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My girlfriend was raped by her ex best friend and her boyfriend when she was 16. Her ex best friend basically held her down while her boyfriend did it. She's now 18 and hasn't seen either one since then but sometimes we get into deep conversations and the event gets brought back up and I can tell it still bothers her. I'm a very experienced wrestler and fighter and I tell her every time she brings it up that I would gladly beat the breaks off this guy but she won't tell me where he works or lives because she thinks I'll go too far and kill him. She's also the type of girl that won't tell you what she really wants because she doesn't want to be a burden (example: I'll ask if she's hungry and she says no but if I start cooking or order something, she's all about it). I know those are two very different scenarios but I'm just trying to make a point.
I guess my question is, should I go ahead and find this guy and beat his ass without her approval? Or just let it go like she says she wants to do? I believe most of my hatred for this guy stems from the fact that I was raped by a babysitter from the time I was 12-14 and I know how it feels to be in that situation and I just can't forgive someone for making her feel that way. I just feel like if I beat his ass, it would give us both closure.

So Kris’s last trip to Colombia was fake and planned by TLC right? Or did she pull some insurance scam money out of her ass in order to be able to move there again? Sold loads of drugs? All she kept saying was she can’t work in Colombia and had to stay in the US to make money. There wasn’t any commentary about how the situation changed to allow her to move back. Was Jeymi expected to pay all of the bills? Makes me feel like they had already ended it and TLC paid for her to go back and do a formal break up for tv.

My caseworker handed me a list to complete of appointments they 'recomended' and such, and said if I didn't try to get it done my son may end up taken. She was supposed to see me the next week, I had everything done in one day I was scared. But the very next day, I got court papers saying they wanted to put my son in foster care! I was so confused. Between my lawyer and my son's, even though I had a huge folder of everything from texts, to letters from so many people saying what a good mother I am. I never got a family meeting where they bring family and friends that will take the child to avoid foster care! I didn't need my info however because it was agreed by each lawyer and the judge that my son was not unsafe here and foster care should have been a last resort! The agreement was they were supposed to be more strict with me, seeing me and testing me once a week. Which never happened! But my son since finding out they were trying to take him, his counselor said it's a form of rebellion, he stopped doing all school work!! When before hand he enjoyed his work! My family plan was remade, and said I had until June the next check up to get everything done. Except I got court papers again only a month later? Didn't even give me enough time to handle everything, but I was. When my caseworker got on the stand she lied a few times, she already had a foster family picked for my son? When I got to the stand this time I got to speak! So I explained school, and all my appointments, and how I never got a meeting for anyone else to take him. So both lawyers and the judge were annoyed at this point! They said it's been ridiculous to come back two months later for the same reasons I was in the middle of fixing! NOW....HERES WHERE I CURRENTLY AM AND I AM NERVOUS....... My case is up, well supposed to be next month. I've done everything and more. When I asked my caseworker however she said they were planning on keeping me another year, a case is every six months!? When I asked y she said to make sure I get to and have transportation to appointments. But I told her I am keeping my justice works counselor who does help me with rides and more. My caseworker lied to me and said I could not do that. But I have known I can for my whole time with them!! So I'll have transportation!! Then two days later she texted me and said we had to go to court tomorrow, the 30th, to simply go over the protective order and for them to tell the judge they want to keep me. She said the hearing wasn't supposed to be until the end of September but they made a mistake and 'the legal department at the agency tried to fix it but they couldn't '??? Like I also call bullshit there! I feel like something is off and they are going to again try to take my child. Also, I want to be able to speak because them being involved recently has effected my son and I negatively since they first tricked me with court for foster care!! Is there anything I can do or say???

Before I didn’t have to think and I knew she was full from the formula and now I feel like “What if she starves?” and have so many thoughts about “if i’m doing this right” I’m not always on point with making everything homemade and it’s all I see on social media of these moms making homemade meals for their toddler, every single meal…And most of the time when I make her food she barely eats it and it ends up on the floor so how do I even know she’s getting the right amount? Can someone tell me if what she eats in a day is “enough” obviously everyday varies. But I definitely overthink this lol
Breakfast: she hates it. Idk what it is but she just woke up and she’s not about it. Doesn’t even drink her milk.
3oz whole milk Pancakes or blueberry muffin (she likes the ones that are the veggie made ones) Eggs & cheese 2oz Yogurt
Lunch: chicken nuggets, fruit of some sort, and 4oz yogurt some days it’s pasta with apple sauce
Dinner: whatever we have. yesterday it was steak, broccoli, and she had apple sauce on the side and 5oz whole milk.
Snacks: cheerios (she’s obsessed) jammy sammy, gerber cookies, organic fruit snacks, crackers etc
I’m not very good at this making everything from scratch so don’t judge. 😝 I do try and keep everything organic though.

This seems stupid and illogical of me to make a post about this, but I had to get some unbiased opinions. For this, because I'm adopted, I'll call my Birth mom (BM), I am 17NB, I will also add a TW for self harm.
My mom has not always been the nicest towards me, In middle school and elementary, she made me do sports and band, I know that doesn't sound “not nice”. But it gets not nice when I had untreated asthma (she didn't want to believe I had breathing problems until two months ago), and she would call me lazy and when I got hit in the face full force with a ball, she would say that I was being childish, sensitive, and overdramatic. That was typically what was said when I was any emotion but happy. In band, I was called lazy, nothing, and told I wouldn't amount to anything (Yes, actual words said). If I was any emotion but happy, I would be scolded and told to stop being overdramatic. It continued like this until HS, when my self harm became really bad and my mom realized I was actually very close to getting an early ticket to the afterlife. She started trying to get better during my HS years (not screaming and yelling at me as much), but even now I still fear telling her things because of the fear of being yelled at.
My dad during this was just drinking to escape his problems and only stopped when I got into HS, he helped and supported mom when she threw my computer on the ground for giving her attitude; I said I was getting worked up and asked if we could talk about it later, then she made fun of me for having an anxiety attack and dragged me into the living room to “confront it” while threatening me (saying if I kept crying she would put me in a hospital and that I was being ridiculous).My BM, though all this, was trying to support me and often let me crash at her place when I was having a hard day, her house was my safe haven. If I needed to cry, she would let me and validated my emotions when I would tell her them. It seems obvious I should cut them out, but they're trying to get better, I think, but I'm so unsure, and I don't want to be an asshole. BTW this is just some stuff off the top of my head I could think of that my mom and dad have done, I'm sorry if it seems scrambled.

A lot of context:
When I was 5 years old, my mom and dad separated, what I would later learn was that my dad is an emotional and financial leech that has lived off my grandmother for decades, with him exploiting her love for him as a means to get by, they currently live in the same home, and my grandmother isn't in nursing care. My dad possesses multiple mental illnesses (being bipolar, anxiety, ADD etc.) And has no real connections with the outside world, for some reason he has built this false narrative that the world fucked him over and that everyone else is the problem, despite the fact he possesses no desire to actually try and accomplish something with his life, living off the generosity of others. He creates false ideas of people and makes them out to be terrible people to cope with the fact that he's the problem. It's been 10 years since I last lived with him, and I've built a great deal of Animosity towards him over some things he has said and done over the years. However, he believes my perception of him has been warped by my mom and step-dad, who he believes are shit talking him behind his back, I have not made serious contact with my dad's side of the family in 5 years.
Now for the dilemma: My grandma is approaching her 80's, and is plagued with alzheimers and dementia. She can hardly recognize her own children, and the people around her in general, her ailments are slowly killing her, yesterday, during church, I had an epiphany that my grandma was going to die very soon, and told my mom I wanted to visit her again before she died. My mom agreed, and we began to make arrangements, I talked to my dad and asked him about possible places to stay that he would know of, what I had no idea of was that for some reason, ever since I first began cutting him out of my life, he began to hate me as well as my parents, seeing me as more of an annoyance and an extra problem to deal with, despite the fact that he's the entire reason I despise him so much. He made it very clear that he wouldn't house me. (Don't worry, he still wanted me to know he loved me and still thought of me as his son, which was very touching, trust me...) However, by a stroke of a luck, I managed to get in contact with my uncle who said that he'd search for someone in the family I could stay with. The problem is, even if I make it to where my grandma is staying, my dad will be there, which is something I REALLY don't want to deal with right now, he is extremely confrontational, and I'm almost certain that I'd blow up in front of my grandma. So the million dollar question is: how do I avoid dad while still seeing my grandma?
(Sorry for the long post)

We are in the 21st century, and technology is advancing and innovating at a much faster rate than ever before. The rise of AI has especially been proven to be prominent, whether people are pleased by it or not. AI such as “Speechify” or “MagicMic” have allowed people to replicate their favorite celebrity’s voices and more. Using these AI’s has been trending lately on the notorious gen-z favored app: Tiktok. I have also considered the counterargument that we could never get new music from Swift if she is no longer here. But let’s consider the prominent amelioration of other artificial intelligences, such as ChatGPT, which identifies patterns in song lyrics, and is able to create music that Swift would write, or at the very least, songs that are extremely similar. Consequently, any unreleased Swift music could be completed and released. In addition to this revolutionary invention, a duplicate of her music would not only be possible but also much faster. While Swift currently takes about 1-3 years to release new music, AI would provide it in an instant. Not only can the advancing technology of AI produce new music, AI can also help us save the world from celebrities like Taylor who produce a staggering amount of CO2. Take ChatGPT for example, its first model emitted around 550 metric tons of CO2, a large amount, however it appears quite insignificant when compared to Swift’s emissions. The use of AI can assist in decreasing the amount of CO2 emissions in the world. AI can help automate the process of renewable energy generation such as with wind, solar, geothermal, or hydro. But this doesn’t mean that AI can completely solve the problem. We need to eliminate one of the main sources of CO2 emissions (aka Taylor) to ensure that emissions wouldn’t increase to the point where AI is unable to catch up.

My ex girlfriend, who I now believe to be a narcissistic person, totally messed me up. In 2016, a week after my 21st birthday, I fell in love. The first 2 years were incredible, & we were inseparable. But little did I know over time she was convincing me to do things I really didn’t want to do, but I did because I loved her. I trusted her and I wanted her to know I’d do anything for her to make her happy. So because she asked me, I ended up not talking to my friends anymore, my family relationships began to be shaky due to lack of communication, and I felt like I couldn’t even talk to my parents or siblings after year 3-4 years with this woman. This is when she had me under her thumb. We lived together, I had no friends, and didn’t talk to my family. It was only her. After she got me to this point, I feel like she was able to attack and control me. She knew me so well and knew how to play my emotions. She ended up convincing me to quit my job to “benefit my future”, or go back to school. I agreed, so I applied for Amazon and began looking to go back to school after the summer. A few months of me working at Amazon, she tells me she’s unhappy with her job and she wants to work at Amazon with me. I thought it was a fabulous idea, more time to spend with my significant other. We would have lunch together when we could, and even carpool. A few weeks after her working in the same place as me, she told me she began to hear rumors about me talking to other girls. I told her she had nothing to worry about & that it was most likely jealous dudes trying to get in between us.(which it turned out to be). She is very beautiful so she would get hit on very often, but she would tell people her boyfriend(me) worked there too and to back off. (What she told me). Anyways, after a month or so of us working in the same warehouse, she made some friends. Often on weekends she’d go out with her coworker friends and didn’t want me to come. To me that was great, she can have her friend time and a perfect opportunity for me to catch up on some games with the boys and it wouldn’t cut into our time together. Apparently my trust ran too deep, I felt weird at times but didn’t want to say anything to her so I could avoid conflict. She liked to fight. She was easily triggered and was emotionally and physically abusive towards me. These outings became more often and more frequent and sometimes she would come home drunk and start picking on me. One time I was asleep and she woke me up by punching me in the balls. I can go on about the physical abuse, but that isn’t the point. I ended up finding out she had been fooling around with some of my coworkers, I didn’t wanna believe it. However, I did want to talk about it, but anytime I brought anything up regarding my feelings and what she was doing I was quickly shot down. I didn’t know where our relationship stood anymore, but I was still willing to try and fix it. After her sleeping with multiple coworkers of mine she finally landed on my manager, so she could get a promotion. This is the point she went full on psycho, she got the promotion. I think this is when she decided she just wanted to get rid of me. She found a higher status man than me, but absolutely wrecked me in the process. I know I should have gotten out of the relationship sooner, even my family advised me against spending time with her during our first year of dating. I genuinely loved her though, she’s the only person who made me believe in having a soul mate. Why do I feel this way about someone who has treated me so poorly and used me for their own benefit? Our relationship lasted 5 years.
PS : left a lot out and summarized so if you have questions please ask

I (F19) started seeing my therapist before I went to college. I hated it at first, but we grew to have a good understanding. At this time I was only under the impression that I had anxiety, really bad anger issues, and would occasionally be depressed. After meeting for a year we had to stop. She was moving and was having a baby. Before we stopped meeting I had told her that my Mom wanted me to get a psych eval. My therapist was a bit confused by this. I thought it was a ‘just in case’ but apparently my Mom had a suspicion that I had Bipolar. I was diagnosed with Bipolar 2 and Generalized Anxiety Disorder. After not meeting with my therapist for a handful of months I learned that she was meeting online. I let her know about my diagnosed and we started talking again. Recently she has just said some things that make me feel like she doesn’t believe my diagnosis.
I have noticed that I seem to be a rapid cycler. And obviously situations flip my switch. I’ve only had one hypomanic episode which was induced my taking cold meds that reacted wrong with my mood stabilizer. I don’t act on my impulsive thoughts, probably because I grew up having to be the ‘stable and responsible one’. The not being impulsive seems to be confusing for my therapist. I can’t remember what she had said specifically, but I remember thinking that it was strange. I could be really off base, but it’s this feeling that I have.

This story takes place in 2007. My sister and future brother in law had just my nephew and moved into a rental home. The home was newer and located in a newer neighborhood. I was asked to babysit my nephew one evening. My sister and brother in law wanted to have their first evening out since baby arrived and I was happy to babysit.
I came over and my sister went over some details and mentioned that she had a load of baby clothes in dryer. She asked if I had the time to take out the clothes and fold them. They left to enjoy their evening and 30 minutes after I hear the dryer sound letting me know it was done drying. I scooped up my nephew and placed him in his crib. I went to the laundry room and took the clothes out and folded them. I placed all the clothes in a basket and placed the basket on the changing table. I took my sleeping nephew out of the crib and placed him inside his bassinet in the living room. I watched tv quietly for awhile until I heard a loud bang come from the nursery (the room we were in earlier). I peeked into the bassinet and my nephew was still sleeping soundly. I quietly made my way over to see what made the noise and opened the door to the nursery. The laundry basket I had placed on the changing table was now on the other side of the room on the floor upside down. The neatly folded baby clothes looked as though they had been tossed around. I quickly just picked up the basket and clothes and brought them back to the living room to re-fold. I was confused by the whole situation but didn’t want to ruin my sister and brother in laws evening and decided just to not mention the incident. Rest of the evening went smoothly.
A few months went by and my sister asked if I could babysit for an evening. I agreed and this time my mom joined my sister and brother in law as they were going to a casino. My nephew had been napping prior to their departure and my sister said he would need to be fed when he woke up. My nephew woke up thirty minutes after they left and I brought him to the kitchen and placed him in a chair as I prepared his bottle. (Before I go into what happen next, my name is Angelina yet everyone calls me Angie. My mother particularly only used my full name when I was in trouble or angry with me. All in all it’s rare to hear my full name being used.) Suddenly, I hear my mom yelling angrily from what seemed like the nursery “Angelina, come here now”. I yelled out “just a second, I’m in the middle of making the babies bottle”. Then again I hear my mom call out “Angelina COME HERE NOW” but now sounding like she was in the master bedroom. Frustrated and confused I yelled back “What is going on? One second…” I picked up my nephew and went into the master bedroom talking on the way to what I assumed was my mom asking “What was going on? Why are you so upset? What happened?” and walked into an empty room. I looked around and my mother was no where in the master bedroom. I looked in the nursery and empty as well. I looked throughout the rest of the home (guest bedroom, bathroom, and garage) and eventually checked the driveway for cars and only seen my car. I came back inside and called my mom. I said “Hey! Did you guys come back and forget something?” and my mom answered a confused “no…why?” to which I responded “I just heard you a bit ago…you sounded upset?” and she responded “I don’t know what you’re talking about…we’ve been on the road for over 30 minutes now.” My stomach immediately sank. Once again, I didn’t want to ruin their evening and just told her it must have been the television (even though it was off the entire time). After I hung up, the doorbell immediately rang. My heart nearly jumped out of my chest and I quickly walked to the door. I immediately almost opened the door without checking thinking that my mom was just pulling a prank and she was going to be at the door. I paused for a moment and decided to look out the peep hole. No one was outside. I opened the door to peek out to see if there was any cars in the driveway and still seeing my car. I instantly got this overwhelming sense of dread. No one was visibly outside and from where that house was located you could clearly see the street in both directions.
I never mentioned any of these incidents to my sister until she moved out of this rental home. As I was helping her move, I noticed that she had moved my nephews crib into the master bedroom. I asked her why she had moved the crib into her room (more to see if my nephew had any sleep issues). What she told me was completely unexpected. She said around Halloween, she had bought a black light and had plugged it in the nursery room. The room instantly lit up with what she described as a huge concentrated stain in the middle of the room with hand prints going up the walls. She immediately just felt very uncomfortable and moved the crib into her bedroom that night.
I told her what had happened the first time I watched my nephew and she opened up that strange things were happening in the house and was the main reason she was moving. She was experiencing lights flickering in the home, the doorbell ringing and no one was at the front door, and hearing voices. She said the landlord offered to lower the rent if they signed a year lease. She said the landlord told her that he was having issues keeping tenants in the rental and that she was the only tenant who stayed the longest. She refused the offer and moved.
I always wondered if anything happened in that home and wish I did investigate the home further. I absolutely hate that whatever was in that home mimicked my mother’s voice.

Cecile sent her consciousness into the future and she found out that she barely spends any time with Joe and Jenna.
This makes no damn sense whatsoever. You mean to tell me that Team Flash has friggin teleportation technology and she can't use that to visit her family instantaneously?
What? Does it have limited uses or something? Or is it only for emergencies and missions?
That subplot makes no sense.

Okay, I haven’t watched anything of Jaclyn’s in YEARS - but, I was curious so I went ahead and watched her wedding Q&A (I know, I know.) and I feel like she had SUCH an attitude about some of the questions that were asked: 1) her reaction to being asked how much the whole thing cost (after bragging about their rehearsal dinner at Nobu 😂) 2) when she gave farnum a “don’t say anything” look when asked if marriage felt different, and then said yes, but in ways that she was NOT comfortable sharing… 3) her response to all of the baby questions (on one hand, I know how annoying it can be to be bombarded with baby questions, but, I’m also like, you LITERALLY asked people to ask you “absolutely anything.” So the attitude seemed so off base.) Her personality was just really off putting in that whole video. If she wants her privacy so badly, why in the world did she do a Q&A??? I also felt like Farnum was almost trying to cover for her the whole time. Like, he was uncomfortable with her answers, and was trying to make her seem more likable.
Also, does anyone else feel like maybe she is trying to subtly push a narrative that she is ~sECreTly~ struggling with infertility? Get ready for all of the “TTC” content.

My name change was recently approved! I'm so happy about it too. I kinda kept it hush hush beforehand because I didn't want anyone to try & attempt to talk me out of it or think they can have a say in my name (except immediate family). It's been kinda annoying filling people in on it after the fact so maybe that was a misstep on my part. Anyone I felt closer to, I told less than a week after over text (personalized + with explanation) before making it a generic public announcement and change on social media. I think like everyone handled it fairly well and was supportive... Except one of my friends. She responded well over text and mentioned she had so many q's. I told her she can ask me anything about it and I totally understand. She never brought up any questions so I didn't really think to bring it up. But now I can tell she's maybe upset that I didn't have a whole conversation about it first. She might not be the only one but she's the only one I've noticed so far that seems to feel away. She's not someone who likes surprises so it's kinda hard to spring anything on her anyway. Also, it's not like talking about how much you hate + feel disconnected to your birthname is everyday conversation.. So yeah it probably came outta left field for most people. Anyway, has anyone else dealt with awkwardness or anyone being upset about a name change? Regardless of how I went about sharing my news... Is this normal? Was I offensive in my delivery of the news?. I genuinely don't get why other people would make this a big deal when it truly only affects me.

So I met someone at work, we’ve been really hitting it off. There’s a lot of chemistry, also it’s genuinely fun being around this person.
She has a kind heart too, good values, very sarcastic, intelligent, very self aware, street wise, arguably a lot more street wise than me, witty. She has had a lot of experience in her life and is in some ways a lot more intelligent and socially intelligent and street wise than myself. I tend to be a bit naive.
We make each other laugh a lot. We’ve even talked about going into the gym together. We’re not formally dating. - we haven’t even had a date - but that’s been discussed but we’re trying to go really slow as friends.
Only issue is we’re 9 years apart - I’m 9 years older. I
feel really torn on it because I really like her as a person, and it seems mutual. But I’d also rather not be crucified by today’s society. And I worry about feeling gross internally if it proceeds.
Then again, that was the same age gap between my grandparents and it worked out for them

My caseworker handed me a list to complete of appointments they 'recomended' and such, and said if I didn't try to get it done my son may end up taken. She was supposed to see me the next week, I had everything done in one day I was scared. But the very next day, I got court papers saying they wanted to put my son in foster care! I was so confused. Between my lawyer and my son's, even though I had a huge folder of everything from texts, to letters from so many people saying what a good mother I am. I never got a family meeting where they bring family and friends that will take the child to avoid foster care! I didn't need my info however because it was agreed by each lawyer and the judge that my son was not unsafe here and foster care should have been a last resort! The agreement was they were supposed to be more strict with me, seeing me and testing me once a week. Which never happened! But my son since finding out they were trying to take him, his counselor said it's a form of rebellion, he stopped doing all school work!! When before hand he enjoyed his work! My family plan was remade, and said I had until June the next check up to get everything done. Except I got court papers again only a month later? Didn't even give me enough time to handle everything, but I was. When my caseworker got on the stand she lied a few times, she already had a foster family picked for my son? When I got to the stand this time I got to speak! So I explained school, and all my appointments, and how I never got a meeting for anyone else to take him. So both lawyers and the judge were annoyed at this point! They said it's been ridiculous to come back two months later for the same reasons I was in the middle of fixing! NOW....HERES WHERE I CURRENTLY AM AND I AM NERVOUS....... My case is up, well supposed to be next month. I've done everything and more. When I asked my caseworker however she said they were planning on keeping me another year, a case is every six months!? When I asked y she said to make sure I get to and have transportation to appointments. But I told her I am keeping my justice works counselor who does help me with rides and more. My caseworker lied to me and said I could not do that. But I have known I can for my whole time with them!! So I'll have transportation!! Then two days later she texted me and said we had to go to court tomorrow, the 30th, to simply go over the protective order and for them to tell the judge they want to keep me. She said the hearing wasn't supposed to be until the end of September but they made a mistake and 'the legal department at the agency tried to fix it but they couldn't '??? Like I also call bullshit there! I feel like something is off and they are going to again try to take my child. Also, I want to be able to speak because them being involved recently has effected my son and I negatively since they first tricked me with court for foster care!! Is there anything I can do or say???

I (29M) royally screwed up. I’ve been with my GF (28F) for a few months now and it’s been a lot of uncertainty from the start, but it’s the first time I’ve loved in several years and I’m putting in more effort than I ever have before to be the best man I can be and be faithful and committed.
However, there have been times where I become ultra paranoid of her male friendships due to unfaithful previous relationships I’ve had (though they were over 5 years ago now, I’m still a little fucked up from it, and I’ve found it very hard to open up and trust people)
For some context of this last instance, she went to brunch with her guy friend to the cute diner that we’ve said is ‘ours’ (I know, corny, but enough to upset me). And the plans were last minute, following a night where she was supposed to come over my place and didn’t.
Although we have talked about some of her friendships enough lately that I think I finally hit a point of giving all my trust and throwing away my worries. Based on how much time we spend and how comfortable/vulnerable she lets herself be with me, and our latest discussion, I actually felt the most comfortable about it all. (This discussion happened today, and I realized I was overreacting/being paranoid. Had a sort of ‘ah-ha’ moment when I put together that she is as genuine as I’d hoped).
But by the end of the day, after a long and cute day of fun activities, when she fell asleep, I had the terrible urge to creep through her phone and looked at the conversation between her and her friend….just to verify if this newfound feeling of comfort was plausible. And it was - it was totally benign and innocent - BUT I accidentally called him….. I hung up immediately and deleted the call from history. And that’s all I need to know that I made the worst move possible. It’s a matter of time now before he inquired about the missed call and I’m in nearly physical pain thinking about ruining the greatest thing that’s happened to me in years because I’m too damn insecure.
She is currently sleeping. I’m not sure how to proceed. My instinct are telling me that honesty is the best policy, telling her and apologizing when she wakes up… However I acknowledge that when she learns of this breach in trust , i will likely have no retribution. I can’t stomach that this slip up will ruin this, it’s the first time in so long I’ve felt this way towards anybody.
Do I wait for her to find out, or bring it up to her? I’m a wreck and can’t even sleep with now.
Also before it’s said, I plan on going to therapy.
Please help me make this right.

I met this girl when I was 14 through school. She was drop dead gorgeous and was the first girl I had a crush on. I was too much of a chicken to make a move for the longest time. Imagine my surprise when she started asking me for homework help. After on/off talking for a while we hit it off and eventually I asked her to be my first girlfriend.
After a year of dating I broke up with her we both moved away from home and started seeing other people. One night I got bored and shot her a text. She responded pretty angrily but like always, we hit it off again. When school ended we both moved back home for the summer and decided to be casual friends with benefits. We both caught feelings almost immediately and dated for another year. During this time she got pregnant but miscarried.
Once again, I broke up with her but we decided to stay casual for a while. During this time we stopped talking and I ghosted her
Fast forward about another year and she moves about 5 minute walk from my house. We start talking again, and hanging out. This time just as friends since she had a boyfriend. We pretty quickly feel into old habits and after another 6 months I ended things for good with her.
We still talk and hangout every once in a while. I’ve met other girls but as stupid as it sounds they all remind me of her. It’s been over a year since we were a “situationship” and i’m still hungup on her. Like I can’t move on even though I know I made the right choice.
Tl;Dr Is it normal to still be attached to an ex after a year? I can’t move on no matter how hard I try

Hi, I am new to all this and since the last few months I have been doing different things to try to make it easier for my wife to call of this relationship. We have been having several problems and due to ideologies, I am not able to break it off so easily. I have burned different breakup candles, done a lemon spell, freezer spell, and bought several different spells off of Etsy. I was thinking of doing sour jars or considering getting a Hex done, but I literally don't have the experience to do this. Looking for advice on what to do here since I do want out, but need the circumstances to take place to that would give me reason to call it off or that she finds her happiness. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

Chef Gordon Ramsay said that he had had nightmares following last nights service and said he hoped that today would be a better day and that they were going back to basics with the teams breaking down crabs and rolling out pasta to make the crab capellini appetisers with the first team to make 10 dishes the winners. The blue team got off to a good start thanks to the teams of Van and Drew, and Ed and Brad but the teams of Giovanni and Zach as well as the 3 man team of Andrew, Josh and Antonio got them behind on the challenge with Andrew making a complete mess of breaking down the crab. The red team’s only weak link was the team of Tara and Kashia who got into an argument when breaking down the crab and then managed to mangle cooking the capellini but the rest of the red team performed strongly with the team of Kanae and Nikki bringing up 4 dishes while the team of Santos and Sabrina brought up 3 dishes and Dannie and Elizabeth having 2 dishes accepted which meant the 1 dish by Keisha and Tara was enough to bring the red team the victory 10:7 despite Van and Drew, Ed and Brad bringing up 3 dishes each with the 3 man team not bringing up a single acceptable dish thanks to Andrew butchering the crab. The red team went off to party and Kanae said it was time for a winning streak for the red team and Tara said she was happy to win but did not want to work with Keisha again.
While the red team partied, Brad asked Antonio what the hell happened with the team having 0 dishes accepted and Antonio said they screwed up breaking down the crab but Josh butted in to say it was Andrew that messed it up and it was his fault. Andrew and Josh then had an argument over the mangling of the crab and Ed said it was over now and time for service to prove themselves as great Chefs. Zach and Van got off to a strong start on appetisers with Van proving himself as a strong leader with his communication with Giovanni and Drew on fish but Drew was annoyed at Van for over communicating as he doesn’t need to be reminded every 10 seconds how long they have to cook. Zach’s early risottos and capellini were accepted but Giovanni tried serving a mushy lobster tail and Drew annoyed him by trying to take it up early on the re-fire. Zach then scrambled the eggs on his next carbonara and then dragged on the next risottos due to needing an extra 2 minutes which saw Brad have to redo his tableside clams which Brad then got behind on and had to explain to Ramsay that he was behind 2 tables with Ramsay furiously telling Brad to stop moving like a zombie and Brad was upset as he felt this was Zachs fault for getting behind in the first place. Zach and Van did finish appetisers and Antonio on the garnish station with Josh said he had to put up a good performance after being nominated last service. Antonio and Josh worked well together to bring their garnishes up to the pass and Ed’s first lamb and pork was praised by Ramsay as perfection and Ed said as long as Andrew can cook chicken and wellingtons the service was gonna be great. Andrew though served 2 wellingtons that were overcooked and after initially bouncing back, he thought he needed 2 minutes on the next wellingtons but then called an extra 2 minutes due to them still being raw. With Drew and Giovannis fish waiting, Andrew was still checking his wellingtons with Ramsay furiously screaming at him to move his arse! Ed confirmed that Andrew needed at least another 2 minutes and Josh and Antonio had to redo the garnish which annoyed Josh as he had to redo the same garnish 3 times. After Ed got the meat station back in order, Drew managed to break a salmon fillet and said he needed another 5 minutes as it had fallen apart and Ramsay screamed that the blue team were on the verge of being kicked out again. Giovanni tried getting the fish station together but a miscommunication between him and the meat station saw Andrew call for another 3 minutes on chicken despite saying he was ready and when they brought the food up to the pass, Giovanni’s monkfish was overcooked and Andrew served raw chicken! A furious Ramsay kicked the entire blue team out again and asked for 3 idiots to be put up for elimination.
The red team were led by Kanae on hot appetisers who got them off to a flying start with her first risottos and Elizabeth on cold appetisers supported well to with Elizabeth determined to fight back after her awful service last time. Nikki was on the fish station with Tara and said she was confident they would have a great service with Tara saying she’s cooked 1000 scallops. Tara though served boiled anaemic scallops on a ticket and when she attempted to fight back she served burnt scallops with Ramsay saying it’s not hard to cook scallops! Tara lost confidence and got Nikki to help her on the next order of scallops which were accepted by Ramsay and the rest of the appetisers were finished without any further problems. Santos on the garnish station said he was going to lead the ladies to victory and despite annoying Dannie by over communicating, the 1st half of entrees came out with no problems with Kashia steaks and chicken flying out with Nikki’s salmon and cod also praised by Ramsay. Entrees continued to fly out with Ramsay telling the red team to “keep it up!” and everything seemed to be going well until Dannie brought up lamb which was raw. Dannie said she couldn’t believe it and this got the team behind with Dannie then dragging on the lamb but she finally got the food out to bounce back. Santos, Nikki and Kashia communicated well to finish a solid service for the red team with Ramsay praising all 3 of their services and congratulating them on finishing service.
The blue team were fuming with Josh quickly saying that Andrew and Drew needed to go up for the problems in entrees but Drew said this was nonsense as he was the best Chef on the team and he had a better service than Brad or Zach but Brad said he only got behind thanks to Zach. Antonio and Ed agreed that Zach should go up for starting the problems in the kitchen and a furious Zach called his team cowards for nominating him and said that Giovanni and Drew sunk the fish station so they should go up, telling his team to piss off. Andrew attempted to claim that the only reason he had problems on the meat station was thanks to appetisers but Josh quickly told him he was the 1st nomination. Van took over and said he thought Drew and Brad should be the other 2 nominees as he saw more fire in Zach and Giovanni and Brad said this was ridiculous but he had to accept going up as Giovanni also agreed that Brad should go up. Both Brad and Drew gave passionate pleas to stay but before Andrew could speak, Ramsay quickly stated “Andrew since you’ve been here there’s been a terrible signature dish, awful halibut dish, fucked scallops, raw salmon, ruined wellingtons and raw chicken!” and told ANDREW to take his jacket off and leave Hells Kitchen. Brad was livid about being nominated but said tomorrow was another day and Drew said he couldn’t be seen as a weak link in his team so was going to fight back tomorrow.
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My husband and I have an almost 2 year old. I’m feeling super burnt out and constantly exhausted. I work from home and my husband commutes to work 3 days a week, and works from home the other 2. He was working from home more previously but was recently called back into the office. The issue with this is: his commute is two hours each way. That’s 4 hours of the day, three times a week. He leaves for work around 6AM, and gets home at 7:30-8PM.
His parents watch our toddler while we work, and they come over from 9AM-5PM. So for at least 3 days of the week, I’m working until 5PM, and from then until bedtime (which is VERY late-I’ll get into that), I’m solely watching toddler, prepping dinner, etc. When husband comes home from work he takes a good hour or so to himself to unwind, shower, etc., before joining me for dinner. He will help out with toddler if I ask but will mostly be on his phone and I choose not to say anything because I know he’s had a really long day so I feel like it’s on me to deal with her.
Now on to her sleep schedule - it’s always been REALLY horrible but she does not sleep before midnight at the minimum. It’s insane because she has the weirdest wake windows- she wakes up at 9AM, and she will nap at 12:30/1PM for 1.5-2 hours. Assuming she wakes up at 3PM at the latest, she will NOT fall asleep before midnight (on a good night😪) or 1AM. I don’t want to cap her nap because (A) I have tried and it did absolutely nothing and (B) I’m still forcing her awake at 9AM in hopes of fixing her sleep schedule, which means she’s getting way less than the recommended amount of sleep for a kid her age. I don’t know what’s wrong but she just is fullll of energy late at night and also constantly asking for snacks despite eating a really big dinner and a bedtime snack. As soon as she goes to bed, she gets started listing every possible food she can think of and asking for it. I’ve tried everything including constantly filling her up with multiple snacks before bringing her to bed, to ignoring her, to giving in when she wants it, and nothing changes. I know I can also try waking her up earlier in the mornings but I don’t have the energy to do that when I’m up late with her and also it feels wrong to wake her up after only a few hours of sleep. Also my in laws aren’t able to come over until 9AM, so it makes life much easier for exhausted/pregnant me to wait till they’re here to wake her up so they can handle giving her breakfast etc. Especially because most likely I’m super exhausted from the night before.
On top of all this, because she is SO attached to me, during the day I pretty much have to pretend I’m not home even though I’m WFH. So I hide in my room and work all day. Any breaks I get in between work, I can’t even use to do any chores like dishes etc because she’d see me. ILs don’t really take her outside despite us asking but at this point we’re waitlisted for daycares and they are our only childcare option.
So I feel like I’m mostly solo parenting most of the week, husband has no energy recently when he is home so most of the parenting and household responsibilities seem to fall on me, my kid doesn’t sleep so I’m sleep deprived too, i can’t even take advantage of being able to do any chores during breaks while WFH so house is always a mess (we do have a biweekly cleaner but I’m talking about the day to day mess of dishes laundry etc).
Husband also can’t switch jobs just yet because we’re due for baby#2 in a few months and he wants to be able to take his paternity leave.
I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m miserable. We’re all miserable. I’m also terrified things are going to get way worse when we add a newborn into the mix and haven’t solved for any of our current issues.