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2012.01.31 02:23 Pravusmentis Shitty Life Pro Tips
A place for the shittiest, most mocking "pro-tips" you can think of. Whether you want to let us know how glue can help out your hair or the quickest way to clog a public toilet, we're the place to post.
2011.12.08 21:40 notthatitmattersbut Ask A Shitty Doctor
2017.01.15 03:16 JobDestroyer It's like /r/Socialism but better because we don't have any socialists.
It's like /Socialism but better because we don't have any real socialists.
2023.06.03 17:39 SvenViking Boz confirms the potential for seeing through clothing was one consideration in the late removal of the Quest Pro depth sensor
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2023.06.03 17:39 South_Hope4899 Fee Reversal—Pending—After 54 Days, and Counting
Ten days ago, I spoke with a District Operations Director who was going to "resolve this by Friday so you can enjoy the holiday weekend." I waited as long as humanly possible, for me that equated to Wednesday after the Memorial Day weekend to email again (10th one in this chain, 26 total since this whole fiasco started) that the charge on my account was still there. I finally received "conformation" that the charge will be reversed but that it takes 5-7 business days to post, resulting in another week before this will, maybe, be all said and done. We. Shall. See.
Also, I was told..."you can go online and just make your rent payment minus the $150.00 before the 5th and by the end of next week the reversal will have taken place. If any late fees occur during that time we will waive them for you." Higher-ups aren't even aware that you can't itemize online payments. Everything is bundled, so if I want to pay my rent on time, I will have to pay over the phone, which I hate doing. IYKYK
If, in fact, the charge is reversed by next Friday at the earliest—it will have been 60 days, two full months since I have been inconvenienced, stressed out, ignored by First Key Homes property managers in my area. It took going to their boss to get results—results that, again, I have taken at someone's word, on faith, that they will do what they say they are going to do. And the track record for this has been zero from the onset, so forgive me if I have the, I'll believe it when I see it, mentality.
Why is it that when you pay rent, or the water bill on the payment portal that shit gets posted and removed in real time, but trying to get a fee reversed takes 5-7 (or 60) days? Is it another stalling tactic, are they trying to placate me, will I keep getting strung along for the foreseeable future? I certainly hope not, because if I don't see this charge gone I will absolutely lose my mind.
This has not been easy for me and many of the metal health demons I had long ago put to bed began to awaken these last couple of months. I hope that I will finally see closure next week but I'm not holding my breath.
Hope y'all are well.
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Also, I was told..."you can go online and just make your rent payment minus the $150.00 before the 5th and by the end of next week the reversal will have taken place. If any late fees occur during that time we will waive them for you." Higher-ups aren't even aware that you can't itemize online payments. Everything is bundled, so if I want to pay my rent on time, I will have to pay over the phone, which I hate doing. IYKYK
If, in fact, the charge is reversed by next Friday at the earliest—it will have been 60 days, two full months since I have been inconvenienced, stressed out, ignored by First Key Homes property managers in my area. It took going to their boss to get results—results that, again, I have taken at someone's word, on faith, that they will do what they say they are going to do. And the track record for this has been zero from the onset, so forgive me if I have the, I'll believe it when I see it, mentality.
Why is it that when you pay rent, or the water bill on the payment portal that shit gets posted and removed in real time, but trying to get a fee reversed takes 5-7 (or 60) days? Is it another stalling tactic, are they trying to placate me, will I keep getting strung along for the foreseeable future? I certainly hope not, because if I don't see this charge gone I will absolutely lose my mind.
This has not been easy for me and many of the metal health demons I had long ago put to bed began to awaken these last couple of months. I hope that I will finally see closure next week but I'm not holding my breath.
Hope y'all are well.
2023.06.03 17:38 Pandaman_31 I'M FREAKED OUT
Holy shit guys this sub gave me a nightmare currently(idk if it's troll or not). I put on braces a when I was 16 due to overbite and unfortunately the doctor said that I need to remove my wisdom teeth cuz after braces those bitches hurt so bad and I did (the bottom ones ). After swiping here I noticed a lot of y'all saying stuff like don't ever remove your wisdom teeth but fuck it's too late😔. I don't really see any difference on jawline between the old pictures and new ones but still I feel like I fucked up or it's just placebo effect. I still have braces and Im mewing but I'm afraid my face is gonna look terrible after the therapy ends.
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2023.06.03 17:37 LetterGrouchy6053 The bastardization of the Christian Church in general, and the Baptist Church in particular.
Christian organizations are calling on pastors across the country to stand up against the rise of Christian nationalism during their church services next weekend.
"Toxic Christian nationalism is the single biggest threat to both democracy and the church, and we pastors have a moral obligation to loudly oppose it as a dangerous hijacking of our faith," Reverend Nathan Empsall , Director of ‘Faithful America’ preached. "Unless we as Christians challenge this dangerous political ideology, its leaders will continue to twist our faith as they try to justify an agenda that is in actuality the antithesis of what Jesus taught: To love our neighbor and to care for the least among us.”
As reported in LGBQTNation, The "Preach and Pray to Confront Christian Nationalism" initiative is the latest event sponsored by Faithful America, an online community of progressive Christians that aim to combat the use of their faith being "hijacked" by the political right. The group recently protested a high-profile conservative speaker event in Miami, Florida, and has taken a public stand against several Republican politicians, including Georgia Representative Marjorie Taylor Greene, who previously defended Christian nationalism, and Florida Governor Ron DeSantis.
DeSantis’ own religious counselor, Tom Ascoll, of Grace Baptist Church, has preached the depravity of Leviticus by calling for the murder of gays.
(In that the Southern Baptist Convention has not condemned he and his words; one can only speculate they are in accord.)
White nationalism has been embraced by American fascists to appeal to the least among us. Street trash talking so-called pastors, hate-filled dullards so low on the social totem pole of polite society they will grasp at any message that makes them feel better about being the failures they’ve become, pandering politicians who are able stir up hatred among the loners and losers because of the prejudice and ignorance of the streets and back alleys, and hypocritical evangelicals who profess to love Jesus, but do the work of the devil, are all looking for validation of their hatred, and under the guise of patriotism spew their venom -- mostly for personal gain.
It been said, when tyranny comes it will be marching behind a cross.
Faithful America's newest initiative is aimed at taking a stand within the church, calling on pastors to "warn against effort to conflate Christian and American identities" while leading service on June 11.
What will your Priest, Pastor, or Reverend, have to say about the subject? Will the message be one of tolerance and love, or the gleeful acceptance of the sins of heresy and denial of true Christian belief?
While contemplating this, consider exactly which message you want to hear.
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"Toxic Christian nationalism is the single biggest threat to both democracy and the church, and we pastors have a moral obligation to loudly oppose it as a dangerous hijacking of our faith," Reverend Nathan Empsall , Director of ‘Faithful America’ preached. "Unless we as Christians challenge this dangerous political ideology, its leaders will continue to twist our faith as they try to justify an agenda that is in actuality the antithesis of what Jesus taught: To love our neighbor and to care for the least among us.”
As reported in LGBQTNation, The "Preach and Pray to Confront Christian Nationalism" initiative is the latest event sponsored by Faithful America, an online community of progressive Christians that aim to combat the use of their faith being "hijacked" by the political right. The group recently protested a high-profile conservative speaker event in Miami, Florida, and has taken a public stand against several Republican politicians, including Georgia Representative Marjorie Taylor Greene, who previously defended Christian nationalism, and Florida Governor Ron DeSantis.
DeSantis’ own religious counselor, Tom Ascoll, of Grace Baptist Church, has preached the depravity of Leviticus by calling for the murder of gays.
(In that the Southern Baptist Convention has not condemned he and his words; one can only speculate they are in accord.)
White nationalism has been embraced by American fascists to appeal to the least among us. Street trash talking so-called pastors, hate-filled dullards so low on the social totem pole of polite society they will grasp at any message that makes them feel better about being the failures they’ve become, pandering politicians who are able stir up hatred among the loners and losers because of the prejudice and ignorance of the streets and back alleys, and hypocritical evangelicals who profess to love Jesus, but do the work of the devil, are all looking for validation of their hatred, and under the guise of patriotism spew their venom -- mostly for personal gain.
It been said, when tyranny comes it will be marching behind a cross.
Faithful America's newest initiative is aimed at taking a stand within the church, calling on pastors to "warn against effort to conflate Christian and American identities" while leading service on June 11.
What will your Priest, Pastor, or Reverend, have to say about the subject? Will the message be one of tolerance and love, or the gleeful acceptance of the sins of heresy and denial of true Christian belief?
While contemplating this, consider exactly which message you want to hear.
2023.06.03 17:37 EricinLR Huernia zebrina (Lifesaver plant) turning yellow - too much light?
I recently got a nice sized plant of H. zebrina at a local garden center 4 weeks ago. It was large enough to divide into one large and two smaller plants - it fell apart in my hands naturally into those divisions.
I repotted them all into clay pots with a standard cactus mix and have been very careful with watering, waiting until the pot was completely dry. Everything rooted up quickly - tugging any of the plants there is zero lifting out of the pot.
It's getting a few hours of morning sun here in Central Arkansas and then the sun goes behind the house and it's bright shade the rest of the day.
The largest one has turned almost completely yellow. The plant is still very firm, no visible rot (I'm an experienced orchid grower so am very familiar with rot) and it's still very firm in its pot when gently tugged or wiggled. Daytime temps in the last couple of weeks have reached summer normal - low 90s - but our humidity is still somewhat tolerable. Swamp-butt humidity has yet to arrive.
There were a couple pieces leftover with no roots when I repotted - I've laid those on the surface of the pot and ignored them. They are not yellowing.
My first guess is that it's getting too much light since I'm not seeing any signs of rot, but would love to know what those with more experience with this species have to say. Appreciate any constructive feedback!
Edit - I'm new to reddit posting and thought I'd attached a photo. I'll see if I can figure out how to add it or add a comment with it.
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I repotted them all into clay pots with a standard cactus mix and have been very careful with watering, waiting until the pot was completely dry. Everything rooted up quickly - tugging any of the plants there is zero lifting out of the pot.
It's getting a few hours of morning sun here in Central Arkansas and then the sun goes behind the house and it's bright shade the rest of the day.
The largest one has turned almost completely yellow. The plant is still very firm, no visible rot (I'm an experienced orchid grower so am very familiar with rot) and it's still very firm in its pot when gently tugged or wiggled. Daytime temps in the last couple of weeks have reached summer normal - low 90s - but our humidity is still somewhat tolerable. Swamp-butt humidity has yet to arrive.
There were a couple pieces leftover with no roots when I repotted - I've laid those on the surface of the pot and ignored them. They are not yellowing.
My first guess is that it's getting too much light since I'm not seeing any signs of rot, but would love to know what those with more experience with this species have to say. Appreciate any constructive feedback!
Edit - I'm new to reddit posting and thought I'd attached a photo. I'll see if I can figure out how to add it or add a comment with it.
2023.06.03 17:36 GuidanceOk1151 N.C❤️
It’s been just over 2 months since we ended. I dont know how to put into words how much i miss you. The emotions i feel for you are overwhelming.
Neither of us were perfect during our relationship, we both made mistakes in our own ways and i am sorry for mine. The amount of love we had for each other made the mistakes hurt even more. Love is the most painful and beautiful thing I’ve ever been able to experience and regardless of the way i was treated at times it still felt so right to be in love with you. I thought you were my person, i thought we would be together forever like we always said.
You told me not to contact you again and i really did want to wait for you. I wasn’t lying when i said that, even now here i am, still waiting for some reason. For something that will probably never be. You always said you wanted to have things right away and i knew you didn’t like waiting for things. I wonder if you told me not to contact you because you have a new boyfriend. Maybe you do, at first it was hard to come to terms with. But its gotten better.if that is the case, I truly hope you find happiness with him. No one on this earth is perfect and i hope he has the ability to grow with you and alongside you, to do the things that i could no longer do for you.
I want for nothing more than to talk to you again. To have my best friend back in my life. But i can’t do that to you. I want you to be free. Free from the pain we both felt being together. Free from any guilt you may feel for moving on when you know i may still be struggling. I hope that no matter where your life takes you, you can grow and move past your traumas and be the amazing person i know you are. I hope you dont just try and distract yourself from the pain you feel, but confront it so you dont put it on your future partners the way you did to me. If you dont confront it. This cycle will never end. That’s something i wish i could have told you. I think i think its important for you to know that.
You never said anything back to me about the letters i sent you. I dont know why. One of your biggest fears was me not responding to your letters and you didn’t say anything to mine. It feels like i poured my heart out to you just so you could ghost me. Even though it hurts, the rational side of me understands that it’s probably for the best.
I dont want to drag you down to the same feelings i feel. So here i am, putting these words out into a void that i know you will never see. I wanted nothing less than a lifetime with you and it really hurts to not even know how you are doing, even if it may be for the better. I hope from the bottom of my heart that you are doing well. Unfortunately, i know you are probably doing a whole lot better without me… I wish you all the best from the shadows, because i know that is the best thing i can do. Even if you never see this or never see me again. You will always have a silent supporter in me. I’m tremendously proud of you for the growth you’ve made and i want you to live your life to the fullest, whatever that may mean to you. I hope you are safe, happy and healthy.
Maybe, if we would have met at a different time, we could be together forever just like i had hoped. But whats done is done, and i must grasp that reality.
Im grateful to you for everything. The good the bad and everything in between. I love you even though i dont think we should be together right now. If you still have larbear, tell him i love him too.
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Neither of us were perfect during our relationship, we both made mistakes in our own ways and i am sorry for mine. The amount of love we had for each other made the mistakes hurt even more. Love is the most painful and beautiful thing I’ve ever been able to experience and regardless of the way i was treated at times it still felt so right to be in love with you. I thought you were my person, i thought we would be together forever like we always said.
You told me not to contact you again and i really did want to wait for you. I wasn’t lying when i said that, even now here i am, still waiting for some reason. For something that will probably never be. You always said you wanted to have things right away and i knew you didn’t like waiting for things. I wonder if you told me not to contact you because you have a new boyfriend. Maybe you do, at first it was hard to come to terms with. But its gotten better.if that is the case, I truly hope you find happiness with him. No one on this earth is perfect and i hope he has the ability to grow with you and alongside you, to do the things that i could no longer do for you.
I want for nothing more than to talk to you again. To have my best friend back in my life. But i can’t do that to you. I want you to be free. Free from the pain we both felt being together. Free from any guilt you may feel for moving on when you know i may still be struggling. I hope that no matter where your life takes you, you can grow and move past your traumas and be the amazing person i know you are. I hope you dont just try and distract yourself from the pain you feel, but confront it so you dont put it on your future partners the way you did to me. If you dont confront it. This cycle will never end. That’s something i wish i could have told you. I think i think its important for you to know that.
You never said anything back to me about the letters i sent you. I dont know why. One of your biggest fears was me not responding to your letters and you didn’t say anything to mine. It feels like i poured my heart out to you just so you could ghost me. Even though it hurts, the rational side of me understands that it’s probably for the best.
I dont want to drag you down to the same feelings i feel. So here i am, putting these words out into a void that i know you will never see. I wanted nothing less than a lifetime with you and it really hurts to not even know how you are doing, even if it may be for the better. I hope from the bottom of my heart that you are doing well. Unfortunately, i know you are probably doing a whole lot better without me… I wish you all the best from the shadows, because i know that is the best thing i can do. Even if you never see this or never see me again. You will always have a silent supporter in me. I’m tremendously proud of you for the growth you’ve made and i want you to live your life to the fullest, whatever that may mean to you. I hope you are safe, happy and healthy.
Maybe, if we would have met at a different time, we could be together forever just like i had hoped. But whats done is done, and i must grasp that reality.
Im grateful to you for everything. The good the bad and everything in between. I love you even though i dont think we should be together right now. If you still have larbear, tell him i love him too.
2023.06.03 17:36 Lethalmouse1 Selection Bias?
How much do you think selection bias effects the seeming quality of arts?
I notice like Lethwei vs MT many people mention that the former has a smaller talent pool as a factor. This means less natural elites end up in the mix etc.
In various arts, like say TKD or Karate for instance I think you have your "tough guys" but in the end per capita I think you'll see more.... "nerds" vs athletes compared to the "better arts".
Even any degradation. So some guy who might be a superbowl winner if he played football, if he doesn't play football, is more likely to wrestle or box for instance.
Whereas the guy who would play football his whole life but never make the teams you have to try out for, and only play low level fun leagues or be stuck playing pick up games effectively... he is more likely to be in the less good arts.
I guess it is a little chicken and egg. But even the drift in sparring amounts and quality being related to the incidental athleticism of the people more interested in things.
Even it seems the more athletic people who start with less effective arts, more likely cross train or transition to other arts to meet their demographic.
I see some rip on the body shape of a lot of TMA guys, but is this a little bit of a softball vs baseball kinda thing. A flag football vs tackle. And not just in the sense of the activity. But like... if you had two tackle football leagues and at that point they are functionally identical. But say league one advertises in Pokémon uniforms. The other advertises in skulls.
Today they tackle just as hard and just as tough. But becuase of associated mindsets, 80% of the guys who join Poke themed league are kind of into the sport, but are not itching to smash thinking "that football looks like a swell time". Whereas skull league, people see football and see the tackling and they think "OH YEAH BABY".
Just by default when they train, the "iron sharpens iron" kind of thing, poke footballers will become sketchy and skull league dudes will keep getting better and tougher.
I really think of the Cobra Kai part when Kress goes out to recruit athletes. Who save a few original members, almost immediately become top in class.
And part of the variances in experiences people have. The natural athlete who did karate is that guy you knew who fought 3 dudes at the bar and won. The nerd who did karate is the guy who is a 3rd degree black belt who fought a midget and lost lol.
But then that's also the culture of the gyms sort of. Midget loss guy 99% would have quit after a week of boxing. In karate, even if the dojo was teaching badassery, the culture is the sensei let's him stand off to the side and work on kata. Thus, he doesn't quit. Whereas boxing gym, the coach never really says "just shadow box and bagwork and you're still totally one of us".
Of course things get actually bad when that non-athlete sitting in the corner doing air karate technically has a black belt and starts teaching. If boxing gym had a bunch of "would have quit" guys who just shadow boxed for 5 years and then open boxing gyms with their "5 years experience".... then there would be a lot more sketchy boxing schools.
Plus, the culture factor among students. Even if a boxing coach did that, it's like... more that unofficially the other boxing minded students would push the shadow box nerd out by peer pressure.
Whereas, in karate even if a bunch of the needs become strong and athletic and such... they are going to be more sympathetic to the air karate guy.
So the degradation comes in the talent pool more than the intrinsic nature of the art. Even the althetes, by default, are going to be worse than they could/should be. Simply because they are more often going to spar with lesser practicioners.
If Boxer guy spars with 10 people, maybe 4 of them are sketchy as shit. But karate athlete spars with 10 people and 7 of them are sketchy.
Even if in a hypothetical situatjon, boxing/karate were equal in art effectiveness... boxers then would always be better. Due to the demographic bias.
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I notice like Lethwei vs MT many people mention that the former has a smaller talent pool as a factor. This means less natural elites end up in the mix etc.
In various arts, like say TKD or Karate for instance I think you have your "tough guys" but in the end per capita I think you'll see more.... "nerds" vs athletes compared to the "better arts".
Even any degradation. So some guy who might be a superbowl winner if he played football, if he doesn't play football, is more likely to wrestle or box for instance.
Whereas the guy who would play football his whole life but never make the teams you have to try out for, and only play low level fun leagues or be stuck playing pick up games effectively... he is more likely to be in the less good arts.
I guess it is a little chicken and egg. But even the drift in sparring amounts and quality being related to the incidental athleticism of the people more interested in things.
Even it seems the more athletic people who start with less effective arts, more likely cross train or transition to other arts to meet their demographic.
I see some rip on the body shape of a lot of TMA guys, but is this a little bit of a softball vs baseball kinda thing. A flag football vs tackle. And not just in the sense of the activity. But like... if you had two tackle football leagues and at that point they are functionally identical. But say league one advertises in Pokémon uniforms. The other advertises in skulls.
Today they tackle just as hard and just as tough. But becuase of associated mindsets, 80% of the guys who join Poke themed league are kind of into the sport, but are not itching to smash thinking "that football looks like a swell time". Whereas skull league, people see football and see the tackling and they think "OH YEAH BABY".
Just by default when they train, the "iron sharpens iron" kind of thing, poke footballers will become sketchy and skull league dudes will keep getting better and tougher.
I really think of the Cobra Kai part when Kress goes out to recruit athletes. Who save a few original members, almost immediately become top in class.
And part of the variances in experiences people have. The natural athlete who did karate is that guy you knew who fought 3 dudes at the bar and won. The nerd who did karate is the guy who is a 3rd degree black belt who fought a midget and lost lol.
But then that's also the culture of the gyms sort of. Midget loss guy 99% would have quit after a week of boxing. In karate, even if the dojo was teaching badassery, the culture is the sensei let's him stand off to the side and work on kata. Thus, he doesn't quit. Whereas boxing gym, the coach never really says "just shadow box and bagwork and you're still totally one of us".
Of course things get actually bad when that non-athlete sitting in the corner doing air karate technically has a black belt and starts teaching. If boxing gym had a bunch of "would have quit" guys who just shadow boxed for 5 years and then open boxing gyms with their "5 years experience".... then there would be a lot more sketchy boxing schools.
Plus, the culture factor among students. Even if a boxing coach did that, it's like... more that unofficially the other boxing minded students would push the shadow box nerd out by peer pressure.
Whereas, in karate even if a bunch of the needs become strong and athletic and such... they are going to be more sympathetic to the air karate guy.
So the degradation comes in the talent pool more than the intrinsic nature of the art. Even the althetes, by default, are going to be worse than they could/should be. Simply because they are more often going to spar with lesser practicioners.
If Boxer guy spars with 10 people, maybe 4 of them are sketchy as shit. But karate athlete spars with 10 people and 7 of them are sketchy.
Even if in a hypothetical situatjon, boxing/karate were equal in art effectiveness... boxers then would always be better. Due to the demographic bias.
2023.06.03 17:36 Naixee Do you just feel like there's no way back?
You isolate for a while because something happened or you got triggered by a situation and you stop talking to people and stop hanging out with anyone. The only times you're around people is because you have to, for work or school. You go home and don't go out until you have to.
However, it's been like this for such a long time now that you're not able to go back to normal. All social interactions are awkward or anxiety inducing and trying to befriend someone is near impossible because of your avoidant habits and severe coping mechanisms that include leaving that person for the smallest reasons so they don't leave you first. Basically, you're screwed.
This is where I'm at. I feel like there's just no way back. I just feel like no one wants to be around me or they're passively trying to avoid me. I feel like every single thing I do is annoying, so I try not to say too much or do too much incase people find it annoying. And I'm very sure I give off a vibe that says "I'm not interested in talking to you" or something. My psychiatrist told me that if I try to isolate or leave people whenever they do something that triggers me, that might look like I don't wanna be with them from the outside and honestly, he's right. But I literally am not able to stop.
I'm starting to become very lonely, even though I'm used to being alone and I have been for years. I have a bunch of online friends because it's just easier like that. They don't see me, there's no body language to misunderstand, no tone of voice, just text and emotes.
I'm tired, I'm really really tired. I should just be absolutely greatful I'm on antidepressants because otherwise idk where I would be. Literally terrified to stop taking them, because right before I started them I was planning to end it and I was so ready to do so, luckily the antidepressants helped so much so that I dropped all those thoughts almost immediately. However, recently it feels like the suicidal thoughts are seeping slowly but surely through the filter, and it scares me.
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However, it's been like this for such a long time now that you're not able to go back to normal. All social interactions are awkward or anxiety inducing and trying to befriend someone is near impossible because of your avoidant habits and severe coping mechanisms that include leaving that person for the smallest reasons so they don't leave you first. Basically, you're screwed.
This is where I'm at. I feel like there's just no way back. I just feel like no one wants to be around me or they're passively trying to avoid me. I feel like every single thing I do is annoying, so I try not to say too much or do too much incase people find it annoying. And I'm very sure I give off a vibe that says "I'm not interested in talking to you" or something. My psychiatrist told me that if I try to isolate or leave people whenever they do something that triggers me, that might look like I don't wanna be with them from the outside and honestly, he's right. But I literally am not able to stop.
I'm starting to become very lonely, even though I'm used to being alone and I have been for years. I have a bunch of online friends because it's just easier like that. They don't see me, there's no body language to misunderstand, no tone of voice, just text and emotes.
I'm tired, I'm really really tired. I should just be absolutely greatful I'm on antidepressants because otherwise idk where I would be. Literally terrified to stop taking them, because right before I started them I was planning to end it and I was so ready to do so, luckily the antidepressants helped so much so that I dropped all those thoughts almost immediately. However, recently it feels like the suicidal thoughts are seeping slowly but surely through the filter, and it scares me.
2023.06.03 17:36 funkychickie Need to vent and just talk things out with someone 🙏🏻
Hi everyone. I posted in this thread awhile ago but things got better, and I was happy again and feeling connected to my partner again for awhile. Back in December, I moved away. Only an hour and a half from my partner, so he came to see me on the weekends until he planned to move in a few months later (he was finishing college stuff up). Our sex life had finally reinvigorated. It was wonderful. He made the time for us to have intimacy and be connected to one another. (Previously, we had a DB for about 6 months to a year off and on).
Now, he’s been living with me for almost 2 months. And we’re back to nothing again. He’s happy, working out, feeling good, and acts like he wants me sexually but will never follow through. I will say I have grown in my confidence more and I’m looking / feeling better than I ever have.
But the last couple weeks, I’ve had to have a conversation with him every week because I’d be so confused as to what he wants. He’s basically all talk. He told me he wanted me to “ask when I want sex”, but he’s literally sitting there scrolling on his phone paying me no mind at night when we would usually do it. He’s made me feel guilty for having a sexual need in the past, and so if he doesn’t seem enthused or happy about sleeping with me, or showing NO desire, why would I want to ask?? That makes me feel like a disgusting human being. And the times I have tried to initiate by literally giving him a handjob in the shower he just laughed at me. Then when I mentioned that in the conversation, he said “I don’t see that as sexual” what?! When he’s literally started sex with me tons of times in the shower 2 years ago when we were often.
The last couple times I have very kindly asked him how we could fix things or if I could help in any way (very respectfully, calmly), he just yelled at me. Got worked up and his answer to everything was maybe I should just leave? Do you want me to leave? It makes me really upset so then he calms down and tries to comfort me. But I don’t want his comfort if that’s how I have to get it.
Now he’s says he hasn’t been in the mood any. But for the last few weeks since he moved he told me several times that his libido was a lot better and he wanted sex a lot more. So I’m just confused as to what I should do. I am very communicative, but he just gets upset. I put a lot of effort into looking nice for him, shaving, and making that effort. But I get nothing except an occasional ass slap.
Any advice here? Men, what is your perspective on how he could be feeling? I care a lot about him.
any DMs attempting sexual communication will be blocked
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Now, he’s been living with me for almost 2 months. And we’re back to nothing again. He’s happy, working out, feeling good, and acts like he wants me sexually but will never follow through. I will say I have grown in my confidence more and I’m looking / feeling better than I ever have.
But the last couple weeks, I’ve had to have a conversation with him every week because I’d be so confused as to what he wants. He’s basically all talk. He told me he wanted me to “ask when I want sex”, but he’s literally sitting there scrolling on his phone paying me no mind at night when we would usually do it. He’s made me feel guilty for having a sexual need in the past, and so if he doesn’t seem enthused or happy about sleeping with me, or showing NO desire, why would I want to ask?? That makes me feel like a disgusting human being. And the times I have tried to initiate by literally giving him a handjob in the shower he just laughed at me. Then when I mentioned that in the conversation, he said “I don’t see that as sexual” what?! When he’s literally started sex with me tons of times in the shower 2 years ago when we were often.
The last couple times I have very kindly asked him how we could fix things or if I could help in any way (very respectfully, calmly), he just yelled at me. Got worked up and his answer to everything was maybe I should just leave? Do you want me to leave? It makes me really upset so then he calms down and tries to comfort me. But I don’t want his comfort if that’s how I have to get it.
Now he’s says he hasn’t been in the mood any. But for the last few weeks since he moved he told me several times that his libido was a lot better and he wanted sex a lot more. So I’m just confused as to what I should do. I am very communicative, but he just gets upset. I put a lot of effort into looking nice for him, shaving, and making that effort. But I get nothing except an occasional ass slap.
Any advice here? Men, what is your perspective on how he could be feeling? I care a lot about him.
any DMs attempting sexual communication will be blocked
2023.06.03 17:36 AdMindless1552 Am I in the wrong?
I (26f) had a close friend (28f) from university who got married. When I went to the wedding I met the Bride's brother (28m) and we have since been dating a year. I don't date around and we are seeing a future together but also realists in life. They both supported the relationship, this is not the issue but a back story.
My friend from university is the main issue. She is a friend that seems 100% genuine but always wants to know everything about everyone and be in control. It's subtle and makes you question if you're over thinking or making things up in your head. She always over exaggerates stories. Over the years there have been little examples of this but always brush it off.
It came to a point when one night out our friend group was drinking. I'm usually pretty good when I drink and stop when I've got my limit and enjoy a fun rest of the night out tipsy but having no more alcohol. My friend herself does not drink but the whole night was spiking my drink with more alcohol. Even after I, in a fun way, declared I was just on the fizzy drinks she kept putting alcohol in when I wasn't looking. I even said out load to everyone "oh this tastes funny" at the time but being drunk I didn't really think too much more of it. That night and next morning I was confused as to how I got so much more drunk after not drinking anymore but as you would.. I didn't think any more about it.
Two of the guys in the group separately without my prompt approached me saying what she had done, alcohol in my drinks. I spoke to her privately and said, "hey fun night, but I didn't enjoy being that out of control so no big deal but next time don't spike my drink past me saying no more" just trying to not make it a big deal but wanting to trust going out drinking with the group again. Anyway, she denied the whole thing and spent the rest of this group trip gaslighting and discrediting me in any way. I thought this was such an over reaction as I genuinely asked in the nicest way not to spike my drink and in private so she didn't have to be embarrassed. If she had just said sorry we would laugh it off as an accident and fun night out.
From then she and her wife have been isolating me from the group and been attaking me with horrible messages and making stuff up about me to divide me from the group. I could just accept it and move on with my life wothout this group but 1) I don't feel I should have to be the one to put up with this and be treated like this, they are also my friends. And 2) I am going out with with one of the group who is also the wife's brother. So will always be tied to these people at family functions.
My bf sees the issue but says oh well just ignore it. How do I ignore that. On future meet ups they would refuse to give me the details like a meet up time knowing they could tell everyone else last minute as they all live close by but I am a 2 hour train ride away and have to book the train ticket the day before for the ticket to not be 3x the price. And when I asked everyone else in the group including my bf they would say.. I don't know the time ask them. It's enough to make you think you have gone crazy. My bf could definitely do a lot more be on my side but he has tried to bring it up with them but they shout a lot at him and threaten to talk bad about me to their mum.. What a threat? So from this he just says don't say anything to ruin the peace. How is that my problem. That is such a gaslight thing to do..isolate me then be annoyed at me when i have a problem with them being horrible to me.
My bf still hangs out in the group, in my eyes supporting their behaviour. I have lost a lot of time crying about all this so the fact he doesn't show me more support makes me more upset.
They are all telling me I'm over reacting and if I can't calm down then just leave the group. I have had to block most of them after so many horrible messages. And as good as split from the group. But am I right to be upset when my bf for still hanging with them and wanting to go on holiday of a lifetime with them all. With these people who are happy to be that horrible. If it was just his sister at a family event I might understand but this.. And knowing I'll have to see my friend and the sister at family events.
I would be willing to forget it all of they just said sorry and stop acting like this but I can't talk to them without being attacked.
Tell me if I'm losing my mind or if I am the AH.
Trust me I am trying to ignore the whole thing and be cool whenever my bf is with them but I just can't seem to. And don't think it should have to. I am always the pushover and it's weighing on my mental health
TIA
I am looking for an audiobook of Alice through the looking glass by Lewis Carol I listened to it when I was younger but lost my ipod it was stored on. It must be at least 20 years old.
I cannot find this specific recording anywhere but it is so sentimental to me I am obsessed with finding it.
It was read by a male. I believe English or at least non animated voice/style of they are American. I'd say a deep voice. Monotone almost. It was unabridged with even the intro and jabberwocky poem before chapter one.
I have searched google and obvious audiobook sites but no luck.
If anyone can help that would be much appreciated. Maybe a link or name of a reader.
Thank you in advance
submitted by AdMindless1552 to FriendshipAdvice [link] [comments]
My friend from university is the main issue. She is a friend that seems 100% genuine but always wants to know everything about everyone and be in control. It's subtle and makes you question if you're over thinking or making things up in your head. She always over exaggerates stories. Over the years there have been little examples of this but always brush it off.
It came to a point when one night out our friend group was drinking. I'm usually pretty good when I drink and stop when I've got my limit and enjoy a fun rest of the night out tipsy but having no more alcohol. My friend herself does not drink but the whole night was spiking my drink with more alcohol. Even after I, in a fun way, declared I was just on the fizzy drinks she kept putting alcohol in when I wasn't looking. I even said out load to everyone "oh this tastes funny" at the time but being drunk I didn't really think too much more of it. That night and next morning I was confused as to how I got so much more drunk after not drinking anymore but as you would.. I didn't think any more about it.
Two of the guys in the group separately without my prompt approached me saying what she had done, alcohol in my drinks. I spoke to her privately and said, "hey fun night, but I didn't enjoy being that out of control so no big deal but next time don't spike my drink past me saying no more" just trying to not make it a big deal but wanting to trust going out drinking with the group again. Anyway, she denied the whole thing and spent the rest of this group trip gaslighting and discrediting me in any way. I thought this was such an over reaction as I genuinely asked in the nicest way not to spike my drink and in private so she didn't have to be embarrassed. If she had just said sorry we would laugh it off as an accident and fun night out.
From then she and her wife have been isolating me from the group and been attaking me with horrible messages and making stuff up about me to divide me from the group. I could just accept it and move on with my life wothout this group but 1) I don't feel I should have to be the one to put up with this and be treated like this, they are also my friends. And 2) I am going out with with one of the group who is also the wife's brother. So will always be tied to these people at family functions.
My bf sees the issue but says oh well just ignore it. How do I ignore that. On future meet ups they would refuse to give me the details like a meet up time knowing they could tell everyone else last minute as they all live close by but I am a 2 hour train ride away and have to book the train ticket the day before for the ticket to not be 3x the price. And when I asked everyone else in the group including my bf they would say.. I don't know the time ask them. It's enough to make you think you have gone crazy. My bf could definitely do a lot more be on my side but he has tried to bring it up with them but they shout a lot at him and threaten to talk bad about me to their mum.. What a threat? So from this he just says don't say anything to ruin the peace. How is that my problem. That is such a gaslight thing to do..isolate me then be annoyed at me when i have a problem with them being horrible to me.
My bf still hangs out in the group, in my eyes supporting their behaviour. I have lost a lot of time crying about all this so the fact he doesn't show me more support makes me more upset.
They are all telling me I'm over reacting and if I can't calm down then just leave the group. I have had to block most of them after so many horrible messages. And as good as split from the group. But am I right to be upset when my bf for still hanging with them and wanting to go on holiday of a lifetime with them all. With these people who are happy to be that horrible. If it was just his sister at a family event I might understand but this.. And knowing I'll have to see my friend and the sister at family events.
I would be willing to forget it all of they just said sorry and stop acting like this but I can't talk to them without being attacked.
Tell me if I'm losing my mind or if I am the AH.
Trust me I am trying to ignore the whole thing and be cool whenever my bf is with them but I just can't seem to. And don't think it should have to. I am always the pushover and it's weighing on my mental health
TIA
I am looking for an audiobook of Alice through the looking glass by Lewis Carol I listened to it when I was younger but lost my ipod it was stored on. It must be at least 20 years old.
I cannot find this specific recording anywhere but it is so sentimental to me I am obsessed with finding it.
It was read by a male. I believe English or at least non animated voice/style of they are American. I'd say a deep voice. Monotone almost. It was unabridged with even the intro and jabberwocky poem before chapter one.
I have searched google and obvious audiobook sites but no luck.
If anyone can help that would be much appreciated. Maybe a link or name of a reader.
Thank you in advance
2023.06.03 17:36 KeyMathematician8978 I will find lost tracks/videos for yall, free of charge
Ayo, Face Films reuploader guy here (realshityea on youtube). The sub has gone to shit lately, and they say be the change you want to see in the world so yeah. Suggest any lost track/music video from Toronto and I will try and find it for you.
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2023.06.03 17:35 Every-Juice6055 First week of summer vaca with SD
I just need to vent. Partly about being the sole caretaker and partly about my JNMIL. ANYWHOOOO I watch my SD all week while SO is at work. I’ve got pool passes so I took her and my baby for a few days. My MIL offered to watch SD one day to give me a break. She showed up the night before at midnight (SO and I were asleep with the baby) knocking on my freaking windows. I have a dog that barks and she knows this so it was very inconsiderate of her. SO got out of bed to see who it was and let SD go stay the night with her. I texted MIL asking her to never knock this late again and to stop using my windows as doors when knocking. It’s just rude to me like why would you get your finger prints all over someone’s window? She didn’t respond to me then had the audacity to text me the next day says “SD wants to know if you’re going to the pool. If so, she wants to go with you.” Ummm no? I’ve baby sat her all week and we planned this day for her to be with YOU. You actually offered I didn’t even ask. It just rubbed me the wrong way. Like oh well she wants to go to the pool so I better drop what I’m doing and go pick her up and take her! Well she never responded to my text so I never responded to hers and I took myself and baby to the pool after running errands and had a relaxing nice day. Took SD the next day
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2023.06.03 17:35 Ok-Buddy-3131 Was I (24F) too harsh in cutting him off (28M) for the second time? Met online
I met this guy “K” on tinder back in January. It was a nice brunch date but I cut him off afterwards because he said he was a dad halfway through eating. I explained to him it threw me off as dads are a deal breaker for me and so he asked if we could at least be friends and I never responded back.
He followed me on Instagram recently and we started talking again, he wanted me to give him a chance and just try things out. We went on two dates, both were just as well thought out and romantic. He never pushed for sex or had me go into his room when I came over to his apartment, which should be standard but unfortunately not as common with guys closer to my age.
I cut him off again for 2 reasons: 1) When initially trying to convince me to give him a chance (in DMs), he said his baby mama has a boyfriend so I wouldn’t have to worry. Yet in person when we talked about it again, he said he knew of someone she had dated but doesn’t know if she’s with anyone currently. I told him that he did tell me she has a boyfriend and he completely denied it saying he’d wouldn’t say that.
2) This was toxic on my end I admit, but I had a feeling he began to hide his Instagram stories from me. So I asked him, and he said no but immediately after I saw his stories again. There were all the stories posted from yesterday that I originally did not see since I was hidden. He said he had no idea how it happened, and “I just noticed but I didn’t I promise”. I didn’t believe how it could be on accident, I just took it seriously because he said he sees something potentially serious with me and I do not want to tolerate lies especially this early on.
Was I too harsh to cut him off instead of trying to work things out? I have trust issues that I need to work on and I felt like he was not making it any better. I do miss him and I am sad as I liked his company but in the moment I just felt like I needed to protect my feelings.
TLDR; I (24F) gave someone (28M) a second chance with dating but I cut him off again due to seemingly catching him in (white?) lies. Was I too harsh?
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He followed me on Instagram recently and we started talking again, he wanted me to give him a chance and just try things out. We went on two dates, both were just as well thought out and romantic. He never pushed for sex or had me go into his room when I came over to his apartment, which should be standard but unfortunately not as common with guys closer to my age.
I cut him off again for 2 reasons: 1) When initially trying to convince me to give him a chance (in DMs), he said his baby mama has a boyfriend so I wouldn’t have to worry. Yet in person when we talked about it again, he said he knew of someone she had dated but doesn’t know if she’s with anyone currently. I told him that he did tell me she has a boyfriend and he completely denied it saying he’d wouldn’t say that.
2) This was toxic on my end I admit, but I had a feeling he began to hide his Instagram stories from me. So I asked him, and he said no but immediately after I saw his stories again. There were all the stories posted from yesterday that I originally did not see since I was hidden. He said he had no idea how it happened, and “I just noticed but I didn’t I promise”. I didn’t believe how it could be on accident, I just took it seriously because he said he sees something potentially serious with me and I do not want to tolerate lies especially this early on.
Was I too harsh to cut him off instead of trying to work things out? I have trust issues that I need to work on and I felt like he was not making it any better. I do miss him and I am sad as I liked his company but in the moment I just felt like I needed to protect my feelings.
TLDR; I (24F) gave someone (28M) a second chance with dating but I cut him off again due to seemingly catching him in (white?) lies. Was I too harsh?
2023.06.03 17:35 Imbaatu Intro to Focus 12 - Extended/Edited version - 1h12m
I have created an extended version of Wave II (intro to Focus 12) because I personally think the tape is too short, I feel rushed to get to F10 using the tape and don't feel it gives me enough time to get to grips with F12.
This extended version runs for 72 minutes, I mixed it using Serato DJ Pro software and a Numark Mixstream mixer. It's mixed using the FLAC files, the software doesn't support FLAC as an output file format, so the file format is WAV (24 bit). There should be no discernable degredation in sound quality. The file size is 1.07gb.
It includes the following;
Intro music - Eternity (from TMI)
Energy conversion box instruction
Resonate tuning instruction
REBAL instruction (full audio from Advanced F10)
Affirmation
Moving to Focus 10 instruction (Full body relaxation audio from Intro to F10)
Extended F10 Hemi-Sync frequency
Moving to Focus 12 instruction
Extended F12 Hemi-Sync frequency
Moving between F12-F10
Return to C1 - Normal waking concioussness
Close music - Eternity (from TMI)
If you would find this longer version useful feel free to download from;
https://drive.google.com/file/d/13i_aCOlD43BMKUNUJhxvLL8qs_RBw0XW/view?usp=drivesdk
submitted by Imbaatu to gatewaytapes [link] [comments]
This extended version runs for 72 minutes, I mixed it using Serato DJ Pro software and a Numark Mixstream mixer. It's mixed using the FLAC files, the software doesn't support FLAC as an output file format, so the file format is WAV (24 bit). There should be no discernable degredation in sound quality. The file size is 1.07gb.
It includes the following;
Intro music - Eternity (from TMI)
Energy conversion box instruction
Resonate tuning instruction
REBAL instruction (full audio from Advanced F10)
Affirmation
Moving to Focus 10 instruction (Full body relaxation audio from Intro to F10)
Extended F10 Hemi-Sync frequency
Moving to Focus 12 instruction
Extended F12 Hemi-Sync frequency
Moving between F12-F10
Return to C1 - Normal waking concioussness
Close music - Eternity (from TMI)
If you would find this longer version useful feel free to download from;
https://drive.google.com/file/d/13i_aCOlD43BMKUNUJhxvLL8qs_RBw0XW/view?usp=drivesdk
2023.06.03 17:35 CSTar2083 Would an email confirming a phone call about a court date count as evidence that the other party is taking you to court to prevent the reinstatement of your video in a counter notification?
I got the email after i submitted a counter notification:
Dear, Thank you for your counter notification. It has now been forwarded to the claimant that submitted the copyright removal request.
Now that the counter notification has been sent to the claimant, they have 10 US business days from this date to respond. The claimant must respond with evidence that they’ve taken legal action against you to keep the content at issue from being reinstated to YouTube. You can learn more about what legal action the claimant must take in our Help Center.
After 10 US business days, if we don't get a response from the claimant, your content will be reinstated to YouTube. Also, the associated penalties on your channel will be cleared.
Keep in mind that a counter notification is a legal request. As a result, YouTube must process the counter notification in accordance with the law. This process can take some time, so we kindly ask for your patience during the process.
When there are updates on the status of your counter notification, we’ll reply to this email to let you know. You can also check the counter notification's status in YouTube Studio. In the meantime, if you have any more information you want to share with us about your counter notification, you can reply directly to this email.
Yo this is just to confirm that I called you on the phone and I gave you information of the date the court is due.
See you there I’m blocking this email anything you say will not be received until court.
Would this count as reasonable evidence that he’s taking me to court, to prevent the reinstatement of my video, or does it have to be something a little more clear, confirmed, or maybe a paper or document or something like that?
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Dear, Thank you for your counter notification. It has now been forwarded to the claimant that submitted the copyright removal request.
Now that the counter notification has been sent to the claimant, they have 10 US business days from this date to respond. The claimant must respond with evidence that they’ve taken legal action against you to keep the content at issue from being reinstated to YouTube. You can learn more about what legal action the claimant must take in our Help Center.
After 10 US business days, if we don't get a response from the claimant, your content will be reinstated to YouTube. Also, the associated penalties on your channel will be cleared.
Keep in mind that a counter notification is a legal request. As a result, YouTube must process the counter notification in accordance with the law. This process can take some time, so we kindly ask for your patience during the process.
When there are updates on the status of your counter notification, we’ll reply to this email to let you know. You can also check the counter notification's status in YouTube Studio. In the meantime, if you have any more information you want to share with us about your counter notification, you can reply directly to this email.
- The YouTube Team
Yo this is just to confirm that I called you on the phone and I gave you information of the date the court is due.
See you there I’m blocking this email anything you say will not be received until court.
Would this count as reasonable evidence that he’s taking me to court, to prevent the reinstatement of my video, or does it have to be something a little more clear, confirmed, or maybe a paper or document or something like that?
2023.06.03 17:35 Pacis- Do you ever have the feeling that everything goes to shit?
Im 20 and I was diagnosed as a Child with adhd but nobody did/ said anything so I was diagnosed again last month but still have no meds because I need to find psychiatrist. 🫠
This year is my second try on high school and currently I m barely passing. Just got fired from Mcdonalds. How is that even possible?!. I also got fired from Netflix Customer Service, C&A and a Mexican food chain. Why can’t I hold a job?
The worst thing is that my foster father always sees the best in me and always does everything for me. And what am I doing? I disappoint him again and again. My foster mother already thinks I’m a lost cause. Everybody says „ You’re smart you can do it. You’re not dumb just do your best and work with effort then it will work.” Or „You are not alone”. This is even worse, for once because I know I can do it but my adhd stops me from doing and all I can think about is that it’s my fault because I’m stupid, lazy and a disappointment. Of course there is also all the negative people say to me. I think everybody heard enough of it.
Oh and I also have no friends like literally im always alone in school always the freak and weird kid. When a the teacher says work with other classmates I know im fucked.I don’t even try to search for someone, work alone and hope the teacher doesn’t notice. In my seventh class the class went for a class vacation [1] the girls got two rooms at a hostel and nobody wanted me in their room. After I waited like half an hour on the floor someone from the girls room took me in because of pity…..
Yeah so my life is big disaster. 💩
[1] In Germany in 4th, 7th, 10th, 12th the class goes on Vacation somewhere where the teacher chooses for 3-5 days. I don’t know if somewhere else is the same…
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This year is my second try on high school and currently I m barely passing. Just got fired from Mcdonalds. How is that even possible?!. I also got fired from Netflix Customer Service, C&A and a Mexican food chain. Why can’t I hold a job?
The worst thing is that my foster father always sees the best in me and always does everything for me. And what am I doing? I disappoint him again and again. My foster mother already thinks I’m a lost cause. Everybody says „ You’re smart you can do it. You’re not dumb just do your best and work with effort then it will work.” Or „You are not alone”. This is even worse, for once because I know I can do it but my adhd stops me from doing and all I can think about is that it’s my fault because I’m stupid, lazy and a disappointment. Of course there is also all the negative people say to me. I think everybody heard enough of it.
Oh and I also have no friends like literally im always alone in school always the freak and weird kid. When a the teacher says work with other classmates I know im fucked.I don’t even try to search for someone, work alone and hope the teacher doesn’t notice. In my seventh class the class went for a class vacation [1] the girls got two rooms at a hostel and nobody wanted me in their room. After I waited like half an hour on the floor someone from the girls room took me in because of pity…..
Yeah so my life is big disaster. 💩
[1] In Germany in 4th, 7th, 10th, 12th the class goes on Vacation somewhere where the teacher chooses for 3-5 days. I don’t know if somewhere else is the same…
2023.06.03 17:34 JayID99 This Is My First Time Building a PC, Is Is It Good?
I will be using this build for gaming, as well as general use, such as watching videos and browsing the internet.
I'm looking for to get ideally 100 FPS at all times at FHD resolution with max settings to match with my monitor, but if it dips below 100 FPS, it is acceptable.
My budget is $1300 or $1400, but that is also for all the accessories that I'm going to buy with the PC, such as monitor, speakers, mouse and keyboard, etc. I would prefer to spend less, probably $1100 or $1200, ideally $1000, though I'm guessing that's probably not possible. Having to purchase Windows after everything else, really bumps the price up.
I am purchasing the parts in the USA.
PCPartPicker Part List
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I'm looking for to get ideally 100 FPS at all times at FHD resolution with max settings to match with my monitor, but if it dips below 100 FPS, it is acceptable.
My budget is $1300 or $1400, but that is also for all the accessories that I'm going to buy with the PC, such as monitor, speakers, mouse and keyboard, etc. I would prefer to spend less, probably $1100 or $1200, ideally $1000, though I'm guessing that's probably not possible. Having to purchase Windows after everything else, really bumps the price up.
I am purchasing the parts in the USA.
PCPartPicker Part List
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2023.06.03 17:34 soliivagent i cracked and contacted him
i cracked and contacted my ex an hour ago. i'm still a little drunk, sitting at my desk and typing this now. i apologise for any grammatical errors from here on out!
when we broke up, he told me why he wanted to break-up with me, and i was too blindsided and horrified to deal with it at the moment, and i distanced myself right then and there to deal with the shock. however, in doing so, i didn't completely get why we were breaking up and i felt stung and completely hurt by this break-up that i tried to rationalise with emotions and understand with facts.
tonight, though, i cracked and reached out, desperate for closure. i didn't come into the conversation expecting anything but answers, but only because those i knew he would willingly give. by now, i had come to terms with 'not being what he wanted' and that it likely wouldn't work out in the long run.
i asked him why, and he clarified again that he felt like we were just not clicking the way he thought we would, and that maybe he was wrong, but we wouldn't have had enough time to figure things out anyway, because he's leaving in a month or less, and neither of us genuinely and wholeheartedly were okay with doing long-distance for years with no sure timeframe. he did say that we were at the wrong place and time, but he wasn't sure if we were the wrong people either.
strangely enough, this felt like a relief to hear, and now, i feel ready to heal. i am still sad and i am still heartbroken, but instead of feeling lonely, empty, and incomplete, i now feel wistful and nostalgic for some of the happiest days of my life.
deep down, i will always care for him very deeply, even if it's just not in the way that we had first tried to work on.
i'm not saying you should contact your ex for closure, but i have a checklist for you to see if you feel like doing it:
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when we broke up, he told me why he wanted to break-up with me, and i was too blindsided and horrified to deal with it at the moment, and i distanced myself right then and there to deal with the shock. however, in doing so, i didn't completely get why we were breaking up and i felt stung and completely hurt by this break-up that i tried to rationalise with emotions and understand with facts.
tonight, though, i cracked and reached out, desperate for closure. i didn't come into the conversation expecting anything but answers, but only because those i knew he would willingly give. by now, i had come to terms with 'not being what he wanted' and that it likely wouldn't work out in the long run.
i asked him why, and he clarified again that he felt like we were just not clicking the way he thought we would, and that maybe he was wrong, but we wouldn't have had enough time to figure things out anyway, because he's leaving in a month or less, and neither of us genuinely and wholeheartedly were okay with doing long-distance for years with no sure timeframe. he did say that we were at the wrong place and time, but he wasn't sure if we were the wrong people either.
strangely enough, this felt like a relief to hear, and now, i feel ready to heal. i am still sad and i am still heartbroken, but instead of feeling lonely, empty, and incomplete, i now feel wistful and nostalgic for some of the happiest days of my life.
deep down, i will always care for him very deeply, even if it's just not in the way that we had first tried to work on.
i'm not saying you should contact your ex for closure, but i have a checklist for you to see if you feel like doing it:
- was it an amiable break-up? yes/no
- can you two talk things out without fighting? yes/no
- have you accepted that you can't get them back and it is fully, truly over? yes/no
- do you think your ex would grant you the courtesy of explaining why? yes/no
- can you talk or think of them without you begging them to stay? yes/no
2023.06.03 17:34 atavistic4200 I have been insecure for as long as I can remember
If there’s something that has been constant all my life, it’s the insecurity. I can remember other people’s gazes as if saying “you don’t belong here” from childhood because we were poor. Not poor poor as some people would like to think they are but real asin lang ang inuulam poor.
I guess poverty has built up a certain kind of insecurity in me in a way that I always feel like I don’t belong anywhere because I haven’t experienced much in life. I don’t have any stories to tell of where I have travelled. Or of where we went out last weekend. Or what I got for my birthday. Heck, I always reason our that “our family is not big on celebrations” because we can’t afford celebrations. I always looked down on myself because I tended to focus on what I don’t have. I hate it that I always trace it to the lack of enough money on our end so that I could have what I thought I needed and thereby feel more secure.
But I did have what others don’t. I was an honor student. I graduated college with Latin honors from what they say is the best university in the country. I worked in prestigious organizations. I think I’m smarter and in my better moments more empathetic than most people. But I could easily fall into the trap of feeling not okay and insecure because I don’t have the money. Especially now, where I work. I’m teammates with a member of the top 1% prominent families in the country. We work directly with the family that owns one of the, if not the largest conglomerate in the country. And in my worse moments I can’t help but think, God, ano kaya pakiramdam maipanganak sa pamilya na ang last mong iisipin ay kung saan kukuha ng pambili ng susunod mong kakainin?
Despite all these, I do think I grew up okay. Apart from my recent bipolar II and ADHD diagnoses, I thought I have been able to cope and do stuff in life a bit better than most. But my insecurity sure sends me down. I know when I start feeling insecure I am setting up myself for my depressive phase. When I see people having it better financially and materially on social media, I just feel a big lump in my throat. I begin to be sad. I don’t want to feel envious or insecure, but I can’t help. I also know that where I stand now, there are people in much, much worse situations than I am. But I just can’t stop feeling this way. Seeing people go to places I want to go, do things I want to do, be the people I want to be. Why? Why them and not me?
Because of my insecurity, I’ve been aloof to people most of the time. Which is odd because I have learned that in my best moments, I can really be happy with people around me.
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I guess poverty has built up a certain kind of insecurity in me in a way that I always feel like I don’t belong anywhere because I haven’t experienced much in life. I don’t have any stories to tell of where I have travelled. Or of where we went out last weekend. Or what I got for my birthday. Heck, I always reason our that “our family is not big on celebrations” because we can’t afford celebrations. I always looked down on myself because I tended to focus on what I don’t have. I hate it that I always trace it to the lack of enough money on our end so that I could have what I thought I needed and thereby feel more secure.
But I did have what others don’t. I was an honor student. I graduated college with Latin honors from what they say is the best university in the country. I worked in prestigious organizations. I think I’m smarter and in my better moments more empathetic than most people. But I could easily fall into the trap of feeling not okay and insecure because I don’t have the money. Especially now, where I work. I’m teammates with a member of the top 1% prominent families in the country. We work directly with the family that owns one of the, if not the largest conglomerate in the country. And in my worse moments I can’t help but think, God, ano kaya pakiramdam maipanganak sa pamilya na ang last mong iisipin ay kung saan kukuha ng pambili ng susunod mong kakainin?
Despite all these, I do think I grew up okay. Apart from my recent bipolar II and ADHD diagnoses, I thought I have been able to cope and do stuff in life a bit better than most. But my insecurity sure sends me down. I know when I start feeling insecure I am setting up myself for my depressive phase. When I see people having it better financially and materially on social media, I just feel a big lump in my throat. I begin to be sad. I don’t want to feel envious or insecure, but I can’t help. I also know that where I stand now, there are people in much, much worse situations than I am. But I just can’t stop feeling this way. Seeing people go to places I want to go, do things I want to do, be the people I want to be. Why? Why them and not me?
Because of my insecurity, I’ve been aloof to people most of the time. Which is odd because I have learned that in my best moments, I can really be happy with people around me.
2023.06.03 17:34 BalanceNo1722 18F Double vision/dry eyes caused by swinging? Vaping? Lyme disease?
This is really probably a multi faceted problem, but I (18F, vegetarian my entire life, nonsmoker except for a brief vaping stint 2-3 months I’ve since quit, ADHD, OCD, 20/20 vision) have been swinging a lot in my backyard recently, I just do it while listening to music and space out and I end up swinging fast and high for hours on end- maybe 3-4 hours some days in the evening when I have nothing else to do. In the past week, I’ve noticed ghosting and sort of double vision when reading text, like there’s an aura around white text on a black background and the other way around. My eyes feel weird and fatigued and dry even though I’ve been drinking more water since the past 24 hours, so I don’t know how long it takes dehydration to go away (it just hit 90 degrees where I live in the past few days). Could this be because of summer, because of swinging, or just due to anxiety? I’ve also been having brain fog- inability to get the correct words, speak quickly, etc, been really irritable. There’s so many factors, like my period’s supposed to start soon too, but I’ve never felt all of this before having one so I don’t know.
This could be related as well-I didn’t notice the double vision until after I threw out a vape I’d been using after finding out that vaping can harm your vision. So I’m thinking anxiety from that is making me hyper aware of every little misstep, even if my eyes could just feel weird because of eye strain. I drove last night and didn’t see any streaks or anything, like people with astigmatism say they do. I was not a heavy vaper- I did it occasionally for 2 months, only took big hits in that the past month because I was going through something and didn’t know how to cope other than get lightheaded, which was stupid of me and a reason I quit a few days back. Sometimes when I took big hits my vision would flicker, and one time blood vessels popped, which is when I started realizing I should quit and just begin seeing a therapist rather than damaging my future over a situation I didn’t know how to emotionally cope with. My eyes aren’t red or bulging or have any blood vessels now. I also took my first hit in months of weed a week ago, and don’t know if I’m just experiencing depersonalization because it was a weird trip- I blacked out randomly and it felt like I was skipping through time.
And not to mention I found a tick on me a few days ago, having been outside a lot recently. Or that my screen time has been higher than usual.
Given my age, what could be most likely for my eyesight? Swinging often with eyes open and getting all that wind in for hours on end? Vaping? Anxiety? Weed? Lyme disease? Screen time?
Thanks to anyone who reads all the way through, and please suggest what I should do going forward. I’m already planning on seeing my GP for blood tests and an eye doctor to check pressure.
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This could be related as well-I didn’t notice the double vision until after I threw out a vape I’d been using after finding out that vaping can harm your vision. So I’m thinking anxiety from that is making me hyper aware of every little misstep, even if my eyes could just feel weird because of eye strain. I drove last night and didn’t see any streaks or anything, like people with astigmatism say they do. I was not a heavy vaper- I did it occasionally for 2 months, only took big hits in that the past month because I was going through something and didn’t know how to cope other than get lightheaded, which was stupid of me and a reason I quit a few days back. Sometimes when I took big hits my vision would flicker, and one time blood vessels popped, which is when I started realizing I should quit and just begin seeing a therapist rather than damaging my future over a situation I didn’t know how to emotionally cope with. My eyes aren’t red or bulging or have any blood vessels now. I also took my first hit in months of weed a week ago, and don’t know if I’m just experiencing depersonalization because it was a weird trip- I blacked out randomly and it felt like I was skipping through time.
And not to mention I found a tick on me a few days ago, having been outside a lot recently. Or that my screen time has been higher than usual.
Given my age, what could be most likely for my eyesight? Swinging often with eyes open and getting all that wind in for hours on end? Vaping? Anxiety? Weed? Lyme disease? Screen time?
Thanks to anyone who reads all the way through, and please suggest what I should do going forward. I’m already planning on seeing my GP for blood tests and an eye doctor to check pressure.
2023.06.03 17:33 Saint_Remy_ Logic gets no audio from JUST the instrument input on Focusrite Scarlett Solo
Logic Pro gets no audio signal from the INST input on my Focusrite Scarlett Solo. The software does receive the signal from the MIC input. My Mac is getting a signal from both the INST and MIC inputs when I test them in the OS sound settings. I’ve tried tweaking other audio settings in Logic to see if they effected anything, but it didn’t remedy the issue so I reset them to default. So my Mac is able to pick up the signal from both inputs on the interface, and Logic is communicating with the interface because it’s able to pick up the MIC input. I downloaded the Focusrite Control app as well to troubleshoot but it doesn’t give me any pertinent settings to change.
Anyone experienced similar issues? I had this issue with the previous version of Logic and the most recent update hasn’t fixed it at all. I’m not sure what else to try and this is my only interface to record an instrument with into my DAW.
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Anyone experienced similar issues? I had this issue with the previous version of Logic and the most recent update hasn’t fixed it at all. I’m not sure what else to try and this is my only interface to record an instrument with into my DAW.