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Hello everyone, my name is Light and I am a light worker, a tarot/oracle reader, and medium. I have years of experience, and recently, I wanted to start an official page for readings so I can help people. I prefer to use tarot cards and oracle cards mostly in my divination, and have had great success in giving people new insight into their situations. You can read my reviews here from real people that I have helped.
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2023.06.03 15:44 LightBringerOracle Booking Readings Now!

Hello everyone, my name is Light and I am a light worker, a tarot/oracle reader, and medium. I have years of experience, and recently, I wanted to start an official page for readings so I can help people. I prefer to use tarot cards and oracle cards mostly in my divination, and have had great success in giving people new insight into their situations. You can read my reviews here from real people that I have helped.
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2023.06.03 15:43 LightBringerOracle Booking Readings Now!

Hello everyone, my name is Light and I am a light worker, a tarot/oracle reader, and medium. I have years of experience, and recently, I wanted to start an official page for readings so I can help people. I prefer to use tarot cards and oracle cards mostly in my divination, and have had great success in giving people new insight into their situations. You can read my reviews here from real people that I have helped.
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To book a reading with me, send me a message via Reddit DMs. I am happy to also do readings via other platforms.
The fees/prices for these readings are set, but I am more than happy to negotiate with you. I want to ensure that you get your moneys worth, and it is more important to me that I am able to give help and comfort to those who need it. If you don't resonate with my readings, I'm more than happy to be accommodating in terms of that as well.
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2023.06.03 15:43 LightBringerOracle Booking Readings Now!

Hello everyone, my name is Light and I am a light worker, a tarot/oracle reader, and medium. I have years of experience, and recently, I wanted to start an official page for readings so I can help people. I prefer to use tarot cards and oracle cards mostly in my divination, and have had great success in giving people new insight into their situations. You can read my reviews here from real people that I have helped.
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To book a reading with me, send me a message via Reddit DMs. I am happy to also do readings via other platforms.
The fees/prices for these readings are set, but I am more than happy to negotiate with you. I want to ensure that you get your moneys worth, and it is more important to me that I am able to give help and comfort to those who need it. If you don't resonate with my readings, I'm more than happy to be accommodating in terms of that as well.
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2023.06.03 15:43 LightBringerOracle Booking Readings Now!

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The fees/prices for these readings are set, but I am more than happy to negotiate with you. I want to ensure that you get your moneys worth, and it is more important to me that I am able to give help and comfort to those who need it. If you don't resonate with my readings, I'm more than happy to be accommodating in terms of that as well.
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2023.06.03 15:40 LightBringerOracle Booking Readings Now!

Hello everyone, my name is Light and I am a light worker, a tarot/oracle reader, and medium. I have years of experience, and recently, I wanted to start an official page for readings so I can help people. I prefer to use tarot cards and oracle cards mostly in my divination, and have had great success in giving people new insight into their situations. You can read my reviews here from real people that I have helped.
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To book a reading with me, send me a message via Reddit DMs. I am happy to also do readings via other platforms.
The fees/prices for these readings are set, but I am more than happy to negotiate with you. I want to ensure that you get your moneys worth, and it is more important to me that I am able to give help and comfort to those who need it. If you don't resonate with my readings, I'm more than happy to be accommodating in terms of that as well.
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2023.06.03 15:38 poppykayak She doesn't respect me, but she is "nice."

Man, my MIL and I have a strained relationship. She is litterally a Karen and I just don't tolerate it. I keep things civil mostly because I'm terrible at conflict and she does actually love her kids/grandkids and me I think. But she just, I dunno. I'm gonna tell it how I see it and you let me know what in the world I am supposed to do.
She's done a LOT of nice things for myself, husband, and our son. A lot of gifts, money, and butt kissing. But, it always seems so disingenuous. Like a means to an end in a likeability contest or something.
We just have nothing in common, really. She comes from a generation where gossip and hurtful behavior is "funny." I don't really participate and that seems to be her main form of trying to bond. Like, I don't care AT ALL that you think the laday across the street is such a XYZ because some stupid yard ornament or half-cooked gossip from swimming group. But then 30 seconds later, she kisses that person's ass and pretends to be best friends! It disgusts me. Either like the person or don't, don't be a 2 faced gerk.
I try to just be honest with her, but any time anyone pisses her off, she just throws tantrums like a toddler. I have seen her make multiple people cry in stores and I just don't shop with her anymore.
Anyway, she moved out to us once we moved across the country to get space. Bought a house sight unseen 2 hours away and is adamant about biweekly visits and such. It's a whole thing. Nice marital tension there.
Well, she always tells me to my face "I respect you, and your decisions as a parent" and then does completely opposite actions. Like when I was up at their house a while back finishing their deck for them, she would CONSTANTLY do shit she knew I wasn't ok with while I was busy.
We are potty training my son and would use like a bite of a cookie ir sticker as a reward. She would give him 2 whole cookies after I asked her not to. Then when he was acting crazy from the sugar rush and not eating meals, she was saying how I must not feed him well at home. Or how when I let him down from the dinner table when he was full of cookies and about to crash, she had a problem with it. Not at the time I was actively doing so, but later when I was alone she cornered me and told me that I need to respect HER rules with MY son at her house. Like wtf?!?
My son also likes to touch his ears a lot, has since he was born. We think he may have a sensory issue with them or just rubs them for comfort as kids sometimes do. Anyway, she just decided that he definately has an ear infection!! He touched his ears!! And after she asked him if his ears hurt 10 times, the 1 yes and 9 no mean definate yes. She asked if we should take him to the urgent care. I said no, he seems fine, and you didn't even think to try tylenol first. We were also inbetween insurance at the time.
She assumed I was being modest because of money reasons, and said she would pay for everything. She booked an appointment and just to shut her up, I said yes. Just so we can get it over with. We go and she cuts me off and tells the doc he's been in pain and rubbing and miserable. I tell the doc that I think he is fine and shes full of shit basically. He ooks in the ears and says they look fine, but prescribed antibiotics in case it got worse. He asked my son if his ears hurt, and he says "nope! My ears feel nice!" And rubbed them.
Just infuriating. I didn't give him the antibiotics because I will not give preventative antibiotics because my mil wants them. He didn't need them! Guess who's ears are still fine?
And just all kinds of crap like this all the time. I set a boundary, she tries to tell me that "at myyyyy house we don't do that we do this" like, no. My 3 year old is not allowed out of sight outside in town. My 3 year old is not allowed cookies instead of meals. But she will come up to me after she blatantly disrespects me to tell me she didn't.
Just drives me nuts. My husband supports me as he can, but she just ramps shit up when he's gone and after the fact just doesn't work.
God I just can't stand her.
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2023.06.03 15:36 Eager_Question Love Languages (12)

[First][Prev]
Memory transcription subject: Andes Savulescu-Ruiz, Human Director at the Venlil Rehabilitation and Reintegration Facility. Universal translator tech.
Date [standardized human time]: Dec 3 2136
I wandered up to the boys after Lihla got a bit bored of head scritches. Parents were still wandering around, but the three of them seemed pretty comfortable engaging in parallel play off in the back of the play room.
"Hello there," I said. I didn't have to be too mindful to avoid looming over them. They seemed largely unaffected by my size, and were themselves taller than some of the venlil nurses already. I wondered idly what the Arxur cut-offs for ages were. If we'd have to separate them from the girls.
"Your savageness," one said, bowing. "You honour us with your presence."
The other two bowed as well. The girls usually just scurried away, except for Lihla's insistence on "sitting with me". How differently had the boys been treated?
"That's um, that's not necessary," I said, gesticulating vaguely, "how are you boys doing?"
They stood up straight.
"I have been using the board to make squiggling lines," one said, pointing at the drawing board. "It is relaxing."
"I have been putting similar shapes together," said the next. He pointed at a table where he had sorted different blocks. One of the smaller girls looked tempted by his collection, and the fact that his attention was currently primarily on me. Just like Lihla, she moved in slow, incremental steps, ready to run away should her approach turn sour. I managed not to laugh, and kept my attention on the boys.
"I have been assembling the sticky triangles," said a third, and showed me a pretty good-looking geodesic dome he must have gotten just by building outward with the triangle magnets in a spiral pattern.
"Ah. Very nice. I was told you went to the doctor recently," I added.
"Yes, my teeth are very good and I am strong!"
"They tested my pain resistance with a big needle, but I did not scream," said the second one, clearly bragging.
"My appointment is later," said the third. I was a little impressed by how orderly they were. Like each of them knew their number in the order of who got to talk when.
"Well, that's good to know. If you find anything uncomfortable, please tell me so we can make it better for you," I said. They tilted their heads in confusion. "I'm Director Andes. You can ask to be brought to my office and any aide or nurse should be able to guide you there."
"I'm 857–" one started, and was quickly elbowed by the one next to him. He hissed in pain, then looked back at me and shook himself. "I'm Tito."
"I'm Julio."
"I'm Marco."
"Well, it's very nice to meet you boys," I said, smiling behind my visor. It was very exciting to hear them use the names they were given at the hospital. Aside from Lihla, none of the girls seemed very interested in getting names. A few of the nurses and aides had suggested some to them, but none had really stuck.
"It's nice to meet you, Savageness," Marcus said. To my and apparently his brothers' surprise, he jutted out a paw in front of him. I chuckled and shook it. The other two emulated Marcus, and I shook their paws as well. While I did that, the girl that had been eyeing Julio's collection stole a handful of blocks and scurried off to hide.
"Well, boys, I should be getting back to work now, but like I said, if you need help in any way, just ask for me."
They all nodded quickly. I gave Larzo a wave and headed back to my office. Once there, I updated Lihla’s file, made an appointment with Karim to discuss our situation, and finished the third batch of applications from prospective parents. I wasn't going to let him get his paws on it, especially given that they were in the lower income deciles. Venlil adoption incentives seemed to be meaningfully stronger than those of, say, Canada. In Canada, adoption often meant adoptive parents faced a wide variety of hurdles, but in Venlil Prime there were meaningful financial incentives that would more than make up for the cost of living of an average child. With special needs children, there was the added concern of accommodations. Venlil society was not well built for a neurodiverse population. Still, the financial incentive meant that I was looking for experience with children, a history of de-escalation of some sort, that sort of thing. I had no idea what Karim was looking for, but he did not strike me as a particularly charitable evaluator.
We already had verbal children with translator implants whose next step would be adoption and regular outpatient evaluations. We needed to ensure there were plenty of opportunities for them, including prospective human adoptive parents. So I erred on the side of generosity, with the knowledge that all of those whose application was accepted would still have to have interviews, and regular check-ins, to ensure nothing untoward happened to the children.
I took another walk near the end of my shift, and saw that Kanarel was being given a tour by a security officer. I gave him a little wave and he waved back. Only one claw after he'd been hired and he'd already hit the ground running! A few of the human volunteers were staring, and whispering to each other. His appearance might prove a little stressful, but I figured they'd get used to him soon enough.
I checked on the production labs, translator stock was solid and we could give the girls the implant next week. I ran through some reports, flagged a few things for later analysis, updated my own files in the shared database, pulled some files from other facilities for later reviewing. It was a very productive day, all told.
Eventually, I finished my shift and sent an email to the whole facility, first requesting that any invasive tests for the "predator" children seek my approval before going forward, and second explaining that I would be reducing my shifts to 2 or occasionally 2.5 claws. If I had actually been well-rested, I wouldn't have dismissed Varla when she tried to tell me about the boys' horns. I hadn't had a weekend in a month and a half, but that could wait. First, no more twelve-hour shifts.
Plus, if I had smaller shifts, maybe I could have days with a late start, and days with an early start. That might help fight the "sliding" schedule I had fallen into, with my 6-claw "days" of 24 hours failing to fit into a 20-hour paw.
Larzo spotted me as I was getting ready to leave.
"I would like to request the Upper Salwick game you owe me," he said, and I smiled behind the mask.
"That sounds great, actually."
We got to his place a few minutes later. His hensa was deep asleep on a bed of pillows Larzo assured me was her own making.
After a few minutes, the reason Larzo thought I was sure to win was obvious. "Upper Salwick" was some sort of weird, strategic Jenga. Each player had a set of parts, and each turn you had to play one of each type, as you built your little structure out of alien toy building blocks. Then, each player had five balls which were to be tossed at the other player's structure. Or shot through a little tube you could use as a dart gun. If both structures survived unscathed, you removed one piece and tried to knock them down with the balls again.
Larzo and I were mostly evenly matched in our ability to build something that wouldn't collapse on its own. The alien building blocks were not quite as stable as LEGO blocks, and made a very gentle, smooth sound when they hit the ground. Both structures would be elevated on a little platform made up of parts of the box re-folded (really clever design, actually). Any blocks that fell off the platform were a point in your enemy's favour.
I learned playing with Larzo that humans are much better at throwing things than the entire fucking galaxy. If you could score in paper football, you could beat almost any non-human sophont in Upper Salwick.
The standard "strategy" was to build the tallest, thinnest, most physically stable structure, on the grounds that your opponent would need a meaningful amount of luck (given the expected distances between the players and the size of the balls) in order to knock it over. People built in Upper Salwick to avoid being knocked down. A pyramid was the most stable structure I could design with those blocks. It was also the most likely to be hit, but it survived two or three hits before the first block fell off. I played to be able to withstand being knocked down.
Larzo built some sort of tower and I knocked it down on my second shot. He hit my pyramid five times and only one block fell down.
"I knew it. Those arboreal eyes of yours! Lulling me into a false sense of security with that miss…"
"I haven't played beer pong in ten years, cut me some slack," I said. I used my last three balls to knock the remnants of his tower off the platform. By the end of the first round, I had a pyramid minus one block, and he had literally two pieces left out of the starting twenty-five.
"Are we playing elimination or standard?" he asked as he gathered his fallen pieces.
"That should have been settled before we started, dude, I didn't know there were variations."
"Well, I assumed standard, but now I am looking for an excuse to play another game," he said with a twinkle in his eyes.
I laughed. "I take it you underestimated how hard I would win?"
"I did not know it was possible to knock pieces off the platform after you had already collapsed your opponent's structure."
I struggled not to laugh. “Well, what do you want to do now?”
"Perhaps we could go to one of the human growling bars," Larzo said, and I nearly spat out my water.
"...The what?" I croaked, and had to clear my throat.
"They're not too far out by train, humans regularly walk from the refugee camps to them," he continued. I stared at him.
"Larzo, what the fuck is a growling bar?"
"I thought it was a human tradition," he said, like it was the most natural thing in the world. "Humans go to these bars and growl as loudly as they can, bellowing their grief of Earth's bombing. On occasion, I have passed by and heard screeches translated as 'yesterday, all my woes appeared to be distant, now it seems that they are permanent."
The realization hit me like a smack from Rodriguez. "No way. No. That's not–Are you calling that a growling bar?"
"Yes. What is the proper nomenclature, if not that?" he asked.
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Memory transcription subject: Lieutenant Asleth, Arxur Dominion Third Fleet.
Date [standardized human time]: Oct 19, 2136
When I volunteered to aid the humans after the bombing, I did not grasp the extent of their devotion to prey. I arrived at the Canadian space port near a vast, beautiful lake, and once there was taken to a hangar wherein I was made to wait.
And wait.
And wait, until that prophet-damned squealer would stop squirming with fear. They were not so far that I could not hear, but listening only exacerbated my exhaustion at the situation.
“You’re going to be perfectly safe,” said one of the humans. I worried that they would refuse our help altogether to appease it. That the only fellow sapients the Galaxy had to offer would reject us just the same as the prey had. That they would first love creatures that hated them, before any Arxur. No matter our help, our curiosity, our desire to join forces.
“No I’m not, and I’m not going to get myself eaten for you apes!” the creature squealed. How could humans stand for such disrespect?
“If you would like to resign, we can return you to your fleet–”
“No! I–I can do this, I can do this I—I can’t do this!”
“We specifically paired you with an Arxur whose job is primarily communications,” the human said patiently. “This is not a raider, or a front-line soldier.”
“It’s still a monster!”
I groaned from my place in the room, waiting on, and on… These tree-dwelling chatterboxes wouldn’t know an ally if they saved their species from extinction.
“I’m afraid we can’t turn down Arxur help right now. They’re much stronger than humans, having one on your team means we can send more of our own elsewhere. Help more people.”
“You’re telling me humans are too weak to protect me from those monsters?!”
“Well, no, we’ll still have armed men, but when it comes to pulling people out of rubble…”
There was a curious silence, after which the prey made a proposal.
“Call the translator tech. The one who worked with the prisoners. My friend worked with him. She said he could talk them down from anything. The [one who whispers at lizards].”
That was an interesting development. I leaned a little bit towards the wall, to see if I could hear better. There was a pause during what I assumed was the human speaker’s search for a communication device.
“Hey, Andes?.. You were scheduled to land today, would you by any chance still–Perfect. Can you come over to Hangar Bay five?.. I’m sorry, I know your contract–we’ll compensate you. Look, I have a Zurulian here who won’t set foot within prowling distance of our Arxur volunteer without you here… Not my fault you're famous... Time is lives, pal. See you in a few.”
“Well?” the prey creature squeaked.
“They’ll be here in a bit. We caught them just in time.”
The next few minutes were exhausting. Waiting in silence while mere metres away the humans coddled the terrified prey. Eventually, the door opened and I awakened from the haze of boredom.
In stepped a human in one of those formal sets of armour they wore with the white lining their ribcage, black layer on top, and the noose around their throats. Behind the human was the Zurulian, cowering, as they always did.
Behind the two of them came another human, wearing armour even less protective than the noose-wearer's. He(?) was further made distinct by the other humans in military armour, much like the ones I had seen around other bases, or in their communications network. Not to mention that the soldiers all stood straight, their bodies stiff, their jaws marked, while the civilian slouched and yawned, his body on its face weaker and softer than the soldiers’.
“Alright, Asleth was it?” the one in the black pelt with the noose said. I wondered briefly if it was a measure of trust. They wore a noose around their necks so that they could be more easily strangled, and thus their good behaviour was ensured…
“Yes,” I said. “I am Lieutenant Asleth, I work communications as you told the vermin, and volunteered to assist in the rescue of survivors from the city of Royalmount.”
“Perfect,” said the human. “This here is Dr. Rusen. These guys are Philippe, Francois, and David. And the newest recruit to the team, who will be working with Dr. Rusen, is Dr. Andes Savulescu-Ruiz.”
“Still not technically–” began Andes Savulescu-Ruiz, but the man in the noose waved him off.
“Close enough. You'll be doing first aid, checking victims for brain damage, so on. Anyhow, they’ll be working with you, Asleth, and keeping the peace for good ol’ Rusen here. All of you behave, the transport should be here real soon, and then it’ll be a long day’s work.”
The noose-wearing man gave us all a nod and wandered back out the door.
I looked at the least-armoured human and tried to remember their greeting rituals. He offered a hand and I shook it with my claws, doing my best not to dig into his flesh. “It is a pleasure to meet you, Doctor Andes Savulescu-Ruiz.”
“Just Andes is fine,” he said with a smile. I realized then that although the Zurulian was the only one cowering, the other humans were tense in my presence. This ‘Just Andes’ was the only one of the whole lot who did not make much distinction between me and his fellow humans. The rest seemed reluctant to approach, ready to betray my opened claw of friendship at a moment’s notice, should I prove a threat.
The transport arrived. It was two-tiered, with a front section large enough to seat five humans, and a back section that was very much an open box with some additional safety straps.
“We had to get a pickup truck to be able to carry the croc, I hope it’s not an issue,” said the human at the front of the vehicle. I did some quick accounting of the population and concluded I would likely be isolated in the back, waiting once again.
“I’ll ride with Asleth,” Andes said, “Rusen can go in the front with you guys."
There were a few nods, and the soldiers began to pour into the vehicle. I climbed aboard the back, and Andes hopped on as well with a litheness that surprised me given his looser, pudgier form in comparison to the soldiers. Within moments, the vehicle had begun to move and Andes had attached himself to it with a safety strap. Once on our way, he rummaged around in a bag to get a helmet much like the other soldiers’.
“So comms, eh? I’ve been working with a lot of Arxur in the past few months. I’m curious, can you tell me about your writing system?”
“...Our writing system?” I echoed. Of all the questions I expected to get from a human, this was not one of them.
“Yeah, I noticed that there are a lot of spikes, and the number of vowels--or analogues, anyhow--doesn’t seem to correlate with the length of a word, so I was wondering if you use diacritic marks, or…”
I stared blankly at him. “What are diacritic marks?”
His whole face lit up and he began to explain. The Arxur have teachers–we must, for we have things that ought be taught–but I had never before seen a creature so delighted by the opportunity to teach. Teachers were, in my experience, exasperated disciplinarians who disdained their duty to those who knew less than they. Andes found it joyous to speak, and it helped me find it joyous to listen. All humans, so far as I knew, had beautifully musical voices. Still, Andes’ had a light in it that I had heard from none others in my brief time on Earth, and my less brief time investigating their communications.
I wondered idly if my irritation at spending time with fellows was truly a mark of our people, or if we were simply not used to the joys of conversation that humans could bring forth. Perhaps this is what the Arxur of old had yearned for, before the Federation made itself known to us. A chance to converse with another sapient who was so very alien, and yet so much the same.
Translators had done a great deal to undermine the details of language. I did not much care if Zurulian was a subject-object-verb language or an object-verb-subject language, even as a communications officer. After all, what I heard was simply squealing in Zurulian, and most of my job involved sorting through potential alternative translations, investigating context, and discovering when a good time to attack might be. I had greater expertise in their (comically poor) encryption practices. Their tongue itself may as well have been a mystery. And why should an Arxur care for such lesser languages, anyhow? Could squealing like that truly be called a language at all? Or was the translator doing a great of the "heavy lifting", as it were?
“--Look, here, write me a sentence like ‘the rock falls in the water’,” he said, pulling forth a pad and a little wooden implement with graphite in the middle. I obliged though it felt rather odd to use an extra, wooden claw to write.
He looked at it. “Now please separate the words ‘rock’, ‘falls’ and ‘water’.”
I was confused. “That is not possible.”
His eyes grew, his pupils firmly focused on me. “...What?”
“It is not possible,” I repeated, “Rock is not just this,” I pointed to one of the sections. “It is also this,” I pointed to another. “Similarly, for it to fall on the water, then the falling must be…” My brow crinkled as I struggled for the term. He stared at me in anticipation. “The falling must be infected by the water.”
“Infected?” he asked.
“Yes. The words infect one another. Perhaps if I spoke of it as though it were a plan, ‘it is the arrangement for the rock to, in the future, fall upon the water’... Then the infection is that of the arrangement, and so rock, fall, and water are all affected by it, not by one another…”
I wrote it out in that fashion, and Andes stared in astonishment.
“Is this… Grammatical genders as tenses? Is this like the animate-inanimate distinction in Innu?” he mused, confusing me further. Were not all tongues so interwoven? “I swear, when this is all over, I need to go to Wriss. This is insane. What are those particles? How do abbreviations work? What’s the orthographic depth on this?”
I felt a need to thank the cowardly little creature for demanding Andes' presence. I realized at that moment that I had never seen a person be interested in the Arxur. We knew ourselves, or liked to think so. The Federation knew all they wished. His curiosity flattered me in ways I could not describe. It was an insistence, in itself, that I was worth learning about.
------
I will have to provide thanks to a variety of people, on the grounds that the past few weeks have not been good to my brain. u/Acceptable_Egg5560, u/cruisingNW, u/Liberty-Prime76, u/SavingSyllabus7788,u/AnEldritchroflcopter (who named Rusen), and someone whose reddit username I do not currently know, but will be editing in later if they so desire.
Everyone has been very kind, and I highly appreciate their generosity.
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2023.06.03 15:36 MITizard A coworker turned player wants to bring his 11 year old to join in sessions

As a quick bit of context: A relatively new coworker learned that I am not only a D&D nerd, but a DM, and was very excited as he used to play previous editions and hadn't had a group to play with for years. He started begging for me to let him join in one of my current campaigns, but I was not comfortable with that as my current group had been playing for over a year and we had a good rhythm (plus we are role play heavy and he is more of a self proported murder hobo). Instead, I chose to give in and start a new campaign.
I found a few other local friends who were interested in trying out D&D and ran a one-shot just to see how well they gelled and if the newbies were interested in a full campaign. It was a hit! Session was a ton of fun all around and I managed to get everyone excited to play more!
Since this isn't my only campaign, I chose to run a module (Waterdeep) rather than a homebrew, and tomorrow is our second session. Now this coworker-turned-player has asked to bring his 11-year old son to the session because he has been talking about D&D to the son, even listening to D&D podcasts together, and the son has been saying he wants to play. I already expressed hesitation about adding in a guest/new character this early, especially since the son might not even enjoy it or be able to pay attention to the full session (players words, not mine). His compromise was to have the son co-control his PC so he could get a sense of the game and feel like he's contributing (i.e. ask the son what he should do here, ask what the son thinks the PCs want, etc), but with the intention to make him his own PC if he likes it.
Now while I am flattered that he thinks I'm a good enough DM to brag about my sessions to his son and I think it's super sweet that he wants to share his hobby and raise a fellow nerd, here are my concerns: 1) it's a group of adults and so far we have not censored ourselves. We are not overly raunchy, but there is definite cursing and occasional innuendo. With a child present we would definitely have to tone it down. 2) I am not much of a child person. I am happily child-free and while I don't mind kids, I wouldn't typically choose to spend time with one regularly. 3) The player in question is already a little overbearing at the table. The kind of player to ask to try 6 things before giving anyone else at the table a chance to speak up. I am working on managing him a bit so I can give the newbies a chance to learn the game better, but worry that he and his kid will take up even more time at the table. 4) This is simply not what was discussed at session 0! We laid ground rules, discussed campaign setting options, and while we didn't explicitly ban new players or specifically children, I was not prepared to run a child friendly campaign.
I have offered to run a kid-geared one shot just for them, but again I am not looking to run yet another full campaign, let alone for children. I already felt pressured to even start this campaign and managed to find some joy in it, but now I'm worried this player is going to take over even more than he already has. How do I discuss this with the player without being overly harsh? I don't want him to leave the table unless absolutely necessary, especially since we are coworkers and I don't want to make that relationship more difficult/awkward. Do I outright ban the son from the table (in as nice a way as possible)? Do I let the son come to this one session and hope he gets bored, solving my problem for me? Do I let the son play this one session but say I'm not comfortable adding a 6th player and maybe end up upsetting the kid if he falls in love with the game? Pls help...
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2023.06.03 15:34 Rhreddit1234 Moving Options IL to TX

So we are doing a interstate move from IL to TX. We are moving from a 3 bedroom house to a 2 bedroom apartment. We have significantly downsized our stuff. The big items we have are a king sized memory foam mattress, with two twin sized adjustable bases. We have an IKEA 8 square shelving unit we use as a tv stand/book shelf, a dining table with 6 chairs, a 3 seat sectional with ottoman (it is modular, so all the pieces come apart for ease of moving), a 65 inch TV, and a boxing bag (which might just get set on the curb). We also have probably 25 boxes of assorted stuff. In the past we have been able to fit comfortably in a 16 foot U-Haul.
So far we have gotten estimates of:
Moving Truck: $1,100 plus fuel and spouse having to drive behind me Moving Truck and Hire a Driver: Around $2,500 U-Pack: $2,100 A traditional moving service: who knows, bombarded by phone calls with no real info.
We have done the moving truck and we drive thing before but admittedly a pain, especially with a senior dog. We have done U-Pack before, not bad service, downside is having to deal with parking on both ends. Never done a traditional moving company, also seemed out of our budget and full of scams. Does anyone have an honest ballpark range on hiring a company like Allied or similar? I am a bit wary just with how unhelpful they have been.
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2023.06.03 15:28 Galley95 How was John Summit for my Friday homies.

Hopefully you all had a good time and didn't let the bad vibes get to you! Was there absolutely no-one in kings hall? Kinda wish he did lil surprise sets in there through the night kind of like how Chris lake did. Be there for Saturday lets getttttt it.
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2023.06.03 15:26 wukewuke [spoilers all] a real life comparison of Qun I don't quite understand

It's fair to say the qunari society is a mixture of many ideologies, maybe too many to a point it's not all that consistent anymore - I don't think it's doable even with modern propaganda tools, let alone in a sort of medival setting.
I get it when people compare it to statism (probably most accurate imo), communism, even fascism to an extent, but why confucianism? I've come across a dozen posts making this comparison and it doesn't make any sense.
I guess it's more about how people (mis)understand confucianism than how they view the Qun. I mean there are tons of traditional ideologies about "everyone should stay at his own position in the society", in fact most that predate the invention of the concept called free will are like that. But this doesn't make it anywhere close to confucianism. Confucius did say "君君臣臣父父子子", meaning "kings and subjects, fathers and sons should act according to who they are", but what he and all Chinese emperors had in mind was a very vertical kind of organizational structure, an emperor sits there because he is the Son of Heaven, not to guide the empire for the best. It's all about hierarchy. In that regard, the Qun is the opposite and quite similar to communism (in a vacuum) - there are no noble or lowly jobs.
Most iconically, qunari society has absolutely no place for family, while family and patriline is the most fundamental element of confucianism, if you don't even obey your father, how can the emperor expect you to obey him?
It's almost like comparing Nazi concentration camps to massacres during ancient wars. Both are monstrous, true, but they're not the same thing, not even close.
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2023.06.03 15:24 BlackberryLemonadee Got sent a free rat with the wipes I ordered

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2023.06.03 15:23 averagejoerp i need to relive 2010 so who wants to write hetalia with me? (still looking!)

yes. you read that right.
hetalia.
i know, i know! irrelevant, niche, and maybe a little cringy? i don’t care, i adore these characters! i’m looking for an 18+ discord role playing partner who is just as enthusiastic about writing and plotting as i am! i would consider myself an advanced to literate writer, who averages 3-6 (sometimes more!) paragraphs per post. i appreciate someone who puts in an equal amount of effort.
about me? mae, she/her, 29! <3
i highly prefer modern aus over canon or historical settings. i enjoy themes such as hurt, comfort, angst, conflict and resolution, character development, pining (be it mutual or initially one-sided)… the list goes on, but you get the vibe. cliche au settings i enjoy would be things such as: soulmates, high school, adults trying to figure shit out, cafe/coffee shop, ski resort/beach house (or any sort of vacation destination really). it may also be obvious that many of my ships are very “opposites attract,” so i also enjoy plots that lean into that, such as celebrity/fan, socialite/caterer, artist/muse. as a throwback to the edgy early days of rp, i’m stupid for stalkevictim role plays idc idc. throw anything at me, and once we get the ideas rolling i’m the type who is consistently coming up with new plot points/twists/milestones. (bonus: i’ll absolutely end up making rp playlists so you can expect me to send you music, oops!)
now, onto the ships. which is the best part, let’s be real. the listed ships and characters are the only ones that i’m currently looking for.
i write s. italy, you write: prussia france nyo!belarus mmmaybe portugal? interesting…..
i write n. italy, you write: austria! sorry germany. ;(
i write china, you write: rome.
i write greece, you write: turkey.
i write sweden, you write: finland.
i write prussia, you write: poland
and thaaaats about it, folks! hope to hear from someone out there in the void! if you are also a literate writer and you’re looking for some nostalgic rp don’t hesitate to message me! :D
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2023.06.03 15:20 averagejoerp i need to relive 2010 so who wants to write hetalia with me?

yes. you read that right.
hetalia.
i know, i know! irrelevant, niche, and maybe a little cringy? i don’t care, i adore these characters! i’m looking for an 18+ discord role playing partner who is just as enthusiastic about writing and plotting as i am! i would consider myself an advanced to literate writer, who averages 3-6 (sometimes more!) paragraphs per post. i appreciate someone who puts in an equal amount of effort.
about me? mae, she/her, 29! <3
i highly prefer modern aus over canon or historical settings. i enjoy themes such as hurt, comfort, angst, conflict and resolution, character development, pining (be it mutual or initially one-sided)… the list goes on, but you get the vibe. cliche au settings i enjoy would be things such as: soulmates, high school, adults trying to figure shit out, cafe/coffee shop, ski resort/beach house (or any sort of vacation destination really). it may also be obvious that many of my ships are very “opposites attract,” so i also enjoy plots that lean into that, such as celebrity/fan, socialite/caterer, artist/muse. as a throwback to the edgy early days of rp, i’m stupid for stalkevictim role plays idc idc. throw anything at me, and once we get the ideas rolling i’m the type who is consistently coming up with new plot points/twists/milestones. (bonus: i’ll absolutely end up making rp playlists so you can expect me to send you music, oops!)
now, onto the ships. which is the best part, let’s be real. the listed ships and characters are the only ones that i’m currently looking for.
i write s. italy, you write: prussia france nyo!belarus mmmaybe portugal? interesting…..
i write n. italy, you write: austria! sorry germany. ;(
i write china, you write: rome.
i write greece, you write: turkey.
i write sweden, you write: finland.
i write prussia, you write: poland
and thaaaats about it, folks! hope to hear from someone out there in the void! if you are also a literate writer and you’re looking for some nostalgic rp don’t hesitate to message me! :D
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2023.06.03 15:18 Bragior Civ of the Week: Hungary (2023-06-03)

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Hungary

  • Required DLC: Gathering Storm Expansion Pack

Unique Ability

Pearl of the Danube
  • +50% Production for districts and buildings built across a river from a City Center
Starting Bias: River (Tier 3), Geothermal Fissure (Tier 5)

Unique Unit

Huszár
  • Basic Attributes
    • Unit type: Light Cavalry
    • Requires: Military Science tech
    • Replaces: Cavalry
  • Cost
    • 430 Production cost (Standard Speed)
    • 10 Horse resources
  • Maintenance
    • 5 Gold per turn
  • Base Stats
    • 65 Combat Strength
    • 5 Movement
    • 2 Sight Range
  • Bonus Stats
    • Ignores enemy zone of control
  • Unique Attributes
    • +3 Combat Strength for every active alliance
  • Differences from Replaced Unit
    • +5 Production cost (Standard Speed)
    • -10 Horse resource requirement
    • +3 Combat Strength
    • Unique attributes
Black Army
(Available only for certain leaders)
  • Basic Attributes
    • Unit type: Light Cavalry
    • Requires: Castles tech
    • Replaces: Courser
  • Cost
    • 205 Production cost (Standard Speed)
    • 10 Horse resources
  • Maintenance
    • 3 Gold per turn
  • Base Stats
    • 49 Combat Strength
    • 5 Movement
    • 2 Sight Range
  • Bonus Stats
    • Ignores enemy zone of control
  • Unique Attributes
    • +3 Combat Strength for each adjacent Levied unit
  • Differences from Replaced Unit
    • +5 Production cost (Standard Speed)
    • -10 Horse resource requirement
    • +3 Combat Strength
    • Unique attributes

Unique Infrastructure

Thermal Bath
  • Basic Attributes
    • Infrastructure type: Building
    • Requires: Natural History civic
    • Replaces: Zoo
  • Cost
    • 360 Production cost (Standard Speed)
  • Maintenance
    • 2 Gold per turn
  • Base Effects
    • +2 Amenities to all City Centers within 6 tiles of the Entertainment Complex
  • Unique Attributes
    • +2 Production to all City Centers within 6 tiles of the Entertainment Complex
    • +3 Tourism and +2 Amenities if there is at least one Geothermal Fissure within the city
  • Differences from Replaced Infrastructure
    • +1 Amenities to all City Centers within 6 tiles of the Entertainment Complex
    • No longer gains Science for each Marsh and Rainforest tiles within the city
    • Unique attributes

Leader: Matthias Corvinus

Leader Ability

Raven King
  • Levied city-state units gain +2 Movement and +5 Combat Strength
  • Levied city-state units can be upgraded at a 75% Gold and Resource discount
  • Gain 2 Envoys when levying from a city-state
  • Gain the Black Army unique unit

Agenda

Raven Banner
  • Attempts to levy troops from city-states as much as possible
  • Likes civilizations who levy troops from city-states
  • Dislikes civilizations who do not levy troops from city-states

Civilization-related Achievements

  • The Laurels of Virtues and Letters King — Win a regular game as Matthias Covinus
  • Shield of Christianity — As Hungary, have Christianity as the dominant religion and defeat a Civilization's unit whose dominant religion is not Christianity

Useful Topics for Discussion

  • What do you like or dislike about this civilization?
  • How easy or difficult is this civ to use for new players?
  • What are the victory paths you can go for with this civ?
  • What are your assessments regarding the civ's abilities?
    • How well do they synergize with each other?
    • How well do they compare to other similar civ abilities, if any?
    • Do you often use their unique units and infrastructure?
  • Can this civ be played tall or should it always go wide?
  • What map types, game mode, or setting does this civ shine in?
  • What synergizes well with this civ? You may include the following:
    • Terrain, resources and natural wonders
    • World wonders
    • Government type, legacy bonuses and policies
    • City-state type and suzerain bonuses
    • Governors
    • Great people
    • Secret societies
    • Heroes & legends
    • Corporations
  • Have the civ's general strategy changed since the latest update(s)?
  • How do you deal against this civ if controlled by the player or the AI?
  • Are there any mods that can make playing this civ more interesting?
  • Do you have any stories regarding this civ that you would like to share?
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2023.06.03 15:17 averagejoerp i need to relive 2010 so who wants to write hetalia with me?

yes. you read that right.
hetalia.
i know, i know! irrelevant, niche, and maybe a little cringy? i don’t care, i adore these characters! i’m looking for an 18+ discord role playing partner who is just as enthusiastic about writing and plotting as i am! i would consider myself an advanced to literate writer, who averages 3-6 (sometimes more!) paragraphs per post. i appreciate someone who puts in an equal amount of effort.
about me? mae, she/her, 29! <3
i highly prefer modern aus over canon or historical settings. i enjoy themes such as hurt, comfort, angst, conflict and resolution, character development, pining (be it mutual or initially one-sided)… the list goes on, but you get the vibe. cliche au settings i enjoy would be things such as: soulmates, high school, adults trying to figure shit out, cafe/coffee shop, ski resort/beach house (or any sort of vacation destination really). it may also be obvious that many of my ships are very “opposites attract,” so i also enjoy plots that lean into that, such as celebrity/fan, socialite/caterer, artist/muse. as a throwback to the edgy early days of rp, i’m stupid for stalkevictim role plays idc idc. throw anything at me, and once we get the ideas rolling i’m the type who is consistently coming up with new plot points/twists/milestones. (bonus: i’ll absolutely end up making rp playlists so you can expect me to send you music, oops!)
now, onto the ships. which is the best part, let’s be real. the listed ships and characters are the only ones that i’m currently looking for.
i write s. italy, you write: prussia france nyo!belarus mmmaybe portugal? interesting…..
i write n. italy, you write: austria! sorry germany. ;(
i write china, you write: rome.
i write greece, you write: turkey.
i write sweden, you write: finland.
i write prussia, you write: poland
and thaaaats about it, folks! hope to hear from someone out there in the void! if you are also a literate writer and you’re looking for some nostalgic rp don’t hesitate to message me! :D
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2023.06.03 15:15 BrwnGreenHazelEydGrl [Update] Green flags/Red flags

So I posted here a few days ago and got some really great insight/advice from you all. Well, I took it all in and had a conversation with my boyfriend last night. I have a strong feeling the way this post is going to go but again, I'm not yet a blended family so I want to reach out to you all again as you have experience that I don't.
Sorry I don't know how to link a previous post
We took my bf's oldest son to a sporting event last night and had a really amazing time. Honestly, I pretty much always have a great time with my bf just him as well as time with my bf and his kids. His kids, despite their ages and memories of their parents together, have been extremely welcoming to me and my kids. We're very much included. But I degress...
I brought up my concerns about a potential future with someone who does not set boundaries with their ex and allows that person to dictate events as they want. I spoke about the boundaries I have with my ex. How I'm not involved during his parenting time, how he's not involved during my parenting time, how if he requests something ridiculous I have no problem saying no, etc.
Well my bf went on to tell me what he experienced while married/during the beginning of their divorce. How every time he'd try and set a boundary she would go into a fit and it would last days/weeks and effect how she was around their kids. How they would get into screaming matches with the kids crying, they would tell him how negatively she behaved towards them when she was upset with him, etc. He decided that it was just easier to appease her bc it was having a big effect on her parenting and therefore the mental health of their children. He believes that there have been changes over the years and her control over situations has decreased as the kids have gotten older and are able to verbalize their wants/needs. He believes this will continue to lessen as time goes on.
He also feels that bc they share 50/50 custody that there has to be this give and take. He has to do for her so she can do for him, so to say. Although, I've only seen her once do something for him but I see him constantly doing things for her, I mean the kids...
I told him I understood where he was coming from but that it makes me invision my life and my children's lives, and the relationships I have with him and his kids being dictated by another person and I just don't feel comfortable with that.
I asked him if he brought up the parade issue or another issue that occurred a few weeks ago (ex told him his daughter wanted to go out to a restaurant together as a family for her birthday, I told him I was ok with celebrating with a morning with cake, but I was not comfortable with him going out to dinner as a family. He agreed and said he would talk to the daughter. Well come to find out the daughter never said that, the ex lied. He then suggested to the daughter we; him +kids, me+kids would go out to eat and we did. Had a great time.) Well, he never brought up either issue. He said he just didn't have time for it and it's not a priority.
He's a great guy. A great Dad. He's amazing to my kids. I really like his children. They seem to really like me and my kids. I love him. Am I a fool to expect this future will not be constantly ruled by another woman? I'm so disheartened.
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