him) to purposefully trigger myself. Maybe I do this to feel, maybe I find comfort in my own sadness, or maybe I'm just trying to punish myself. Whatever the reason is, I know it's definitely not normal. I mean I'm 100% aware that being obsessed with a stranger for 9 months where I would constantly think about this person to trigger myself isn't a common sign of depression. Maybe something is seriously wrong with me or maybe I'm just a hypochondriac. Whatever the reason is, I just thought I'd come on a website with a bunch of 12-year-old incels for answers. Apologies for the blatant sarcasm.

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I’m not going back anymore even if I wanted to because I had called her yesterday and asked if the break up was really definite because I was tired of the mind games she was playing with me and I bet she didn’t notice. I felt like the false hope that she kept putting out was driving me crazy. My emotions felt so bottled in all this time not being able to express myself around her snd the painful moments she did to me. She making making it more difficult and I was trying to talk to her calmly on the phone trying to tell her how much I had deeply loved and cared for her and did so much for her. She would basically accuse me of blaming it on her even though she never took the blame for anything and never accepted the truth for what it was and not even an apology. She was so cold and still was then hung up the phone on me. She blocked me right away but before she could block me I sent her this and she read it. “ If you have tried I would have truly seen it. If you would have been there for me at my lowest and when I needed you I would have seen it. If you would have truly loved me you wouldn’t hold back your love for me saying it and in actions the many times you did. You would have not thrown me out of your house every single time I wanted to fix something with you. You would truly engaged in the things I shown you and were important to me. Lastly you would have given me the security needed. No one who cares about someone should be walking on egg shells all the time if all they wanted was love and security. I know I want farther than you and loved you deeply because I cared deeply and had always been there for you. You manipulated my heart and you tore it. You got what you wanted for now. One day you’ll realize how much I did for you and sacrificed. You hurt me, my family, and my friends and I don’t ever want to see you again in my life especially how you took advantage of me for your own gain.” I felt so bad and remorseful for sending that but I feel all the emotional damage she had caused me and continued to do was so much I felt like I was going insane. She truly played with my heart and I feel it’s her loss completely for doing that. I remember when I saw the GoId moments before in her but I feel that was covered up by her true colors :( I guess that’s why I also feel so remorseful because I’m only seeing those good moments when in reality she did more bad to me than good. I just got so frustrated with her how terrible she treated me and mostly just swept it under the carpet blindly and pretended things were still normal 😭😭 I do hope I find some one better in the future who would treat me way better than she treated me. I feel I saved my future self further pain from her I couldn’t imagine accepting being friends with her, seeing her with another guy when I had treated her so well and did everything for her. As well as living with her and marrying her if we were still in the relationship together. Days later I felt so bad sending that message, because of my heart never wanting to hurt the girl i loved so much and always caring and loving her so deeply. The insanity of my emotions couldn't handle the emotional damage she had caused me in the relationship and where i wasn't able to stand up for my self. I waited a few days later giving her some space and i also was trying to see how i could reach her because I was blocked on everything. So my brother allowed me to send this message using his phone:
I want to say I'm deeply sorry, and I feel terrible to you the person I love and called my special person for these two good years. I reacted very immaturely the other day when we talked. I think I was so emotionally clouded that I couldn't think straight. I know you probably don't want to forgive me or talk to me again. I understand that. In truth I never want to burn the bridge I had with you. Even though I know we can't be lovers anymore. You know me where sometimes I over think things and do dumb things based in my emotions, something I know I need to work on. My deepest regret though is losing you who I loved so deeply. I want to love you as a friend and person that I cherished with all those amazing memories despite our challenges that made us split. I hope when you see this message you can unblock me and text or call me back. I just would like to have our numbers open so we can check on each other from time to time. I love you and care for so deeply, appreciate you, you were my first girlfriend who supported me in tough times and were there, I know we had challenging times and I accept we have to move away from each other romantically. I just would like to stay connected with you in some way.
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A few days later she responds with this :
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"Im really upset with what you said to me. I understand you have big emotions, but it doesn’t mean I will let myself be talked that way. Only for you to reflect and say sorry days later (Even though i genuinely went out of my way to say sorry) it’s just not fair. I’m going to keep you blocked for awhile because that’s the only way I can keep my boundary. I don’t know what the future holds, but I wish you nothing but the best."
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i'm sorry for the long passage. I am guessing in the near future she's going to try and comeback eventually? and if she doesn't I hope you can see how much I deeply loved her and fought for her to show her how much i cared for her and our relationship despite the trauma she caused on me and how one sided she made it. Maybe its the best she let me go, could have it been a favor for me?
If anyone could help me sort this out? I feel so sad especially how much I cared for her, she was my first girlfriend.
Thoughts?

My Canadian-American wife lived in the UK a few years ago (before we met). Due to an admin error from the company she sublet her flat from, she never paid an energy bill for the 13 months she occupied her flat, and thus racked up an electric bill of about £1.1k/$1.8k CAD. She never paid the bill, and has been back in Canada/US for a few years now; she has not returned to the UK since. One of her UK friends is getting married in the fall and I’d like to take her to the wedding, but she’s paranoid that she might have been unknowingly sued by the company or prosecuted for not paying the bill (whichever applies in UK law) and was somehow not notified. Therefore she would get in legal trouble when she lands on UK shores. It’s worth noting that she’s never heard anything about the unpaid bill since leaving the UK—not a single email or phone call or letter from the letting company, a solicitor, the electric company, etc., anything—but to my dismay she’s still paranoid. Is there any way to “check” and find out? Hell, I’d be happy to send a check today if it means we get to go on this trip!

well english is not my main language so sorry for any errors, i need help, my mom is very sick person, she talks shit on everyone and about everything around her, she hates everything, she keeps telling me everyday that everything that is wrong in her life is my fault, i never had a dad and he never did anything about me, and my family kept scaring me about him telling me he was bad and i got in contact with him via internet but i never got to met him because im kinda scared to go to his city to meet him and he never seemed to want to see me in my city so i kinda gave up on him, but my mom is getting worse everyday with me, she treats me like trash, i try to do everything for her, like cleaning the house, cleaning the bathroom, washing the dishes, i take food for her, she always buys delivery food and makes me get it for her, and i also cook for myself everyday because im trying to go on a diet and my mom keeps trying to sabotage me in every way, on the pandemy i needed to stay inside with her and i really almost gave up completely, i lost almost every friend because i got in depression and couldnt keep up, my mom keeps humilliating me for trying to go on a diet, and started to do some exercise, she keeps telling shit about me saying that i will get sick with kidney stones because i started to drink protein powder because i went on a nutricionist and she made me a protein focused diet, (she only eat processed food, fast food and tons of soda)and im trying really hard to focus on this to try to get less afraid, because i feel very afraid to go out and with low self esteem i tried to go for therapy but it didnt help at all because the therapist would at the end of the therapy throw some bait stuff that i needed to talk alot but it was always on the last 3 minutes of the section, and i would need to wait a week because he would open the door and standing on and i stopped going on him because of that, i dont have a job currently so i cant move out easily, i am trying to land jobs but i had no luck yet, i used to freelance in a restaurant that closed and tried some IT freelancing. my mom provokes me everyday, and when i finally get angry she starts saying that i shouldnt stop going for therapy because im acting crazy, she says like she is the victim of everything, she talks shit on me for the whole family, my family is really absent (the mom part) my father part i dont even know anyone, my mom talks shit on everyone of the family on their back, i was making a online course and she tried everyday to mess with me during my classes to make me lose my attention (it is a course on phyton basic programming)she makes me go low doesnt matter what i do for her, and i dont know what to do i really want to escape from her apartment but its really hard because i really feel trapped and dont know where i should search a job, and i feel really sad about life, i am so tired of hearing my mom talk shit about everything everyday, i dont have nowhere to go, i am trying for so many years already, sorry for the long text and thanks for anyone who is reading, today i just felt so completely alone that i got some courage to talk about myself here, it was my birthday recently but no one got in contact, maybe they forgot it is okay but i feel really alone

The day she broke up with my i hate so much angry i didn’t know what to do a couple days later i contacted her she wanted to stay in contact and wanted to talk that day she said she loved me and cared about me and she need a hug from me we talk for 2 extra days since then she says she doesn’t want contact anymore I’m confused cs she ask me to stay in contact I leave even if I was fighting it I left with so much anger I started to talk or look for other girls and on this part I regret a lot I’m hurt and start talking to this girl some how we dated for like 12hrs broke up with because I still loved my ex I called and texted my ex that day she was furious with me and I understand for telling her that I was already trying to move on she wanted nothing to do with me and it’s confusing but it makes sense why she was mad I understand that I did something absolutely stupid and there’s excuse for it but none of this would have ever happened if you didn’t dump me left me like I meant nothing to you I beg her to give me a chance she refused a day ago I was still in contact with that girl I “dated” because I was afraid she might do something as she had serious mental issues and I was lonely something happened were the girl want kill herself I didn’t know what to do so called her for advice as she’a the only person I trust she helped me and she seemed really relaxed and and I ended up cutting contact we started talking and she kept bringing up this girl oh she’s cute im glad for you but in a way of anger she blow up on me I cried my eyes I never felt so hurt by her she said we have to permanently stop talking and i love this girl I would do anything to have her back I made so many mistakes but she is someone I can’t lose she even sounded happy when we talk I hope she finds something deep in her heart and comes back to me

I'm on Android 13 and when the notes feature came out, I was able to see it. But after around a week after it came out, there have been no notes on top of my dms. I have the app updated to the latest version and I am able to see notes on my 2nd account but just not on my 1st one for some reason. I know my app is updated and I have the features which came out AFTER the notes such as commenting gifs but I just can't see notes. Also, even if I log in on another phone, I still can't see notes ONLY on this account, whilst I can on others. Has instagram basically just banned me from notes? Any possible solution? Asking for the second time on here. Thank you

may be an unpopular opinion, but season 3 is hands down my favorite season. i think 2 is great, but season three has everything for me. character design was the prettiest imo, so many outfits i actually wanted to spend gems on, the LI were top tier (aj, tai, yasmin, even harry and camilo), AND even the bestfriend options for MC are amazing (i love nicky, seb, and elladine SO. MUCH.)
even the bonus part in the boat party was so much fun like idc, i love my little season 3 family 🫶🫶🫶 (p.s. the fact that aj’s name is anna julia jones is quite literally the cutest thing i love her so much)