Hey, I AFAB, have been trying to understand my gender identity lately. I have never been comfortable in dresses or skirts - they don't really 'feel' me - and I love suits, but I've never felt anything close to paralyzing disphoria like I've heard described. Honestly, I'm not sure I'd want the hastle of coming out, either.
I've always been called somewhat of a tomboy, and I love it when people call me things like 'sir.'. As a kid, I used to want to be a professor so people wouldn't call me Mrs.. But I don't know if that's because I'd like to be a guy or because I just never liked the way those words sounded.
Or, honestly, if I have some internalized misogyny. Being called a girl never hurt as much as a woman, so I'm also wondering if my weirdness with some more girly things has to do more with my unfair preconceptions than anything else.
I also hate my breasts and more feminine shape, but I think that's more because I find the idea of people finding me attractive as somewhat objectifying and off-putting. (Either because I'm ace or just socially awkward).
TLDR: AFAB, no real strong disphoria, tomboy, not sure where the line ends for being a tomboy and where it begins for being trans/non-binary.

I buy an old iPad mini 2 in good condition, few years ago I had one and I remember it with nostalgic memories.
But after I get it, i feel the ipad really slow, unusable in other words, not for the fact it is using an outdated ios version.
Then i was thinking about how in my memory my ipad mini 2 was really good, fast and smooth, and now it is annoying slow
Well I find a solution =D I downgrade my ios version from 12.5.7 and now I have the 10.3.3 this is smooth as i remembered it, my current fear are auto updates, i didn't want to update the ios version again.
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Is there a way to prevent ios update?

Code: 4HBB6B
Username: Miles
Hero played: Soldier
Rank: Gold 5 and on my way to wood 5
Map: Watchpoint Gibraltar
This is my first try reaching out because I just don't know what to do anymore. I recently climbed out of low bronze to gold 5, but I feel like out of nowhere I just hit a wall. While I still make silly mistakes, I don't feel like I don't belong here, but I am currently 1-6 with no end in sight for this losing streak. To be honest it has me so demoralized that I am very tempted to just give up on competetive and stick to qp/arcade, but I know that I will never improve if I give in to that temptation.
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I've been trying to improve my positioning and working off angles better, and I think that I've improved in this regard even though I do still have a brain fart here and there (notably first point defense where I'm the first to die which is a huge no-no). Another struggle point i've noticed is that when I try working more off angles, it feels like I have to massively play around healthpacks and I don't get noticed by supports unless i'm right on top of the tank (which probably isn't the play as soldier). I'm fine with grabbing healthpacks to survive, but it seems like I'm just out of the fight for so much of the game because I'm just trying to live.
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My aim is also a big struggle point right now, so I've been practicing in aim trainers hoping to improve that. It seems like it may be helping a tiny bit, but it hasn't really been noticeable.
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Please feel free to be as brutally honest as you'd like. In this game I had the most elims and damage in the lobby, but I don't think that the stats tell even close to the main story, because i'm not even sure if any of it was impactful enough to change the game. This was a close game and I think it was very winnable if I had just played a little better, but right now I'm just at a loss as to how I can improve :(
Sorry for the long post, I'm not sure if giving you my current mindset helps at all with the review, but I truly appreciate any criticism/feedback you can give me. Thank you!

Hello, I've had almost every change in the book happen to at least some extent in year 1, and generally pass when in public now. My breasts have grown and rounded out, my hips, thighs, and butt got bigger, body hair is mostly nonexistent, my face changed a little, and my emotions are way better.
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I'm worried though that this is the end. I'm still hoping for more fat distribution and I've been having a hard time eating enough due to my low appetite (online calculators say I need at least around 2,800 calories a day to gain weight at 5' 10" and 150ish pounds - I'm struggling to meet that goal daily). I'm also nervous about the fact that I started progesterone at the 6 month mark. My breasts haven't gotten too much bigger since then but they have grown - they are somewhere around 34ish B cups I think (I need to get them properly measured). I can wear some tighter tops without a bra and they show nicely but they are still small. Since they rounded out after starting P, I'm nervous that I finished their growth and I shouldn't expect any more. They are still mildly sore.
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I'm thinking of seeing if I should switch to injections. My E level at trough is around 126 pg/mL and T levels at trough are 20 ng/dL at 7mg E sublingual daily, 50mg Spiro oral daily, and 100mg progesterone rectally daily. This regimen hasn't changed in the past 6 months and I am still slowly seeing fat redistribution happen to my lower body.
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So to any who were in a similar position to me around the one year mark, can I still expect anything to happen or am I done? As happy as I am with the changes, I'm really hoping they continue into year 2, I'm really hoping my breasts and lower body in particular continue to fill out.

We had our problems, that's for sure. You ended it before we even got the chance to talk about them. That's ok, I'm doing alright. I just had a lot of things to talk about with you about our relationship. Maybe it could've helped it, maybe not.
You kept talking about "boundaries" and learning how to set them. To be honest I wasn't good at setting boundaries either. We didn't have good boundaries in my family, and my mom always stepped across them. Even when I was the happiest and most comfortable with you, I didn't even think about setting boundaries. And when I did, you crossed them anyways. Those should've been deal breakers to me, but I was willing to give and take. I just don't see how you conceded any boundaries to me. I had sex with you plenty of times when I wasn't in the mood to, I just thought that you wanted it and that it was rare for you to be so in the mood. I would've let you cross just about any boundaries during sex, and that's not good. You sort of set up boundaries for me anyways because you were scared of what I would do. Not always where I wanted them, but I can't really complain about that can I. I was gonna let you do whatever you wanted to me, in public or private. There were no physical boundaries with my mother and I, but despite my feelings for her and her behavior I still somehow thought that it would be ok for you to do the same. Something about actually choosing you or something. You believed that I always wanted sex and that it was all I was there for, but it's not true. You don't have to believe me. I think honesty above all is the best expectation. You still did things to me that were, or should've been, unforgivable, and I conceded those boundaries every time. Maybe if I set up all of the boundaries I could've been taken seriously on the ones you didn't follow. Maybe I wouldn't be seen as emotional or irrational when I did.
Boundaries became very important to you. In my position now I actually applaud you on setting boundaries in your life. You didn't set them before, now you're really fucking bad at setting boundaries. I hope that one day you can get better. Weeks before our final fight I learned something important about boundaries that I was waiting until you would actually talk with me to share with you. It was revolutionary to me at the time and I thought it was gonna fix up all the rough patches if I finally talked to you about it. Never got to. I learned that when anyone sets up boundaries with someone it's absolutely normal to be upset about it. That doesn't mean the boundary setter is bad, or that the boundary needs to go away. More often than not the boundary is understood and the anger goes away. I know you're unusually stubborn and maybe you'd stay mad indefinitely if I set my boundaries, but I would hope you wouldn't. It wasn't "delegitimizing your feelings" to assume that you'll get over something. You or me being upset at a boundary is entirely normal. And it usually goes away. But by God, you always stayed mad. You dug up old shit and things never really went away with you did it? If you had just told me that it was ok to be upset at boundaries but you wouldn't take them down I would actually felt infinite respect and validation simultaneously. No matter what you say, being upset that you'd remove sex from our relationship on a whim is entirely normal for me to be. If you'd verified my feelings (not taking down the boundary) and secondly actually EXPLAINED the reasons properly, I would've been much more at peace with the change. I know there's never changing your mind on anything, but no, I'm not an absolute devil just because I was upset that you'd take away sex for virtually no spoken reason. And when I got close to doing something that would actually be awful, when I stepped over that boundary with you, I immediately felt bad and apologized thoroughly. I felt so bad, I was thinking it was in playfully pushy territory but when I actually understood the situation, I stopped and apologized. And you comforted me, aggressively comforted me. I never asked you to do that. I crossed a spoken boundary and I thought that I deserved to feel bad for it. Nothing felt more manipulative than that. I've heard all the stuff you've been saying, how I'm a manipulative garbage person. I'm sure you tell all your friends about that time and whatever other time. But I actually felt bad and said sorry, it was your decision to comfort me. That wasn't your job. It felt good because I was in actual distress, I wasn't trying to manipulate you into giving me something I want. I know that's one of your biggest points of contention with me is that I maybe put the blame on you for your own grievances so to speak, but when I didn't ask for it and you gave it freely I can't seem to imagine the blame falling elsewhere. At least I take responsibility for the shitty things I did, and usually immediately after they occurred. But you grabbed me and touched me and groped me whenever you wanted, and I even encouraged it, and that was an issue. It's how I thought love worked, but when I didn't like it I didn't speak up. I understand how my trauma influenced it and why I did those things, but I am not alleviating responsibility or putting the blame on you. I wouldn't agree if you asserted that you tried your hardest in the relationship. I know you got your own issues, but I never asked you to be motherly. I'm a fucked up boy with mommy issues and you offered to take care of me, and I wouldn't say no. But you turned it down when I tried to take care of you, and then you say that I was needy and manipulative. If you read this now even you'd call it gaslighting, but I can't really assert that all the things you say happened are of equal relevance to reality. Even in my most better I won't say all, or even most, is delusion, but by God you seem pretty delusional. I don't read minds and I'm not responsible for your feelings. Not my fault if you are insecure about feelings being "valid" that's not my job. I'm sure that even in this letter there'll be plenty of criticisms that you'd feel compelled to launch at me, but I'm highlighting my own flaws mostly. That's a virtue that I'll always have that you appear to be incapable of, and using that virtue to continually get me to doubt myself and make me feel shitty is completely despicable. We don't need to all have a god complex.
So boundaries, we needed to set some up in our relationship and I thought we could do it. I already had a laundry list at the time of ways we would've been exponentially more functional before you ended things. Since I didn't get to verbalize those I tortured myself endlessly with them. Finally getting them down is a good way to flush them out of my system. I'm simultaneously relieved that I get to clear my head and disappointed as I feel that I've forgotten some by now and aren't as freshly wounded as writing all my nasty feelings down would be the most beneficial. I do remember the bit about boundaries in sex, I talked a lot about that mostly to demonstrate the concept by example. It was also shitty and strange that we knocked each other's religious expressions. I wanted to set the boundary where I wouldn't make fun or criticize if you wanted to buy crystals, and you to me if I wanted to read philosophy or the Bible or anything else. Your sexuality was a clear boundary that needed to be a deal breaker. You absolutely know that I was fine with you coming out, it's the constant put down of men and sexual comments about women that was the issue. I don't care which ways you swing or if you learn that it's changed, but everyone sees you posting about how much you want to fuck a woman. You got upset about me being attracted to fictional characters, but constantly expressing how much you want to fuck women isn't progressive or brave, it's just not fair to me. I can't provide that for you. No I'm not a bigot or an asshole for that boundary, it's just that you aren't God. I'm sorry but in a relationship with me or anyone else you need respect and can't just do whatever you want. I was entirely open minded and accepting of you, it was your behavior that was problematic. But you also told me that men shouldn't have self respect and frankly I should've dumped you for any one of those things. You couldn't tell me that all my friends were pieces of shit without knowing them. You couldn't hold how you feel about me just hoping that it would get better. You couldn't let your friends and family openly talk about how much they despised me behind my back. You couldn't repeatedly put me down for trying to be better. You couldn't hold me responsible for your feelings.

A few weeks ago I was in a comp game that ended about 5 minutes in with a message on my screen that someone was caught cheating and I would not lose SR for the match.
I went through all perspectives and couldn’t find anyone cheating. I then remembered a quick play game I had a couple months ago where the enemy team said my Pharah was cheating, I didn’t believe them. Then I saw Pharah’s POTG of a snapping screen and all direct shots.
So I did some digging and found that cheats can be as simple as a thicker outline on characters, to more intricate things like auto suzu and auto Dva matrix to eat ults.
Realistically, how many people do you think use cheats? Have you encountered anyone?

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I was born to two immigrant parents, who, insofar as love, affection, providing, were the absolute best parents a kid could ever ask for. My dad was the hardest working person I have ever known (and likely ever will know), working a hard manual labour construction job, usually 10+ hrs a day. He did so to be able to provide as best as he could for my mum and I. Up until I was 13, we rented a small apartment in Toronto, but at that age, my parents decided they wanted a house (despite not being able to afford one on our single-income finances), so my mom got help from her brother for a downpayment, and we got into a house north of the city, in the suburbs. I was never "taught" finances at home, and never paid attention in school or cared to learn them on my own, so it was largely never discussed, outside of the odd argument I'd hear between my parents about money.
A few years into living at the new house, my mom talked my uncle (who lives overseas, and who at the time was doing much better) into investing into a second home as a rental property that would only increase. Which it of course did. That house was flipped, small profit made, and another bought, which remained for about 15 years with various tenants.
Despite my dad working like a dog, his pay could never cover all the bills, but this was always kept from me, I always thought we were fine, and I kind of just blew any money I made in my 20's on random stuff, no savings to speak of. Again, finances were never really discussed.
In my early-20's, as I was in the midst of establishing myself (and on an upward trajectory) in my respective field (creative field), my father got diagnosed with a really awful illness, which by my mid-late-20's ultimately took him from us. I didn't get a whole lot out of my 20's, but that's okay, and I wouldn't change a thing, because I was at home helping with dad, getting to enjoy what time I had with him (despite the ugly nature of the illness and how it changes the sufferer).
This now left my mum and I alone, with her in imperfect health as well, and my income shoddy at best. But it also forced me to finally better familiarize myself with the financial situation... which, when I did, I had a major breakdown, and, frankly, have not been the same since. It very much robbed me of any "colour" I had in my already mediocre life. I suddenly felt that this great big burden, which entailed second mortgages and lines of credits on both houses, fell on my shoulders, and felt overwhelmed and stuck in the truest sense of the word, totally unable to escape. My relation with my mom also suffered temporarily, but we bounced back- even with this slew of financial havoc, she is still my mom, and I love her more than anything... I won't let even an insurmountable debt tarnish my perception of her, or our very special relationship.
In time, I suppose what was inevitable happened, and she was forced to sell the second property, only coming away with something like $100k (on an almost $2mm home at present market value)... that should illustrate, in part, how bad the situation was. I had another breakdown when this happened, not because I saw what I thought might someday be my inheritance-- I never thought that; I always knew there'd never be anything, and have always been fine with that, not expecting a thing-- go up in flames, but because it was the end of something I know my parents worked so hard towards, and hoped would someday lead to a more comfortable life for them (which, sadly, they never had- and it kills me to know how hard my dad worked, only to come away with absolutely nothing).
That just recently happened, and, well, really lit a fire under my butt to at the very least start getting my own financial situation in order, which is why I'm posting here.
I don't know what awaits my mum and I- specifically, our living situation. More than likely she will be forced to sell our primary residence of the past 20 years as well. I'm totally fine with that- it stinks to see the house I spent my formative years in have to go, but if it's what's necessary, so be it.
I have no semblance of a social or romantic life for various reasons, partly due to all that transpired throughout my 20's, and just wanting to work on myself before I get to that. I'd love nothing more than to have a family of my own, but for the time being, it's just a distant dream (for various reasons). But what is important now is that I will have to be the primary bread-winner obviously, but more than that, that I get my financial situation, spending habits, and credit situation in order so as to set myself up for a future that is hopefully not near as destitute as that which my parents found themselves in.
My line of work, in the creative industry I work in, is inconsistent at best, which has forced me to, after 12 years in the industry, look elsewhere. I see it as lost time, but also experience gained. Time to grow up and move on, and seek out something stable with room to grow. I never finished college, so am not sure what that might be, but I'm open to pretty much anything. I'm great with people and words, so some have suggested a career in sales, which goes against most everything I've ever believed in, but, again, time to grow up and do what's best for my mum and I. I am actively looking for work, but of course still accepting paid commissions in the field I have worked in for the past decade+. Additionally, I have a smaller scale "side business", mostly for cash, which I've done for the past 6-7 years, which I'm looking to take legit and incorporate, and ideally build up to the point I'll be able to open a storefront eventually. Some friends are advising I keep it online and build it that way for the time being, while some others suggest I draw up a business plan and present to investors with the same enthusiasm I pitched it to them with. But that's all secondary, even tertiary, to what I want to focus on now.
That side business has made it such that I've got some liquid assets I could sell off, which were bought as investments (and have already yielded nice returns in a short period), the profit of which I was planning to put back into it, to keep growing and generating, BUT being about $30k in CC debt, I'm thinking of getting out of some of these assets and paying down at least 1/3-2/3 of this debt. My credit score has greatly suffered the last year, going from 680 down to 570 currently, the lowest it's ever been, and I desperately want to fix that, again, hoping that a good credit score will someday come in clutch when applying for a mortgage, car loan, whatever. I hate having that CC debt looming over me, only ever making minimum payments which only ever cover the interest... The debt spans about 8 cards from 3-4 banks... all maxed out long ago. It was an awful way to go about it, I'm only now recognizing that- better late than never, I suppose. And of course it's not fun to pay it off now, months/years later, but I'm trying to be responsible for once. Learning as I go...
I don't exactly know the point of posting this lengthy story here... It's partially just to get this all off my chest, to have in writing at least part of what I aim to achieve (so that I can hopefully look back in a year or two once I'm at least partially out of this hole), but also a plea for your general advice on what you'd suggest I do outside of the obvious (which is to find a steady job and pay off the CC debt).
I have a friend who often talks about opportunity cost, and I know he'd say to keep the money in the appreciating assets which would continue to make me more money as I sell them and use the profit generated to get into new ones which would also generate more income (basically flipping), but I feel like that'd keep me locked in for too long, and I really just want to start paying down this debt ASAP.
But besides that... and besides getting into a steady job... what all should I be doing to set myself up for a relatively comfortable future? I am presently at rock bottom, and am ready to accept any and all necessary changes required to put me on the right path.
My apologies for the long post... I wanted to be as thorough as possible in conveying my situation and my aspirations... I greatly appreciate, in advance, any and all advice you might be able to offer.

I (31f) have always recieved positive feedback during sex as being very tight and very wet ( extremely wet where le penis slips out) and usually the guy doesn't last longer than a minute or so doing the nasty. I have been single for 5+ years and have had hookups during this time but never slept with anyone who is able or willing to make me enjoy piv sex, as it is always over so fast. I usually have to ask for oral sex in order to receive some form of pleasure, but generally end up all hot and bothered and unsatisfied. What should I do to be able to enjoy piv sex more?

I’m from western Canada. been shopping around for an XLT f150 the last month… this is what I’m seeing. Take it for what you want. Would like to hear your stories
ford has 4000$ off msrp promo on xlts,
Only one dealer in 800kms of me was promoting an additional 3500 off for a total of 7500 on any xlt. I found the truck with most of what I wanted at another dealer and he was willing to compete and do 4000$ off on top of fords 4000… of course they wanted proof of the other dealers sale… so I directed them to the website. I didn’t pull the trigger as the truck was 77,500 msrp @ 4.99%… even with the discount it’s more than I want to spend but they wouldn’t negotiate anymore. that was last week.
Today the sales manager texts me and says I can stack the x plan on top of fords promo so it would be 4000 + 7100 for the xplan bringing the truck to 66,400 $ plus gst and fees but the ford offer ends tonight and we must get the sale done today. I told him I wasn’t ready to make a deal today and will take my chances on the next promo.. he then tells me we may never see another deal from ford like this again.. he was talking about fords 4,000 off msrp.
To be fair they have been good to deal with, but even with 11,100 off msrp I still can’t justify paying 70k out the door for a truck with cloth seats… it’s just crazy especially at 5%. His comment about ford never doing a factory discount did give me a good chuckle. also when I first asked about the x plan pricing he said the 8,000$ off was a better deal than anything the x plan would get me… turns out it wasn’t. Maybe they haven’t been so good to deal with.

I've been struggling for a year and a half to stop, every morning making a resolution to not do it and every night laying down disappointed in myself for failing. I feel like i'm way too sexually aroused since I constantly find myself placing my hands around there and when I realize i'm horny I no longer have any control over my thoughts or actions. My brain tries to justify it saying, "it's good for you it'll be fine!", "You can quit at any time so why don't you do it this once?" or some other excuse that I know is logically bullshit but even still my willpower gives in against the urges since i'm quite literally blinded by the need to appease them. I went on vacation recently and ended up staying clean for around 5 days, which is the second longest i've ever gone since I started. All of a sudden the urges started flaring up even more intensely afterwards. I used to do it 2 times a day at a minimum but now it seems like 5. The good thing is that I don't think i'm addicted to pornography. I haven't looked at any lewd material in around 3-4 months but the urges to masturbate are still insanely persistent.
How do I control my willpower and suppress my urges? Do I distract myself when I feel them by going for a run or doing something not in my room? I've tried that but alot of the times I end up catching myself too late in the cycle for willpower to be of any use. It feels like i'm losing control of my mind and body and I don't know what to do.

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Posting for my friend. We know nothing about law please bear with us!
My friend and her husband have been married for almost 20 years and have 3 kids together (one in college, one in high school, one in middle school.) He has a history of leaving the house with no contact for a few weeks to a few months at a time and a history of lying about money (he gave $50,000 to his sister once without telling my friend among other things). He has also not had a steady job in 5 years and has no income for the last 2 so he’s mostly home with the kids whereas she works full time and has a high 6 figure income (engineer). They do not have a prenup
The problem is, my friend has sent some threatening texts to him when they fought in the past, along the lines of “I’ll kill you” (context if it matters: one time I remember he fed the youngest moldy food). She is very nonviolent and the kids can attest.
Also They have a shared Microsoft account and she found a Word doc — basically he’s been meeting with a divorce lawyer, trying to get full custody and say that she’s dangerous or mentally ill with the texts as “proof.” Since he’s been leaving her noncontact a 10+ times, theres a note from the lawyer that says he should say he was scared for his safety and to text the kids often so it doesn’t seem like left them too. He also wants complete ownership of their house.
Are her texts enough for the the husband to get full custody? Will my friend lose her kids and the house and be locked up?

He told me "I just stuck his B**** ass". I think that means he punched him. The lady and guy left their stuff in my car when the guy ran out of my car to go fight the guy again and I got just to be on the safe side. I was concerned the guy his fighting may come back shooting thinking I'm with them and not an Uber and I have my Glock CC in always readyfire because of armed carjackings in our city.
Dashcam below. When we got on freeway I also saw a lady that wanted to be roadkill as she was walking to our left on a narrow strip next to our lane that doesn't protect her from cars coming up behind her.
https://youtu.be/vthLUpijh-U
City I live/drive in isn't even big like Chicago or New York and yet I always encounter bizarre stuff. Nothing surprises me anymore.
I also previously drove a rich dude who owns a company and he told me he has two large mansions in addition to one I picked him up from and also 5 super luxury cars. I was dropping him off to a restaurant in the rich areas of our metro and he also told me he has no kids and every lady he tries to pickup ends up leaving him. Something was off on his personality and ladies were getting discouraged. He said his nephews will inherit his wealth and guy looked late 30s and not even old.

Finally after covid a started to get back on my feet. I owed for taxes do to cerb and I set up a plan to pay it in 5 months. Now $2800 with $700 payments I have a decent paying job well. The only other debt I have is my credit card which is maxed and I was planning on paying off this year ($8900) Today I got a letter in the mail saying I owe 3 months of cerb back which would be $6000? I looked at may paychecks and my work did pay me for my first 3 months off so I do owe the money back. What do I do?? I was so hoping to get my finances figured out this year. Any advice would help. Thanks.

TLDR: I broke up with him 2 days after his mom’s wedding. He never really showed me appreciation and never even brought me flowers or anything sweet. Apparently he is always broke and personally i am not. I have a salary job where he still works dead end jobs in the city. I felt like his life wasn’t going anywhere. However i liked him very much and the breakup was hard for me. We got into an argument and he said the last time we had sex was clarity. I ended up blocking him on everything. He ended up blocking me back on twitter about 5 days after I blocked him. He just unblocked me yesterday and now is tweeting about spoiling his new girlfriend with money and gifts. Knowing he didn’t do any of that with me. So what do you think, any advice ?