Benadryl expired 6 months ago

My girlfriend and I have been together happily for a year and a half now and a few months ago she came out to me as asexual. I was surprised by this as up until this point in our relationship we had been having sex normally and she had shown no signs of not wanting to/not enjoying it. When I asked her about this she said she had thought she might be asexual for a long time including when she was with all her exes but never told them and would just have sex so everything was normal and said that’s what she had been doing with me up until this point. So obviously I felt really bad she felt she had to do something she wasn’t comfortable with this whole time but was glad she had told me now at least. She also said I’m the first person she’s felt comfortable enough with to come out to.
The problem is that I am quite the opposite of asexual and have a super high sex drive so I obviously don’t love the fact that she’s asexual as I know already it’s causing me to feel unfulfilled in the relationship which I assume will only get worse as time passes. I’m really conflicted and don’t know what to do because apart from that she is perfect and I am so so in love with her and we have an amazing relationship. I don’t know if this maybe means despite how in love with each other we are we’re just not compatible? I also would feel terrible breaking up with her (If it comes to that) because of her asexuality because it’s something she can’t change about herself and she’s been insecure about it up till now so it would feel really shitty, especially when I’m the first and only person she’s told about it. I also feel it would make her feel even more insecure about it which I wouldn’t want. I wouldn’t want to lie to her and say it was for another reason though because that’s also shitty :/
What do you think I should do?

Colleges I’m looking to attend: UPenn, Emory, Northwestern, UMich (EA), NYU, Case Western (EA)
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Hooks: First-Gen
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Intended Major(s): Nursing (maybe premed)
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GPA (UW/W): 4.0/4.54
Rank (or percentile): 6/433
# of Honors/AP/IB/Dual Enrollment/etc.: 8 honors, 4 AP classes
Senior Year Course Load: 4 APs, 3 other classes healthcare related
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Extracurriculars/Activities
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1. Certified Nurse Assistant (begins this summer)
2. Hospital Internship (start next school semester with 15hrs/week)
3. Summer Hospice Care Internship 50 hours; 8 weeks
4. Volunteer at Nursing Home: 2hrs/wk; 7 months
5. Teacher assistant volunteer: 3hrs/wk; 3 yrs; teaches students with disabilities about nutrition and healthy habits
6. Asian Club President: 5 hrs/wk; 2 yrs; First year to hold fundraisers, events, raised group from 5 ppl to 20 ppl
7. Writing Tutor & Supervisor 2 hrs/wk; 1 yr
8. Link Leader: 1 hwk; 2 yrs; One of the ten link members chosen out of forty to be a lead mentor managing both mentors and freshmen
9. Team Lead Volunteer: 1hwk; 2 yrs; Lead activity events for 20+ individuals with disabilities
10. Cashier: 13 hrs/wk; 2 yrs; Top 3 best cashier every month

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Awards/Honors
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1. Won State 1st for medical
2. Presidential Volunteer Award
3. AP Scholar
4. Principal Honor Roll
5. School Social Science Award

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What colleges are targets and reaches for me? What other colleges do you think would be a good fit for me? In what order should I list my activities?

I am 32 year old female who is BRCa1 positive but otherwise active healthy, very active non smoker, very light drinker.
I had a preventive mastectomy with direct reconstruction exactly 6 weeks ago. Healing has gone super well. No complications and i feel really lucky.
But at around 4 weeks and continuing until today at 6 weeks I’ve noticed random things going on with my body and was wondering if its some like “post surgical” pendulum swing or “comedown” from whatever hormones or processes were going on in the initial healing phase.
Some symptoms I’ve noticed over the past two weeks

• sleep disturbances (mostly trouble falling and staying asleep)
• light headedness on standing (I’ve always had issues with low BP and low iron but more so of late)
• flaky skin which has mostly resolved but still flaky /itchy scalp
• along with scalp, probably have had some hair loss
• really hard stools—probably going once every other day and stools are really hard. I had the initial constipation with the narcotics for the first couple days but after day 3 was just on Tylenol and in combo with coláce seemed to resolve the problem. But last two weeks have just been hard dry stools—I eat lots of veggies and fruits, drink tons of water and after week one of recovery was walking long distances (5-6 miles) and have recently started reincorporating running

Is this kind of thing common? I know hair loss is common but other symptoms?

This guy left me for his toxic ex about a month ago via text. We had become super close so I am still reeling from the heartbreak.
I accidentally followed the ex he left me for on Instagram Wednesday. I immediately unfollowed her hoping she wouldn’t see it. Well, she did. She followed me on the Instagram the next day, but I thought there is no way she saw my notification so I screenshotted her follow request & I sent it to the guy who left me saying “why this happen?” He said “ because you followed her”. I said “I didn’t follower her” then he sent me a screenshot showing I followed her. Needless to say I am humiliated. They also have a long history of him cheating on her, so I think this triggered everyone maybe out of proportion ?
I definitely acted out of panic and sadness. Honestly I also just wanted an excuse to talk to him & for some insane reason thought he & his girlfriend broke up already, hence her follow request . I also thought I could “save face” because I found out he blocked me on Instagram before I reached out because of the accidental follow & I thought maybe by some miracle I could pretend she followed me first.
I know it all sounds toxic , now I’m even more sad because it kind of felt like a second dumping. I also feel like this hurt so deeply because I let my fantasy thinking get out of control and was convinced he missed me/regretted dumping me. How do I recover from this?
Please be kind guys, I know I sound like a nutcase I deal with heavy CPTSD and I feel like the older I get the more it’s starting to show. I feel like I stirred the pot and lost any shred of pride I have left. Am I totally overreacting and should I reach out again to say it was an accident and I don’t have any intent to stir the pot?
Edit: I replied to his screenshot saying “ I’m dead 😂😂😂” because I really had nothing left to say and needed to lighten the mood.

Hi thank you so much for your time and allowing me to be part of they are - witchcraft community. At the black moon I lit a charge/ dedication candle for the main deity that I worship, The Morrigan. It was a red female shaped hoodoo candle and took about 6 hours to burn. Something happened that has never happened when I have used these types of candles before and I'm not sure how to interpret the Divination of the wax. The female candle split completely down the center and only half of the wax melted. There was in a hole in a wax right below the heart on the side where the wax remained. The full moon is coming up and I'm not sure how to interpret this offering that happened at the new Black Moon a couple weeks ago. Thank you for taking the time to read my post and I would truly appreciate any advice or insight.

My boyfriend (26m) of 3 years broke up with me(26f) last night. I brought up that I needed money for the phone bill since it was due in a few days. We had to pause it last month since we didn't have the funds for it at the time until pay day and we agreed. He said that I needed to figure it out. I gave him too short of a notice. He has never acted this way about the phone bill before. He then brought up that he wants to break up and has been thinking about it for a while. Went on about how I come off as childlike and annoying, but he would then say things like he wasnt trying to be disrespectful and that there weren't as much bad as he makes it sound. He said he didn't want to bring this all up and was not the way he wanted to handle it, but that I kept digging at him with questions while talking about the phone bill money. He has had 3 years though to say something. He doesnt feel I match his energy and always pull him down. We went to a comedy show a few weeks ago and I didnt want to sit up front because the comedians pick people out of the audience and I am not one to be center of attention and he wanted to, he used that as a way to explain how he feels we are too opposite. He feels it is the right decision and doesnt want me to think im annoying as a person but just in the way I act soemtimes he feels he is responsible in some sort of way for me. He said ditzy is a better word and that he doesnt feel this is something I can change. I don't know if it is just me, but his reasoning in all of this to me is just a slap in the face and some dont feel like they are genuine. Like he is just saying it to see what I will do. He struggles badly with mental health and addiction. I cant tell if this is something to do with that. I know it's time to call it quits but I am also very worried about what will happen when I leave. He has gone on whippet binges before. We have 3 cats, one is his and one I brought with me and another we just adopted about 3 or 4 months ago. I want to take the one we just adopted and he said he wouldn't fight me on it but he would miss her. I am having extreme guilt about it, but I truly want her. We have very special bond. I would never take her just to hurt him. Im just torn. I know he isn't my responsibility but if it were me I would be extremely sad. I don't know what to do. I'm afraid he will hurt himself even though he says he wouldnt, not over taking the cat but just in general. I am very sad this has to end and do love him dearly. Any advice is appreciated, or just kind words.
Tl;dr: My boyfriend of 3 yrs wants to break up because he feels he has to take care of me in a childlike way. I want the cat we just adopted but am having extreme guilt about taking her even though he said I could. Things are pretty civil. The decision was his and not very mutal.

Something on my computer is failing. I went through a period about a month ago where I was experiencing intermittent crashes and power cycling.
I removed and reinserted all expansion cards, moved the RAM to different slots and all seemed to run okay for a bit.
But as of today I’m getting more power cycling. I only get about a second of power before the power cycle occurs. If I reset the CMOS I get sustained power, but no display or USB power to my RGB keyboard (and I presume no other USB power) and no motherboard debug codes. It seems to sit in this state indefinitely unless I hold the power force it to power down. It will then return to power cycling if I attempt to turn it on again.
Does the lack of motherboard debug codes indicate anything? Perhaps a motherboard issue?

I rescued a poodle mix about 4 months ago, and he’s almost a year and a half old now.
We’ve made progress with a lot of training like simple commands, but it completely goes out the window with his separation anxiety. He’s incapable of being okay with being bored, despite the hour walks we go on twice a day. I’ve bought a ton of different toys and it still isn’t enough.
Yesterday, I broke down crying. I have online therapy for PTSD, and he had to be in the same room because my partner wasn’t home. For the entire hour-long call, he starts stealing things off counters again and jumping up on me. My arms are covered in scratches and bruises (fingers to shoulders) from trying to ignore him. I just can’t fucking handle him right now anymore because he did it again today when I got an important call from work. He chewed through his leash and a hat of mine when I stopped interacting with him for two minutes.
I’m at my wit’s end. I love him, but right now I absolutely cannot stand him.

Hello i started practicing kickboxing around 5 month ago, rn im looking for some diet to lose weight(some belly fat specifically), I'm 20 years old weight 74kg and around 185 cm tall, is it good to try this diet? And if it is how should i engage in it? How do i decide what and how much to eat?thanks

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I applied for an 0343 about a month ago and I just received an email saying they received my resume and asking if I was still interested and that I understand this position is in a specific location. I've never had something like this sent to me before, does anyone know if this is indicative of an interview or something like that?

B and I got together when we were both 20. We were friends in middle school and high school. She would later tell me she had a huge crush on me and would have jumped on me given the chance. She had a boyfriend who was 2 years older than us, played hockey and had a badass truck given to him by his parents and B (my ex) was a blonde smoke show. I was not even in the same league in my eyes, but apparently he would walk her to and pick her up at social studies because she had told him she liked me and he was jealous.
Fast forward to when we were 20. I was scrolling Facebook one night and she had posted she was bored. I commented simply "do something about it" she Dm'd me right after and I asked if she wanted to hang out. It just so happened to be a provincial holiday with fireworks, so we walked to the harbor and watched them, after we went and played pool at a bar and to finish the night we drove to a beach and laid on the hood of my truck and watched the stars, then had the best sex I've ever had in my life. Turned out to be the perfect date just by chance.
I had found out a few days later through the grapevine that she had just gotten out of a very bad relationship and had gotten tied up in heroin with the guy. She was still addicted, but being a 20 year old working in camp and the connection we had from before everything I kept seeing her when I was on my off shift.
Turns out when you fuck someone 12 times a day for 7 days straight who has a less than perfect routine with birth control, they can and will get pregnant. We were 20 and more or less FWB and she was still doing drugs so I asked if she would get an abortion. She said no. I couldn't stand the thought of leaving a child with a drug addict, even if she was young with good parents and on track to clean up, so I stayed.
Over the years we ended up having a great relationship. looking back on it 12 years later and it was amazing. She cleaned up while pregnant, we rented a big house in a rural suburb, we had our daughter and we had our perfect little family. She ended up starting college to be a nurse when our first child was about 18 months old .Were then making good money and were getting set up pretty well in life at this point, so we decided to have another child.
We ended up buying a house in the same area later on near some friends of ours. At the time I thought it would be great being so close to good friends, later it turned out this was not the case.
Over the years of living in our own house my ex would drink with her friends more and more. To the point it got really bad, she would drink every day, wake up at noon or later on every weekend leaving me to do things with the kids alone. She gained alot of weight and started smoking cigarettes too. She was getting depressed and would not make any changes to her lifestyle saying it's not that bad. All of this was a huge strain financially and emotionally on our relationship. We got abusive and toxic with each other and our perfect life and family was turning into hell.
I ended up leaving the house 6 months ago. I took our travel trailer and lived in it at my aunt's. I kept paying the mortgage and car payments as we were going through our separation, I was offering her a buyout over 100k below market to keep her and the kids in their home, this would give me just enough to start over and her mortgage payment after child support would be very easy to deal with. She was not taking the separation well, she believed I would come back but I told her over and over that we were finished.
My mother in law called me a couple days ago and told me she found B dead in her bed with family photos around her. She overdosed herself. I'm going to say right now that B is one of the strongest ppl I know, she overcame that terrible drug for aver 10 years and we had the picture perfect life that would not have been possible with her hard work and determination. I had no idea I still loved her so much still. I've been crying for 2 days straight. My heart is breaking for my kids, they are destroyed by this.
I feel like a peice of shit. I should have helped my best friend when she was on a downward slide, yet I just left. Now she's gone because of me leaving. Everyone is saying it's not my fault but it is, we were holding each other up. She would have never touched that stuff if I hadn't left and now my children's beautiful mother is dead and I have to try and raise my 2 beautiful children by myself.
Look around you and your life, remember how short it is and dont take for granted those you love.

Hey Reddit let’s see if this actually works shall we and if it does be my success story :)
I’ll start this off with by saying I’m looking to meet new people and see what happens. Ideally something more serious but whatever happens naturally is what happens :)
About me -
•I’m 20 years old and white from just outside of London
•I work as an electrician
• I love to go to the gym and workout at least 5-6 times a week and love being active and swim and cycle and live walking so who fancies a long walk in the park?
•I travel regularly and have visited 5 new countries in the past few months and plan to visit at least 10 new countries this year so any suggestions? Or be my travel partner!
• I love to watch movies but truly I prefer music. I used to go to many events mainly house/techno. But listen to all types of music so anything you throw my way I might just love it
•In a perfect world I would love to get to know someone that is open to travelling and would go on trips with me. Depending on where you are located we would find ways for this to work for both of us.
Don’t hesitate to message me! I am just looking to meet new people and see where it goes will send pics over and verify I am real and my post is true to real life. Location doesn’t matter all too much as I can travel however I would like to see you In real life if we click.
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my ex-boyfriend and i broke up a couple of months ago - i found out a couple days following that i was pregnant and i'm only 16 with extremely conservative parents so my typical support systems were limited. he was my main support throughout the entire abortion process. there was a point where i slept at his house for a week. we shared the same bed and i laid there pretending it was forever because i think i loved (and still do love) him more than anything. he kissed my eyelids to help me get to sleep and told me he loved me. within the week i stayed with him, we found a mattress and bed frame on the side of the road and used broken shopping trolleys to haul all the parts back to his house (which was like 5km away), travelled halfway across our state via bus to pick up a guitar i bought off gumtree - only to end up realizing i had dropped 50 dollars on the way and had basically adopted a stray kitten. we spent our nights embracing each other, and whispered beautiful things in each others ears. on day 7 of my stay, i got hauled home by a police officer.
him and i met up in the city the day following, and he was cold to me. like the week we had just spent - all the small moments we had made - meant nothing to him. i whispered "i love you" to him as we sat on the grass looking out to the river in front of us - it was dark and and the moon reflected off of the water. i watched his face as i said this. he looked out at the river, and his face went blank. "i can't anymore" he responded.
after this, him and i proceeded on with the abortion process and he looked after me. we kept having these moments. these small moments. we told each other we'd be exclusive to each other as long as we were still here due to this abortion situation. after the abortion cleared up, without mention, he stuck around. and i didn't say anything about it, because i liked his company. i love him. we never put a label on what we had, and since the night we spent at the river, we never said i love you again, except for accidentally every now and then - a habit, i guess.
we see each other regularly now. we have sex and cuddle and hold each other and do all the things you'd see a couple do aside from saying i love you. the other night him and i had just finished having sex, and we were cuddling just talking about random shit - and he asked
"what do you think your next partner will be like?"
"i dont wanna think about it" i said
he smiled at me
"me neither"
and that was that.
tonight, him and i hopped on call and he told me about this girl coming up to him and them walking to his house (flirting and stuff on their way) as they live close apparently and how basically he considered potentially starting to talk to her because he was contemplating a casual sex relationship (make it make sense). i heard this and i wanted to die. he told me he chose against it. i told him how i thought we were exclusive and he said that we were until we found new people.
i think i fucking hate him but i dont feel like i have the right to
(just spam wrote all of this so excuse typos!! pls)

Just saw the gynecologist, who thankfully was a lovely woman that listened to everything I had to say.
At first, she began suggesting I take the pill continuously to treat my symptoms. However, when I mentioned how problematic synthetic hormones have been for me, she has agreed to start me on a 6 month trial of a GnRh analogue (Zolodex), and hormone replacement therapy (Tibilone).
After waiting for years for treatment, there is finally lightat the end of the tunnel. I cannot wait to share what happens with this community: you have been my lifeline in some of my darkest times.
:) Much love to you all. x

I paid a contractor over a month ago by check and the check money still hasn’t been taken out of my account.
I also had them come back and do an estimate for more work and paid a deposit by check but did not sign anything. Then I decided I did not want them to do more work. I stopped payment on what I’m pretty sure was that check number and told them by email I did that and didn’t want any more work done. I’m worried about going to get sued for the check I wrote them and then stopped payment on. Every time I check my bank account I get nervous.

I got my port put in back in September and the surgeon I had did 2 incisions, the port area itself and then one on my neck. I finished chemo a month ago and was just declared in remission but my oncologist still wants me to keep my port in for at least another year and I was wondering if anyone who might also have the neck incision if they have ever felt a like a bump on the neck incision area? whenever I go for a visit he always checks my neck for lymph nodes I don’t think it’s that, but it just freaks me out.