I’m still seeing my situationaship, despite moving away. I only see him when I’m in town and he’s always down for it.
Recently I messaged him and asked what he was up to. He said he was with friends. Idk why, but I’ve been sensing that he might be seeing other people or in a relationship. So I replied “girlfriend?”. He just said yes . I asked if he was serious and if so why he didn’t tell me he was seeing someone and he said yes and he’ll talk more.
I’ve asked him before and he said he wasn’t seeing anyone and he would always let me know if he got in a relationship. I’m not sure if he said that to make me jealous, was being sarcastic and was telling the truth. We just talked about meeting up a few days ago.
Last time i saw him, he was acting different. It was fun, but he was lying to me about something.
He told me he was going to be working until midnight. I messaged him when I was in town earlier and he asked where I was and to let him know when I was done hanging with friends. I told him when and then he told me to call him. He said he was 30 minutes away for a “work thing”. It wasn’t adding up then because I used to work at the job he’s at now and it’s not located in the city he was said to be in. He then started a random conversation that was off topic and I began to sense maybe he was on something.
He messaged me when he got home which was quick. He was already naked when I got in and when we began fooling around, it looked like he was high out of his mind. I never saw him like that before. He seemed to be on another planet. I asked if he was fine and if he did anything before I got there and he said alcohol and weed. I’m not someone who’s familiar with drugs, but it seemed like it could’ve been something more than that. I dated a guy who did substances before but it was hard drugs and he’d only get extremely horny and affectionate while on those.
This guy was also very affectionate and did stuff he’s never done before to me. It’s like he couldn’t keep his hands off of me and didn’t want to stop. While it was great, this was all unlike him. I sensed maybe he could’ve been on Molly but he said he wasn’t when I asked . He said he drank wine, but the bottle still had a lot in it when he offered it to me. I know the two can make you horny, but it was so extreme with how he was acting, it seemed like it was something else.
He was vaping when I got there and said what he had wasn’t strong.
He couldn’t finish at all, and would go limp every now and then , but he kept trying to fool around non stop for like 4 hours. He’d say how amazing I was and he even just wanted to cuddle. I asked if he drank and smoke at work because he was too intoxicated when I got there and he said he had dinner with friends and worked earlier.
None of this is adding up. While I had a good time, I’m wondering what he was lying about & why ? I always wonder if he’s seeing other women and if that could’ve been the case ?
We talked about seeing each other again. We talked in the morning and he said it was fine . He said he would be off that day and I told him what time I would be free. He just responded ok. Then I sexted him and said I couldn’t wait. He never responded. I was waiting for him to reply and it got closer to the time I said I would be free. He had only sent me a meme on another app we’re friends on.
I messaged him and he said he was in bed, I asked if he wanted to still meet up and he took forever to respond. He said he was too high to drive. I said I would come to him and he just left me on read for about an hour then said I could come. He said he fell asleep.
When I got there it was the same experience, but this time he didn’t want to do much to me. I mostly did all the work and he still couldn’t finish. He was very sluggish and said he smoke too much. I ended up leaving and he just stayed in bed and didn’t say much to me. Then he sends me a photo on Snapchat the next day about him heading to the beach. It was a broad snap that looked like it was sent to other people. I know he’s going with a couple and the last time he hung out with them, there was a girl with them who I had never seen before. She’s shown up in photos for his birthday and other things. I was wondering if this was someone he’s seeing. I asked him if he was seeing anyone else and he said no and said he would let me know if he ever did, but I still feel like he’s hiding something. He wound up deleting the photo he shared that she was in after i asked that.
I know this a bit much for a situationship, but I just hate being lied to. I just want to know what’s really going on.
What is his deal?
TL;DR My situation ship has been acting weird lately and I’m wondering if he’s seeing someone else. A woman who I don’t know has shown up in his photos previously. He said he wasn’t seeing anyone & would tell me if he ever did.
But last time we spoke I jokingly asked if he was with his girlfriend and he said yes. I asked if he was serious and why he never told me He was seeing someone and he said he would talk later. He hasn’t responded since and I’m Just confused.
The last time I saw him he said he had to work and wouldn’t get off until late, then he calls me and says he was 30 minutes away because of work, but his job doesn’t require him to travel. When I went to his place, he was really intoxicated, he was very affectionate and touchy and it seemed like he could’ve been on molly or ecstasy. He said he only smoked weed & drank wine. I asked if he did that at work because he was too messed up when I saw him after he claimed to have come back from work. He said he went to dinner after work with friends. He couldn’t finish at all & would go limp sometimes , but still tried to go at it for a long time. The same thing happened the next day, but we agreed to see each other and when I messaged him about meeting up at the time we agreed on, he left me on read for about an hour. He said he was too high to drive to me and I suggested I’d go to him. He left me on read some more and then said I could go. He was once again sluggish and couldn’t finish and wasn’t affectionate at all. I ended up leaving and the next day he sends me this broad snap, I’m sure he sent to other people of him going on vacation with a couple I’ve seen him with before. The last time he was with them, this mysterious girl was with them In photos. Is he hiding something?

Hey everyone thank you for reading this !!
It’s been close to 2 month, honestly I’m great mentally I know what I need to do and I’m staying to course, it’s just nice to express myself to the understanding people of this community.
I miss her so much 😭😭 I really hope she feels the same. I hope she misses me and the belly rubs. I loved her so fucking much and still do. I broke up with her and I don’t regret it but I still want to be with her (doesn’t make sense but it’s very complicated)
We went no contact 2 different times and this is the 2 time we’re in now. She is such an amazing woman and I truly wish nothing but happiness for her in her future. First time no contact I was hoping she would reach out. She never did. I finally reached out. I took her on a couple dates and she stayed at my house a couple nights and things were good. We did a lot of reflecting and talking and I thought things were looking good.
She told me she didn’t want to get back together now and wanted to focus on herself (until the summer was over, “until summers over “ exact words) which hurt. The night we broke up. We had talked about something and she agreed to not do it. Next morning she was doing it. So when she got home at night from a baby shower I was about to confront her and she was in a bubbly mood. So I confronted her. She got very defensive . And tbh I was wrong for this but I stonewalled and asked for a break. At that moment she paused and packed all her things,
I gave her a ride home and she didn’t say a word the whole car ride, after I dropped her off I helped her carry her things up, I just dropped them and made a quick exit (found out later she really didn’t like this) on my way out she came downstairs and leaned out and said “I don’t think I should come back” (We lived together for 2+ years)
Anyway I’m just really hurt, I’m too proud to admit that I’m really hurting so at least I can express it here. It’s a mixture of literally every emotion imaginable and if anyone or any group of people couple understand it would be this group.
Thank you everyone if you read this. Have an amazing night !

Hello there! I'm 22 M Fil-Chi from Metro Manila, sporty, fit, plays games and loves sports so much specially Basketball. I'm looking for a constant any age will do this can be long term depending if we vibe. HMU! I'll be waiting for you in my inbox!

He was 22 and we still don’t know what happened. He was walking to the pharmacy and was later discovered and brought to the hospital where they were unable to revive him. Now we have to wait 11 weeks for the autopsy report from the coroner.
Needless to say we are all a mess.
I offered counseling to his two younger siblings but they aren’t interested. His mother and i divorced many years ago and we do not get along so there is that too. This episode with her will be topic number one when I start therapy.
I am actively seeking a therapist for myself right now but I have so many questions and have never gone through something like this so I wanted to post here. I have posted on some reddits here about divorce stuff a while ago and believe I have helped some people out so now I am reaching out to this sub.
Stupid things really, but they hit me hard and I need some advice.
First, the practical. has anyone dealt with a coroner before? Is there anything I should ask or find out about?
Second, I have pictures of him and my other kids all over my house. I can hold it together a bit, but when I look at his pictures it hurts so much. Has this happened to anyone? What did you do about the pictures?
There are a lot more questions but right now I am trying to get everything together for the funeral and at the same time not be a big puddle of mush every time I look at one of the pictures.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Hi Apple fans,
I'm excited to share our recently launched calendar app timing.is with this community!
Watch our short trailer on youtube
When it comes to time management and calendaring we realize a lot of options exist, but in our experience, most are either too basic in their functionality or too complex in their adoption. And using a project/knowledge management tool to tackle your day-to-day feels a bit unnatural/overwhelming. So – we opted to build something powerful, but in a more familiar calendato-do list package that appeals to the average consumer but does not alienate the power user either. It’s fully native on iOS (made with love and occasional despair in SwiftUI) and uses your Calendar and Reminders data as its data source.
We just launched on Product Hunt this past week (made it to the top 10!) and so far the reception has been overwhelmingly positive.
Considering the number of new entrants in the space who have made similar claims, we can understand your skepticism. So here's a summary of our differentiators to help you decide whether to follow through with a download. Fingers crossed none will be Sherlocked by Apple at tomorrow’s WWDC announcement (=

1. A single timeline to review your Reminders, Tasks and Calendar Events without context switching. Several apps are starting to offer this now, but we’re focused on making our “today” view the most useful blend of your events, your tasks, and your breaks/gaps. Our "anytime tasks" are like post-it notes for your day. They stay top of mind throughout the day (or week even — you can set tasks to be for anytime during a week). You can easily check them off, or set reminders so they don’t get missed. If something does slip (it will happen!), we’ll give you a soft nudge, but we are intentional in presenting a blank slate each day/week so to reduce any overwhelm that could ultimately lead you to declare task bankruptcy. We want to help you, not burden you.
2. A universal entry point to capture anything you want to plan around. While we don’t support NLP (…yet), our flexible entry form makes adding reminders, events, or tasks natural and perhaps even faster than typing. You can also annotate things with #tags and emojis and a many other custom fields like energy, priority, Eisenhower matrix, LNO and more. All these fields are customizable so you can toggle on/off to just the ones that suit your lifestyle. Spoilers: we plan to add more metadata points so there’s something for everyone (ideas most welcome, especially for your priority system of choice), and eventually want to empower you with the tools to create your own. Think Notion for calendars!
3. Powerful filters and views to get a perspective on your upcoming timeline (or a retro on your recent past). Two important takeaways from our user sessions were that 1) busy people don’t like their calendars because it’s a source of overwhelming anxiety and 2) busy people are really busy. Short of the powers to free them up, we offer them the next best thing: the ability to dramatically simplify their calendar through filters: there are a ton and can be combined in unique and creative ways. This helps unlock fresh and insightful perspectives, and are also supported by a special Week view that leverages them to digest what’s ahead in a snap. For anyone with a busy calendar, this is a game changer! It’s one of those obvious features that once you’ve tried it, you’re going to wonder how the heck has no calendar app done this before.
4. Space for (private) notes for each task/event to help with preparation/recall. We’ve found that our notes app is chock-full of random single-page (sometimes single-sentence) entries with no additional context. A lot of times these are related to something that's happening in our life at that point in time (whether a calendar event or a task). So we decided to put together a “scratchpad” to let you write something within the context of the task/event. You can export these notes to your favorite app if needed or just leave them on your timeline for future reference.
5. Event discovery and inspiration Part of what makes planning challenging is the “what”. With so much happening in the world (and locally) that might interest us, it’s so easy for things to slip. There are thousands of websites with lists of things to do, but they are not aware of our time (or our interests), making it a catch-22. So we decided to bring these two worlds closer together by adding event discovery directly in the app, where you can one-tap add them to your calendar. We currently support local events (certain geo’s only), live sports and many special interests categories like release dates, social media events and so on. We plan to enrich our sources over time (any recommendations most welcome).
6. Beautiful and thoughtful design We’ve been extremely considerate with every design detail in the app, however big or small. Right from the go, we were determined to not build just another calendar. There are many of those — arguably too many — and so we weren’t motivated to simply make up the numbers. The goal has been to build something different better. A genuine alternative. Admittedly we have not always balanced those two priorities equally with initial versions perhaps being too opinionated resulting in a too unfamiliar experience. However, with the help of early users (as well as inspiration from other apps, notably the Camera), we’ve re-iterated a ton and — although there’s still ways to go — we think we’re on the way to accomplishing our objective: something fresh but still familiar.

We have so much more planned but we couldn’t wait any longer to share what we have with this community. We know you have good taste so hopefully you’ll check us out and we can build this next phase together – and apologies for the long-ish post :)

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English is not my first language. Apologize for spelling error and whatnots.
Group of five that has been friends since we were 17 (now 30-31ish). Anna (fake name) I've known since we were four and are still close. Jenna (also fake) I met through Anna when we were 17. Tilda and Emma (fake ) were also a part of that group. Tilda and Jenna were also childhood friends since age 7ish.
All of them were at my wedding last year in September. We have a group chat we chat in sometimes since we all live a distance from each other. During adulthood we always made sure to meet up at least twice a year, but you know life gets busy. But we always made time for each other in the group chat.
After the wedding I started to notice that Jenna always read everyones replys or texts, but never answered. In November we started planning another get together, aiming for february. Never got an answer wether she could or not. We asked her, but didn't get any response. The rest of us decided to go ahead with the date and either Jenna joined or not. Might add she still read every single message, just chose to not respond. We never heard from her. During the last six months I've shared two major events in my life in that chat: that we bought a house and that I was pregnant. None of them I got any response from her or any congrats. The rest did.
Now Jenna and I used to be close from age 18-24 ish. Somewhere after that it sizzled a bit, but we still talked and did things. And then work came, boyfriends etc. I understand that as we grow and evolve relationships are never the same as they used to be. In time she got a job she loved, boyfriend, house, dog. And I noticed she liked meeting new people in the dog community and through work. I never blamed for anything. I also gained new friends and acquaintances. Maybe her avoiding us started earlier than the wedding, I don't know. I also chalked it up to her and I not being in the same phase of life.
Either way, back to an event yesterday. Now I've been pretty hurt that she at least never acknowledged the house or my pregnancy. The rest I didn't care about, but I thought at least that would warrant a response. Yesterday we were all invited, along with other friends and family, to Tilda to celebrate her finishing a bachelor degree. I had been debating wether I would talk to Jenna before about her behaviour, but both me and my husband decided to wait until this event. There was a chance everything would pour out with congratulations and whatnots. So I bid my time and off we went.
Adding: It was both me and Anna that experienced the silence and felt something was off.
At the party I saw her, we walked up, everyone congratulated once again on the baby and asked question. Anna? None. Zero. Never made any eye contact the entire evening. I made several attempt at saying hi, and everytime she turned her back on us and walked in a different direction.
At one point she, along with my husband, her boyfriend and another stood outside talking. Anna and I walked up to join and she immediately walked away.
Neither Anna and I know what's wrong. I've asked both Tilda and Emma and no one knows. She still talks to them (Emma is also her sister, so that's explainable). It was just Anna and I that was silenced.
I'm just so hurt and confused. We can't figure out if we have done anything wrong. I thought about writing to her about my feelings, but decided against it. Nothing will come out of it and I'm not sure I will get any closure from it.
I still talk with Emma, Tilda and Anna and we all still want to keep in touch. For now I've archived the previous group chat and started a new one with just the four of us (The old one will still be active, I just won't see any messages). I just don't want to have anything to do with Jenna at the moment. Maybe she will come around, maybe she will not. But Anna and I have accepted that we will have to live in the unknown.
It just hurts.

Ok this is more of a rant and I really just need a place to vent I guess. Honestly it’s becoming actually frightening at how bad hating women/misogyny has gotten. I’m hearing not just common sexist stuff but actually very concerning things such as taking women’s rights away and wanting to beat or inslave women for just being women. I know it’s always been this bad but I’ve never seen it so much in so many places. Under a YouTube video about the birth rate plummeting in many countries most of the comments were from men bringing up that in counties where women do not have many rights this isn’t a problem and there they all go agreeing women are just demons and shouldn’t have a choice in anything since it doesn’t benefit anyone even ourselves or women can have rights but there needs to be a subservient cap (whatever that means) these men were so angry and upset about women choosing not to have as many kids (or not able to) that they want to force us to(even tho heightening the birth rate right now would make no sense and benefit no one) or how it’s not right for us to have all the evil hobbies and jobs and living life because we are not focusing on important things like being a mother or wife. I don’t know. I’ve never seen it to this level before. Or random men at my work I hear them talking about Andrew tate or how bad modern women are and just a complete lack of empathy for anything relating to women or just downright hate. Even some men I have been friends with I’ve had to end it because of them saying genuinely frightening things in relation to rape or abuse or just women in general. As well as a man my family knows (friends of friends of sort) breaking the spine to a women he was “helping” by giving her shelter cause she’s homeless and now pregnant with his baby and apparently that man thinking women deserve to “pay the price” if they get pregnant with HIS child! Ignoring that he was taking advantage of women in desperate situations!! honestly this has affected the way I see men as a whole. Sorry this is more of a rant. I think I’m just exhausted at this point and saddened at how things are going. It’s like you can’t escape it. Men feel genuinely dangerous and seem to really hate women. A lot of them.

I’m 24f and my partner of almost four years (25M) wants children. I am unsure, leading up to this relationship I leaned more towards CF. He doesn’t want them for a while and is also trying to understand how he would feel about not having children if I fully decided on CF. I love him dearly and want to take the next step with him (engagement then marriage) but we both feel we shouldn’t until that is sorted.
I’ve never felt very inclined or amused by kids/babies, and I’m very career driven. I am also very aware of how my position in society and the workforce will likely be impacted as a woman with kids/pregnant. I’m not sure I want to revolve my world around anyone other than my partner and I (and my dog of course). It honestly just sounds way less fun. Current social and climate related situations are also a reason I’m hesitant.
However, the most pressing and overwhelming of my reasons is the severe phobias I have surrounding medical procedures, pain, blood, etc. It’s so severe that I have fainted when just talking about it or talking about medical scares/injuries that most people would not even think twice about. Even sometimes being in a doctor’s office and getting my blood pressure checked can make me queasy— very “innocent” things cause me a lot of anxiety and panic.
I’ve heard the horror stories of pregnancy and birth, and I know everyone is different so I may not experience it all. But I’m worried about even regular check ups, bloodwork, and the entire concept of labor and birth is immensely overwhelming. A part of me thinks if I didn’t have these phobias I would be more open to children, but I’m not sure if that’s the case. The obvious solution is adoption or surrogacy, but I’m not sure if financially that would be feasible. And even then, I’m not sure if I want to be a mother. And if my child gets hurt (which is bound to happen) do I just assume my maternal instincts will kick in? What if I’ve never felt maternal instincts?
My partner would be an amazing parent, and he’s the only one I’ve ever even considered it with before. Has anyone else had these similar fears? Did you have children, and was it okay? Or did you decide not to because of it? I’m so lost.
I’d also be curious to hear from anyone who was absolutely CF but changed their mind and now have children.

This might not exactly be swinging but i guess it comes close. We're pretty new to this so please bear with us. So it's been a super eventful one month. Wife and I have been on a vacation where we have slightly pushed our boundaries slowly, bit by bit - from wearing super cute bikinis and flirting with resort staff to dancing at bars with strangers that has led to some subtle groping and wild reclaim sex.
After our pool fun (refer to last post) our sex life has exploded. She sexted two strangers on reddit while I was fucking her and nothing I have ever done so far in life has come close to the joy I experienced there.
There was a wedding party at our resort. They were having some sort of destination wedding and the groom and his friends have been staying at this resort. I guess the groom has been celebrating his last few days as a single man and his friends were happy to participate. They've been drinking, making merry and having drinking competitions at the bar every night. So one night a few of the groomsmen ran into my wife at the bar. They got to talking and she was being a bit slutty as part of our new approach. They told her they're having a few girls over at one of their rooms and having a "wild night" and asked her if she'd be interested in joining (she explained our situation). We discussed, set some ground rules (no drinking, no weird behavior to be tolerated, no penetrative sex, etc) and she set off. We picked out a hot outfit for her (a mini skirt and a bikini top)
I waited in my room patiently for her to come home, turned on by the thought of what's happening. She was occassionally send me pictures. Nothing big, just selfies with guys brimming with lust in their eyes for her.
She came home at 4 in the morning and narrated to me the entire thing. It was carnal in that room. There were 5 men including the groom and 3 women including her. They started off by playing card games and getting to know each other. Soon it became truth or dare and it got pretty steamy. Without going into too many details, here's a list of whatever she did
1) as part of a dare, took off her skirt and twerked 2) as part of a dare, stripped down the groom to just his underwear sensually 3) let 3 guys eat ice cream off of her belly 4) as part of a dare, demonstrated her best sex positions dry humping with her clothes on with one of the guys. 5) took one of the men to the back of the house and let him finger her to completion
Once again she came home and we fucked non stop for hours. Thank you, life.

pain is apart of love, unfortunately getting hurt in love is apart of it love is weird and you must become hurt to find love you must become broken to find love, if you ask me why I couldn’t answer because I don’t know it’s just what I learn from getting hurt and falling in love over and over again and getting hurt over and over again, but I can explain it a little bit I guess being broken isn’t a weaknesses we won’t be fixed from getting hurt we just find people that fills the cracks of our hearts and helps us tape ourselves up until next time we get hurt, and it will hurt more and more but we always find people to help us understand that it’s okay to be hurt it’s okay to be ourselves, it’s okay to be you it’s okay to show that you are hurt it’s okay to ask for help it’s okay everything will be okay with the right people around you, and once you find that person for you it’s gonna be easy to tell them everything and anything and you won’t think about what they will say they won’t dismiss your feelings or tell you, you don’t matter because their heart is made to love you and they won’t see anything wrong with you they will see you for you and nothing else your past won’t matter, nothing will matter but you to them they will look at you with love and nothing else they’ll be excited to talk to you, to see you, to hug you, and I know we all want that we all do if someone says they don’t they are lying because we all want that I know I do, and unfortunately, we have to get hurt and get broken to find it we must get lost to be found we must become cold to become warm you must become you to be you you must hurt to be loved you, you must break to be fixed and it sucks it does it really does but your tears your hurt Is all being heard by god and he will send you someone to love you, as much as you love them and unfortunately we have to wait until our hearts are ready to accept that kind of love, and you might think you are ready but god might say otherwise god will make you wait and he will test you in many ways before he gives you what you prayed for, love is waiting, love is hurt, love is everything we want in life, you gonna be hurt, you can’t be afraid of hurt you can’t run away from it, it’s just gonna hurt you more if you do we have to accept that you will get hurt in love and you will cause it, it’s gonna suck regardless no matter what you choose you will get hurt one way or the other no matter what path you choose there’s no path without hurt, every path has hurt along it we travel along paths and we will end up hurt we travel with hurt hearts and love find us to repair us for the next path, healing regards some type of love if it’s temporary or permanent it’s gonna find you and it will hurt if it’s permanent, it’s gonna hurt there’s always gonna be hurt in everything, we do in love is gonna have hurt everything we say will carry hurt behind, it every we want will have hurt behind it we cannot hide from hurt because it will find us in every way it can, hurt is apart of us and some will use that hurt to hurt people and some will use it to help people, some will stayed in it and never say anything about it just remember every decision you make will cause you hurt in one way or the other, might not be immediately but it will bring hurt close behind and remember that you have people behind you regardless of what decision, you make I’ll be here forever and ever as long as I’m alive on the earth I’ll be here for you and anytime you need me.

I’d really like to avoid baby being passed around from person to person at family gatherings. What have you said to prevent this and not hurt peoples feelings? I’d be ok with eg grandma holding him, but unfortunately she can’t be trusted not to pass him off.
Baby does not have vaccinations yet and we’ve been through three flus/colds already….

pain is apart of love, unfortunately getting hurt in love is apart of it love is weird and you must become hurt to find love you must become broken to find love, if you ask me why I couldn’t answer because I don’t know it’s just what I learn from getting hurt and falling in love over and over again and getting hurt over and over again, but I can explain it a little bit I guess being broken isn’t a weaknesses we won’t be fixed from getting hurt we just find people that fills the cracks of our hearts and helps us tape ourselves up until next time we get hurt, and it will hurt more and more but we always find people to help us understand that it’s okay to be hurt it’s okay to be ourselves, it’s okay to be you it’s okay to show that you are hurt it’s okay to ask for help it’s okay everything will be okay with the right people around you, and once you find that person for you it’s gonna be easy to tell them everything and anything and you won’t think about what they will say they won’t dismiss your feelings or tell you, you don’t matter because their heart is made to love you and they won’t see anything wrong with you they will see you for you and nothing else your past won’t matter, nothing will matter but you to them they will look at you with love and nothing else they’ll be excited to talk to you, to see you, to hug you, and I know we all want that we all do if someone says they don’t they are lying because we all want that I know I do, and unfortunately, we have to get hurt and get broken to find it we must get lost to be found we must become cold to become warm you must become you to be you you must hurt to be loved you, you must break to be fixed and it sucks it does it really does but your tears your hurt Is all being heard by god and he will send you someone to love you, as much as you love them and unfortunately we have to wait until our hearts are ready to accept that kind of love, and you might think you are ready but god might say otherwise god will make you wait and he will test you in many ways before he gives you what you prayed for, love is waiting, love is hurt, love is everything we want in life, you gonna be hurt, you can’t be afraid of hurt you can’t run away from it, it’s just gonna hurt you more if you do we have to accept that you will get hurt in love and you will cause it, it’s gonna suck regardless no matter what you choose you will get hurt one way or the other no matter what path you choose there’s no path without hurt, every path has hurt along it we travel along paths and we will end up hurt we travel with hurt hearts and love find us to repair us for the next path, healing regards some type of love if it’s temporary or permanent it’s gonna find you and it will hurt if it’s permanent, it’s gonna hurt there’s always gonna be hurt in everything, we do in love is gonna have hurt everything we say will carry hurt behind, it every we want will have hurt behind it we cannot hide from hurt because it will find us in every way it can, hurt is apart of us and some will use that hurt to hurt people and some will use it to help people, some will stayed in it and never say anything about it just remember every decision you make will cause you hurt in one way or the other, might not be immediately but it will bring hurt close behind and remember that you have people behind you regardless of what decision, you make I’ll be here forever and ever as long as I’m alive on the earth I’ll be here for you and anytime you need me.

pain is apart of love, unfortunately getting hurt in love is apart of it love is weird and you must become hurt to find love you must become broken to find love, if you ask me why I couldn’t answer because I don’t know it’s just what I learn from getting hurt and falling in love over and over again and getting hurt over and over again, but I can explain it a little bit I guess being broken isn’t a weaknesses we won’t be fixed from getting hurt we just find people that fills the cracks of our hearts and helps us tape ourselves up until next time we get hurt, and it will hurt more and more but we always find people to help us understand that it’s okay to be hurt it’s okay to be ourselves, it’s okay to be you it’s okay to show that you are hurt it’s okay to ask for help it’s okay everything will be okay with the right people around you, and once you find that person for you it’s gonna be easy to tell them everything and anything and you won’t think about what they will say they won’t dismiss your feelings or tell you, you don’t matter because their heart is made to love you and they won’t see anything wrong with you they will see you for you and nothing else your past won’t matter, nothing will matter but you to them they will look at you with love and nothing else they’ll be excited to talk to you, to see you, to hug you, and I know we all want that we all do if someone says they don’t they are lying because we all want that I know I do, and unfortunately, we have to get hurt and get broken to find it we must get lost to be found we must become cold to become warm you must become you to be you you must hurt to be loved you, you must break to be fixed and it sucks it does it really does but your tears your hurt Is all being heard by god and he will send you someone to love you, as much as you love them and unfortunately we have to wait until our hearts are ready to accept that kind of love, and you might think you are ready but god might say otherwise god will make you wait and he will test you in many ways before he gives you what you prayed for, love is waiting, love is hurt, love is everything we want in life, you gonna be hurt, you can’t be afraid of hurt you can’t run away from it, it’s just gonna hurt you more if you do we have to accept that you will get hurt in love and you will cause it, it’s gonna suck regardless no matter what you choose you will get hurt one way or the other no matter what path you choose there’s no path without hurt, every path has hurt along it we travel along paths and we will end up hurt we travel with hurt hearts and love find us to repair us for the next path, healing regards some type of love if it’s temporary or permanent it’s gonna find you and it will hurt if it’s permanent, it’s gonna hurt there’s always gonna be hurt in everything, we do in love is gonna have hurt everything we say will carry hurt behind, it every we want will have hurt behind it we cannot hide from hurt because it will find us in every way it can, hurt is apart of us and some will use that hurt to hurt people and some will use it to help people, some will stayed in it and never say anything about it just remember every decision you make will cause you hurt in one way or the other, might not be immediately but it will bring hurt close behind and remember that you have people behind you regardless of what decision, you make I’ll be here forever and ever as long as I’m alive on the earth I’ll be here for you and anytime you need me.

Now I am not one of those people that look at someone and then worry about being exposed, I have been sexually active for 4 years now and I have a degree in Bio so I am aware the of risks and transmission methods of most STIs.
However, yesterday I had a 3rd date with a guy, he had apparently gone to the dermatologist that day cause he had rashes/spots on his thighs, trunk and on his chin that he was told he caught the condition from possibly the gym or somewhere else and apparently, as he had them all cryogenically treated, they weren’t contagious anymore (as told by the doctor) and so I would be fine, I didn’t know enough information to know whether this could be Mpox as he denied it was so I went on with the date as usual since he had travelled all the way. It was a casual at my place and a movie date with him staying overnight where we cuddled and kissed.
And the more I think of it the more the signs point that it might be Mpox after all, he was apparently told that it was due to the cryogenic treatment that the spots/sores would scab, fall off and be done, but that’s also how monkey pox time line goes, it was caught so it means that it’s transmissible (and he thinks that it was due to touching contaminated gym equipment/showers), the spots/sores look very similar to the ones in pictures about the condition, his doctor told him it would go away in around a week, the sores can appear before any other symptoms and be the only symptoms that appear, and he, like I, aren’t vaccinated against Mpox.
I obviously just met up with him yesterday so I have no symptoms to speak of myself but I also can’t get diagnosed nor do anything aside from waiting for the sores to appear on me and I’m so stressed out.
What do I do?

Hey there, lovely people!
Who am I? I'm just a random person on the internet on a mission to find some really awesome people to join me in creating unforgettable memories.
I'll just clear out the thing I want from you the most at first. I'm expecting a little bit of commitment and effort from you. I've said this before and I'm saying this again, without those no relationship can continue for long and I'm strictly seeking long term friendship from you. If you're up for it, I'm sure we can become best friends in no time!
here's a bit about me:
I lovedd to be play outdoor games such as football, badminton and cricket but let's just say my skills have died along with my old boots. But recently I've decided that I'm gonna go to the gym to improve my physique. You'll find me working on my "gains" at the gym, trying to transform this body into something less stickman-like very soon (still thinking what to do suggestions are appreciated).
When I'm not at home procastinating and wrecking my life (literally and metaphorically), I'm either sleeping or out with my small squad, looking for the best restaurants in town. (There are a lot of them lmao) If you're up for some culinary adventures, let's set out to conquer every burger place, café or a dessert haven if we're in the same area!
Now let's discuss hobbies shall we? I'm a self-proclaimed gaming geek with a computer that could be older than some galaxies. But, hey, a little lag has never stopped me from becoming an online warrior, eager to conquer virtual kingdoms and fight pixelated people with style (and a little button-smashing). I bought a really good rig 3 years back but the PSU died and sadly I haven't fixed it yet because of my busy and shitty life. I'm thinking of upgrading my PC soon btw.
Oh, and I have a secret superpower—I can strum a few tunes on my rusty acoustic guitar. Don't worry, I won't annoy you with it unless you specifically request it. But hey, if we ever find ourselves around a campfire, I might bust out some questionable covers of your favorite songs (warning: this is not a joke).
As for movies and anime, I'm always down for a good binge-watching session - from action-packed blockbusters to mind-bending psychological thrillers, anything that will give me goosebumps, I will watch it a 100%> please recommend me some things to watch tho I'm very bored these days since my exams have ended and I have nothing to do rn.
Anyway here's another deal: I'm looking for people who know how to enjoy life's chaos, laugh till our stomachs hurt, and make memories to tell our grandchildren about. We're definitely on the same wavelength if you enjoy random trips, game nights packed with friendly (or not-so-friendly) competition, and..... - chats that make time fly. Please don't be dry.
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TL;DR at the bottom, but may be worth a read
I just found a token with a genuinely unique take on a gambling contract that has had all ownership revoked by its dev, minus his 10% share and now its over to everyone. This is something actually fun. I spent my whole day researching this token and wanted to share with you what I found out about it.
Some facts about 0xGamble (ticker: 1UCK)
• max supply: 123456789 • no minting, no backdoors, burn included on every TX • launched 4 days ago • code checks out
As the name implies, 0xGamble is a gambling) token. Here’s how it works:
• 1% tax on every TX - 50% burned, 50% goes into the ‚pot‘ • every TX generates a random number internally • if the generated number is divisible by 69, the ‚house‘ (aka dev) wins the ‚pot‘ • if the number is divisible by 420, the guy making the transaction wins the ‚pot‘ (congrats!) • if the number is divisible by 1337, the ‚pot‘ is burned forever
To put it simple:
• buy/sell/transfer - chance to win the pot • hold - tokens get burned, price go up • provide liquidity - liquidity rewards + tokens get burned, price go up
Nobody knows if and when anyone (the ‚house‘ included) will win the pot. Or if it will get burned and we have to wait for a new pot. And that’s alright. We all win.
There is no official website, marketing, telegram, etc. No official nothing. Dev kept 10% of the supply as payment and added the rest as liquidity on PancakeSwap. No other tokens exist, or will ever exist. There’s no pre-sale, so there’s no whales to dump. Everyone can make his own 1UCK.
Investing in crypto is basically a gamble anyways. Everyone hopes his favorite coin is gonna make it. So an actual, honest gambling token boiling down crypto to what it actually is seems to really fit here!
I did some further digging:
Let’s look back at those facts:

1. if number is divisible by 420: Transaction address wins
2. if number generated is divisible by 69: The house wins
3. If number is divisible by 1337: pot is burned

When doing the math, the odds of

1. Winning the pot are ~0.23 %
2. The pot going to the house are ~1.4 %
3. The pot getting burned are ~0.07 %

To put that into perspective: Typical slot machines have a 1/5000 to a 1/34 million chance of winning the jackpot. So, the odds of winning with a 1UCK Transaction are 10 - 10000000x higher than winning the pot of a slot machine.
That’s not all, I dug deeper. Is it really like that? I did cross check of and found out the following: Out of 434 transactions (at that time), the total of burned tokens was at 2,247,721 (at that time)
The function „PotTransferredToHouse“ was emitted 4 times during those 434 transactions, adding up to 1,068,881 Tokens
One lucky Guy out of those 434 transactions won the rest of the pot, which was about 1,178,840 Tokens.
So the math adds up with the calculated odds: Number of transactions: 434 House wins: 4 -> odds: 0.92 % User wins: 1 -> odds: 0.23 %
*What does it mean? * In my opinion, this is one of the most honest tokens I have ever seen. No Rug, no BS, no big marketing talks about real world use cases. Just a simple gambling token with solid code (seriously, check for yourselves). Its simplicity is also its beauty.
Genius move: Turning the coin into the casino itself removes counterparty risk associated with third party gambling sites. This could actually become something big. Because with this mechanic the token is actually the first of its kind!
Where is this coin listed? You can get it on PancakeSwap. This is the contract address: 0x30016A1764C93EEdCCbEE5E1b3835F191c6f4050
TL;DR: No-Bullshit gambling token playing a numbers game every transaction. Better chances than regular slots. Code checks out, math checks out. This could be big. You’re still early for this one.

we have this cat who is 2 years old. we’ve had her since she was just a little baby. 2 days ago i went to let my brother’s very large husky puppy in the house when my cat ran out. the husky puppy chased her around for a good 2 minutes thinking it was okay time but my cat did not think of it that way. my cat ran out of a tiny hole in the fence and she’s been missing ever since then.
she’s an indoor cat but she does play outside sometimes in our fenced backyard. we put a bowl of food and a litter box out as soon as it happened. i’m terrified that something bad happened to her and i can’t help but feel guilty bc she got away even though i tried to stop it. we posted on our neighborhood facebook page and a few neighbors said they’d keep an eye out. we went outside multiple hours of the day with treats, catnip & while we were calling her name. we checked all around the house several times. we checked in neighbors yards. we’re going to print out posters to put in neighbors mailboxes soon. i’ve been checking facebook nonstop to see if anyone has found her. the shelter around her isn’t open on the weekends so we haven’t been able to go see if someone brought her in.
is there anything else i can do to locate her faster? i’m so sick to my stomach about the whole situation. i can barely eat or sleep, i’m so stressed out. i just want her to be safe and come home. i don’t want anything bad to have happened. she’s my baby and it feels like a part of me is missing. :(

NAHARPUR PRINTS :-
4 days before the release of our album, We got in an argument. I had clarified from the beginning i would need 2 things if we're going to do a collaborative album - a primary on the project + 50% splits (In all of our earlier collaboration nothing like this was ever discussed but we're coming together after 3 years and both of us have a brand of our own now, its work and thus i clarified what i needed before hand). He agreed to that. As soon as the masters came I reminded Nanku that make sure it comes on my profile and you make splits. He uses distrokid where he had exhausted all his artist slots, I suggested him to use CD Baby for one time use and we can split the money its required to distribute through it, He said cool ill do it today and inform you. I checked with him 2 days later to find out he distributed it without my name on the album, without informing me, and without making splits. We were on a call about the same thing and as soon as he cut the call he distributed on Distrokid without adding me in the primary, without making any splits and without informing me. When confronted he says "Yaar ab randirona mat kar". It was followed by a long to and fro where I held him accountable and he tried his best to manipulate me into letting it be. Things like "Dude who cares spotify is social media" "Kya farak padta hai naam aye ya na aaye" "Bhai ek hafte baad sabkuch shift hojayega" "Bro is spotify>Life?" "Ab mai album dekhu ya teri wants" And a couple of more totally obnoxious things. I wanted it to be redistributed the proper way, He was adamant on not doing that because that would mean it wont be live at the bombay gig.
About the Bombay launch – His management had the idea of launching the album on Bombay gig. They almost finalised everything and had made their mind before talking to me about it. Next day when they told me, I said dude you know I have my exams coming any moment now, You know I can’t come there, and if it’s a collaborative album both the artists should present it. He told me he wants even if I’m unable to come, him and his team should launch it themselves because it’s “once in a lifetime” opportunity (?) He started guilting me by saying things like “Bhai mai teri jaga hota toh ye hone deta agar mai nahi aa paata toh bhi” “Bhai isey rok mat isey hone de”
I gave in and said cool. Anyway back to where I was
We fought for a while. He said most he can do is submit an edit request to put my name after (issue with that is, most of times, edits reflect after weeks, so the album would still go live without my name; luckily it went through on time and it got sorted however things had turned way too ugly by then) He then involved a LOT of people and created an absolute mess like Roy who decided to call me randomly and explain to me how I should focus more on youtube and other platforms and not spotify and that he'll make videos and do branding work for me if I let this slide (?).
Anyway. Later that night, He decided to get shit drunk and shout like an absolute maniac at me how i am a fucking this up, simply for wanting my name on my work (lmao) , it got very ugly and got to the point where I wanted it to be canned. The central theme of the project was the time we spent at Naharpur, our friendship, It seemed very lame and meaningless after hearing these things from my “Friend”. I told him i dont wanna produce this anymore, take your songs and produce them yourself to which this dude replies "Teri beats to mai le raha hu, kya karega? Case karega?" and laughed. I warned him if he does that, i will premiere it right now on youtube. He said cool karle. I set the premiere, Informed him that i am doing that. He said alright
If the album comes it will come my way or it wont. Not rijul's way, Not Roy's way, Not anyone else's way. I worked equally hard and contributed a lot more than just beats. If the other half of the project wants to be inconsiderate and selfish, I don’t have any business considering what he wants as well.
Next day they told me I HAVE to come to bombay (In his defense, he had booked expensive last moment tickets for me to come to the gig) But no way I was gonna stay one whole day with this maniac. I cancelled the flight.
During the launch i see him branding the whole thing as "My album", his friends potraying it as “Bhai ki album” and these subtle things. Next day he went ranting and bitching to everyone about how i uploaded "without informing" him and fucked the launch, completing leaving the part he threatened me. Telling people they should not work with me. Verbally harassing my friend Toorjo multiple times for hours at a time (who wasnt even involved in this any way) because he couldnt get to me. Telling him he should watch his back with me, intrestingly he had the same thing to say about Toorjo to me just a few months ago (lol)
PS - my tweet about Reddit review of the album wasn't meant in a bad way and I was not complaining about it. It was just suprising because the songs I was least confident about were appreciated the most (BOP and Zubaida) and opposite with songs i was sure about (Trippy, Dhishkyau!, SOJA).
After a few days, Karun on a call with toorjo said "I don't want to be associated with you guys anymore" and was pretty rude in general, I gave it back to him but I saw them milking our releases 2 days later at paid gigs. If you really do not want to be associated, why not stop playing our instrumentals at gigs? Why not clear royalties and move forward? Fuck that, why not take down and builld the album fresh like you did with Itti si?
J BLOCK
My scene with J block was not related to royalties, it was more of a personal thing. J block had royalty issues with Siddhant, him being a friend, I was standing up for him. It started with Siddhant finding out they split gig money amongst themselves but don’t keep Siddhant in the loop, after which Lonekat flipped out. They held his royalties (650$) for months and then started saying we dont have it, have sent it back to the distribution site, which is impossible. Not sure what happened afterward, stopped following up on that. They also claimed to have “made” Siddhant when in reality, they only started getting any sort of traction after Siddhant came in to the picture. They also used personal incidents Siddhant shared with Lonekat in confidence to trigger and personally attack him. And the worst of it all, they said they’ll send a “bill” to Siddhant for production, mixing mastering, recording his songs. Why would Siddhant pay you for songs that he wrote, recorded, made videos for and agreed to give it to you to put on your channel? He's working and putting stuff on YOUR channel. It’s like I can’t ask someone to give me a verse on my song which is going to release through me and then also say “it’ll cost you to rap on my beat” it doesn’t make sense. After the “bill” thing, Siddhant asked them to remove his stuff. Faizan asked to not include his guitar if Bandeya is reuploaded but when I asked him to take down my songs nicely and politely, it was a big deal? Lol. That’s exactly what you did with Bandeya.
AGAAHI RAAHI -
I agree with Agaahi that I have not been professional and striking isnt the way to deal with things, however he completely skipped the part where It had not come to that before he said something along the lines of – Song isnt coming down do whatever you want, take it down if you can – or something like that. Not sure, don’t have the chats anymore. Hence "gundagardi". I retracted all the strikes the very same day when Circle Tone and Saqlen mediated things. But not surprised Agaahi would talk shit about now out of all times, Block and associated have been trying to ride on Udbhav and Karun’s hype since way too long. Also what’s this “We should call him out” ya’ll already did with some kids putting stories about me after you told them stuff. And weird of him to use Naezy incident against me now when he was very quick to shit on Naezy on facebook posts in support of me when it happened.
NAEZY –
I was in 10th or so when Naezy’s first track had come out (2014-2015). I was very active in the Facebook hip hop community and started talking to Naezy there. He asked me if I can produce, I was fairly new at production. He asked me for a beat on which him and his friends could shoot a cypher on. Few months later he blew up and got signed so I assumed the cypher wont happen anymore and forgot about it. Me and Naezy didn’t communicate after it. 2017 I randomly see that very same beat being used in Bombay 70 – MAMI short film, I wasn’t told anything about my beat being used and there was no credits as such, On reaching out to Naezy he didn’t do anything about it and I let it slide. 3 years later I saw him actually release that song. No permission, No informing, No producer credits in the title (It was pretty standard at that time in hip hop songs). On confronting he said “Description me likha hai na, kaafi hai permission aur title ka kya karna hai” etc. He did some similar shit with the artists who used to make artworks for him. We collectively decided to call him out for these things.
LASTLY –
Feeling solely entitled to a collaborative piece of work seems to be a common issue in all these incidents. I don’t think its very hard to grasp you cannot claim 100% ownership of work you got done for free.
Someone said royalties arent significant in amount, why fight over it – No one knows when a song might blow up, we never knew Aajkal would have half a mil streams 3 years later or Heeriye 800k. Plus if its so hard to get royalties which are small in amount what do you think is going to happen when they are big in number?
I don’t have people to babysit me through a music career unlike some of the people mentioned , So excuse me if i come on a lil too strong to get my share of whatever I have made. I have to look after myself and my work and I don’t find anything wrong in doing so. I’m just trying not to get screwed in the name of brotherhood and friendship. Friends don’t pull shit like this for a couple of claps, views and story mentions.
Thank you

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Tl;dr
Hi guys I just need some advice. My boyfriend (M31) & me (F27) have been dating for 6 months now. We live together for the past 2 months now & we are expecting our first baby together in a couple of months. Lately when he gets drunk he gets really mean. He calls me a he, says I’m fing everyone, says whenever I’m on my phone I’m texting other guys when I’m literally replying to my FEMALE friends, says the baby isn’t his, says I’m using him, how all women are wh*s & just like to use men & how everyone just takes advantage of him (past relationships). & then when we talk about it he apparently doesn’t remember! I’m totally lost & baffled through all of this. We used to get pretty wasted together prior to me getting pregnant & he NEVER acted this way EVER! He’s always been very sweet & gentle & caring with me as I have dealt with physical & verbal abuse with past relationships & he assured me that real men don’t treat their women like that & that he’d never do that to me bc he loves me so much & he wants to start a family with me & have plans to get married in the future. He’s a completely different person when he’s drunk. This is now the 4th time this has happened! All 3 times before he’s broken down & cried & apologize & said this would never happen again. I told him I don’t want him to drink if this is how hes going to act he assured me he won’t.
Well today (now the 4th time) he got wasted at my niece bday party & was saying the same things I’ve listed above on the drive home. He legit tried to jump out the car while I was driving bc I told him he was acting like a b**h so he started screaming at me to get out of his car & how I’m a he. When we get home I hid my gun bc I was afraid of what he was going to do, while I was in the shower he was looking for it, crying saying how everyone hates him, no one loves him & how he wants to end it all(his life) he then proceeded to go out to the balcony as if he was going to jump I told him to get back inside & to go to bed & sober up. I told him don’t come crying to me in the morning & he said he’s not & that he deserves to be single. That I can just leave & put him on child support & he’ll get the baby on the weekends. As he’s snoring sound asleep I’m wide awake crying in the guest room & just don’t know what to do! I don’t know where this came from or why he’s acting this way but this is not the type of environment I want to raise my child in. I already come from an abusive toxic broken home & I want to break that cycle.
His ex always used to say he has a drinking problem & when he said that I first thought she was crazy but now I’m starting to realize it. He was the problem in their relationship he was the one who started all the arguments. When he’s sober he’s totally different he’s sweet & kind but when he’s drunk it’s as if he’s not even there anymore. I love him so much but idk what to do. I know he’s probably going to cry again when we talk in the morning & apologize but I told him last time was the last time I was going to forgive him for this. Idk what to do. Also lately when he’s sober now he’s always accusing me of snap chatting other men & saying I’m being sneaky with my phone I told him he has my password & that he can go thru my phone whenever he wants bc I have nothing to hide. I’m not sure why he’s acting like this lately but idk what to do. I need advice!! Help!
TL;dr I need advice what should I do? He’s never acted this way why is this happening?