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For everything that is about design mixed with urbanism! The design of urban furniture, the design of roads, of pedestrian areas, the design of traffic calming measures,...
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2023.06.04 19:09 NakedYogaWorld The lack of nudist destinations in Arizona - any ideas?
Arizona is one of the hottest states in the USA. So, it should lend itself to being a social naturism hotspot. However, there's only two landed clubs, Shangri-La and Mira Vista, in New River and Tucson.
Don't you all think there should be more? Compare Arizona to Florida, where there is a heavy concentration of naturist clubs, all of which are popular enough to stay in business. If there were to be a third naturist club in Arizona, what city/area should it be in? We're a community of over 330 people and counting...maybe if we put our minds together, we could actually make a positive contribution to naturism in Arizona.
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2023.06.04 19:09 JuiceJust Does anyone here actually enjoy employee relations?
I enjoy investigating through reading statements, gathering hard evidence and writing up recommendations - which is all the behind the scenes work.
I don’t enjoy doing investigative interviews, presenting plans of action to leadership or carrying out coaching/corrective action/termination conversations. Does anyone actually enjoy those parts?
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2023.06.04 19:08 trksthtmn Monopoly GO! - Free Dice, Sticker Giveaways, Sticker Trading & Events
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We are a community based around Monopoly GO! We are able to offer free dice (through links/FB friends), for which we have several 'link creators'. With each link, you will be able to redeem 100 free dice, allowing you to perform more rolls in the game. We also offer a safe space where members can trade stickers. Scamming is prohibited and the trading channels are fully moderated; we have a system in place that reprimands scammers in-game. submitted by trksthtmn to monopolygo_giveaways [link] [comments]
We also host regular giveaways where members can earn rare stickers, allowing them to complete albums and earn rewards in-game. During our community events, we host several giveaways and give a way a massive number of 'links' - last time, we gave away more than 30 of them!
Other than game-related activities, we also boast a huge community (currently 4,500). We are proud to have a community that come together to support each other. There are also regular discussions that do not relate to the game; we are planning to create more channels, where people can discuss topics such as other games, as well as other off-topic subjects. This is something currently in high-demand.
Recently, we also created a mental health support channel for all of our members, which came shortly after partnering with a mental health support Discord server. This allows members to seek support, or simply rant if they are struggling. It has been a success and we are proud to have a dedicated and active mental health support team.
We are fully moderated, with a staff team spanning over all timezones. Everybody is welcome and we are happy to partner with any and all Monopoly GO! trading communities across all social media platforms - we do not view anything as competitive and would rather bring players together.
Please feel free to drop in and see what we have to offer, and to share your experiences with the game. I promise that you will not regret it!
2023.06.04 19:08 placebo_me_please Adding an unmarried partner to a student visa after submission
My partner is a student at a London university. Before she left, she and I had lived together for more than two years. Both of our names are on the title of the townhome we own in the US too.
Call it a lapse in judgement, but I did not get added to the visa when she submitted her application last year. Now that she has been in the city and wants to extend her visa, I’m wondering if she can revise her visa application to include me? Can I file separately using her Unique Application Number (UAN)?
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2023.06.04 19:08 Oof_too_Humid “The Grand Home” – A McMansion to kill for?
This property was spawned in 2017 from nightmares produced inside the skullholes of Kim & Doug Roylance (founders of the LuLaRoe pyramid scheme fortune). But, in Sept. 2019, they gave up on bringing their phantasmagoria to life, i.e., they halted construction, after an “unattended death” on-site. Then along comes a flipper. She sees the charm and potential in this little baby and she is going to buy it, finish it and make some sweet, sweet profit. But her husband didn’t agree and would not let her throw his money away on this hell-hole. She didn’t let his logic, common sense and refusal to fund, crush her vision. Kouri Richins’ offer to purchase was accepted in January 2022. Weeks later, on Valentine’s Day, her husband Eric Richins had an allergic reaction to food she prepared -- and he told family & friends of his suspicions that she was trying to kill him. On March 4, 2022, Eric Richins was found dead. The very next day, Kouri Richins closed on the property. Oof. Anyway…I hate it. It is a massive pile of cursed. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QyRfcM2Li-s&t=534s (Warning: meandering through this labyrinth is basically an upscale version of landing in “the Backrooms”.)
--Dormers: They’re big and they are everywhere. --Windows: Lots of different sized windows. --Garage: Attached 2-car garage smack dab in the front of the house. --House size: It’s yuuuuge -- 20,000 square feet. --Lawyer foyer, Pringles can, slap-happy roof lines. (Portal to Hell Address: 106 N Legacy Way, Heber City, UT)
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2023.06.04 19:08 NedFriarson49 Took The Family To See Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse Last Night. I spent $170.
Myself, my wife, my kids (12 and 14) went to see the film on IMAX at Century City.
The tickets were $26 each.
We got 2 large popcorns, 2 large sodas, and 2 candies. With tax it was around $50.
Parking for 3 hours was $12 and change.
At the end of the night it actually hit me how much I spent. I was flabbergasted.
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2023.06.04 19:08 TheOutcast06 Discussion: Nicknames and abbreviations for Stands and/or Users
I have seen nicknames and abbreviations for Stands, like Star Platinum to Star Plat/SP, Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap to D4C, etc. How about we do that to our own?
Examples: * Cave Ambience -> Camby, Honey -> Jobber or Honslinger or R.A.B. (Revenge Arc “Blindy”) * Deaf to All But the Song -> DTA, Tracy -> Braincell Keeper * At the Airport Terminal -> Microsoft Flight Simulator, Yoranne -> YR * Your Reality -> Ctrl+S, Pyra -> Player or Unhinged Hanako * Adabana Necromancy -> AN, May -> Franchouchou or Youmu * Lost Emotion -> LE, Kass -> Sea Cucumber (海心 and 海參 are Cantonese homophones, the former being Kass and the latter sea cucumber) * Crystallised Silver -> Elsa, Lily -> ‘Lay or MEDIC or E * Panic at the Disco -> PATD, Monica -> Mo or a09.exe * Eternal Spring Dream -> Freddy Krueger, Joanne -> Jo or Yuno * Meta Night’s Revenge -> Johnny * Junkertown Plan -> Megumin, Carrie -> White or Psychic Gremlin * Haikei Doppelgänger -> HD, Twins -> WataMote and Pillar respectively * One Winged Bird -> OH! CREATE!, Cap -> Biblically Accurate Stand User * Inkya Impulse -> APOCRINE SWEAT GLANDS! * DisImmunity as a whole -> DI or the Unholy Offspring of Katawa Shoujo and Azumanga Daioh * The Legion of Loopers -> LoL or Legion (I use this one outside of fanStands) or Higurashi Game Club
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2023.06.04 19:08 FourTimesRadical Question on herbicide after fert
I'm in zone 7B and did a spring reseeding with Jonathan green black beauty seed about a month ago. I just put a fresh application of Milorganite and Jonathan Green love your soil lawn food after mowing yesterday. Because of temperatures I'm still watering lightly about three times a day, but the real question is regarding my application of speed zone. I've got some Thin areas of grass that will fill out eventually but the lawn is overtaken by wild Violet in several spots. My plan was to mow yesterday and then wait 3 days to apply speed zone like the label says. I'm curious if there will be any issues spraying the speed zone on Tuesday or Wednesday after having put down the Milorganite and lawn food yesterday
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2023.06.04 19:08 toseeGodagain 3 months!!
I battled with myself over drinking for several years, with many false starts to sobriety. I’d come on this sub, post, comment, drink again, delete my account, repeat the whole process a few months later.
Then one day it clicked. There was a time three months seemed impossible. Now, I am the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m working on putting my life back together, and I feel capable for the first time ever.
Last night I dreamed I had planned to drink a glass of wine at the 3 month mark, but I decided I just didn’t want it. Even my dream self is done with alcohol, and I am so very grateful to you all.
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2023.06.04 19:08 VaultTechy Why does everybody prefer such huge beds?
For context I'm 29M, about 6ft1 and have a bed size called a double/full. This thing is huge - whenever I'm sharing it with somebody I have to like swim over to them to interact with them during the night, when I'm sleeping by myself it's so big I start tilting diagonally because of all the space. When my area was hit with a heat wave a few years ago and the upstairs living room was too hot, 4 of my friends and I sat on it to watch a movie with snacks comfortably.
Despite all this, everybody insists I'm sleeping in a tiny little cot and that they couldn't bear to have anything that small (most people's absolute minimum is a queen it seems, although I have now met people who insist on a king!)
When my city flooded and I was evacuated I wound up spending 2-3 months living in hotels and all of them had king beds that were just unreasonably huge and felt impossible to sleep in because I kept tilting and spinning in all the space - even now I often get booked at hotels for my job and I request a queen room instead of a king and it's still obscenely big!
I guess I could go for a longer bed, but, the larger sizes only get wider, not longer. I'm currently shopping for a new bed & mattress and my preference is definitely for a full/double again but I'm seeing that all these furniture sites are categorizing that as a children's bed size.
What the heck is going on?
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2023.06.04 19:08 Tour_Guide_Essam 11 Day Egypt Tour Package
2023.06.04 19:07 ItsoLoudinmyHead NC with 3 SIL. Have to see them. What do I do?
I have dealt with my 3 SILs' bullshit for decades but when their actions/exclusions started to effect my kids, that was it, I had enough mistreatment and decided to go NC a couple of Xmas ago. I deleted them all from my phone. I blocked them on social media. Life has been good. I actually don't hate the holidays anymore. The family has been together only once since then for my MIL funeral. The fractures and disfunction were clearly visible. Things were not a big issue for me, since I was the one who planned and prepared the entire funeral and repast. I was too busy too give a shit about them and annoyed at how little they did for their mother.
One of my kids is getting married. I am thrilled but anxious because I know I will have to see my SILs. I don't know what to do, how to act, what to say. I feel like the wedding will be large enough and I will be busy that it will not be a big issue. However, the shower will only be about 25-30 people max.
How do I focus on the joy vs the angst? I feel like I need some type of game plan. I don't want to there to be a horrible weird vibe. I don't know what to do or say or how to act around them.
Over the years, I have bonded with 2 of the SIL's but never felt the love from the 1 SIL. She has a difficult personality and we never bonded.
My hubby has never been really tight with any of his sisters. I did most of the communications/family organizing. He finally saw the light a couple of years ago when they revealed their snake lives selfs so prominitly one holiday. He maintains a group text with them. However, he never discussses them with me or update me on any their news. I tend to get upset with my husband when dealing with his sister because either I cathing him in a lie/ommission or for not having my back.
My kids refer to them as snakes. They have not gone NC but have no contact with them.
Sister #1 Is not malicious but complaint.
Sister #2 Is the root of all evil with a difficult personality.
Sister #3 Is fake to your face and a snake behind your back.
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2023.06.04 19:07 ZoomingT [Solo Farming in the Tower] I need others to see the cuteness
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One day, a mysterious tower suddenly appeared in the city. The people decided to call it a dungeon, and while it was full of rugged terrain and dangerous monsters, it was also a land of opportunity, where countless treasures awaited. When Sejun, a young man living an ordinary life, is invited to the dungeon by chance, he is thrilled at the prospect of becoming rich, but he is stranded in a hidden area of the mysterious tower. All he has is a few seeds and his body. Now Sejun must farm, collect resources, and figure out his own survival strategy!
It currently has 12 chapters that I'm aware of! I read it on realm scans. I hope other can enjoy this cute and funny story too!
2023.06.04 19:07 QueenLitha Intel or AMD CPU in this build?
What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using.
- Gaming (League of Legends, Diablo 4, ..)
What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?
When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.
What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/etc)
Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location?
If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated.
Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?
Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)
Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components?
Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?
Extra info or particulars:
So I'm having doubts in wat for CPU (and MOBO/RAM memory) I should go for in this build:
GPU: Gigabyte GeForce RTX 3070 TI
CPU Cooler: be quiet! Dark Rock Pro 4
SSD: Kingston NV2 2TB
HDD: Seagate BarraCuda 2TB
Power supply: Corsair RM750e
Now onto the choices, either a CPU Intel I7-13700F with a Gigabyte B760 Gaming X AX and Corsair 32 GB DDR5 (5600 kit) OR CPU AMD Ryzen 7 7700X with a Gigabyte B650M Gaming X AX and Corsair 32 GB DDR5 (3200 kit).
I would appreciate some feedback!
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2023.06.04 19:07 Efficient-Paper-7411 Almost identical horrible Fri&Sat nights this weekend.
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I know my market is over saturated with drivers but I really feel like their limiting my earnings or something. I know I sound crazy lol but there were so many things going on downtown last night but yet I went almost 2 hours without a single ride request on a Saturday night!!?!? There were small surges all throughout the city and the earnings trend showed 4 $$$$ in every section of the city. Just doesn’t make sense. submitted by Efficient-Paper-7411 to uberdrivers [link] [comments]
2023.06.04 19:07 ImprovementIll3062 Capturing the Essence of Subcultures: A Conversation with Farrah Skeiky on "The Truth In This Art" Podcast
Hey there, art and culture aficionados!
I'm thrilled to share an exciting episode of "The Truth In This Art" podcast featuring the talented Farrah Skeiky. Join host Rob Lee as he engages in a captivating conversation with Farrah, an Arab American photographer, musician, creative director, and writer based in Washington, DC.
Farrah's work is a celebration of those who make and thrive in their element, focusing on subcultures and underrepresented communities. Growing up in Seattle and later in the DC suburbs, she has been deeply influenced by two regions renowned for their contributions to underground music. These experiences have significantly shaped her artistic perspective.
In 2008, Farrah started photographing live music, with a primary focus on punk, DIY, and drag communities. Her work goes beyond capturing the energy of performances; she uses her lens to highlight the importance of race and gender inclusion within these groups. She also explores how the transient nature of cities affects these communities, both positively and negatively.
Farrah's photography has garnered widespread recognition and has been featured in esteemed publications such as The Washington Post, The Guardian, National Geographic, Rolling Stone, Kerrang, NPR, and many more. Her evocative images and thoughtful storytelling shed light on the diverse experiences and narratives within subcultures.
In 2020, Farrah self-published a remarkable photo book titled "Present Tense: DC Punk and DIY Right Now," which beautifully encapsulates the spirit of the DC punk and DIY scene.
You can listen to this inspiring episode with Farrah Skeiky on Apple Podcasts using the following link: The Truth In This Art: Conversations with Creatives - Episode with Farrah Skeiky
Take a moment to immerse yourself in Farrah's unique perspective and learn about her experiences as an Arab American artist. Her work not only captures the essence of subcultures but also challenges societal norms and amplifies the voices of underrepresented communities.
Let's support Farrah Skeiky and her exceptional body of work. Don't forget to share your thoughts and comments with Rob and Farrah, and spread the word about this incredible artist who brings unseen narratives to light through her lens.
Happy listening and appreciating the power of photography!
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2023.06.04 19:07 EstimateCautious4097 Disappointed I couldn’t finish Pioneer Century yesterday due to knee pain
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I have started biking in September last year on a hybrid bike. Bought a road bike in October and Wahoo Kickr Core to train indoors during winter months. Had trained on and off during winter months and took my bike out in March this year. Have done 2 metric century events and one training ride of 85 miles in May. I had several physical therapy sessions, got bike fit, have been stretching my body 3-4 times a week. Doing warm up and cool down stretches before and after every ride
On the day on my century ride (yesterday), I started riding at 7 am. In first 30 miles I gained 3000ft elevation already (RWGPS is a lie. Overall course had 3800ft elevation. My Garmin showed I gain 3000 ft in first 30 miles and 4000ft by 68 miles). It’s the steep climb portion of the 100 miles course. I got nauseated from overeating before the big climb but at the rest stop had some oranges. I felt better and continued the ride. The road was bumpy for almost 15 miles when I reached second rest stop at 50 miles mark. Both my knees started hurting by this point. Had some snacks, stretched and continued. Previously I had similar issue and adjusting my ride position, stretching relieved the pain. But yesterday I couldn’t take it anymore. Stopped several times but no relief. SAG offered me a ride at 63rd mile but I refused thinking I could make it. At 67th mile it got worse. I ended the ride at 68th mile and hitch hiked to the starting point. Thanks to the generous farmer that offered me the ride. I had energy and will power to do 30+ miles but my body couldn’t handle it. I was afraid if I continue I might tear the knee muscles and make things worse.
Felt really disappointed, after all this training, anticipation I couldn’t finish the ride due to knee pain. I have decided to participate in Harvest Century ride in September which leaves me 3 months to train….
I felt the elevation gain and bumpy road made it worse.
Just here to vent….
TDLR: couldn’t finish my first century ride after all the training due to knee injury. Planning to participate in September. Just here to vent.
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2023.06.04 19:06 COMBO_MARIO_64 Should I get this pc if it's a gaming PC?
2023.06.04 19:06 Party_lover74 How to make party travelling simple ?
Travelling is never really easy unless you know someone there. If people from around the world were connected with the same project of party travelling de could exchange informations, plans or even accomodate people ! Partying is the best way to make new friends, let’s enjoy new culturs, new locations, new music styles, new drinks, new food, and new friends !
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2023.06.04 19:06 holby80 So.... are we going dark
I know were little but just curious?
What's going on? A recent Reddit policy change threatens to kill many beloved third-party mobile apps, making a great many quality-of-life features not seen in the official mobile app permanently inaccessible to users.
On May 31, 2023, Reddit announced they were raising the price to make calls to their API from being free to a level that will kill every third party app on Reddit, from Apollo to Reddit is Fun to Narwhal to BaconReader.
Even if you're not a mobile user and don't use any of those apps, this is a step toward killing other ways of customizing Reddit, such as Reddit Enhancement Suite or the use of the old.reddit.com desktop interface .
This isn't only a problem on the user level: many subreddit moderators depend on tools only available outside the official app to keep their communities on-topic and spam-free.
What's the plan? On June 12th, many subreddits will be going dark to protest this policy. Some will return after 48 hours: others will go away permanently unless the issue is adequately addressed, since many moderators aren't able to put in the work they do with the poor tools available through the official app. This isn't something any of us do lightly: we do what we do because we love Reddit, and we truly believe this change will make it impossible to keep doing what we love.
The two-day blackout isn't the goal, and it isn't the end. Should things reach the 14th with no sign of Reddit choosing to fix what they've broken, we'll use the community and buzz we've built between then and now as a tool for further action.
What can you do?
Complain. Message the mods of /reddit.com
, who are the admins of the site: message reddit
: submit a support request: comment in relevant threads on /reddit
, such as this one, leave a negative review on their official iOS or Android app- and sign your username in support to this post.
Spread the word. Rabble-rouse on related subreddits. Meme it up, make it spicy. Bitch about it to your cat. Suggest anyone you know who moderates a subreddit join us at our sister sub at /ModCoord
Boycott and spread the word...to Reddit's competition! Stay off Reddit entirely on June 12th through the 13th- instead, take to your favorite non-Reddit platform of choice and make some noise in support!
Don't be a jerk. As upsetting this may be, threats, profanity and vandalism will be worse than useless in getting people on our side. Please make every effort to be as restrained, polite, reasonable and law-abiding as possible.>
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2023.06.04 19:06 Live-Quality-911 Why Mental Health Services, Psychologists aka Social Workers are not as easily accessible as Medical Doctors? SMH Let me rant my shit out with lots of things here. [Long Rant Alert]
1st of all, Canada is very advanced modern country, yet there's lots of issues. When people needs mental health services, they cannot get them easily. Really? Like, when you see having someone having bad days, mental disorders,. When you see homeless or drug addicts or anyone committing any kinds of harm, violence. Or anyone being too weird, awkward, annoying. You all say, "They need some mental health support, which isn't available". Yet politicians in office chose to defund mental health services and support. Damaging and defunding this services have been happening many decades, that got too worse these days since the pandemic that, lots of these happening, Suicide Rate increasing. Crime and Homicide Rate increasing.Homeless number increasing, who are mostly addictedGuess what? Your city, public space is becoming too unsafe to walk around. Public Transport isn't safe.
When I mentioned these above, which are commonly ranted, and discussed here. However, I feel, that I really need to mention some more important things, too that goes undetected, most people don't understand these issues that much clearer.
Based on my experience and heavy academically researching on those topics (Of course not the official ones, just personally reading and understanding those by myself
), along with taking many courses on Psychology, Anthropology, Social Science, and asking lots of questions on those topics to those respective course professors, I did figured out lots of things
, that people in general do not realize, Of course I am not calling them undereducated/stupid. What I wanted to mention here, which are happening due to lack of easy access to mental health services.
There are lots of people coming from different family backgrounds, cultural backgrounds, different disabilities that doesn't allow them to function in society properly, example, Hard of Hearing, AHDH, Autism.
These people are usually lacking behind lots of necessary skills, such as communication skills, social skills, or too nervous/anxiety and so on. They usually have hard time to have healthy social lives, healthy relationships, and a lot, that they want by themselves. [Let me clear there, in group of these people, there any many kinds of people, however my rant is for those, who really need mental health supports.]
These people try to socialize with people, then when they fail, a lot of them may not realize, whats causing in that issue? Even if, a lot of them realize, "Somethings wrong they are doing, but still, they don't know, what kinds of wrong they doing." So, when they complain that to parents, or any random groupchats, or any counsellors in School/University, what they hear is,
- "Nothing wrong with you"
- "Just be yourself"
- "Love Yourself"
- "They are not good, you will find good people"
- "How about you talk to your fellow people"
- Etc etc
Really? By saying this, and leaving them from sessions, whats you are doing to them?
Don't you realize, that you are putting them in suffering, as they have been suffering with. No Solutions for them. Again, when you tell them to get a Social Worker or Psychotherapist, yet they can't find those easily. As Those specialists are too low in the Psychology Field.
So, DO YOU REALIZE WHATS HAPPENING TO THEM? They are becoming, suicidal, even lots of them did suicide, as those their issues turned into serious mental issues like, extreme depression, most of them then then choose to cope those in their own way. Such as, taking drugs, or doing inappropriate things, even a lot of them are becoming hater towards people. Which is causing lots of crimes over years. This small part is what you can guess? They are becoming in member of mono-sphere and harassing other people online, spreading hatred. Even some of them committed crimes too. Guess what? I know you all wont like the answer. This is "Incels"
You all think, they are born to be bad, criminal. No, sorry, you are wrong. Real issue is lack of mental health services to them in their very early stages, when they were asking, and complaining about their problems. After many years of suffering, hatred started in them
Now, you all will ask me, "WOW, so, what I want those to those people?"
Good question. I wish I had moral good answers, why?
Because These group of people can't be healed,
due to long lasting suffering and damage happened to them. \Of course, to be clear, I am Not Incel, All I wanted to say is, difference between them and me is, I am trying to find solutions for my issues and loneliness. But Incels, they either don't try, or don't know their issues, or they lost hopes. And etc etc wrong expectations by them.])
But seriously? Creation of these whole group of people would be prevented and their population could be kept very low, if there were easy access of mental health services.
Now**, let me end this with my main rant tha**t, as every politicians and people choose to vote those politicians, who are defunding the mental health services and support and other social services, along with making it as hard to get a psychologist/psychotherapist as possible.
All of those are f**cking A$$holes. They wants our society, no matter you are poor or rich, or minority, or have disabilities, in a way, where we are suffering our own issues, struggling with many, home, live.
So, they can keep profiting themselves. also this situations are keeping them safe to be in power as long as possible, because people we are suffering in those don't have time to check, what they are doing and vote them out. Because of our struggles and sufferings.
SMH. Rant End. Thank you for reading.
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