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2023.05.29 13:57 badfantasyrx Hot Tip - it's Mobile Monday

It's mobile Monday so here's a pointer or two on how to score some great adventure games, and where to follow them. Twitter is a mobile monday focus, so you can see an assortment of games in progress, but not all are adventure. We like farming sims, but again, it's trending away. So can we just recommend the big fish app? Just searching it on your mobile will turn up ten or twelve games hosted by them off the drop - many of which are free, and DLing the app with do the same.
Like your adventure on the go? That's a great way to do it - bonus, all of their games have a hints button so you never get stuck.
Ex: Frozen Beauty from 4Friends Gaming
People bash Point and Click adventure games- and there's a reason for that. If you're not careful, you might wind up playing a seek and find that *maybe* has a storyline. If that's your jam, great! But a lot of us see the potential in the storyboard interface, the options for mini-games, for art and character development, and for more than just an immersive plot.
If you've run into anything from me before, you know that I love fairy tales- so this is definitely a biased review. The art of explaining Zeitgeist to society started with the Brothers Grimm and never stopped being popular. Things that make no sense, divorce, debt, celibacy, human slavery, are all dressed up in the popular frippery of the current times and cheerfully recounted to small, impressionable children. It's hilarious.
So a fairy tale mashup is a natural win. Toss in enough clever puzzles and I'm hooked. Living Legends is a great series and Frozen Beauty is exactly what it sounds like- light, fun and interesting. You even have a clueless sister to blame every failure on, which makes for a constant sense of superiority as you're thwarted at every turn. The hints button helps, although I hate to skip a puzzle entirely.
Follow Snow White's journey - backwards - and save your sister from an evil queen by beating mini games, the usual puzzle combos and the occasional seek and find screen. With lovingly hand drawn art and a great storyline movement style, it works on either you phone or PC - you can take it with you on the go.
For your phone or PC, with Big Fish's usual winning formula.
Check it out:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J0BjN4KX4WU&list=PLzUVFtoYb6_LWxoRd-f-TxaPWQLkNL-Gf&index=40
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2023.05.29 13:57 DRAGON_o_RIDER i'm really struggling with 2d array's and would like some help (week 3) tideman

im currently on tideman and i just can't find the right syntax to use the 2d array provided to us,
here is my code for add_pairs
void add_pairs(void) { // TODO // find a way to make a pair of 2 and see who is most prefered over thee other // compare preferences[0][] to preferences[1][] and see where they land in prefences? // make two int variables so you can add to the score when [0]'s number is found before [1] meaning [0] got prefered over [1] for (int i = 0; i < candidate_count; i++) { // a counting variable that resets everytime the candidates being compared changes // score1 == i int score1 = 0; // score2 == i + 1 int score2 = 0; for (int j = 0; j < candidate_count; j++) { for (int k = 0; k < candidate_count; k++) { if (preferences[j][k] == i) { score1++; break; } else if (preferences[j][k] == i + 1) { score2++; break; } } } // if i is prefered more than i + 1 if (score1 > score2) { pairs[i].winner = preferences[i][]; pairs[i].loser = prefernces[i + 1][]; } // if candidate i + 1 was fount to be more prefered over candidate i else if (score1 < score2) { pairs[i].winner = preferences[i + 1][]; pairs[i].loser = prefernces[i][]; } } return; } 
i have a good idea on what i wanna do but i don't know how to tell the program to do it
my questions are
when im telling the program to assign a value to pairs[i].winner how do i tell my program that i only want what's in the first part of prefrences[this part][and for it to ignore this one]
and did i miss when david explained 2d array's and how to use them? if so please tell me when he did that so i can watch it again
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2023.05.29 13:57 magentadev Lost Steam Deck

Gamarjoba! I had a trip to Kakhetia with my friends recently. We traveled by bus where I lost my steam deck. I realized it just after we arrived, so instantly called a bus company operator that we were talking to when ordered the bus. He said to come in the morning for “some special item”. I called him the next day to ask about the time I could come. He said he knows nothing and gave me driver’s phone number. Aaron this time driver said that didn’t find anything. I asked if somebody could steal it, he answered that there was the only person in the vehicle left after us, but “he wasn’t holding anything in his hands”. After I asked operator if the driver could steal it himself, he got angry keep asking “why does he need it? definitely not”. Overall I am frustrated because neither operator nor driver show any support and just tell me “it is your problem, you should have been more attentive”, which I ofc know xD Is there any sense going to police with such a case, or my steam deck lost forever? :)
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2023.05.29 13:57 ECrispy Lounge access at HND?

Incoming flight is at 14.30, connecting flight next day 10.20, flying Premium Economy on JAL which has lounge access.
Will they let me enter lounge when I land, stay till 1am (when it closes) and reenter next morning?
from here -https://www.jal.co.jp/jp/en/inteservice/lounge/hnd/
"Customers arriving at Haneda on JAL operated International flights with JAL flight number are eligible for the service on the day of arrival."

So this is a yes, right? Can anyone confirm please?
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2023.05.29 13:56 duizacrossthewater Is it necessary to work in an AI-related field for a while to gain empirical experience before conducting research in this field?

Hi everyone,
I'm a Political Science major with a research interest in the governance of artificial intelligence. I'm currently in the process of applying to PhD programs in political science, and I'm wondering if prior experience in an AI-related field is necessary for conducting research in this area.
I'm aware that there are a number of PhD programs that offer specializations in AI and politics, and I'm also aware that there are a number of research opportunities available to PhD students in this area. However, I'm not sure if prior experience working in an AI-related field is required for these programs and research opportunities.
I'm hoping that some of you who are currently working in this area can provide me with some insights. What are your thoughts on the importance of prior experience working in an AI-related field for PhD students who are interested in conducting research in the governance of AI?
I'm looking forward to hearing your thoughts on this topic. Thanks in advance for your help!
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2023.05.29 13:56 ReggedTinn I hated my mom ever since my dad passed away. I could not stop feeling anger when i see her face

I was 18 and my dad had terminal cancer. Mom was his fulltime caregiver till he passed away. When we sort through his belonging and also some clutter from the house, my mom found my older sister diary that she used to keep. My mom started reading and I felt that she was invading privacy, I tried to take it from her, but she scolds me for it. I argue how she could be so inconsiderate, and she just got angry at me but still keep reading and making comments about the stuff my sister wrote. I cried because mom did the same thing in the past and I wrote my rant in my diary about school and she found it and confront me about it. It was my outlet for things I never was able to say or retaliate others. I never kept any diary after.
A week after that, we had a roadtrip to finalize some paperwork with my paternal aunt accompanying us. On our way home, they were talking about my dad's passing that leads to conversation saying "Nowadays, kids would right away put this behind them and recover quick in a few days. Unlike us in the past who grieve much longer months or even years." I sat in the backseat angry at this but I didn't say anything. Thinking on how these thoughtless words come straight out of my mom who used to be a nurse.
The next thing I happened to overhear my mom talking on the phone with her friend in a room about the details of my dad's struggle when he was seriously ill. I was angry because she didn't disclose much information to me but blabber away to an outsider. I wasn't able to meet my dad in those months but only on twice. First time is when my friend drive me to the hospital and i have a short conversation and how my dad promised to teach me how to drive. Second time is months later, he was unresponsive and stared blankly and tired with not much energy left. He died the following week.
My sister came back from studying abroad and it was my turn to go away. I left to study 3 years, return home to my room occupied by my sister. It became "her room". She asked for my consent before and I have given my approval but only if she return it to me after i came back. She did not keep her promise and my mom sided with my sister. I had to give up my room and used a spare room that was used as storage. I salvage a few furniture to use. I held such strong attachment to the room that my sister took from me is because we lived in the same bedroom with our parents up till we are 17 or 18. We had to queen bed and shared wardrobe and space. When my sister left to study, my dad cleared up the room that is supposed to be mine and the spare room my dad had planned to get it a makeover but he was had gotten sick. When i wanted to renovate the spare room or buy new furniture, my mom told me not to waste the money.
I noticed some of my old clothes went missing, my mom had thrown them away because I probably won't wear them anymore. A wallet my friend gave me on birthday and handbag that is a souvenir from my parent ended up used by my mom, without my knowledge. She said I don't use them much anyway. To me they were memorabilia. I ended up with fewer stuff than I originally had.
I felt like I was punished for being obedient. Whenever I think of it I cried. And when I got angry and told them off, they talk me down. Not understanding the point why I was so upset and it was just such a small thing to get upset about in their eyes. My mom dared to throw my stuff but doesn't do it to my sister and even make spaces where I originally had for her. My sister gets angry for anyone who moved her stuff but she can't see it from my point when I got angry. I know one day i will choose to no contact everyone and live alone. I'm sorry dad, eventhough you always told me not to get angry at mom, I can't do it.
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2023.05.29 13:56 lesothose Our (M27/F27) dog sitter (F30s) renovated our bathroom without our knowledge while we were on our honeymoon

When my wife and I (M27/F27) go out of town, we always try and hire the same dog/house sitter who we will call Danielle (F30s). After first hiring Danielle through a dog sitting app over a year ago, we have continued to use Danielle because she is amazing with the dogs, goes above and beyond in her duties, and seems to care a lot about us, our dogs, and our home. One of the things she does is try and always have our house spotless when we come home. We've tried to tell her that she doesn't need to do all that, but she always insist. We try and always leave her a nice tip for everything she does. Having her watch our dogs in our house while we're gone gives us a lot of peace of mind when we are out of town. She also often tells us how much she loves our dogs and our home and how she always wants to dog sit for our dogs.
We have only met with Danielle in person once when she initially visited our house before she dog sat for us for the first time. Since then, all of our communication has been through text message such as booking dog sitting services. This is to say that we don't have much of a relationship with her in real life outside of dog sitting.
Despite the lack of a face to face relationship, Danielle still likes to text my wife because they have similar interests. She will text my wife about interior design a lot because my wife is into interior design, and has done a great job with designing our home, and Danielle has her own interior design business. Danielle will often text my wife about interior design work she is doing and also suggest projects that she could do at our house. She gives us suggestions for our house and when she dog sits for us, will sometimes rearrange things in our house. The text messages are fairly one sided with my wife not responding as often because she's not a great texter but also because she wasn't looking to be that close with Danielle. My wife would always decline the offers for projects because with the wedding and honeymoon, we did not have a lot of cash lying around.
But Danielle is also a very open person and will also share with my wife details of her life such as her stress and anxiety. Before our honeymoon trip, she told us that her fiancé had cheated on her and she was in a rough spot with her bills and rent. We try and be supportive but since we don't really have a close relationship, there's not much we can do besides send a supportive text message.
Because of her situation, Danielle told my wife that she would have to raise her prices and asked if that was okay with us. Her prices were already very reasonable and we told her we had no issue with the increased price. We also told her that we could pay for her upcoming dog sitting for our honeymoon ahead of time if that would help. She declined saying that she would rather be paid 50% when the dog sitting started and 50% when it ended because she had a financial system in place.
We went on our honeymoon to Europe with only a few hiccups. Due to unforeseen circumstances, we left for our honeymoon half a week later than we intended (although we still paid Danielle for the entire two weeks we had intended). Everything seemed to be going well and she sent both of us lots of pictures of our dogs. She also continued to text my wife separately and asked if she could stage our house for some photo shoots for her business and that she would put everything back afterwards. My wife told her that of course she could, trying to be as supportive as possible.
Danielle also continued to text my wife about other interior design stuff, which my wife didn't always respond to because we were on our honeymoon and my wife didn't have international service. One of the things she texted my wife about was how she was exhausted and crying over this project that she was working on. Towards the end of the honeymoon, she also told us she broke her foot and wouldn't be able to do as much around the house. We tried our best to reassure her that she already does so much and not to worry about it.
We finally got home from our honeymoon today and sent her a text letting her know. It was an exhausting 16 hour day of travel that started at 4 am Europe time. After texting Danielle, my wife saw the guest bathroom and realized that it had been completely renovated. Danielle had painted all the cabinets, put up wallpaper, installed new bathroom handles, replaced the lights, and bought new shower curtains and a bath rug. We were shocked because we had no idea Danielle had been renovating our bathroom. My wife was incredibly sad because the guest bathroom was her space, to take baths and do makeup, and she did not like the design at all. To be clear, we never gave permission, or even knew, she would be renovating our bathroom. We decided to deal with it the next day because we were so tired and just wanted to rest.
However, Danielle kept texting us asking what we thought of the bathroom and we could tell she was getting increasingly anxious. We finally decided to text her that we appreciated the work she put in and that the bathroom was pretty, however it wasn't our style and this crossed a boundary. She immediately became apologetic and said she would come by and take down everything she installed to try and return it and she would try and return our bathroom to the way it was. She kept blowing up our phones sending text messages one after another. We told her that we would figure everything out together but asked if we could just talk tomorrow since we were tired.
She informed us that she had spent $3,000 on the renovations and done 11 days of work. She continued to blow up our phones and then told us that she was having the worst month of her life and just pay her for the dog sitting and we could go our separate way but that she did need to pick everything up to return because she was very poor and just got evicted. We became increasingly concerned about how unhinged she was becoming but decided to just send her the money she was owed. We continued to tell Danielle we could figure everything out together.
We debated whether to send a tip with the payment, but we were still so tired we decided to wait until after we got everything figured out. When Danielle got the payment without a tip, she got hostile and continued to blow up our phones and began leaving voice messages for us calling us out for "being rich" and "having a house and being able to go on vacations" (we are middle class who saved up for our honeymoon, not exactly "rich"). She demanded that we let her come tomorrow to pick up everything she installed and also that she wanted a friend to come with her for support so we wouldn't leer over her as she worked. After deciding on a time, she finally stopped texting us saying she was tired of being taken advantage of and never wanted to speak with us again after tomorrow.
Here is a link of the text messages because I probably sugarcoated them: https://imgur.com/a/5a6HKjE
Also, Danielle left us a handwritten note that said "[OP's wife]! I adore you. Get good rest tonight and let's talk bathroom tomorrow. <3 Y'all are truly wonderful and I am so appreciative that you have me here and to watch your sweet babies!" We also saw that Danielle posted a renovation video of our bathroom and some pictures of our house to her Instagram.
I am flabbergasted by this situation and never expected it coming home from my honeymoon. I don't even know what Danielle expected from us as regardless of if we liked the renovation, we don't even have renovation money. How am I supposed to handle this situation? I'm not heartless and obviously want the best for Danielle, but I am lost at how I should approach this situation and what I may or may not owe Danielle.

TLDR: Wife and I got back from our honeymoon and found that our dog sitter spent $3,000 and 11 days on a bathroom renovation we never knew about. Dog sitter is upset we didn't like it. Dog sitter now wants to come back to our house, get everything she installed to return, and never speak to us again.
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2023.05.29 13:56 some_creamypie Update on my Xperia I V overheating and it's real performance

Update on my Xperia I V overheating and it's real performance
Did the overheating solved ? Yes, it did.
I just rebooted my phone and it's performance back to normal...
Before I rebooted it, the phone will get hot while watching videos using YouTube and other social media apps and taking videos(4K60P for 4mins and 4K120 for 3mins only). It's weird that the overheating problem didn't happened while gaming.
I think it's a system bug with encoding and decoding vidoes.
So what's the real performance of this phone ? Does it get hot easily and drain the battery?
No, the problem seems solved.
I started to use the phone at 5//29 7a.m. till now (7:30p.m.), the battery still have 32% left. I didn't feel any overheating while using (30°C in Hong Kong), most of the time using mobile data instead of wifi, always on 4K60Hz and auto brightness, Stamina mode off.
Here are some camera test result: 4K120P at 21°C 10mins and stop recording 4K60P(AF on)at 21°C >25mins without overheating warning
Conclusion: The phone is so damn great.
You can ask me anything about the Xperia I V
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2023.05.29 13:56 BlazeFire3701 Where to Get Knowledgable Channel Help

And don't just tell me here.
I've been working on a channel for the past couple years, achieving 2,600 subs and getting monetized, but even so, things haven't gone nearly as smoothly as I'd hoped, and doing this on my own, I've felt basically clueless. I've been taking the whole "throw ideas against a wall and see what sticks" approach, but everything I try is a shot in the dark, and so far, nothing's quite sticking. My other problem is that the dumb Shorts I make, which only take an hour or so and are the one thing that has kinda stuck, tend to do far better than the actual quality videos I put full days of work into, which I find incredibly discouraging.
So why not just stick to the daily Shorts? Well for one, they haven't proven to be the most reliable in terms of long-term growth. They started out strong last summer, and were my channel's first major breakthrough, getting 3-5k views each, and sometimes way more. But their performance is all over the place, and they sometimes get literally zero views (forcing me to reupload them later, although I haven't noticed this as much anymore), not to mention the fact that the little sub-genre I've been making Shorts of has fallen off since I started, as I now average only 1-2k views on each. Additionally, instead of them doing better and better with every subsequent success, each time, I'm just hoping to get lucky, which isn't really how channel growth is supposed to go. They were a good source of subscribers too, with the 106 Shorts I've done netting me over 1,000, but again, the pace was steady, at best, and decreased over time. Oh, and they only tend to pull good numbers if I do a single one each day at 6 AM ET, no other times I've tried can compare. While making them has certainly served my channel better than if I hadn't, I don't want my channel to forever be stuck at this trot when changing my strategy could turn that into a gallop.
The other issue with them is that I'm not content with my channel being nothing more than a Shorts factory. No one wants their channel to be known as simply being a meme farm, and I'm no different. Pumping these out hasn't helped me build a community, sustain much of an audience, or let my personality shine through (giving my viewers no sense of who I am, or anything to relate to). If seeing 1,000 views and my sub count go up by 5-10 per day were enough, I wouldn't be complaining, but I know I could do so much more if I wanted to.
What I don't know though is how. When it comes to longer vids, I've hardly gotten anywhere, and nothing I've done has been even remotely worth the effort (with what the Shorts can pull in comparison just being a slap in the face).
What I'm after, and the whole point in making this thread, is a person or place to get real advice and tutelage on how to grow a channel. I'm not just talking about general know-how, like using VidIQ and/or TubeBuddy, understanding CTR and audience retention, or optimizing my branding (SEO, thumbnails, etc.), but rather getting personalized help specifically tailored toward me and my channel, from someone who knows the ins and outs of the platform, and ideally has a significant following of their own to show for it.
Like, there's this one channel I stumbled upon for instance named Robert Benjamin, who makes YouTube growth guides, and while a lot of what he says is accurate, the way he markets his videos can be extremely deceptive, and his demeanor comes off as highly disingenuous. I'm mentioning him as an example because he has a channel mentoring program, which is exactly what I want, but there's no way I'd be willing to pay hundreds to get "help" from a sleazebag like that. So many of these "YouTube/social media gurus" are either idiots, con artists, or both. But when I first made my channel, along with my first vid, I got some pointers from a guy named Blaines, who had a few hundred thousand subs at the time (and has gotten much bigger since), so it's not like what I'm trying to find isn't out there if you know where to look.
I've also explored Fiverr gigs for social media promotion and whatnot, but honestly, those are just as bad as the fake gurus, especially the cheaper ones. While they may "work" a little, they normally use questionable methods to go about it, such as viewbotting, or putting your vids in a social media feed that isn't related to your channel where they aren't likely to get many clicks. Plus you have to constantly be paying for those to power your channel, and they aren't helping you to get anywhere on your own, and that's all I really want-for my channel to be able to grow its own pair of legs it can run with.
So how can I find my footing, how can I find something I can roll with for the long run, and who can show me the way?
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2023.05.29 13:55 Sati18 My 4YO is not speaking to me

We are at home alone as her dad has gone ahead for a holiday. He doesn't fly so he is driving the 1800miles and we will fly the day after tomorrow to meet him.
Anyway, we were making a card for him as we missed him. Obviously we both had different ideas about how to should be and long story short 4YO has yelled I hate you and stumped off to the roomb because I wouldn't let her draw with a brand new marker on some wet glue. I took the card away until the glue is dry and said we can finish it later
I literally don't know what to do for the best. She's up there stumping and thumping around which is a concern because WTF is she actually doing???
Half of me is relieved to just have 5 minutes to check my phone and not have to entertain her. But I'm also feeling like a totally crappy parent (this has been a tough month for me stress wise and I do legitimately have issues with emotional regulation - it's not just this isolated incident).
Also it's making me tear up as this is the start of her not needing/wanting me around so much.
What the hell do I do??? What's the best way to deal with this situation???
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2023.05.29 13:55 hellaanxiousgemini Am I dating an abuser?

Last night my girlfriend (30F) and I (23F) were watching movies. I noticed she was being distant a bit and then out of nowhere she starts hitting and tapping a plastic bottle near my ear, trying to be noisy to irritate me. She even asked me “Am I getting on your nerves?” at first I thought maybe she was being playful so I play along and try to get the bottle from her. Eventually I just left it alone, pretended it didn’t bother me, and I guess she got bored.
Shortly after that, she she sits on the couch with me. I had a blanket on me because I was cold and then out of nowhere she snatched the blanket off of me and put it on to her. I asked her why she did that and that I was cold and tried to get it back from her. When I asked for it back she said no with an attitude, even after I was pleading with her and telling her that I was cold. I then start to get upset and tell her that was uncalled for, even a bit mean and that she could at least share the blanket. She still didn’t let up and kept the blanket. I kept asking for it because I was shocked that out of nowhere she did that and wouldn’t give it back without explanation, just said “because I don’t want to”
We got into an argument about that because I didn’t like that she did that and even after everything I still didn’t get the blanket nor an apology. I stormed into the bedroom still upset and questioning if maybe I was overreacting. I came back out to address the situation because it was something that was still bothering me and then she tells me “It’s just a blanket” as if I WAS overreacting. No matter how much I explained how mean it was that she did that to me she seemed cold and un phased. She even gave me a half ass “I’m sorry” and “I don’t know what else you want me to say” because I kept pressing the issue and I guess she got annoyed. It didn’t seem sincere so I kept trying to discuss how it made me feel and trying to understand why she thought that was okay. She shut down even more, said she was done talking, and insisted we talk about it the following day. Today.
Am I overreacting or was this behavior abusive?
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2023.05.29 13:55 Technical_Yoghurt333 AITA for not having a talking to the mother of my child’s possible sibling?

There’s no way to simplify this but I’ll try, I (f/25) refuse to have a relationship of any kind with my daughter’s (f/1yr) fathers’s new wife/gf/baby momma. It’s very confusing, I don’t know what she is. So for context, my daughter’s father has been absent in her life since I was 3 months pregnant. We had a relationship and were even engaged at one point but his alcoholism, temper, attitude, demeanor, his..everything became an issue. We lived together briefly at the beginning of my pregnancy but once he started drinking it all went downhill. One night, we got into an argument while he was drunk and it got heated so I just said I would leave for the night since I didn’t feel safe and i would come back when he was sober, he cornered me against a couch while very drunk and wouldn’t let me leave the house until I threatened to call the cops several times. After I was in my car, he kept pulling on my door and yelling at me to stop and just kept making it difficult for me to leave. I finally left that night and I stayed with my mom, we later talked and we came to an agreement where he would stop drinking until after the baby was born, I had hopes he would leave alcohol all together by then. The very next weekend, he was drunk again but he left the house this time and didn’t come back. I called him the next morning to see where he was and he claimed to be at the beach with his buddy’s gf, “picking rocks”. No buddy, just him and the buddy’s gf…I’m sorry but that didn’t sit well with me, I asked him when he would be back and he said he didn’t have a set time to be back home. He was supposed to work that day but chose to call off as well. I talked to my mom and she told me this would only get worse and that he wouldn’t change so I decided to leave him. I moved out that same day, I called to let him know and he started off by saying, I was already going to suggest you stay at your mom’s for a couple weeks but this works too. That was my final sign. I left and took all of the things I paid for which was most of everything we had minus his things and the few things his mother had bought. We kept in contact for the sake of the baby and I was determined to make things work for that reason. We were together technically but trying to work on things apart. I wanted to see some real change before the baby arrived to actually go back with him. He never changed and things got worse. He stopped calling, I had to initiate contact and it would still take him hours to respond. I would call him when i had drs appts and he would ignore them, i would text and he sometimes would respond, other times I had to wait for hours to get a simple response.I had low blood pressure which would cause me to get super dizzy sometimes when I stood up too quick or moved too fast and I passed out one time while at work. I worked at my aunt’s restaurant and my uncle was working when it happened. He saw me acting strangely while prepping and he knew something was wrong after I stopped responding to him so he rushed over to me when he saw me going down and managed to catch me before I fell completely. I fell but I didn’t fall as hard as I could have, had he not caught me. When I came to, he made sure I was okay and asked if I wanted to stay or go home and made me eat just in case it helped before letting me go back to work. I texted my ex about it all right after it happened and it took him 6 hours to respond, and he had the audacity to blame me and say that if I was a better mother I would have my dr do something about it before I killed our baby. My dr had addressed it prior to me passing out and recommended i drink more fluids and add more salt to my diet but that it was going to be normal because of my blood pressure and that there wasn’t much else i could do. She said to sit down or get low to the ground when i felt like i was getting dizzy. She even sent me to a cardiologist and she said the same things. A few weeks later I found out he had been cheating the whole time we were together and was sleeping with other girls. All of that just confirmed that we weren’t ever going to work. As the time came for the baby to arrive, he started pushing the topic of him being in the room while I was in labor and pushing. Since we were no longer together, I was strongly opposed, I said he could be at the hospital but not in the L&D room. He kept pushing and even tried to scare me into it. He claimed his “multiple” lawyers would order a DNA test to be performed on the baby while in utero to prove he was the dad so a judge could force me to let him be in the room. I simply wouldn’t allow it. It poses unnecessary risks to the baby and to myself. No way. He kept pushing but I called his bluff and so he stopped with that tactic and started bashing me on fb about how evil and monstrous and selfish I was, and how “Jesus and monk like” he was trying to be about the whole situation and that he would fight tooth and nail for his daughter and not falter and I was “keeping him from his daughter” who wasn’t born yet. (All quoted from his essay about me) I couldn’t believe him, I stopped acknowledging him as it was just becoming too stressful for me. On top of dealing with him, both of my grandparents that helped raise me in place of my absentee father passed 5 months apart from each other. It all started to take a toll on my health and i lost my sight in my left eye from lack of blood flow. It was some sort of panic attack combined with my low blood pressure and so I had to go to the hospital and stay there a night while they did tests to see what happened, the conclusion was functional vision loss and they weren’t sure when it would go away. He didn’t know about that. I was struggling a lot and he just didn’t care before so why alert him of that. I tried to block him out the last month of my pregnancy (not that there was much to ignore, after he bashed me on socials, he went radio silent) and eventually had our daughter and was really focused on my recovery as well as being a new mom to my baby girl. He showed up to my moms house with his father unannounced 2 weeks after I gave birth and she stopped him at the door. She went out to talk to him and his dad so that I wouldn’t get upset or anxious, She was worried about my health so I stayed inside with the baby. She spoke with them and told them simply that he should reach out to me via text and to try to work things out for the baby. Not to just show up unannounced. He then tried to bash me and say that he was and that I was ignoring him, which was a lie, I told her ever single time we were in contact and so she knew he was lying. She told him to try harder in regards to being a better person and called him out on some things he did. He stopped arguing at that point to save face for his dad. She came back in and he never reached out after that. I later moved out to my aunts on my dads side because some things happened with my mom that made it impossible to live together. My aunt convinced me to reach out to my ex and to try to make things work for the baby. So I did. I tried to talk to him about mediation and lawyers and child support, he claimed to be on board and when I offered for him to meet her, he told me he had “errands to run”. Later I found out the errands were to go grocery shopping for food to make dinner for his new gf. I stopped trying after that. I asked him to sign away his rights and he denied. He claimed he would never and that he would see me in court. I eventually started dating again and found my now husband. He and i started dating and it all just clicked into place. I fell in love with him and Hes just so good with my daughter and treats me so well. He treats my daughter as if she was his own. He’s known her since she was 3 months old so she quickly grew attached to him and We ended up getting engaged a few months after and i moved in with him before he went away on deployment. (Yes it seems sudden but this is all the complete opposite of my ex and he actually makes the effort to be involved in my daughters life, i know I found the one) Around Christmas I decided to push my ex again for him to sign away his rights. I wasn’t going to force him to be around her and at this point, after months of no contact or even an ounce of effort on his part, I didn’t think I was wrong in asking. I asked him to sign away his rights repeatedly. I wasn’t even asking for child support, I just wanted to be free of him coming back in her life later when it could become more convenient for him. My daughter deserves better than that. He denied and said that he would never…yet again…. He said he would take me to court and take her away from me. I called his bluff every single time. This kept up for months and still to this day. She is now 1 and 4 months. He now has a new wife/gf/baby momma. She reached out to me in January of 2023, 5 days after new years saying that I don’t know who she was but that she was dating my ex and that she hated to reach out like this, but she was worried about my safety and the baby’s safety. She said that he choked her and spit on her while he was intoxicated and that the police were called and that she made the mistake of not pressing charges, but that she just hoped we were safe and wanted to give me a heads up. I told her to call me and she did, she sounded sincere over the phone and I told her that that was the reason for my leaving. She said it all made sense after I explained everything. I offered for her to speak to my lawyer and eventually a judge so that it was no longer my word against his but hers as well and she seemed to agree wholeheartedly. She said he was an alcoholic and that he wasn’t fit to be a parent. I took her word and we agreed to stay in touch. The next day she texted me to tell me that she was pressing charges after all and getting a restraining order against him. I congratulated her and about a week later she blocked me. I found out that same week that she and him were back together. I was so mad. I felt betrayed and vulnerable. I couldn’t believe she just went back just like that. My fiancé and I decided in that time as well to tie the knot in February while he was on leave. We got married and after he went back, a few weeks later I found out I was expecting. My husband and I are so excited! We’re having another baby girl. Fast forward to about 3 weeks ago and I notice that she (my ex’s new thing) had unblocked me (her name in my fb messenger went from fb user to her name on fb) I clicked on it wondering why she unblocked me all of a sudden and I see that she was now married to him since January 25th and that they were excitedly expecting a boy and that they were starting a book collection for the new baby with books from both of their childhoods. I couldnt be more sad and disappointed as well as disgusted. How do you go back to him after what he did to you and add a baby to the whole thing? How selfish was she? How could you acknowledge one child but not the other? She saw how he was treating my daughter, You can’t possibly want that for your baby too? I was confused and mad but chose to ignore it all. What can I do? Nothing. Not my mess, why stress…She chose what she wanted to do. All I can do is wish her well. A few days later she messaged me apologizing for blocking me and going back to him. She said he was a wordsmith and that she fell for his empty promises yet again. She apologized for not back me up legally and that she felt terrible about it all. I truly didn’t feel bad for her. She did this to her self and now she wants to come back and pretend she didn’t just marry the guy? Like she knew what he was capable of? How did you not see that coming? I told her I seriously could care less what she had to say and that I didn’t believe her. I asked did you not marry him and get pregnant by him?? Like you’re his wife? Shouldn’t you be having his back? You did this to your self. She responded with I know why you might be weary and I don’t blame you. I’m “really sorry” and I understand why you might not want to speak. I told her more or less to fuck off and that I couldn’t speak with her anymore. I asked her did she not marry him and is she not having a baby with him and her response was legally yes we’re married but we’re separated and I’m having a baby…what? So I signed off on that note and sent the gif “Sorrows, sorrows…prayers”….iykyk…so now that bring the question of the hour up….I’m being told by a cousin of mine that l vented to that I shouldn’t have responded like that and that I should have been nice and that she probably wanted to vent and bond. “Technically” her son is my daughters sibling….I’m sorry but I don’t feel responsible for making sure that they have a relationship. I don’t even know if that’s even really her sibling, furthermore, why is that my job? Her dad doesn’t even know her! Not my fault either. I can’t be held responsible for rounding up all of his potential kids and making sure that they have a relationship. Also how do I know that she (the new thing) isn’t lying? How do I know she isn’t going to go back to him? I don’t trust her. Im trying to protect my baby. AITA? Am I being too harsh?
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2023.05.29 13:55 Amandarmoo 26 [F4F] TN/ Best friend?

Hello! I’m 26, partnered with two young kids, work full time, have two cats and two dogs. I love animals, one day I want my own farm. My interests include gardening, crafting, baking, reading, playing on the switch (it’s been a minute with the kids), watching tv/movies in the background as I scroll my phone. I’m really into true crime, trash tv, comedy. One show I’m watching right now and hooked on is Undercover Underage. I am very shy at first, but loud and annoying once you get to know me! I don’t know what I am looking for, everyone I meet ends up being fake. Let’s start with honesty and see where it goes?🙂 I’m ok with online, but I’m also a very clingy person so at some point I’d probably like to meet.
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2023.05.29 13:55 lellisch I (24f) hardly feel any sexual desire towards my bf (27m). Should I open up the relationship, so he can find pleasure somewhere else?

Hello,
My bf (27m) and I (24f) have been together for four years and everything besides the sex part is going really well. However, sex has always been a big part of our daily lives. I used to be a very sexual person, but after I had an abortion half a year ago, my libido has drastically shrunk. I feel guilt around it and overall don't enjoy it as much anymore. I know I can work on it, I just need time.
I have talked to my bf about it and at the beginning he was very understanding. A couple months passed and we started to sleep with each other more frequently again. Recently, however, I hardly feel like wanting to sleep with him, I don't even want to be touched sexually anywhere. Also we usually have sex at 2am or 3am or after a night out, when I am usually way to tired to engage in anything sexual, I just want to cuddle. When I tell him I don't want to have sex, he still tries, by touching my chest and saying he is not going further. He then however starts making out with me and here comes the weird part, sometimes I get disgusted by the way his mouth feels and I tell myself just to get through the making out until I tell him again, that I really don't feel like doing anything sexual. He sometimes spoons me and humps me lightly which I also have told him I feel uncomfortable because I just want to sleep. That's usually the last straw and he doesn't touch me after rejecting him and usually gets a bit distant. I have told him that I do want to be touched by him, just not sexually. Simply holding me. He gets a bit passive when I deny him sex which makes me feel bad because I should feel sexually aroused by him.
Lately I have been catching him looking at other women on his phone and he has told me he has been masturbating a lot more. The masturbating part i don't mind, but him looking at other women makes me feel bad because I don't want to give him something he wants. Now my question is, if I should open up the relationship so he can hook up with other people, so he can "get it out of his system"? I don't feel like sleeping with anyone I would solely open it up for his sake. I would greatly appreciate some help because I feel like I am ruining the relationship slowly by not feeling sexual desire.
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2023.05.29 13:54 hatrickpatrick Are there any good in-depth and comprehensive articles to read about "washout" filter automation techniques during build ups?

I've come a long way since I started making my own EDM songs, but there's one area in which I'm quite lacking and would love to read an in-depth tutorial - filter automation during buildups. A lot of my favourite EDM tracks - I'll take Avicii's Waiting For Love and Wake Me Up as two extremely well known examples - have buildup sections that are very similar to mine in melody and construction.
However, one thing that really escapes me is how to do a proper washout - what kind of filter to use (HP vs BP), what ranges to use, and whether to use it on the entire master track or on a bus which omits some of the tracks. As the moment, I tend to have a HP filter kick in and sweep from 0 to 100% intensity on the master track during the last 4 bars of a buildup around the time my white noise filter sweep reaches its highest, and while this sounds good, it's nowhere near the kind of absolutely epic washout effect I hear in my favourite songs which to my ear seems to possible be using a band pass with a frequency range which itself widens as the center frequency rises, or something to that effect; and furthermore I feel like rather than the frequencies all coming back in at the moment of drop, some of the big hits instead have the filter open up again a moment before the buildup ends - essentially, it's obviously more complicated than anything I'm doing and I'd love to get a proper handle on it.
Unfortunately, articles about this tend to assume one already knows these fundamentals and thus they'll just have a sentence or two saying "automate a filter during the build up", but alas I need a lot more hand holding at present to get this right 😂
Can anyone point me to a good, in-depth article on what kind of effects are recommended and more importantly, which tracks to use them on and which tracks to omit?
I can't help feeling that my "HP on the master, slowly closing and cutting out the lower frequencies before dropping out in the break before the drop)" technique is the EDM producer's equivalent of learning to play Smoke On The Water using just the low E string rather than the chords, and calling one's self a guitarist 😂
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2023.05.29 13:54 panosgymnostick I am constantly coming up with ideas

Has anyone experienced this? My mind feels like a constant vessel for the god-send gift of ideas, characters and even entire worlds. I actually can't stop myself from thinking.
It has reached the point where I spend every living moment of my life cominh up with ideas. I haven't written anything down yet, though...
Once I told my mother about a great idea I had, where the bad guy was actually trying to save the world all along and the good guys turned out to be jerkoffs. She threw a can of soup at me and then sighed when the can didn't bounce off of my head and nto the garbage. Is this another idea for a story?!
Anyway, this was about a month ago. Now I am homeless and instead of finding a job or even begging on the street for money to live, I just can't stop myself from coming up with ideas.
Footnotes: Yes I have sucked some dick to be able to use a phone with Reddit downloaded, but that was actually one of my ideas, which, in retrospect, failed.
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2023.05.29 13:53 Tharealeg Find My falsely showing devices as offline, can't track lost iphone or put it into lost mode.

I lost my phone a day or so ago after likely accidentally leaving it on top of my friend's car. I called it and it rang, but when I checked Find My on my computer it immediately showed it, as well as all of my other devices, as being offline. I know this isn't true since it also shows my Airpods as offline despite them being fully charged and in use, and since my phone rang without issue when called from another phone. I can't sign into my Apple ID fully or get customer support since I obviously don't have access to my phone, which also means no 2-step verification or serial number. Lost mode just stays pending because FindMy is convinced that my phone is offline. Is there anything I can do?
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2023.05.29 13:53 Lotasar How to help my (M22) gf (F21) on her road to lose flat stomach and get her confidence back

Okay so basically, before meeting my girlfriend, she was on her road to lose weight by herself. She went from 120kg to 85kg right now in a barely 7 months (that's impressive and I'm proud of her INSANE mentality).
But here's the thing : she wants to hit the 70kg (which is clearly acceptable for a girl of his tall : 1m65) but unfortunately she still has remaining skin from her dark ages "obesity".
I'm helping her to do workout to lose that flat skin but I'm not a professional in fitness and those kind of stuff (all I do is looking for workout exercices and mix them into a "program").
Please, anyone with same experiences or even professional advice can help me (and therefore her) to establish a sort of "program" (nutritional and workout) to get a "tone" core ?
I'm well aware that it'll be nearly impossible to get the mannequin body (due basically to the shape of her body) but eliminate this remaining flat stomach skin will help her a lot!
Thanks for reading and have a nice day !
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2023.05.29 13:53 JekZeSnek Flying solo in Exeter, pub?

I’m at the Exeter gig tonight and if there’s anyone else going alone or any groups that want to meet for a few drinks near to the venue before let me know here I guess
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2023.05.29 13:53 itchyspiderbutthole I’m wondering if I was in like a watered down version of this program

First off my memory is trash because I was abused by my parents for my entire childhood so I barely remember anything, but I do remember a therapist suggesting I get away from my parents and have some space. Her suggestion was summer camp. I was 17.
I was super excited at the idea! I really wanted to stay at a camp that had the cliche outdoor activities.
Instead, my parents found a wilderness camp where you backpack the entire time. They told me it would be fun because it would be a bunch of kids my age like 20 of us and it would be just like a more active outdoor camp. I was just happy to get away from my parents so I agreed.
I flew in, and bumped into another kid going to a wilderness camp thing. He said he loved them and did them every year and they always had a bunch of teens so I was starting to feel more excited. However, when we landed it turned out he was part of a totally different camp that happened to be meeting at the same airport. when I met my group it was literally 5 other kids all younger than me by at least 2 years.
I called my parents crying and telling them it was nothing like what they told me, they said “hang in there” and that was that.
We backpacked very intensely. It was not pleasant. Lots of screaming at us to go go go. No time to talk to each other. We also did some stuff that was pretty unsafe. One of our camps was right by a bear. We crossed an ice ridge. I’m very active and love the outdoors but this shit felt unsafe and wrong.
The kids all hated being there, we all took turns running off when ever we happened to stay at a shared campsite we would look for pay phones to call our families and try to convince them to pick us up.
I can’t remember much but I remember thinking a few times I might die out here. I Remember crying on the phone to my parents and they repeatedly telling me to “hang in there” before I was back out on the trail.
In total the program was like 2 months. It was super traumatizing and I had told a few friends about it over the years and they all thought it sounded like one of those troubled teen wilderness programs.
But some of the kids didn’t seem like they were there as a punishment, it was almost like their parents just didn’t know what the place was. I only remember one kid on the trip who was a bit of a shit and I remember finding out his parents sent him on this as punishment.
I’m sorry this is unclear, it’s hard to remember I only recall bits and pieces here and there but it’s like trying to grab tissue paper out of the wind I keep catching a piece and then losing it again.
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