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M40 10 year relationship ended with trip in August planned with two of us to Vietnam/Thailand. Going separately now, never travelled alone before and we were introverted so used to always stay in hotels and do our own thing. Any advice?

2023.05.30 14:22 crillydougal M40 10 year relationship ended with trip in August planned with two of us to Vietnam/Thailand. Going separately now, never travelled alone before and we were introverted so used to always stay in hotels and do our own thing. Any advice?

We have travelled a lot all over the world together, and would do loads of activities during the day, chill on the beach, go for dinner and drinks in the evening. Obviously that has all changed, all of our plans have been cancelled so essentially starting from scratch except for the flights from Europe to Asia. It’s 3 weeks so was planning Hanoi, Chiang Mai, Koh Samui and Hoi An. Honestly my main worry is that I could be days not talking to people and be lonely. I’m introverted as is my partner but we always had each other, we are very friendly but in short conversations normally. I’m a bit lost as to what to do and half considering just not going and losing the money on the flights and maybe doing shorter trips around Europe. From being in a relationship so long it’s almost like you lose confidence alone I think and rely on the other person.
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2023.05.30 14:22 Gloomy-Cookie1654 Zianite Isles [Semi-Vanilla] [SMP] {Discord} {Community} {Events} {Lore} {Whitelisted} {1.19}

Are you ready for an adventure like no other? Welcome to Zianite Isles, the ultimate Minecraft experience that will ignite your imagination and test your survival skills! Get ready to embark on an unforgettable journey in a lore-based, community-driven semi-vanilla server.
In Zianite Isles, the world is filled with mystery and excitement. Starting on remote islands, you'll find yourself in a challenging environment. Limited resources mean you'll have to strategize and collaborate together to thrive and overcome the odds.
But that's not all. Zianite Isles is more than just a server , it's a thriving community of like-minded adventurers and passionate Minecraft enthusiasts. Forge new friendships, build alliances, and create memories together as you face the challenges that lie ahead.
Prepare to be captivated by our regular story events that will unfold as you progress on your journey. Uncover the secrets of Zianite Isles, following 3 mysterious gods that plague the land, and make choices that shape the destiny of the land. Your actions will have consequences, and the world will evolve based on the decisions of our dedicated player base.
We understand the importance of staying fresh and exciting, which is why our team is committed to delivering professional updates that will enhance your gameplay experience. From new features and mechanics to exciting additions, we're dedicated to keeping Zianite Isles at the forefront of the Minecraft community.
Whether you're a seasoned player looking for a fresh challenge or a newcomer eager to embark on your very first adventure, Zianite Isles has something for everyone. Are you ready to test your survival skills, unleash your creativity, and become part of an amazing community?
If you are interested or want to know more add 𝕵𝖆𝖒𝖊𝖘#5195 on discord, or join right now and begin your journey into the Zianite Isles which launches on Saturday June 3rd at 3PM EST https://discord.gg/jycsHg3AEZ
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2023.05.30 14:22 AromaticDistrict990 Should I get a PS4 or PS5? All explained in the image

Should I get a PS4 or PS5? All explained in the image
Put this in the gaming page but doesn’t seem to have worked or getting attention for some reason
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2023.05.30 14:22 madeittoreadyonly Tired and hurt

So basically, I’ll start by saying that 2022 was the worst year of my life, and by far the most trying of my relationship/marriage.
Basically in 2021, my husband and I had some drastic changes to our lives. Our youngest child was diagnosed with something very rare and scary (usually with this diagnosis the outcome is very bleak.) at the time, during it all, it actually made us closer as a couple, because nobody understood, and we had to be there for our daughter. Miraculously though, our daughter was a small portion of children that actually recovered without relapse of them problem (as of now still).
Somehow after the time our daughter got better, things just started to change. I would say first off, we had both gained some weight during/after the ordeal, and we had just started acting differently toward one another. Like somehow after that time we both started to have resentment toward one another. We started being mean and angry, and snappy, and it almost just became a way of life. Fast forward a few months, and on top of everything, my husbands father got a terminal diagnosis. I would say our fighting at that time wasn’t constant or all the time, but it was there. However, I was there for my husband in anyway he wanted/needed/allowed me to be.
Shortly after his father passed, everything hit the fan. My husband who was once the nicest, quietist, calmest person I’d ever met, exploded. He came at me every which way. He basically told me he hated everything about me. I mean to no end. If it was something about me, he hated it.
The way I did everything, the way I looked, my beliefs and morals - they all were suddenly not what he wanted. He did tell me that losing his dad made him realize some things and made him question everything, including us.
I was heart broken. I realized that then that we had been fighting, and I dug dip into myself to see why, see what was wrong, what I could do, etc.
I knew I couldn’t change the past, but I knew that I could change myself going forward, or at least I could try. The next 6 months, even after my husband basically declared his hate for me, I tried and tried and tried to change. I tried to change the things he hated about me.
I just overall tried to become more optimistic with life, I tried to be more healthy, more level headed, I tried to change my morals on certain things that really specially bothered him.
I got to a point where I could throw my morals to the side, and cave into what he wanted, so that he was happy. I lost 80lbs in total, and I was feeling like a different version of myself. Some of it (mostly the morals thing) did hurt, and I would be lying if I said it didn’t still today, because it does…. BUT, it made my husband happy. He stopped being mean all the time, he smiled at me, he showed me affection again. As he claimed he wanted so much for it to “be like it used to be when we first met”, I tried to give him that, and be a more carefree version of myself.
Now, I just had a baby (this is our 4th) a few weeks ago, and everything is going back again. It was okay at first - but yesterday we got into our second big fight since I had the baby.
And it all came flooding back. He promised me he wouldn’t divert to saying he didn’t want to be with me, to talking shit about me, complaining about me.. telling me all the things he would change about me, but here I am again.
Every time we get into some argument like this, there is always some new demand. Some new thing he wants me to be okay with, that I am just not okay with. I already shifted so much of myself to align with what he wants or wanted, and there is always something else to add. This time he told me he wants to be able to checkout other women in front of me, and that I shouldn’t care. His example was that he wants to go to the beach and look and stare at whoever he wants, that, that is the point of the beach, and he would rather just go alone to the beach, so that he doesn’t have to worry about me being mad that he is staring at other women. I have no problem with passing people and being around other people, but when my husband tells me that’s why he wants to go to the beach, or that he goes out with intent to stare at and checkout other women, how would I not be upset about that?
He says he is a man, and that it’s normal behavior and that’s what men do.
My opinion is that he is married to me, it hurts me and it’s rude for him to do, and he should respect that and me. Either way, now that he said this, it’s all I will think about when I am out with him, and it sucks. I want to go out and not have a care in the world, especially about other people. I don’t get why he doesn’t understand, or even care about my feelings..
And then he wonders why I am insecure and why I don’t trust him, and why I have doubts and I don’t feel good about myself.
He has told me straight to my face that he thinks of other women when he is intimate with me. He says it’s normal - which maybe it is, but do you have to tell that to your wife? Do you have to say it to my face?
I don’t know what is normal anymore, but I know for me, I just wanted to feel respected as a wife, and I want my husband to hear what hurts me, and understand and then have compassion for that.
It will never be a thing though. When I even try and talk to him and tell him he says he knows it all, doesn’t want to hear it anymore, and that I sound like a broken record. Not yet with the fighting starting back up, but in the past if I even tried to bring up my feelings he would tell me to shut the fuck up.
Now I am not happy, and I haven’t really been for a long time, but I have tried to change, and accept a new way of life for myself, but it’s never good enough, and I know it never will be.
I thought we were on a new page and doing better, but here it is again, him telling me that he questions his decision to ever be with me, and basically saying he regrets his life with me.
I don’t even know why I am posting this. I know my relationship is toxic, and I know we would probably both be happier separated, but we have 4 children, a home, a car and more together.
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2023.05.30 14:22 Odd-Importance-4606 Premium user here: Can someone check my tickets please?

Hello.
Yesterday I had to play two games with a guy (-ironkid) from my country who insulted me. First game we were against each other in mirage and he ghosted his team few rounds so I told him I will report him then he started to insult me. Second map we matched together in same team. He kept for entire game insulting me in our language, insulting my sister, wife, family, everything. I have reported both games with different tickets because two different matchroom links. My username is Je7oN and its worth to mention that not a single time I replied to his insults. He insulted me with voice, text everything and I never replied, just collected screenshots for after game. Can someone check this two tickets please?
Ticket ID's are: 4973888 and 4973948
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2023.05.30 14:21 Gloomy-Cookie1654 Zianite Isles [Semi-Vanilla] [SMP] {Discord} {Community} {Events} {Lore} {Whitelisted} {1.19}

Are you ready for an adventure like no other? Welcome to Zianite Isles, the ultimate Minecraft experience that will ignite your imagination and test your survival skills! Get ready to embark on an unforgettable journey in a lore-based, community-driven semi-vanilla server. In Zianite Isles, the world is filled with mystery and excitement. Starting on remote islands, you'll find yourself in a challenging environment. Limited resources mean you'll have to strategize and collaborate together to thrive and overcome the odds.
But that's not all. Zianite Isles is more than just a server , it's a thriving community of like-minded adventurers and passionate Minecraft enthusiasts. Forge new friendships, build alliances, and create memories together as you face the challenges that lie ahead. Prepare to be captivated by our regular story events that will unfold as you progress on your journey. Uncover the secrets of Zianite Isles, following 3 mysterious gods that plague the land, and make choices that shape the destiny of the land. Your actions will have consequences, and the world will evolve based on the decisions of our dedicated player base.
We understand the importance of staying fresh and exciting, which is why our team is committed to delivering professional updates that will enhance your gameplay experience. From new features and mechanics to exciting additions, we're dedicated to keeping Zianite Isles at the forefront of the Minecraft community.
Whether you're a seasoned player looking for a fresh challenge or a newcomer eager to embark on your very first adventure, Zianite Isles has something for everyone. Are you ready to test your survival skills, unleash your creativity, and become part of an amazing community?
If you are interested or want to know more add 𝕵𝖆𝖒𝖊𝖘#5195 on discord, or join right now and begin your journey into the Zianite Isles which launches on Saturday June 3rd at 3PM EST https://discord.gg/jycsHg3AEZ
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2023.05.30 14:21 GameReloaderLoL Matriciani extends contract until 2026

Official press release (German): Henning Matriciani verlängert Vertrag auf Schalke langfristig
English translation (DeepL): Henning Matriciani extends contract at Schalke long-term
FC Schalke 04 has extended the contract of a winner of the past season ahead of schedule: defender Henning Matriciani has signed a contract until 2026. The previous working paper of the German U21 international was dated until the summer of 2024.
"As a club, we are delighted with how much Henning has developed over the past two years," said Peter Knäbel, member of the board of directors responsible for sports. "We are convinced that he will continue to be an important part of our team in the coming years, both on and off the pitch.
We are convinced that Henning will continue to be an important part of our team in the coming years, on and off the pitch. Peter Knäbel
"Henning proved last season how valuable he is to the team. He absolutely deserves the contract extension," said head coach Thomas Reis. "With his outstanding attitude, versatility and speed, we will still have a lot of fun with him."
Pleasure at the trust placed in him "I am delighted with the trust placed in me and am proud to extend my contract at Schalke ahead of schedule," says Henning Matriciani. "Together with the team and our fans, I want to tackle the task of returning to the Bundesliga with all my might."
Henning Matriciani moved from SV Lippstadt to FC Schalke 04's U23s in the summer of 2020, and after performing well in the Regionalliga West, the defender made his first appearance for the Bundesliga side in May 2021. In the summer of the same year, Matriciani signed his first professional contract at Schalke. With the Knappen, he succeeded in gaining promotion to the Bundesliga in the following season. In the current season, the right-footer played in 22 Bundesliga games and also celebrated his debut as an U21 international against Romania in March.
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2023.05.30 14:21 roundsquishydubu ENTP crushing on an INTJ (help me)

So.. I have a crush on this boy (intj) from college and as an entp (f) I have found a way to sit right next to him in class with the help of my 3 stupid friends—infp, enfp, esfp.
I like him because of how disgustingly smart he is, to the point that he stands out in a room full of people and all I’ve done the whole week we’ve been sitting together was analyze the living hell out of him that it might’ve seemed obsessive. From his quirky rings, mannerisms, to his adorable lack of artistic abilities despite the onslaught of creative ideas he has, and deducing he’s been wearing the same watch everyday since he was a baby, I have classified him as an INTJ (I’m hella sure of it)
He intrigued me so much and everytime I take my seat this overwhelming itch to talk to him and ask all my questions just consume me that I malfunction. I hate it. I hate it so much. I’m not usually this way.
Now, to all my INTJs how do you like to start a human connection? (By being cornered into a wall or having a civilized conversation? Lol jk) and ENTPs, have you ever liked an INTJ before or are you in a relationship with one? What advices can you give?
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2023.05.30 14:21 inverse_oreo My friends (20F/20F) got mad at me (20F) for expressing an insecurity of mine.

Tldr; After expressing an insecurity of mine, friend A needed to take space away…furthering my abandonment issues.
Backstory context: due to a mix of daddy issues and being in a friendship where they constantly chose their boyfriend over me. I now have a fear that any of my friendships/relationships will eventually leave me and this fear is further triggered when I see them with someone else other than with me. I didn’t realize I was also a toxic friend until a new best friend pointed out my unhealthy behavior (getting mad and starting fights when I would see friend A with her other friend/significant others). I’ve since changed and actually because friends with someone I was threatened by and we became this trio. But I still have that trigger.
Fast forward: I saw that friend A and B were posting a lot about their day together. Going out and just overall looking like a good time. I felt sad about it, FOMO you could say but also deeply triggered (wish I was invited, what if they realize they have way more fun with each other than with me and poof they decide to not be my friend any longer). Tried to analyze where this fear was coming from and further came to the conclusion that I (also) feel this way since they don’t initiate hanging out with me whereas I’m more likely to initiate with them. I ended up coming to them in a gc about my feelings and how this trigger is still a part of me and what can we do to strengthen our friendship cause I wasn’t confident in it (3+ year long friendships for each) and instead they each got angry with me and started crying out of frustration. Friend A was deeply hurt and said that I was losing faith because they never felt that way but tried to reassure me and said they would initiate more and offered ways to strengthen the friendship. Friend B was angry that I still felt triggered by their friendship, sad that I didn’t trust her, confused as to why I think they would leave the friendship and overall said that because their schedule is way more open than mine is that they don’t feel comfortable asking to hangout only to be constantly rejected so they wait for me to to initiate when to hangout together.
I kept telling them that my trigger is simply a thought of “ugh wish i was there with them instead” and that it’s I don’t let it ruin my day and I no longer go out of my way to ruin theirs. Yet friend A can’t seem to get past the fact that I will never be 100% confident in our friendship and that I can’t trust when they tell me that they will never leave me. Because how can I? Relationships are so fickle, life happens, people change, people grow in different directions. The only person I can be 100% secure in that they will never leave me and be happy without me in their life is my mother—the only way she would leave is if she dies.
Friend A can’t process that I can’t trust her word on this and that a part of me will be triggered by her presence with others and requested a break from me.
My question for advice is where do I go from here? I am in therapy I am just confused as to why this all occurred when I solely expressed an insecurity of mine and asked for ways to strengthen our bond.
Thank you for reading this far.
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2023.05.30 14:21 crillydougal M40 10 year relationship ended with trip in August planned with two of us to Vietnam/Thailand. Going separately now, never travelled alone before and we were introverted so used to always stay in hotels and do our own thing. Any advice?

We have travelled a lot all over the world together, and would do loads of activities during the day, chill on the beach, go for dinner and drinks in the evening. Obviously that has all changed, all of our plans have been cancelled so essentially starting from scratch except for the flights from Europe to Asia. It’s 3 weeks so was planning Hanoi, Chiang Mai, Koh Samui and Hoi An. Honestly my main worry is that I could be days not talking to people and be lonely. I’m introverted as is my partner but we always had each other, we are very friendly but in short conversations normally. I’m a bit lost as to what to do and half considering just not going and losing the money on the flights and maybe doing shorter trips around Europe. From being in a relationship so long it’s almost like you lose confidence alone I think and rely on the other person.
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2023.05.30 14:21 Daphgar Journey into the World of Hyrule: Unveiling the Zelda-Inspired Items for my DND Compendium!

Journey into the World of Hyrule: Unveiling the Zelda-Inspired Items for my DND Compendium!

Frontcover for the Items (In-progress).
FOREWORD:
This is a in-progress kind of update. I am planning on adding several more items from the Hyrule on top of these as well.
All constructive criticism is welcome.
It might be easier to read on my Patreon.

Dear Adventurers and Zelda Enthusiasts,
I hope this message finds you in high spirits and ready for an extraordinary adventure! Today, I am thrilled to unveil a sneak peek of what I've accomplished so far in my quest to bring the magic of The Legend of Zelda into my beloved Dungeons & Dragons compendium. Your support has been invaluable, and I couldn't be more excited to share my progress.
From the moment Link first stepped foot into the vast land of Hyrule, we were captivated by the awe-inspiring artifacts and mystical tools that accompanied him on his heroic journey. Inspired by this epic saga, our team embarked on a creative odyssey to craft a collection of Zelda-inspired items that will transport your DND campaigns to a realm of wonder and adventure.
ITEM LIST:
**Champion's Bow*\*
*Weapon (Longbow), Legendary (Requires Attunement)*
This elegant longbow was wielded by a renowned champion. The Champion's Bow possesses exceptional accuracy and power, allowing its user to strike true with every shot.
**Weapon Type**: Ranged Weapon (Longbow)
**Damage**: 1d8 piercing
**Properties**:
- Ammunition (Range 150/600)
- Heavy, Two-Handed
- You have a +3 bonus to attack and damage rolls made with this bow.
**Features**:
- When you score a critical hit with this bow, the target must make a DC 15 Constitution saving throw or be stunned until the end of its next turn.
- Once per long rest, you can use your bonus action to grant yourself advantage on attack rolls made with this bow until the end of your turn.
**Special Requirement**: The wielder must have a minimum Dexterity score of 15 to attune to this bow.
**Champion's Helmet*\*
*Wondrous Item (Head), Legendary (Requires Attunement)*
This exquisitely crafted helmet, worn by a legendary champion, enhances the wearer's combat prowess and mental fortitude.
**Armour Class**: +3egendary (Requires Attunement)*
**Features**:
- You have advantage on saving throws against being charmed or frightened.
- When you score a critical hit with a weapon attack, you regain hit points equal to your level.
- Once per long rest, you can use your bonus action to activate the *Heroism* spell (3rd level) on yourself. The spell lasts for 1 minute and does not require concentration.
**Special Requirement**: The wearer must have a minimum Strength score of 13 to attune to this helmet.
**Champion's Shield*\*
*Armour (Shield), Legendary (Requires Attunement)*
This sturdy shield, once wielded by a legendary champion, offers exceptional defensive capabilities. The Champion's Shield provides unparalleled protection and can withstand devastating blows.
**Armour Class**: +3
**Properties**:
- Requires Strength 15
**Features**:
- You have resistance against fire and cold damage.
- When you successfully block an attack using this shield, you can use your reaction to make a counterattack. Make a melee weapon attack against the attacker. On a hit, you deal 1d8 + your Strength modifier bludgeoning damage.
- Once per long rest, you can use your reaction to cast the *Shield* spell without expending a spell slot.
**Special Requirement**: The wielder must have a minimum Strength score of 18 to attune to this shield.
**Champion's Tunic*\*
*Wondrous Item (Armour), Legendary (Requires Attunement)*
This magical tunic is imbued with the essence of a legendary champion. The Champion's Tunic grants the wearer enhanced senses and protection against certain threats.
**Armor Class**: 15 + Dexterity modifier
**Features**:
- You have advantage on Perception checks.
- You have resistance against lightning damage.
- Once per long rest, you can use your reaction to gain advantage on a saving throw against a harmful effect that targets you.
**Special Requirement**: The wearer must have a minimum Dexterity score of 14 to attune to this tunic.
**Daruk's Protection*\*
*Armor (Shield), Legendary (Requires Attunement)*
This formidable shield, named after the mighty Goron champion, Daruk, is imbued with the power to protect its bearer from harm. Daruk's Protection creates an impenetrable barrier, shielding its wielder from attacks and providing resistance against powerful blows.
**Armor Class**: +3
**Properties**:
- Requires Strength 15
**Features**:
- You have resistance against fire and cold damage.
- When you successfully block an attack using this shield, you can use your reaction to make a counterattack. Make a melee weapon attack against the attacker. On a hit, you deal 1d8 + your Strength modifier bludgeoning damage.
- Once per long rest, you can use your reaction to cast the *Shield* spell without expending a spell slot.
**Special Requirement**: The wielder must have a minimum Strength score of 18 to attune to Daruk's Protection.
**Lens of Truth*\*
*Wondrous Item, Rare*
This small, circular lens is made of a smooth, translucent material. When held up to one's eye, it grants the user the ability to see through illusions and unveil hidden truths.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement by a creature with the ability to see.
- While attuned to the Lens of Truth, you gain the following benefits:
- **True Sight:** You gain the ability to see through illusions and magical deceptions. You can automatically discern the true form of any shapechanger or creature that is transformed by magic. Additionally, you can see through magical illusions, including invisibility, etherealness, and disguises, as if they were transparent.
- **Revealing Gaze:** As an action, you can activate the Lens of Truth to unveil hidden objects or secrets within your line of sight. This reveals hidden doors, traps, secret compartments, invisible creatures, or any other concealed or obscured elements in your immediate surroundings. The effect lasts for 1 minute or until you choose to deactivate it.
**Note:** The Lens of Truth is a rare and valuable artifact, often sought after by adventurers and treasure hunters due to its ability to reveal hidden mysteries. However, it should be used with caution, as the truths it uncovers may not always be pleasant or without consequences.
**Mipha's Grace*\*
*Wondrous Item, Legendary (Requires Attunement)*
This divine item, named after the gentle Zora champion, Mipha, possesses the power to restore life. When activated, Mipha's Grace can heal even the gravest of wounds, reviving fallen allies and providing temporary hit points to those in need.
**Features**:
- Once per long rest, as an action, you can activate Mipha's Grace. Up to six creatures of your choice within 30 feet of you are instantly healed for 10d10 hit points, and they gain temporary hit points equal to the amount healed.
**Special Requirement**: The wielder must have a minimum Wisdom score of 15 to attune to Mipha's Grace.
**Revali's Gale*\*
*Wondrous Item, Legendary (Requires Attunement)*
Revali's Gale harnesses the power of the swift Rito champion, Revali. By activating this item, you gain the ability to soar through the skies, defying gravity and gaining superior maneuverability in aerial combat.
**Features**:
- Once per long rest, as an action, you can activate Revali's Gale. You gain a flying speed of 60 feet for 1 hour. During this time, you can hover in place without needing to move, and you have advantage on ranged weapon attacks made from an elevated position.
**Special Requirement**: The wielder must have a minimum Dexterity score of 15 to attune to Revali's Gale.
**Urbosa's Fury*\*
*Weapon (Greatsword), Legendary (Requires Attunement)*
This massive greatsword is infused with the might of the Gerudo champion, Urbosa. Urbosa's Fury channels powerful electrical energy, allowing its wielder to unleash devastating lightning strikes upon their foes.
**Damage**: 2d6 slashing
**Properties**
- Heavy, Two-Handed
- Requires Strength 18
**Features**:
- When you hit a creature with this greatsword, it deals an additional 2d8 lightning damage.
- Once per long rest, you can use an action to activate Urbosa's Fury. Lightning crackles around you, and all creatures within a 20-foot radius must make a DC 17 Dexterity saving throw, taking 6d8 lightning damage on a failed save, or half as much on a successful one.
**Special Requirement**: The wielder must have a minimum Strength score of 18 to attune to Urbosa's Fury.
Deku Mask*\*
*Wondrous Item, Rare (Requires Attunement by a Druid or Ranger)*
This mysterious mask allows the wearer to temporarily assume the form and abilities of a Deku Scrub, a plant-like creature.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement by a Druid or Ranger.
- While attuned to the Deku Mask, you gain the following benefits:
- **Deku Transformation:** Once per short rest, as an action, you can don the Deku Mask, transforming into a Deku Scrub for 1 hour. While in this form, you gain a flying speed of 30 feet, resistance to poison damage, advantage on Dexterity (Stealth) checks made in forested areas, and the ability to communicate with plants. You can end the transformation early as a bonus action.
- **Deku Nut Burst:** While in Deku Scrub form, you can use your action to create a burst of explosive energy. Each creature within a 10-foot radius of you must make a Dexterity saving throw, taking 2d6 fire damage on a failed save, or half as much damage on a successful one.
Fairy in a Bottle*\*
*Wondrous Item, Uncommon*
This small glass bottle contains a captured fairy. When released, the fairy bestows its magical properties upon the user.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement.
- While attuned to the Fairy in a Bottle, you gain the following benefits:
- **Healing Aura:** Once per long rest, as an action, you can release the fairy, creating a healing aura in a 10-foot radius centered on yourself. All creatures within the aura regain hit points equal to your level + your Charisma modifier. The aura lasts for 1 minute.
Gale Boomerang*\*
*Weapon (Boomerang), Rare*
This boomerang is imbued with the power of wind, allowing it to strike multiple targets and manipulate the environment.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement.
- While attuned to the Gale Boomerang, you gain the following benefits:
- **Whirling Strikes:** When you make an attack with the Gale Boomerang, it can hit up to three creatures within range. Make a separate attack roll for each target.
- **Wind Manipulation:** As an action, you can throw the boomerang at a large or smaller creature. On a hit, the target must succeed on a Strength saving throw or be pushed up to 10 feet away from you. Additionally, you can use the boomerang to interact with objects, pull levers, or retrieve items from a distance.
Goron's Bracelet*\*
*Wondrous Item, Very Rare*
This sturdy bracelet, forged by Gorons, enhances the wearer's strength and grants resistance to certain forms of damage.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement.
- While attuned to the Goron's Bracelet, you gain the following benefits:
- **Enhanced Strength:** Your Strength score increases by 1, as does your maximum for that score.
- **Fire Resistance:** You have resistance to fire damage.
Hookshot Gauntlet*\*
*Wondrous Item, Rare*
This gauntlet is equipped with a retractable chain and claw, allowing the wearer to grapple onto objects and quickly traverse the environment.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement.
- While attuned to the Hookshot Gauntlet, you gain the following benefits:
- **Hookshot Maneuver:** As a bonus action, you can fire the hookshot at a solid surface within 30 feet. If the surface is sturdy enough, you can use the chain to pull yourself towards it, allowing you to make a vertical or horizontal leap without requiring a running start or making an Athletics check. You must have a free hand to use the Hookshot Gauntlet.
- **Grappling Claw:** You can use the Hookshot Gauntlet to make a ranged attack against a creature or object within 30 feet. On a hit, the target takes 1d6 piercing damage, and you can pull the target up to 10 feet closer to you or pull yourself towards the target. If the target is a creature, they must succeed on a Strength saving throw equal to your strength ability score or be pulled towards you.
Magic Mirror*\*
*Wondrous Item, Rare*
This ornate mirror possesses the power to transport the user to a designated location, instantly traversing great distances.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement.
- While attuned to the Magic Mirror, you gain the following benefits:
- **Dimensional Shift:** Once per long rest, as an action, you can activate the Magic Mirror to instantly transport yourself and any willing creatures within 10 feet of you to a previously designated location, as long as you have been to that location before. This ability bypasses normal barriers and teleportation restrictions. The mirror must be within your possession to use this ability.
Megaton Hammer*\*
*Weapon (Warhammer), Rare*
This massive hammer, imbued with earth-shaking power, can be used to smash obstacles, break through walls, and deliver devastating blows in combat.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement.
- While attuned to the Megaton Hammer, you gain the following benefits:
- **Hammer Smash:** When you hit a creature with the Megaton Hammer, it must succeed on a Strength saving throw equal to your strength ability score or be knocked prone.
- **Obstacle Breaker:** You can use the Megaton Hammer to smash through walls, obstacles, or objects, granting you advantage on Strength checks or saving throws made to break or destroy them.
Sheikah Slate*\*
*Wondrous Item, Rare (Requires Attunement)*
This ancient tablet-like device grants the user access to various magical and technological functions, aiding in exploration and navigation.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement.
- While attuned to the Sheikah Slate, you gain the following benefits:
- **Map of Secrets:** You gain proficiency in the Investigation skill, and you can use the Sheikah Slate to automatically detect hidden passages, traps, or secret doors within 30 feet of you.
- **Teleportation Rune:** Once per long rest, you can activate the Sheikah Slate to teleport yourself and up to six willing creatures within 30 feet of you to a location you have previously visited. You must have a clear mental image of the destination.
Wind Waker*\*
*Wondrous Item, Rare (Requires Attunement)*
This enchanted conductor's baton harnesses the power of the wind, allowing the user to manipulate currents, summon gusts, and control weather patterns.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement.
- While attuned to the Wind Waker, you gain the following benefits:
- **Zephyr's Grace:** You have advantage on saving throws against effects that would move you against your will or knock you prone.
- **Wind's Song:** As an action, you can use the Wind Waker to create a localized gust of wind. This gust can blow away lightweight objects, extinguish small fires, or push creatures of Medium size or smaller up to 10 feet away from you. Pushing Creatures: You force a strength saving throw against your spell save on any number of creatures you can see that are within 10 feet of you. On a fail, the target is pushed 10 feet in a direction away from you. On a save, nothing happens.
Zora Scale*\*
*Wondrous Item, Rare (Requires Attunement)*
This shimmering scale, obtained from a Zora, grants the user enhanced swimming abilities and control over water.
**Properties:**
- Requires attunement.
- While attuned to the Zora Scale, you gain the following benefits:
- **Aquatic Prowess:** Your swimming speed is doubled, and you can breathe underwater.
- **Hydrokinesis:** As an action, you can manipulate water within 30 feet of you, causing it to move or form into a simple shape. You can extinguish flames, create a bridge of ice, or control water-based hazards. The amount of water manipulated cannot exceed a 5-foot cube, and the effects last until the end of your next turn.

AFTERWORD:
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2023.05.30 14:21 PowerpointRules [Seiko] SPB249 Deep Lake - Ideal GADA?

[Seiko] SPB249 Deep Lake - Ideal GADA?
Sharing a recent purchase: This is the SPB249J1, also dubbed the Seiko Deep Lake which is a reinterpretation of the 1959 Seiko Laurel Alpinist.
There have been many recent Alpinist variants but this is my favourite, together with the now sold out Ginza SPB259 variant. I find that these are often overlooked due to the popularity of the SARB017/ SPB121 and the Baby Alpinist.
The stunning dial takes on a new personalities under each lighting condition. The reliable 6R35 movement and 200m water resistance makes it ideal as a GADA watch in my opinion. My only wish is for a better bracelet with more micro adjustments but at least I was lucky enough to get a good fit!
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2023.05.30 14:20 Skayuu Horde and Alliance limitations

Hey! I am a Horde player and my girlfriend wants to try WoW but as Alliance. What limitations will we meet when we will play together?
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2023.05.30 14:19 crillydougal M40 10 year relationship ended with trip in August planned with two of us to Vietnam/Thailand. Going separately now, never travelled alone before and we were introverted so used to always stay in hotels and do our own thing. Any advice?

We have travelled a lot all over the world together, and would do loads of activities during the day, chill on the beach, go for dinner and drinks in the evening. Obviously that has all changed, all of our plans have been cancelled so essentially starting from scratch except for the flights from Europe to Asia. It’s 3 weeks so was planning Hanoi, Chiang Mai, Koh Samui and Hoi An. Honestly my main worry is that I could be days not talking to people and be lonely. I’m introverted as is my partner but we always had each other, we are very friendly but in short conversations normally. I’m a bit lost as to what to do and half considering just not going and losing the money on the flights and maybe doing shorter trips around Europe. From being in a relationship so long it’s almost like you lose confidence alone I think and rely on the other person.
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2023.05.30 14:19 PassingWithJennifer I had a nightmare awful weekend but my bf was supportive and now I have a new whip and more pride than ever

So...God has it been this long? Feels like a week but that week was a life time.
So my step dad and mom broke up like a year ago. Mom sold her house and had 80k in the bank. She is bipolar and not very smart. Believes conspiracy nonsense. She latched onto the idea she was being hacked. Would look through the system files on her phone or laptop and think "aha this is proof I'm being hacked," but anyone that's even bothered to look at those things generally knows 90% of it is unimportant stuff. Like a bsod you just kind of look at the error code and work from there but she would, in this hypothetical, microanalyse every number and word and write it down and assume any dumb thing about it.
She was being super schizo and I think got hooked on stimulants. And stimulants and bipolar mania do not mix. She basically was like schizophrenic worse than any schizo I've ever known.
Tuesday I was getting a ride to work with my step dad. The week before I told yall I had the most amazing date with this guy, my bf. I had him over at my house for the first time and it was amazing. I left my house because I was so giddy and...wet and went to brag to my friend and get wine. A taxi driver ran the red and hit me. That was may 19th.
Tuesday last week, again, my step dad was picking me up for work. We stopped back by his house to grab something he needed before leaving. My mom was...shit...omg she was having an episode. And my step dad (who broke up with her) was yelling and she was screaming. It was scary and I just knew "if we don't get them apart they're gonna murder each other :("
My mom blew through that 80k in less than a year and her drug addiction and refusal to take her antipsychotics or whatever bipolar take (mood stabilizers?) Made everyone fed up with her. My step dad broke up with her after 10 years, she moved in with my transphobic as shit grandpa, drove everyone around her crazy.
Recently my sister got a restraining order against her and I thought it would never happen (cause he treats her nicer than anyone) but her dad kicked her out a couple months ago. She was at step dads cause everyone else was so done with her and he is such an amazing family man and empathetic person that even though it was killing him he just couldn't leave her on the street...yet.
After their awful fight I said my step dad "I feel terrible that this has been dumped on you. Everyone else has washed their hands of her and you're stuck with her like this, I feel like I need to help you [because you've helped me so much] if there's anything I can do please let me know. I know nobody else will."
The day came. Thursday. He said she has a flight Saturday and he has been working on fixing his buddies boat to take out on memorial day weekend. He asked me to take her.
I had plans with my boyfriend Friday and I explained everything and apologized profusely. He was understanding (he is such a great guy so far.)
I had to venture to stay with my transphobic grandfather. Step.dad told him "I won't let her stay at my house while I'm gone and im locking it up," and I guess grandpa could tolerate it for the weekend. I showed up and said I'm helping her move and will be gone tomorrow.
I got put through absolute fucking hell this weekend. And I stood up for myself constantly. My brother, who says I am his best friend and he mine, was not there. He was stuck a town over with his gf. If he had been not only would the time have flown by but also he would have stuck up for me but I am glad i said the things I did. I remember when one of them said "you're making a mistake," and I quickly and coldly told them "you dumped your pregnant girlfriend you cheated on your wife with," with a scowl and his face went pale and everyone in the room became silent.
All you shameful sacks of shit
I eventually retired to my brother's room to be alone Friday night. So ready to take my mom to the airport Saturday and be home.
Oh boy
I was playing world of warceaft when I got a super inflamed huge welt below my wrist. I saw a mosquito hawk when i entered the room and all over the garage. I thought "damn that mosquito got my ass for sure." But I kept getting them on the underside of my right arm. And I thought this pattern...no...
I jumped up and looked at the bedding and saw bedbugs
I fucking yelled at everyone. To the point the boy voice came out and my throat/voice was fucked all weekend. "This is all I have," "I was homeless for a year and now I have to risk taking this shit home," etc. People and their fucking pride. Istg. Nobody wants to admit to having them. The fact nobody told me was an evil thing. Truly despicable. Because they want to pretend to be perfect but at the end of the day they're just shit. And not just because of the bugs but omitting it. Fucking idiot morons
I eventually relented. And began the process of taking apart my laptop to bathe in ethanol. You can't clean electronics. I've had bed bugs 2 times as a minor and experimented with a litany of chemicals and poisons. I found with 91% isopropyl they sort of ooze blood and die, I assume they're vomiting or something. And it's conveniently the only safe way to wash electronics.
I out my clothes in the wash and grabbed some random clothes out of storage in the hot ass attic. Bed bugs hate heat and would probably die in a summer attic. Thankfully they don't have carpet, because fabrics is hownrhey travel. I went to the most secluded bedroom upstairs in their like 6 bedroom house. I was paranoid the whole weekend. I washed my clothes 5 times. And even ran then dry in the dryer several times then bagged them up in a trash bag. I bathed my laptop in ethanol.
The whole time I'm telling my boyfriend about this and so upset. I was being strong on the outside but inside I was distraught.
He was so affirming. This guy is literally so affirming and romantic that any woman--cis or trans--would be lucky to have him. He kept me company as I avoided my family as much as I could.
I've been having an issue with wet dreams lately. Sometimes while I'm awake even. Overwhelming, powerful fantasies that five me tunnel vision and nearly convulse. I have multiple orgasms without touching myself, asleep. They half way wake me up but only for a moment to senselessly roll my eyes around in a blur like an amusement park ride.
I have been open with this problem with him. I just fuckin leak pre-cum/lubricant when aroused now. From what I understand this is normal because the prostate behaves like the schenes gland (the female homologue of the prostate responsible for lubricating things.) But warned him I ruin my blankets and clothes. These things are out of my control and have been sort of a miserable/confusing but also tantalizing thing to experience. This will be relevant in a second.
My mom Saturday was so unprepared. She wanted to constantly repack all of her shit. She has more clothes and shoes and garbage than most people. Just shit she blew her money on. She told me "if I ever come into money I'll help you," bitch you had almost a 100k in the bank the whole time I was homeless and I never asked for a dime and I never gave a shit so yea go on about how much you care about your kids.
She got into a dui and was leaving the state. If she stayed shenhad to get a breathalyzer in the car and blah blah blah. She realized talking to step dad that she couldn't take the car and nobody would let her park it in their yard indefinitely. Her giving me the car seems less like thoughtful thing than just something that made since given mine was destroyed and nobody else would indulge her a single bit.
So for me im helping my step dad cause what I saw Tuesday was terrible. My brother thinks she will kill herself when she is broke. The last of her money is like 2.2k and she has it in cash. But we both think she is gonna fly out to California and go broke then try to come back and want to be taken care of (get a fucking job you lazy--!) She's always relied on her good looks (oh and she got BA so she can't talk shit about me wanting surgeries tho sometimes she tries and I bring that up) and manipulation and social skills to rely on men she entraps. But she is around or almost 50 now it's apparent now that's a dwindling or nonexistent option for her.
So Saturday sh fought me trying to fit her entire over sized wardrobe into 2 suit cases until like 40 minutes until her flight. I basically speeded where i could but we missed her flight by like 5 minutes. She began to talk about "maybe I'm just not meant to go." And tried ti act cute about it and shit. I tried to tell her "if you fuck this up you have nothing and nobody." She angrily always tried to twist the subject and try to make me into the villain for helping her.
Her flight was rescheduled for Monday.
The whole time I'm just...pouring it out for my boyfriend. I'm so fucking upset about this situation I'm stuck in. And you know how I know this guy is great? He was so empathetic and read every word of it. And he made this living hell bearable for me. I could almost cry.
In fact I bragged on him when I could. Yes I like dick. I came out as gay to you despicable shit heads when I was like a preteen. They act like I everything I do is wrong. How they can feel superior to me with so many skeletons in their closet is infuriating. One of them literally molested someone but is trying to tell me I'm fucked in the head. You should go back to prison and be sterilized! You fuckin maniacs.
Every night I would talk to my bf. I love the way I'm small and atrophied and 5'6 and see more of myself in the mirror. I'm so happy random strangers clock me as a woman. And the little things he says or does are so fuckin special it could bring me to tears.
Finally, Monday came. Step dad was on his way back to help me ensure she got on her flight. She tried not to several times and was anxious and panicked. But we got her out the door and I got her to the airport 50 minutes early. Which is good because they say to arrive 45 minutes early for luggage check.
I'm wearing fucking pajama pants and a thin shirt. My tits, my crotch, my ass, God if I wasn't so determined to see this through I wouldn't have degraded myself to this.
I hugged her and said good by. Got into my new car. Went to Walmart and bought bombs and poison. And got back to grandpa's by like maybe 9:30 pm. And I didn't fuck around. I took all Mt stuff I've cleaned over and over. I doused my whip (car) in poison and then went inside. He tries talking to me and dead named me. I just stepped past him into the garage with a thousand mile stare. I sprayed all of my things with poison. I showered and changed into my poison soaked clothes. Literally my clothes (which I washed and dried over and over and over) were soaking wet in poison. Drenched. I threw the remaining shit into my car and bombed it. I left as soon as the fog cleared.
I was so happy texting my boyfriend. Everything that could wrong and the mental turmoil...God all of it. My bf wanted to do something sweet for me. Wanted to bring me food. I felt bad turning him down. I told him i just needed this time. I pulled up to the gas station my good friend works at and talked to my bf on the phone for a while. I got out and went in and talked to Mt friend. He said when he saw me Saturday he could tell it was catastrophically bad. I had offered to bring him food (they don't get lunch breaks) Saturday and was giving me a hard time (in a friendly joking way,) and I told him I'd do it but not tonight. I'm so done tonight. Got a bottle of wine and left.
I got home and locked my car. Got into my house and just fuckin cried for a minute.
I texted my boyfriend until late at night.
I am going to see him in a few hours. I'm bringing food and we are going to hangout before he goes to work. I sent him videos of my boobs and ass cheeks. I really like that my hips look so much more round now. Especially from the back like doggy style. He really wanted to come over. I suppose I teased him. We were both drunk. Saturday I had an involuntary wet dream and told him about it. It woke me up and I rubbed my legs together and sort of grinded while i came then went back to sleep. Trust me I didn't want want have this dream or to do that. I feel like the hormones are beating me down or controlling me in some way that almost scares me.
It reminds me too much of amab puberty where masturbating felt involuntary and was the only way to make it go away. It's different but gets eerily close to my dysphoria remembering that.
I could hardly sleep. I think the physical effects of the stress are persisting on a physical or biological level. Physiological?
All I ever wanted was a man like this. One that wants to love me. Treats me like a woman and the way I want to be treated. I prayed for so long.
When I was homeless i would drink sometimes and climb into my back seat. I would take my only pillow and wrap it around me and feel the warmth inside of me and imagine a man was holding me.
Early transition I prayed to be pretty. I asked God for so much. While some degree of youthfulness and beauty has been afforded to me it has not come without consequences and new challenges. Then I prayed to God for a boyfriend and dated several men and moped about miserably on apps. And on here.
I feel incredibly fortunate and humbled. Transition for me has been hard. There was a person I did almost find myself with at one time but certain factors made it impossible to be together.
With this car and my own place and boyfriend. I feel like...like my life is normal. I said that too, to my mom. She tried to say "I can't wait to see you one day when stuff like that (family intentionally and hatefully disrespecting and dead naming me) just rolls off you like water on a ducks back." I told her I won't tolerate that from them and ultimately what she is asking of me is to just be ok with them treating me that way. I told her about my boyfriend and the way he treats me or the way my brother treats and respects me by introducing me as his sister and always gendering me correctly: "IT MAKES ME FEEL NORMAL, IT MAKES ME HAPPY."
I was always like this inside. And im so happy that so many people can see it outside.
When I was leaving the airport and paying my parking the parking attendant, a man, said in a jovial tone "how can I help you today, young lady?" It doesn't even have to be flattering. That little bit of validation in a pit of despair made me feel so good.
Today I have my second laser appointment. And i have a date with my boyfriend in a few hours. I am about to get ready to leave. This is the life I want for myself. This one. Not that chaos and misery those morons pretend is normal. Not the way they treat me. Not the way they treat each other and pretend it's OK because "were family." That doesn't men shit to me coming from them. They abandoned me young and I left home at 14. I've basically raised myself and I'm emotionally and socially stunted because of it but I feel like flower that has blossomed into something beautiful. I am Jennifer and I love it.
If you made it this far. Thanks for reading. I'm going to brush my teeth and start my day. I have a date and laser and then a date with world of warcraft to play with my friends. After typing this I feel over all that other nonsense. So over.
If you are out there and reading this I want this (the good) for you too. Don't let those people take this from you when we have already gave up so much.
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2023.05.30 14:19 katietheemt Training Reimbursement Budget

I’m an EMT on a small rural volunteer department in Nebraska and I am on a committee gathering information to put together and present at our June meeting from fellow EMTs on a similar dept structure if there is a budget to reimburse you for out of pocket costs like paying for a multi-day conference including conference fees, mileage and a percentage of lodging or mileage for classes held outside of your town? And what that budget amount is every year? In the past we have paid it out of our general funds but we want to put together it’s own separate account to keep track of.
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2023.05.30 14:19 crillydougal M40 10 year relationship ended with trip in August planned with two of us to Vietnam/Thailand. Going separately now, never travelled alone before and we were introverted so used to always stay in hotels and do our own thing. Any advice?

We have travelled a lot all over the world together, and would do loads of activities during the day, chill on the beach, go for dinner and drinks in the evening. Obviously that has all changed, all of our plans have been cancelled so essentially starting from scratch except for the flights from Europe to Asia. It’s 3 weeks so was planning Hanoi, Chiang Mai, Koh Samui and Hoi An. Honestly my main worry is that I could be days not talking to people and be lonely. I’m introverted as is my partner but we always had each other, we are very friendly but in short conversations normally. I’m a bit lost as to what to do and half considering just not going and losing the money on the flights and maybe doing shorter trips around Europe. From being in a relationship so long it’s almost like you lose confidence alone I think and rely on the other person.
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2023.05.30 14:18 Noseasmamonguey What advice would you give to young men who feel “left out”?

I’m 23M and my life is really put together, however my biggest struggle is making friends/relationships.
This past weekend everyone went to the beaches near my city, it’s a big thing that a lot of people do. At first I didn’t care cuz i thought, “oh it’s gonna be packed and annoying anyways”, but as the weekend went on I was kinda bothered that I didn’t go.
I know it’s small and dumb, but I feel like these are the things I’m supposed to do when I’m young. It really bothered me that I had no plans to go or had anyone that would even invite me/wanna go with me in the first place.
I told myself this summer was gonna be different and that I’m gonna be much more social and outgoing, and it’s trending that way but not as much as I’d like.
it feels like there’s so much pressure to do these certain types of things when you’re my age. I don’t even like loud packed bars but if it means I’ll make friends/meet women then I’ll do it.
I have my interests and do lots of things alone, but sometimes it makes me feel like a loser because I see all these people my age going out in big groups. Makes me feel socially stunted even though I’m not.
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2023.05.30 14:18 Desperate_Show3047 Nobody would put up with this!

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2023.05.30 14:18 chillymarmalade Who is in the wrong here? Working with the killer.

I'm quite new to the game and I'm interested who is in the wrong here according to the rules of the game. If I broke some rules then happy to hold my hands up. Also if I should have just played it another way because of etiquette then I'll take that on the chin and do it differently next time.
I played against a wraith who was tunneling and camping (obviously). All normal gameplay then it got down to two of us left with one gen left. I started working on the gen but the other survivor quickly got downed, at about 20% gen progress. The wraith does not pick up so I am assuming he is slugging for 4K. I hide for a bit to see what's up. I can hear and see the wraith looping their 3 gen and the downed survivor (who did not crawl or move from where they were downed).
Now normally I would try to finish a gen or get the save, but with it being a cloaked wraith who has played like this all game, and the survivor being near one of the three gens, I thought my prospect of success was basically zero and as soon as the wraith found me, we'd both be sacrificed. So I hide in the hope that he hooks her or she bleeds out and I can play hatch/EGC.
Eventually, with about 30s to go on her bleed timer, wraith picks up and starts walking about the map with her on his shoulder, looking for me. She doesn't wiggle off until about 90 seconds have passed. At which point they both run around the map together looking for me. I'm eventually found, the survivor starts pointing at me. I'm downed and sacrificed, and the survivor gets let out at the gate.
Obviously the wraith playstyle is annoying, but whatever. However, them working together at the end would be against the rules right? It's all recorded, so I can report if it's a good idea...
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2023.05.30 14:18 SideWinderSyd WTW for letting a piece of tech, say a car or Air Con unit run for a while after it has been gathering dust for a long time. (Not 'Warm- up)

Situation 1: An Air Con unit's heating system hasn't been used for the whole year. After turning it on, it's best to leave it running for a while so that the oil can get to all parts, and the whole system runs smoothly.
Situation 2: A new car has just been purchased. It's best to drive it around for a while to make sure everything's okay and 'to let the engine and other parts reeaally work together'.
Its not 'warm-up' as that's something that's done all the time. A car goes through warm-up every day, but the focus here is something that's either very new or it's been left sitting for ages, and it needs a good run to get things going smoothly again.
It might be a word either still used in this generation or one from one or two generations ago considering I can't find it. Technology might have updated since, possibly making the term obsolete.
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